Talent Is a Natural Aphrodisiac

It don’t think it matters what setting or environment we are put in. But when we’re passionate and committed we become our most attractive selves. There’s something to be said about taking the lead. It’s sexy, it’s hot and it’s desirable. Whether your trying to court or be courted goes for the same or opposite sex or age. It’s something we can all use. Not only does it build confidence it instills it. When you see someone who is comfortable and secure in there role. It triggers lust for that other person. Now it won’t make them confess this to you. However it will make them see you as a sexual presence. This might never go further than that. Not all sexual energy is the same. We can be confident but lack assertiveness we can be assertive and lack attentiveness…. confidence is not one size fits all. There is a skill set and it’s about learning those different personal and outer tools. As a heterosexual male trying to seduce a woman. You will often here them say there looking for confidence and you ask them whats confidence for you they say it’s about taking the lead? what’s taking the lead? Now this where you should stop listening and asking questions. Knowing anything personally preferable to an individual will not help you become confident its subjective to that person telling you. It’s about reading between the lines…think to yourself really what is leading and you might as will quit. There no one out there with a high self esteem which will give you the time of day. Cause at this point you don’t get it. Confidence is not something you work on it’s something you do. Just like leading. You can’t trick your self to be confident. Confidence comes with self assurance that you will be alright at whatever your doing or facing and it certainly can be calculated by times of success and failure the likelihood of recurring that self achievement or loss. We could argue that it’s an over arching and main archetype of the human psyche?

So for all you workplace bigshots, sports athletes, IT wizz kids, trivia nerds.. Have you a time when your passion and ability to perform that interests gotten you attention? and as you age do you notice your passions and commitments slowing down or speeding up?

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  1. Farm Boy says:

    as you age do you notice your passions and commitments slowing down or speeding up?

    One’s that I have mastered have the passion going down. New ones that I haven’t mastered have passion going up.

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  2. horsemanbombadil says:


    And as the life experience adds up you are less and less distracted by wamen, politics, correctness or basically the world in general.

    If I don’t want to master it, I don’t give a fuck about it.

    Mostly the confidence is not confidence but knowledge:

    This won’t kill me, I survived last time
    I can do this, I did it last time
    I can learn this, I learned something similar

    Knowledge of yourself.

    Why you can’t fake it.
    If you don’t do, you don’t know


  3. Sharkly says:

    A great musician has groupies. A great athlete has super-fans. A successful entrepreneur has gold-diggers. But genius level intelligence by itself, does not attract women. Take away Steve Wozniak’s money and that genius with his pumpkin head full of brains would be shunned. Also, a person’s genius generally has to be publicly recognized before it registers with most folks. You really can’t judge intelligence above your own, so it takes a genius to truly know who is a genius just by talking to them. Just because a person is using terminology you don’t understand doesn’t mean they’re not baffling you with bullshit, and trying to sound smarter than they really are. You really can’t rate a person’s intelligence at a rate that is higher than your own. Most people of average intelligence will look for cues or signs of intelligence, since they can’t really evaluate it themselves. But those can be faked.

    Super high intelligence often leads to a communication breakdown with normal people. Usually communication is hindered by more than a 20 point IQ gap between people. Consequently people with really high IQ often find very few people they can easily communicate with without being misunderstood.
    However, too much focus on ones own appeal to others is a serious flaw. Being a people pleaser, histrionic, or doing the monkey dance for women, can render you mostly useless. Satan loves to suck people into a life of performance for others. Keeping up appearances and pretending to be what is “cool” keeps you from being who you really should be, which is the most effective and righteous version of yourself. Although dark triad traits appeal to women, they are generally bad for society and ungodly. In the end, being “sexually appealing” is mostly a vanity. It is a shame that such vanity has become the currency of our lives in this adulterous generation. In this culture of self-promotion, humility is viewed as a flaw, instead of a virtue.

    But seriously:

    I’m too sexy for my shirt
    Too sexy for my shirt
    So sexy it hurts!

