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In the movie Rudy, we have an un-athletic young fella who dreams of playing Notre Dame football. He works hard, does not really become skilled at all, but finally makes it on the field for one play.  This is the

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Young Men — Be Not Humiliated

When I was in the process of being divorced, my ex would hard to humiliate me.  My sin basically was not being good enough.  I didn’t deserve it and felt that it reflected more on her than me.  In fact,

Posted in FarmBoy, HowTo, Marriage

A Good Book

Recently Horseman provided this link. So men often really need to have it.  Throughout life.  Who knew?   Short answer – these women don’t value their marriage. Let me tell a story.  After my Mom died, my sister told me

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Growing Up Together

My parents, for reasons beyond their control, did not get married till the late 20s, early 30’s.  So they were reasonably mature at the time.  My buddy however, commented that his parents were 18 when they sere married.  He stated

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Would you be a Cuck’s Best Man?

A bloke I know, let’s call him Mack, is a good bloke in most ways. His weakness is women. When it comes to women he’s an idiot. Lord knows he’s not the only man with that flaw. It’s damn near

Posted in beta bux, Cill, Marriage, Trainwreck

Long Term Success?

In the last post, Deti wrote, Exit question — how to tell young women that crap attitudes and behaviors won’t get them married and/or lead to long term success? When you all figure that out, let me know. I’ve spent

Posted in alpha fux, beta bux, Dating????, FarmBoy, Feminism, Marriage

Can Married Women be Happy?

If she feels that she settled, the answer is no. The end.   Actually there is a bit more to it.  But that is the gist of it.  So what does settling mean these days? It is really a question

Posted in FarmBoy, Feminism, Marriage, Trainwreck


Here is a story of couple.  They are an acquaintance of mine.  She had a hippie upbringing, but now has decided that she wants the status and good life of the material world.  She has a construction business, one that

Posted in FarmBoy, Marriage, Trainwreck

Good Advice

Here is an article, “Never Marry A Feminist” I have a proudly progressive male friend who married a feminist some years ago who asked him to take her name. They didn’t end up going that route, but my friend seriously

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Let’s You and Him and Him Fight

I like Westerns.  Here is one from the late 1950’s. This was a time when there were rules on expected public behavior; though of course, they were not always followed.  In this episode, a young lady in a small western

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