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Information Mismatch

Over at Dalrock’s, commenter Wagner Tench writes, I’m a young man at a prominent California Christian college, and the expectation for “chivalry” is rather high. The girls often want to get married quickly despite being steeped in debt, and even

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An Indicator

We have recently been examining wives from a team perspective.  Also from a less than team perspective.  How might a fella be able to discern one from the other? Although it is not a foolproof indicator, there is one piece

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As we saw previously in Zero Sum Game, large swaths of modern women view marriage from the perspective of what they can get out of it, financially, prestige wise, etc.  The fellas, they are under no such illusion.  They know

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Zero Sum Game

In the modern era with hypergamy unleashed, women have their hundred point lists for what their fella should be.  It does seem that it is about them, the women, doesn’t it.  Well, who am I to argue? So, assuming that

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Someone To Blame

Liz writes, I think I’ve mentioned before we are our habits. That includes things like considerate behavior. I can’t imagine what it would be like (to use an example FML gave) to live with a person who is constantly hostile.

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The Road To Cats

Disclaimer: There is no one true road to cats.  There are many possible paths.  This describes just one. Christianity’s model of a human is one that has a sin nature, a nature that must always be battled against.  There is

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Let Me Fix This — Part I

From here, Pay Chen remembers the moment she soured on dating apps. She was standing in a grocery store checkout line when she saw a man open up a dating app and start frantically swiping through profiles. So, once again,

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In Sync / Out Of Sync

Dalrock stated, As the age of first marriage has gone up, the signals young men receive have also been pushed out. In the 1950s and 1960s half of all (first) weddings occurred before the woman’s twenty first birthday. This meant

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Resources Before Motherhood

Naturally enough, it takes many resources to raise a child.  Ideally one obtains them, or a commitment to provide them beforehand.  This all makes sense.  However, sometimes it goes oddly wrong. Sometimes, women concentrate on the resources part, but forget

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Risky Business

From here, I read a quote once that, if men don’t compute that there is at least a 50-50 chance of success, they don’t even bother to try, where a woman will keep trying past the point of harming herself.

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