A Breakup


My 36 year old nephew who lives in a different state recently was very excited to have a girlfriend. He stated that they had similar outlooks and that things were looking up. She seemed to rather like him a good bit.

Then, she broke it off. His story was as follows: “She accuses me of being controlling, at the same time that we went out to her choice of places”. My nephew is not controlling. He doesn’t have it in him.

Naturally, it is difficult to diagnose from afar, but it does seem that she is a borderline. She really admired him, now he is the worst thing ever. She accuses him of doing what she is doing. These are borderline characteristics.

He wanted to just be friends. She said no. Which is good. My advice is to leave it that way, for borderlines often come back some time in the future acting all lovie. Then the cycle starts again.

I admit that I was suspicious at his original announcement. She was 36, had never been married, and apparently did not have any prospects. Probably she has done this dance many times. Perhaps she is contacting an old boyfriend to rekindle a flame. It does seem that she has trouble hiding her affliction, as it took only a month for it to come out.

He dodged a bullet. Hopefully it will stay that way.

Exit question: How many borderlines are out there in the world?

Posted in beta bux, Dating????, FarmBoy, Trainwreck, Why
158 comments on “A Breakup
  1. Sharkly says:

    Yes, he dodged a bullet.

    When I was dating my wife, I asked her what happened with her previous relationship, and she told me that the man had become controlling and abusive.
    I was a blue-pilled fool back then. I just believed that.
    LOL I’ll let you all guess whom she began calling controlling and abusive, after I married her.

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  2. Liz says:

    She decided she didn’t like him and came up with an explanation that fit her own justifications.
    No way to know the real reason. She might just like someone else.
    Yes, he is much better off without her.

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  3. Farm Boy says:

    I might be more sensitive to borderlines than most. Perhaps I see them everywhere

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  4. It’s a bit of a worry that he was 36 and ‘excited’ early on.

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  5. whiteguy1 says:

    Exactly. Tell him he dodged more than a bullet, more like a nuclear weapon.

    Crazy update:

    She still hasn’t signed the modified TO, and now the AG’s office intercepted my half of the federal tax refund, which was $2400! If we don’t get a response by tomorrow we are going back to the judge.

    Groan.

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  6. horsemanbombadil says:

    Ok. Shorts or a belt? But check the muscle tone.

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  7. Ame says:

    Horseman … shorts?! 😉

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  8. Ame says:

    my Husband and i were kidding around and laughing, and my Step Son said, “I hope to find what y’all have.” i had to be debbie-downer and tell him that the word on the street is bleak at best. ahhh, a young man’s hopes and dreams.

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  9. theshadowedknight says:

    Bullet dodged. You don’t want a woman like that in your life. Better to be on your own with good friends than with a woman who will ruin you. Your nephew got lucky. It could have been much worse.

    Horseman, I think those qualify as shorts in the sense that they sure aren’t very long. The woman looks nice, but I’m not too sure about a woman who goes out looking like that in public. Probably not all that wise to keep her around, and if you’re going to hit it and quit it… What’s the point?

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  10. theshadowedknight says:

    Tell him to find a young woman now. Right now. Knock her up and start a family before she has the chance to go to college and “discover herself” by getting pumped and dumped by two dozen fratboys, football players, and drug dealers. If there is a decent girl at school, find her and put a ring on it.

    I missed the boat, and so its looking like I’m going to have to leave the country to find a woman worthy of me. If you want him to stay in the USA, you should encourage him to get on it as soon as possible. The sooner, the better.

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  11. lastmod says:

    “Borderline” was a 1983 hit by Madonna as I recall. Just keep pushing her love over that “borderline” lol!

    As a lifelong bachelor I’ll add when a guy gets over or around the age of forty and he has never been married…….never a long-term girlfriend…..he’s pretty much always going to be single. Yes, I know there are exceptions….but its not the norm. You will see a man divorced a couple of times, plenty of girlfriends tie the knot again over the age of forty.