    I’m a model, you know what I mean
    And I do my little turn on the catwalk
    Yeah, on the catwalk
    On the catwalk, yeah
    I do my little turn on the catwalk

    I’m too sexy for my car
    Too sexy for my car
    Too sexy by far!

    And I’m too sexy for my hat
    Too sexy for my hat
    What do you think about that?

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  4. Sumo says:

    Have you a time when your passion and ability to perform that interests gotten you attention?

    Every single day. It’s actually rather annoying for an introvert.

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  5. Cheque d'Out says:

    His jumper knows the truth

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  6. Cheque d'Out says:

    Jumper is Sweater to some


  7. Cheque d'Out says:

    I’m not even sure about the body but that’s a Butterface

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  8. Cheque d'Out says:

    Single mother tells her son to raise a child that has been proven isn’t his…

    She’s more loyal to the sisterhood than her own son. Poor kid. Poor kids.

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  9. Cheque d'Out says:

    Ready To Settle Down Montage

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  10. Farm Boy says:

    Cuomo accused of pressuring female reporter to ‘eat the whole sausage’ in ‘creepy’ video



  11. Farm Boy says:

    “The Unidentified Flying Objects have asked not to publish that they are here, humanity is not ready yet,” Haim Eshed, former head of Israel’s Defense Ministry’s space directorate, told Israel’s Yediot Aharonot newspaper. The interview in Hebrew ran on Friday, and gained traction after parts were published in English by the Jerusalem Post on Tuesday.

    A respected professor and retired general, Eshed said the aliens were equally curious about humanity and were seeking to understand “the fabric of the universe.”



  12. Cheque d'Out says:

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  13. Cheque d'Out says:


    Watch this, you’ll thank me for the laughs.
    It repeats. It isn’t actually that long

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  14. Cheque d'Out says:

    Christian Feminist Women | Why Men Have Left The Church

    He reckons that it’s 10:1 single women:men in his church.

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  15. And wearing the red trunks we have the Republican Party.

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  16. Team Woman, every time.

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  17. Those women are rendering a public service by making their issues so obvious.

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  18. Reddit on commitment:

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  19. Farm Boy says:

    Confidence comes with self assurance that you will be alright at whatever your doing or facing

    This is where the notion of “quiet confidence” comes from. People learn that the one who is capable is the one who quietly goes about doing the job

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  20. Farm Boy says:

    Six Dr. Seuss Books Won’t be Published Again Due to ‘Racist and Insensitive Imagery’



  21. Farm Boy says:

    Fashion brand Boohoo, which vehemently expressed its support for Black Lives Matter in the aftermath of the death of George Floyd, is now embroiled in a slave labor scandal.

    US Customs and Border Protection has seen enough enough to launch an investigation into the company after campaign group Liberty Shared exposed how the company “is not doing enough to stop forced labour in the Leicester factories which make many of its clothes,” reports Sky News.



  22. horsemanbombadil says:

    Good thing there are no babies.


    Seuss, Babar, Curios George, Little House all going.

    Unfortunately people don’t realize once history, art, knowledge is rewritten then what Was is lost Forever.

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  23. Farm Boy says:

    Former CIA Director John Brennan: ‘I’m increasingly embarrassed to be a white male these days’



  24. Farm Boy says:

    Cartoon Network’s ‘Anti-Racist’ PSA Tells Americans to ‘See Color’



  25. Farm Boy says:

    Selling out

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  26. Cheque d'Out says:

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  27. Farm Boy says:

    Women’s History Month Canceled For Implying There Is Such A Thing As ‘Women’


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  28. Cheque d'Out says:


  29. Farm Boy says:

    According to experts, Governor Cuomo has been officially deemed bad by all the experts, even though he was good just a few short weeks ago. Experts also agreed that you should agree with them or you’re failing to trust the experts, which is bad.


