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Young Men — Know What You Know And What You Don’t Know

One of the most common mistakes of young fellas is thinking that they know more than they do.  This can lead to trouble.  Mistakes will be made. Of course, when a fella becomes a young adult, h e has gone

Posted in FarmBoy, HowTo

Not Enough

From here, Not long ago I received an email from a man with a simple question: Is there a way for a guy to be “emasculation-proof”? How can men (even young men) become secure in their identity so as not

Posted in FarmBoy, HowTo, Lies


From here, As “toxic masculinity” has become a new buzz phrase, many have suggested that there is an empathy gap between boy and girls, with boys on the short side of empathy. Some suggest an evolutionary/genetic basis, while others argue

Posted in Feminism, HowTo, Trainwreck

Up Your Game

PUA’s and Game have been at a little bit mainstream for a decade now.  Stuff has soaked in.  Has there been a reaction to men trying to employ game? According to anecdotes floating around the web, game is not as

Posted in Dating????, FarmBoy, HowTo

The Red Pill As A Coping/Planning Mechanism

What is the red pill for?  Does it provide guidance like the simple rules in the era of the Evil Patriarchy?  No, it does not provide rules for guidance, unless you are looking to be a PUA.  Perhaps through understanding

Posted in Dating????, Feminism, HowTo

So You Are A Unicorn?

Let us assume that a young lady is now a unicorn.  So how about that fella that she is looking for as marriage material?  How should she assess him? These days young ladies seem to be given little guidance on

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Young Women – Be A Unicorn

We all hear of young women unhappy with their manhunt; be it have difficulty in generating interest ing fellas in general, or that the men just are not up to her standards.  There is help.  It is really not so

Posted in Dating????, FarmBoy, HowTo, Lies, Marriage

Entitlement In Girls

For whatever reason, be it that parents spoil them more, the extra attention from boys, the massive doses of self-esteem inflicted upon them, girls just seem to expect more for others and the world.  My friend Joe has three girls.

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Young Men — Doing What Is Right

There come times in your life when you need to choose, should I do what is expedient, or do what it right?  Of course, this begs the question:  What is doing right?  Well, that depends on you, and what it

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Gang Shame

One tool that women have posessed forever is the gang-shame; where they gang up on a fella that they collectively have decided is not doing what they want, letting him know about it.  I suppose that there is safety in

Posted in FarmBoy, Feminism, HowTo, Why