    I am sure with women there is a similar thing gong on from my generation (GenX) and the now older set of Millenials……….this woman sounds like she really doesn’t want to be married. A ton of women today may not be married today….but a good many DO have a kid in tow somewhere from their twenties or thirties (Murphy Brown syndrome / single-moms rock kind of thing). She probably enjoys being single per say, and the “controlling” thing was used an excuse to break it off.

    He’s better for it. A single, never married woman at the age of 36 with no kids…….caution should be used. Was she burned bad? It does happen to women as well. She fall for the “lie” of a life of frequent sex with Chad types…..and then it kind-of stopped as she hit her thirties? Career gal? Past drug / party issues?

    You;re nephew is better that this happened now instead of a few kids with her and her now suddenly having to change everything.

    It gets harder to compromise when you are an older single who has never been married and does not have children. It’s a curse and blessing to people in this situation.

    The advantage is that you came through it on your own terms. Your way, your rules, your victories and mistakes are only shared by you. Earned by you. The disadvantage is of course trying to deal and compromise with a person and learn that skill at a much older age. Way harder than you think.

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  12. Ame says:

    TSK – he’s a few years out of high school. The girls in high school were already bad when he was there, and they’re not any better now.

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  13. theshadowedknight says:

    Ame, that’s a shame. Hopefully he finds someone.

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  14. okrahead says:

    1/2 his age plus 7 is 25. She was far too old. 1/2 his age is still legal, and more likely to be a virgin. If you are a 36 year old male, at least reasonably successful and attractive, why would you settle for a woman your own age?

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  15. Posted this on the wrong thread:

    TSK I would not be opposed to your relocation if the guys here approve. You guys discuss. If approved, you would be living in your own camper trailer and would have your own space in trade for security and handyman duties. I am a fine matchmaker but of course cannot guarantee anything. You would need to make your own final selection, of course. It’s a pretty target rich environment. I think you would be pleased with the selection.

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  16. If they do approve could you get there before Tuesday?!? 😝

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  17. I agree the nephew is better off wo this gal. For whatever reason she seems to want to keep looking so he’s wise to let her. I hope he finds someone, I am always a sucker for a good romance story, but also agree with the guys above as far as he’s too eager and it’s pretty late in the game to learn game but if it is meant to be it will happen. Hopefully he got laid. (Sorry, had to say it!)

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  18. Ok maybe hopefully he did not get laid… never stick your ahem in crazy etc. I dunno. Depends! If he did get laid and she rocked his world, she’s likely a borderline. If so, the good sex is not worth it in the end, I hear.

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  19. “If you are a 36 year old male, at least reasonably successful and attractive, why would you settle for a woman your own age?”

    Her youth, beauty and ability to bear you healthy children gone. Her “last fuckable day” (LFD) most likely around the next corner if not already in the rearview. A cargo container ship’s worth of baggage. He didn’t just dodge a bullet, he avoided a minefield.

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  20. https://www.breitbart.com/europe/2020/10/27/top-medical-journals-refuse-to-publish-landmark-danish-mask-study/

    Do masks protect against Chinese coronavirus and reduce its spread — or are they, as their critics maintain, mere empty gesture politics?

    A major study which might finally have answered this question has been postponed indefinitely after three of the world’s top three medical journals mysteriously declined to publish it.

    Danish newspaper Berlingske reports:

    The researchers behind a large and unique Danish study on the effect of wearing a mask are having great difficulty in getting their research results published. One of the participating professors in the study admits that the still secret research result could be perceived as ‘controversial’.

    For weeks, the media and researchers around the world have been waiting with increasing impatience for the publication of a large Danish study on the effect – or lack thereof – of wearing a mask in a public space during the corona pandemic.

    Now one of the researchers who has been involved in the study has said that the finished research result has been rejected by at least three of the world’s leading medical journals.

    These include the Lancet, the New England Journal of Medicine and the American Medical Association’s journal JAMA.