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  30. Farm Boy says:

    Covid-19: The U.S. Is Edging Toward Normal, Alarming Some Officials



  31. Farm Boy says:

    After an adult lifetime spent ignoring her husband’s sexual predations or attacking his victims, Clinton now says that reports about Andrew Cuomo are “difficult to read,” and that “the allegations brought forth raise serious questions that the women who have come forward and all New Yorkers deserve answers to.”


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  32. That would more accurately be “completely dodges” and not “refuses to deny”.

    #PSUCKI (I wouldn’t. Yecch!)

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  33. Thinking of starting a podcast, “The Experts, Do What We Say Or Else”.

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  34. Reading can be difficult when you’re shit-faced on boxed wine (or so I’m informed by the experts).

    [Hillary afford better she can]

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  35. professorGBFMtm2021 says:

    Sharkly of course was right from earlier!But guess who else is right?PHIL&PHILLIP IN ’84/’85!Sing along if you know it!Turn up that pre-DOUBLE DRAGON2:THE REVENGE on the NES(NINTENDO ENTERTAINMENT SYSTEM) bass up to vol.11 also!
    PHIL COLLINS…but seriously
    Easy lover,she’ll get a hold on you,like you won’t beleave it
    Before you know it,you’ll be on your knees
    Shes an easy lover,I’m just trying to make you see it
    Shes the kind of girl you dream of,dream of keeping a hold of
    She’ll leave you&decieve you(better forgot it)oh you’ll regret it
    You’ll never get it,she’ll leave you
    she’ll never change,better forget it
    Like no other,you’ll be on your knees
    Your the one who wants to control her&control her
    Better forget it,oh you’ll never get it
    You say their is no other,until she finds another(Oh you’ll regret it)
    She’ll take your heart,but you won’t feel it
    Don’t try to change her,just leave her
    The only way you’ll know
    Shes like no other
    Before you know it you’ll be on your knees
    I’m just trying to make you see


  36. professorGBFMtm2021 says:

    you know thats suppose to be ”hold her& control her” right?

    [A professor of what you are ask I do]


  37. Everybody knows that Swillary’s too cheap to buy the good stuff with her own money. The help just bulk wine and refill the same bottles over and over again.

    [Always Clinton Foundation money there would be]

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  38. professorGBFMtm2021 says:

    You know what my fave video game of the last 20 years has been?DYNASTY WARRIORS2 (or SHIN SANGOKUMOSO1 in japan) on the ps2!Since I first got that and part 4 (Around ’03/04{For both of them!},I have mostly lost interest in new games across all platforms!Same with TV!Every year I care less & less about tv,even the stuff on METV,ANTENNATV&COZITV
    P.S.Professor of MOSES&JESUS,ACHILLES&MANOWARtm studies of course!Is there any other studies at all the big universities (because I hav’nt noticed)?

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  39. horsemanbombadil says:

    Us Canucks Reeeeeeaaally like our coffee. The original Timmies.

    Actually Tims now is not coffee but a beverage of its own. That tastes like crap.


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  40. Clinton Foundation money is Hillary’s money. Has her name on it, don’t it.

    That’s MINE!!!

    [Also partly Chelsea’s it would be]

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  41. Cheque d'Out says:

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  42. Cheque d'Out says:

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  43. Now they’re really gonna mean “no geographical names you damn racists!!!”

    Well not really, but it’ll sound good.

    [“Wales” speciest it would be]

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  44. Farm Boy says:

    A new Harvard/Harris poll has found that Americans are more concerned over the violence that happened last summer in the aftermath of the death of George Floyd than the Capitol riot on January 6.


    Liked by 1 person

  45. SFC Ton says:

    Black, Latino Seniors in Virginia Get COVID-19 Vaccine Priority as White 85-Year-Olds Wait


    The war on White folks won’t end until tgere is nothing left but white/ skypeish upper level shot callers and others who know to stay on the plantation

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  46. Farm Boy says:

    Anthony Fauci’s deputy was required to sign a confidentiality agreement “tailored to China’s terms” before joining a World Health Organization team in China early last year to collect data



  47. Farm Boy says:








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  48. Farm Boy says:

    Not something that you see every day

    Liked by 1 person

  49. horsemanbombadil says:

    How to pronounce the Welch variant


  50. Farm Boy says:

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  51. horsemanbombadil says:

    A generation is los from this year


  52. horsemanbombadil says:

    In six months a year, two we will have no reason to continue the lockdowns.

