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Young Men — The Fog Lifting

A fella in his late teens and twenties is strongly affected by his raging hormones. Sometimes the ladies are all he can think about. At the same time, young men normally are just not that wise. As I mentioned in

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Young Men — Be Like General Grant

Sorry Ton. You can substitute General Lee in if you so desire. Early in the Civil War, or the War of Northern Aggression as Ton would call it, General Grant was commanding a small force in Missouri. He was scared

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That Feeling

Many years ago, we visited the yellow hat lady. She was in her 30’s, had lots of previous boyfriends, and was looking for more. She admitted that she really, really liked the initial phases of a relationship. They were the

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Beware The Dark Side

From here, IN 2001, WHEN I was 28, I broke up with my boyfriend. Allan and I had been together for three years, and there was no good reason to end things. He was (and remains) an exceptional person, intelligent, good-looking,

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Not Good

Jack recently wrote, In the long run this “new lack of rules” market based on sexual desire doesn’t actually serve the women market participants either, because they are increasingly left with relatively unattractive men as options for mates once they

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What A World

Ame recently wrote, A friend posted one of those q/a things on fb about how you met your spouse … things like where was your first date – fun and silly things. hers is cute – I love them. they’ve

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Young Men – Avoid Hater-Haters

Over the past few years I have run across a few college students. Some of them are really into labeling other people as haters. In fact, they hate haters so much that they become hater-haters. Let us examine the situation

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Over at Jack’s, there have been a series of articles related to the rise of the amateur sex industry. In one of them, the conversation was going such that I posted, It is as if they were geishas These women

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No Connection

Over at Jack’s, Elspeth wrote I see it among the ones who graduated with our kids. Making it to 22, 23 years old without ever having been on a date. Ever, and these are not fat or ugly young women.

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Over at Jack’s, RedPillBoomer states, Apart from some early deaths of porn stars that have been documented, I’ve read little of the downline consequences for women and men who are porn stars (not talking about the ones who die early,

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