    “They all said no,” says the Chief Physician in the Research Department at North Zealand Hospital, Professor Christian Torp-Pedersen.

    However, the Professor does not wish to disclose the journals’ reasoning.

    So these medical journals are refusing publish the results because … science? Well, only if you consider Lysenkoism to be science.

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  21. Liz says:

    I heard in LA now they are requiring masks while eating. You have to remove your mask and put it back on between bites. In outdoor dining. We know the most likely time for contamination from a dirty mask is in the removal (one is supposed to drop it in the garbage after that) what does that tell us about the “science” there? Doesn’t matter, the wokescolds have spoken. Noncompliance means they’ll fine you bigly and turn off the water and electricity to your home. In the interest of “science” of course.

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  22. Not surprising since they have a re-animated corpse making their covid policies.

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  23. Farm Boy says:

    Speaking of reanimated corpses

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  24. Farm Boy says:

    The girl in the above video is Senator Chris Coons daughter. Rumor has it that there are pictures of her on Hunter’s hard drive

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  25. Farm Boy says:

    David L. Brunsma, a professor in Virginia Tech’s department of sociology, claimed that both beer and the phrase “the American people” are racist in a recent book and tweet, respectively

    https://www.campusreform.org/?ID=16018

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  26. Farm Boy says:

    When influence is peddled, obligations are incurred. When obligations are incurred, favors can be expected. When the favors are owed, directly or indirectly, to the Chinese Communist party, you want to be sure that the people in debt are not, you know, presiding over the government of the United States of America.

    https://spectator.us/tony-bobulinski-implausible-deniability-hunter-biden/

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  27. Farm Boy says:

    A police force in the UK has vowed to break up Christmas family gatherings that violate coronavirus ‘social distancing’ restrictions.

    https://summit.news/2020/10/28/uk-police-force-says-it-will-break-up-christmas-gatherings-to-enforce-covid-rules/

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  28. Farm Boy says:

    Scotland’s new odious hate crime bill would go so far as to criminalize dinner table conversations if their ‘offensive’ content is reported to police.

    https://summit.news/2020/10/28/scottish-hate-crime-bill-would-criminalize-offensive-dinner-table-conversations/

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  29. Farm Boy says:

    Supermodel Emily Ratajkowski is pregnant. Asked the gender of her child, she says “we won’t know until our child is 18 and they let us know then.”

    https://notthebee.com/article/supermodel-emily-ratajkowski-is-pregnant-asked-the-gender-of-her-child-she-says-we-wont-know-until-our-child-is-18-and-they-let-us-know-then

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  30. JPF says:

    redpillgirlnotes: Thank you for offering a (possible) solution to TSK. It is common to see an accurate list of reasons why the current situation or a certain plan would not work, but unfortunately pretty rare to see a reasonable solution offered. Even less often to see a solution offered where the person offering might have to make an effort.

    Assuming you are located in the USA, your solution would also be easier than mine (going to EE). EE is actually not that hard, but marrying a good native woman, if such can be found, would certainly be quicker. If she wants a typical American wedding, then she would be more expensive than the EE route (even with travel and visa costs), but still easier, as he could take a job in her city while getting to know her father and her.

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  31. Ame says:

    I can’t like that, FB 😥😤

    [Which one not like you do?]

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  32. theshadowedknight says:

    RPG, I would have to wait to take you up on that until next year when I graduate. Unless this gets so fucking insane that school just gets cancelled, I need to finish up my degree. I also have a very good job that will last about as long as school, maybe longer, that I need to do in order to work in my field.

    If you want to have your people run a background check on me, feel free to have them reach out. You have my email, and can pass it off to someone else if needed. Feel free to reach out, but let me know here if you do so I can make sure it doesn’t go to spam.

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  33. Liz says:

    The same people who found a middle aged woman with the voice of a screeching five year old, sans all evidence, “credible” won’t even cover the Biden story with the evidence of documented time stamped e mails, and actually credible witnesses.