    Then the impacts will happen
    The mortgages and rent long delayed will be due.
    The debts that have been delayed will be called.
    The products and services will be demanded but the businesses are long closed
    Social interactions will be allowed but the social skills long attrophied
    Unity will be needed but the mistrust sowed over now years will linger.

    We will be in hard times

    And we were weak before the plague, now weaker by the atrophy and the isolation.
    Merit, ambition, risk taking seen as social evils.

    When things get hard who will do what needs to be done.

    And why would they.

    The social contracts are broken.
    For the children…they are not mine
    For your family….the ones I am estranged from
    For the women….puleez
    For the community….that was burnt down last summer

    “Leave it, it is over
    All will come to darkness and my city to ruin.”

    There is no more strength in our blood.

    And the strength in mine I shall not shed for you.


  53. horsemanbombadil says:

    They will look for his coming from the White Tower
    But he shall not return.

    Not because he has fallen

    Because he has no reason to.


  54. Farm Boy says:

    NEW YORK, NY—Penguin Random House has announced a revised, more socially acceptable version of the popular Dr. Seuss book Oh, the Places You’ll Go, which was pulled from store shelves for racism and also for the suggestion that you should go places during a pandemic.



  55. Cheque d'Out says:

    Murican slang, I assume


  56. Cheque d'Out says:

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  57. Cheque d'Out says:

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  58. Cheque d'Out says:

    #trigger warning for fucking swearing

    But the swearing aside…

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  59. Cheque d'Out says:

    I don’t see the joke. Just what is an ‘Inion’ anyway?

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  60. Cheque d'Out says:

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  61. Cheque d'Out says:

    Covid test centre explosion: Huge blast in Holland as cases rise – police suspect pipebomb


  62. Cheque d'Out says:

    Oh NOES!

    Merkel’s multi-billion euro nightmare: German exports to UK plummet by 30% due to Brexit

    Commenting, former German MEP Hans-Olaf Henkel, who is also the former president of the Federation of German Industries (BDI), told Express.co.uk: “Germany is particularly impacted.

    “Not only was Britain the second largest net contributor to the EU‘s Budget and, it is now for Germany to pick up the largest portion of the missing funds.

    “Since Brexit, German exports have taken a huge beating.”

    He added: “With Britain having left the EU an important, eloquent and powerful voice for competitiveness, for self-responsibility and for subsidiarity has been silenced and is already missing in Brussels.

    “For instance, Britain would never have agreed to the EU being able to become an independent debtor to finance the Covid relief package in the countries.

    “Without Britain, France now calls the shots Brussels, Germany will as usual duck away.”

    Yeah, but on the other hand, fuck you eu

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  63. Cheque d'Out says:


    Although I would be happy to chip in for a leaving present.

    [Need a place to store the shit from the tests he does]

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  64. Farm Boy says:

    They’re coming for you next: The Arizona Department of Education has created what it calls an “Equity Toolkit” for use by parents and teachers that claims that 3-month-old white babies are already racists, and that the schools should take “pro-active” action against white children, continuously



  65. Farm Boy says:

    Top footballer Zlatan Ibrahimovic has refused to back down after LeBron James responded to his call for athletes to stick to sports and stay out of politics.


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  66. Larry G says:

    seriously poor planning…kinda like women

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  67. Funny, but I can think of better uses.

    {Dishwashers work best for washing dishes they do]

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  68. Cheque d'Out says:

    Love the fact that the throbber has three tags in his twat handle and he’s complaining about the Union flag. Sadly he’s far too retarded to see the irony

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  69. Farm Boy says:

    Most Glorious Patriarch,

    Check out the first two minutes of this

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  70. Farm Boy says:

    “THE INVESTIGATION IS STILL ONGOING”: FBI Director Wray won’t share Officer Brian Sicknick’s cause of death with senators.

