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From here, Consistent with a trend that sex researchers have been documenting for years, the findings showed that Americans – and particularly those under 30 – are having less sex than ever before. On the whole, the number of Americans

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Joe, my coworker friend, has a wife with lots of girlfriends (over 10).  They are almost all the same.  They are highly educated, but not in STEM.  They are nearing the initial wall phase.  They have been on and off

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Information Mismatch

Over at Dalrock’s, commenter Wagner Tench writes, I’m a young man at a prominent California Christian college, and the expectation for “chivalry” is rather high. The girls often want to get married quickly despite being steeped in debt, and even

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An Indicator

We have recently been examining wives from a team perspective.  Also from a less than team perspective.  How might a fella be able to discern one from the other? Although it is not a foolproof indicator, there is one piece

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Let Me Fix This — Part II

From here. At events such as Lifts of Love, in Banff, Alta., for example, people are paired on ski chairs, do a few runs, après-ski together and hope there are sparks. “We’ve had amazing luck with this program,” says a

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Someone To Blame

Liz writes, I think I’ve mentioned before we are our habits. That includes things like considerate behavior. I can’t imagine what it would be like (to use an example FML gave) to live with a person who is constantly hostile.

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Relationship Skills

BV wrote, The biggest blind spot I see with women 30+ is they don’t understand the huge gulf that exists between professional singles and someone who’s been part of a real couple. Ordering dinner is a cinch: a quick check

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Let Me Fix This — Part I

From here, Pay Chen remembers the moment she soured on dating apps. She was standing in a grocery store checkout line when she saw a man open up a dating app and start frantically swiping through profiles. So, once again,

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No Way Out

I work with this younger fella, call him Kevin.  He is 27, comes from a fine family, is religious and is kinda sorta looking for a wife.  He is smart and fit.  Makes good money.  He doesn’t sleep around. Another

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Up Shift

As we saw in the recent post In Sync / Out Of Sync, many men spend their twenties in a muddled place, being not married, not really working hard to show provider status, not really anything.  Suddenly as he is

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