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  34. Liz says:

    As of Monday, 59 deaths in the ROK from the influenza vaccines. The CDC has information on it now:
    https://www.cdc.gov/flu/spotlights/2020-2021/death-south-korea-following-flu-vaccination.htm

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  35. I thought her wife took the kids to practice.

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  36. Ame says:

    Ugh, Liz 😤

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  37. TSK if you emailed me previously and I missed it, my apologies. I will look for it!

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  38. It’s insane what is happening with the media. Beyond the pale. But they can’t stop it. The info is spreading anyway. And there’s more. They cannot escape it. Bye bye swamp critters!

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  39. theshadowedknight says:

    RPG, I have not emailed you, but you should have my address from my comments on your blog.

    Liked by 1 person

  40. Farm Boy says:

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  41. Farm Boy says:

    Two Birds With One Stone: Man Protests Racial Injustice, Completes Christmas Shopping In One Trip

    https://babylonbee.com/news/man-protests-racial-injustice-completes-christmas-shopping-in-one-trip

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  42. theshadowedknight says:

    Bloom, I sent you an email so you have my address should you need it.

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  43. Cheque d'Out says:

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  44. Farm Boy says:

    Antibodies also represent only one arm of the immune response, albeit the one that can most easily be measured. There are at least three other branches of the immune system that can fend off illness, so antibody levels don’t present the full picture.

    https://www.nytimes.com/2020/10/27/health/coronavirus-antibodies-studies.html

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  45. Farm Boy says:

    Not sure if this is bad

    “Looters Were Shooting Looters” – 11 People Shot Overnight In Philadelphia Rioting…

    https://www.weaselzippers.us/458252-looters-were-shooting-looters-11-people-shot-overnight-in-philadelphia-rioting/

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  46. Farm Boy says:

    Many Expensify customers reacted with outrage over the email. Daniel Rothschild, the executive director of George Mason University’s Mercatus Center, wrote a lengthy response accusing Barrett of violating the “trust” of its customers and contributing to the damaging polarization and politicization of society.

    “I also have strong feelings about another matter of public interest: the politicization of everything. A healthy society cannot exist if its political tribalism invades every aspect of commercial, civic, and community life,” Rothschild said in an open letter to Barrett. “Team Red and Team Blue have gone from being who we vote for to, in many cases, lifestyle determinants. That is unhealthy to our civic fabric.”

    https://www.dailywire.com/news/expensify-ceo-tells-10-million-customers-to-vote-for-biden-or-face-possible-civil-war-clients-pummel-him

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  47. Farm Boy says:

    What in Tarnation? Oregon’s Public Health Authority Announces Covid Deaths While Dressed as a Clown

    https://notthebee.com/article/what-in-tarnation-oregons-public-health-authority-announces-covid-deaths-while-dressed-as-a-clown

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  48. No offense to this young woman…

    But don’t we have hundreds of thousands of under-employed college grads already here in the U.S.?

    They couldn’t one U.S. citizen to teach math in a what I would think would be a quiet, small town?

    Bullshit.

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  49. Ame says:

    “The Texas National Guard plans to send up to 1,000 troops to five cities — including Dallas — to support local law enforcement and the Texas Department of Public Safety after the Nov. 3 election.”

    https://www.dallasnews.com/news/2020/10/27/texas-national-guard-to-send-up-to-1000-troops-to-major-cities-for-support-after-election/

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  50. Farm Boy says:

    Chicago sisters accused of stabbing employee 27 times after being asked to wear a mask

    https://news.yahoo.com/chicago-sisters-accused-stabbing-employee-175424775.html

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  51. Ame says:

    i don’t follow the royals, but i didn’t know prince andrew was so unloved … what’s his story? other than he hasn’t aged well.