    What investigation? The man was cremated. Are they sifting the ashes?


    FYI, he was supposedly assaulted with a fire extinguisher at the Capitol on Jan. 6, but tweeted out that he was fine at the end of the day. Then he died of a stroke the next day


  71. Farm Boy says:

    The gaslighting continues,

    FBI’s Wray Bizarrely Claims Conservative Groups Behind ‘Most’ BLM/Antifa Riots



  72. How is delicious, delicious butter vegetarian? It’s an animal product. Least it is ’round these parts.

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  73. Farm Boy says:


    Oldie but goodie



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  74. Now everyone here is getting plenty of exercise and taking their vitamins right? You’re getting enough sleep and eating healthy? Please, please tell me you are. Because the people working in healthcare are getting dumber and dumber even as I type this.

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  75. Farm Boy says:

    When 9 people died in Flint, not only did we spend years hearing about the water crisis, but former Governor Rick Snyder, and the former head of Health and Human Services were recently indicted on charges of involuntary manslaughter.

    Is there any conceivable reason why Cuomo, Whitmer, Newsom, Murphy, and Wolf shouldn’t be facing involuntary manslaughter charges? Apart from Snyder’s party identification and theirs?

    How can thousands of entirely foreseeable deaths not result in manslaughter charges?


    FYI, Snyder was the Republican Governor of Michigan during the Flint water thing

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  76. Potato batteries are a thing. Pudding batteries are not.

    I think someone owes potatoes an apology.

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  77. Cheque d'Out says:

    “Check out the first two minutes of this”

    Sounds like they had a fair few no-shows and so had doses to spare for suckers.

    If the vaccines are Totally Safe and Effective, which they obviously are*, why do they have to keep pushing them so hard?

    And the Prion thang hasn’t even made the big time yet.


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  78. Cheque d'Out says:

    I think that he’s missing the reason that she keeps mentioning ‘all her lovely friends wot have stuff wot is going on’. It’s to say that ‘ALL women agree with me and so YOU MUST cave to this opinion’. That’s the point. Resistance to the shrew collective is futile.

    Her video, or more accurately the ‘I done gone fucked it up’ desperation behind it, still makes me smile.

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  79. Cheque d'Out says:

    So…how’re things going on in Scroteland?

    Sounds like Wee Krankie was a disaster.

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  80. Cheque d'Out says:

    Men die at twice the rate of women, women hardest hit

    [This woman agree she would]

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  81. Cheque d'Out says:

    Bliar set up the Scottish legal and governance system back in the day when Nu-Labour saw Scotland as a permanent laba stronghold. So the prospect of a third world banana republic wasn’t a bad thing because it’d be a bent laba banana republic. Since then laba collapsed up north (the voters realised that they were shit) and the snp came to power.

    This whole affair has been a shit-show that would shame the turd world. They’ve tried to place the blame for corruption on the woman leader of the ruling party (that controls the government and legal system)…ruh-roh

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  82. Sumo says:

    Methinks you’ve confused “vegetarian” with “vegan”. One is a group of sad, misguided souls. The other is a group of fucking morons.

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  83. President Puddinghead was on the TV at the gym yesterday and I caught the end of some remarks to the press about whatever bullshit he was told to say. He starts walking off…

    “Mr. President have you been briefed about the situation at the Southern border?”

    “Yes. I’ve been briefed.”

    “What did you learn?”

    “A lot.”

    Leaves the room.

    That’s the “Leader of the Free World” for you, Ladies and Gentlemen.

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  84. Cheque d'Out says:

    We had Gordon Brown and Treaser May. Ain’t no laughing here

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  85. Cheque d'Out says:

    What do the staff of rNHS know that they’re not telling us?

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  86. Farm Boy says:

    It does seem that across the Anglosphere, trust in authorities is rather low

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