Over at Sigma Frame, we had this,
These problems are really insoluble, and the current SMP and MMP has no workable solution to this problem.
Yes, they do seem to be insolvable in the large, at least in the near term. However, they might be solvable in the small. The gist of it is that one needs to prepare their kids for the current world. This takes a long term approach, and is a more work than letting them grow up “normally”.
With the fellas, they will still be expected to work, so that hasn’t changed. They will also run into setbacks and much holding them back. That hasn’t changed either, though perhaps things have become a bit tougher. What they need is the red pill, the understanding of how men and women really operate, and how it works in today’s world. In short, the propaganda is not reality. From this understanding, they can go forth and maximize their chances with women, or go their own way.
With the gals, the first thing that they need to learn is modesty. They are not all that they are told that they are. That doesn’t mean that they can’t develop skills and the like, but they need to realize that there is big world out there, and they just don’t know the half of it (the world normally works hard to keep the guys modest). They also need to learn to focus on others as much as themselves. When I was a kid, the 4H had a service club, where girls learned how to be of service to others. This all helps with the modesty thing, and furthermore prepares them to be mothers. Along with this is learning how to be gracious.
Then there is the how to view the fellas thing. This starts with the idea that they should not be viewed in terms of alpha fucks and beta bucks. Once they go down that road, there is little chance of recovery. If she wants to marry and have kids, she should view prospective fellas in terms of character, intelligence, etc. And when she chooses, she should feel grateful that she was chosen. This all goes to modesty and the like.
So we try to generate unicorns.