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  52. Farm Boy says:

    He was an Epstein associate

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  53. Farm Boy says:

    Former US Vice President and current Presidential hopeful, Joe Biden, became the latest politician to make his disdain for video games plain — not unusual by itself, but in the middle of a campaign is probably the wrong time to do it. It doesn’t help that his words strike a particularly dismissive and nasty note that seems designed to alienate anyone with even the remotest sympathy for the gaming industry.

    https://thenextweb.com/gaming/2020/01/20/joe-biden-derides-game-dev-creeps-teach-how-kill/

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  54. Farm Boy says:

    President Trump responded to two nights of violent unrest in Philadelphia by claiming police were told to “stand back” and not stop looting and rioting.

    https://summit.news/2020/10/28/trump-says-police-were-told-to-stand-back-during-philly-riots/

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  55. Liz says:

    Anonymous source says, “Trump called our soldiers losers!”
    Media:
    “Sounds credible to me! Let’s give this the widest dissemination possible, the people need to know this!”
    Former Biden partner with e mails and documentation, another computer corroborating the evidence.
    Media:
    “Well, nothing to see here!”

    If this were Trump (and Don Junior) an unnamed source wouldn’t even need the evidence.
    They would only need to start a rumor that evidence might exist.
    Then Adam Schiff would swear he’d seen it.
    Then “the walls are closing in”

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  56. Liz says:

    Unbelievable.

    Liked by 1 person

  57. Liz says:

    Anyone worried about Bobulinski yet?
    Wonder how they’re going to do it.

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  58. https://www.frontpagemag.com/fpm/2020/10/bidens-got-hospital-business-and-people-died-daniel-greenfield/

    “We’ve got people all around the world who want to invest in Joe Biden,” James Biden had once boasted. There’s no denying that. How else could a college dropout and failed nightclub owner be in demand around the world, or help score a billion dollar contract to build homes in Iraq?

    Together James and Hunter Biden had built a business around Joe Biden. But what happened in Pennsylvania, in St. Louis, and Arkansas ended with more than greed.

    St. Alexius Hospital in St. Louis had become famous as the scene of a forties exorcism that had inspired the novel and the movie, The Exorcist, but there was no one to exorcise the Bidens.

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  61. Who would be so stupid to put something so important in the mail or whatever?!? Gah. Hopefully they at least made copies. Amateurs!

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  62. Farm Boy says:

    Girl Scouts deletes social media congratulations to Amy Coney Barrett on Supreme Court seat after angry backlash.

    https://www.cnbc.com/2020/10/28/supreme-court-girl-scouts-congratulates-amy-coney-barrett-.html

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  63. b g says:

    RPG

    From the sounds of it nobody was smart enough to retain the originals and send certified copies, amateurs indeed. I’m a Canuck, but here a signed certification from a member of the legislator or a justice of the peace is solid legal evidence in front of the courts. Most of your legal system is based upon English Common Law, so yours should be similar.

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  64. b g says:

    Well, fortunately I never had to go underground, but I worked in the oil rigs and some damn scary high scaffolds. It was how the world worked…and frankly still does.

    Liked by 2 people

  65. Cill says:

    O yeaH?

    O I can pat you better ‘n’ you can pat me Joe. Keep squeezing my butt and I’ll clamp my chuff on your balls and stand on the bastards and squash ’em. You Josephine Biden are the Patriarchy just like Bill you bird shite white murderous kiddie-fiddling typical treacherous Caucasian piece of filth.

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  66. Look how hard they are working to circle the wagons! How big is this darn swamp?!? 😳

    Liked by 1 person

  67. Farm Boy says:

    Watch when they go to bed

    [Gender swap the kids they do]

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  68. Farm Boy says:


    Twitter, for a prime example, pinned a post to the top of its home page claiming that Biden “played no role in pressuring Ukraine officials into firing the prosecutor” at the core of this case.

    That is flatly disproven by the words of Biden himself, who stated on video that he told Ukraine’s president and its prime minister that he would withhold $1 billion in U.S. aid from their nation unless they removed the prosecutor. “If the prosecutor is not fired,” warned Biden, “you’re not getting the money.” Biden then added, “Well, son of a bitch, he got fired.”

