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Is It Worth It?

Over on the If You Have A Daughter post, BG writes Some young punk is going to get very lucky when the Sweetie chooses him. While both of her natural grandmothers suffered from Alzheimer’s, she has been largely raised by

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Young Men — Principles

Is it good for a young man to wander aimlessly, knowing little of what he is? Probably not. Others really wouldn’t respect such a person either. What is needed is a code. One that comes from some core principles. Let

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If You Have A Daughter…

I talked about something I called feminine virtue here. I didn’t really have a name for it, and it was somewhat difficult to describe, but I think that it is a real thing. It can be a real asset for

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Feminine Virtue

What I am writing about here does not have a name that I know of. But it is something that many men look for in a potential wife. What it would be is a type of deep inside nature to

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Young Men — Anecdotal Evidence

What is anecdotal evidence? It is the attempt to surmise a generality (e.g. a trend) from just a few data points. These are collected typically by an individual via experience and/or observation, often over time. From this evidence, one tries

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Young Men — Convincing Others

When I was a wee child, I was told how smart my highly educated relatives were. I watched them closely, and figured out that with respect to many issues, there were not so smart. Of course lots of people hung

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Live By Self-Esteem Alone (Or At Least Mostly)

Recently I have been exposed to several young female relatives. They are high on self-esteem as expected. It got me thinking about how the present day crop will turn out. Perhaps similar to women of today, but more so. So

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Young Men — Quiet Confidence

Here is something that is probably more suited to introverts, but probably an extrovert could play also. The idea is to display a confidence that does not have lots of words, lots of excitement; but i s rich on facts

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Young Men — Social Skills

It should be obvious that young men should learn social skills if they don’t already have them. For some it comes naturally, for others they must be learned. Better a later start, than never. So if you don’t have them,

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Young Men — The Cool Kids

For young people, status and where they fit into the hierarchy are often an important consideration. This is just the way that they are, as many don’t really know themselves, what they can do, or what they can be. Over

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