    Twitter’s brazen falsehood only scratches the surface of media misinformation about this matter

    https://issuesinsights.com/2020/10/28/media-titans-are-misleading-the-public-about-the-biden-scandal/

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  69. Farm Boy says:

    The former Prime Minister of Malaysia reacted to a series of Islamic terror attacks in France by tweeting, “Muslims have a right to be angry and to kill millions of French people for the massacres of the past.”

    https://summit.news/2020/10/29/former-malaysian-pm-muslims-have-a-right-to-be-angry-and-to-kill-millions-of-french-people/

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  70. I didn’t get it. Why does Dad look like he’s struggling with depression? Is he dying of cancer or something?

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  71. Farm Boy says:

    We will never know why

    France: Attacker Shouting “Allahu Akbar” Beheads 70-Year-Old Woman in Church

    https://legalinsurrection.com/2020/10/france-attacker-shouting-allahu-akbar-beheads-70-year-old-woman-in-church/

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  72. Farm Boy says:

    Who does Biden support?

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  73. Farm Boy says:

    GDP Grew at 33.1% Annualized Pace in 3Q, Beating Expectations

    Also, the weekly first-time unemployment numbers went down 751,000 from 778,000 the week before.

    https://legalinsurrection.com/2020/10/gdp-grew-at-33-1-annualized-pace-in-3q-beating-expectations/

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  74. Liz says:

    Who would be so stupid to put something so important in the mail or whatever?!? Gah. Hopefully they at least made copies. Amateurs!

    I’m betting it wasn’t their only copy. If so that is very negligent on their part.

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  75. Farm Boy says:

    Brown University students want Roman statues removed because they promote ‘white supremacy’

    https://www.thecollegefix.com/brown-university-students-want-roman-statues-removed-because-they-promote-white-supremacy/

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  76. Liz says:

    Look how hard they are working to circle the wagons! How big is this darn swamp?!?

    Pretty darn big. If you think about it, the swamp has been expanding for decades now.
    Hillary would have filled all government positions with thousands of her closest “friends”. The swamp runs very very deep.
    When Trump took over he wanted to hire the best people for positions in government. But he was a businessman and didn’t know a thing about how the government was run.
    Instead of helping the new president (their job), the FBI sent in a squad to destroy him.
    It’s no accident they went for Flynn first, he was the only one with a great deal of experience in Intelligence work. After they had him safely behind metaphorical bars they could go for everyone else. To save their own backsides after what they did during the election, and were continuing to do illegally.

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  77. Liz says:

    One thing that really strikes me now (and in retrospect) was the number of times Comey spoke of “integrity” “honesty” and so forth. While he was flat-ass lying. People who speak of honesty ad nauseam and call everyone else liars….that can be a red flag.

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  78. Farm Boy says:

    Twitter Suspends U.S. Border Chief For Touting Wall’s Protection From Criminals

    “Apparently violating platform rules governing ‘hateful conduct'”

    https://www.dailywire.com/news/twitter-suspends-u-s-border-chief-for-touting-walls-protection-from-criminals-report

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  79. Farm Boy says:

    “We’re tired of suffering and nobody give a damn about poor folks. President Trump, they reached out with nothing but love from y’all all over this nation. I don’t want to hear another time I’m a Trump supporter. I’m an American supporter. Y’all have more love. Now the Democrats call me every name but a child of God,” Davis said.

    https://www.dailywire.com/news/michigan-councilman-hillary-supporter-endorses-trump-democrats-are-full-of-hate

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  80. [Gender swap the kids they do]

    Oh, no wonder he looks like he wants to kill himself.

    Oh and Mom is totes supportive of never having grandkids and most likely having her kids in the mental hospital multiple times before they kill themselves.

    Great job, Mom.

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  81. Farm Boy says:

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  82. The deepest level of Hell before you actually get to Satan is for hypocrites, among others.

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  83. If Trump can block TikTok, then he should be able to block Twitter.

    Call it an accident, a mistake, a glitch in the algo. Whatever you want. Just make it happen. Often and without any notice.

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  84. Farm Boy says:

    She was arrested for making a false report, but the charges were later dropped after pressure from women’s group insisted women never lie about being raped. As The Daily Wire reported, prosecutors claimed they dropped the charges because prosecuting a potential liar might hurt real victims by making them afraid to come forward.

    Now the woman is suing the University of Kansas and the City of Lawrence, claiming the police department and the school treated her like a suspect and not a victim, despite a massive national culture demanding women be believed no matter the evidence. The woman claims in her lawsuit that police only pretended to investigate her allegations while actually investigating her for lying.

    https://www.dailywire.com/news/she-was-charged-with-making-a-false-rape-allegation-but-the-charges-were-dropped-now-shes-suing

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  85. Sumo says:

    People who speak of honesty ad nauseam and call everyone else liars….that can be a red flag.

    I flat out tell people that I lie. Except 99.9% of the time I tell the truth, because I don’t care enough about anyone’s feelings to lie to them.

    So I’m lying about lying, but because I mostly tell the truth, everyone assumes that I really am lying to them, because they know since I tell the truth that I can be trusted.

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  86. Farm Boy says:

    President Barack Obama’s administration made a point of withholding aid to poor countries unless they submitted to his cultural imperialism that eroded their traditional values on contraception, abortion, and marriage. In stark contrast, the Trump administration has laudably led the no-strings-attached effort to decriminalize homosexuality across the globe. This administration has proved that you can support traditional values without being anti-gay.

    https://thefederalist.com/2020/10/29/im-a-childrens-rights-activist-thats-why-im-voting-for-trump/

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  87. https://ninetymilesfromtyranny.blogspot.com/2020/10/trump-rewrites-h-1b-program-to-help.html

    President Donald Trump’s deputies have launched a fundamental reform of the H-1B visa system to protect American graduates from outsourcing — despite furious opposition from donors and leaders from Silicon Valley, Fortune 500 companies, and coastal investors.

    The reform will end the annual award of 85,000 H-1B visas by lottery, which has been gamed by companies to import foreign workers at wages far below the salaries needed by American professionals. Instead, the visas will be offered to the companies that compete to offer the highest salaries, preventing employers from undercutting American graduates.

    “The Trump administration is continuing to deliver on its promise to protect the American worker while strengthening the economy,” said Acting DHS Deputy Secretary Ken Cuccinelli. “The current use of random selection to allocate H-1B visas … hurts American workers by bringing in relatively lower-paid foreign labor at the expense of the American workforce.”

    Too little, too late…???

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  88. thedeti says:

    Exit question: How many borderlines are out there?
    _____________

    A better question is: “How to identify and avoid borderlines? How to extricate yourself from a relationship or dealings with a borderline?”

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  89. thedeti says:

    It’s been said: Autism is the extreme male brain.

    In many ways, Borderline Personality Disorder is the extreme female brain.

    Most mental health practitioners prefer to call BPD “emotionally unstable personality disorder” because it’s a more accurate description. It was for a long time called “borderline” personality disorder because practitioners consider its sufferers to be “on the borderline” between sanity and insanity.

    So how to identify BPDs?

    Hallmark symptoms:

    1) inability to regulate emotions and emotional responses. Happiness is elation and euphoria. Sadness is dark, deep, intractable depression. Anger is violent volcanic berserk rage.

    2) Wide, violent mood swings. Going from extreme joy to dark sadness in the span of minutes or hours.

    3) Fear of abandonment by family or friends, and frantic efforts and statements to prevent or forestall abandonment.

    other symptoms and signs:

    –the BPD has a poor sense of her own self-identity and image. She doesn’t know who she is or who she wants to be. She is whipped about on others’ whims. She’s aimless and directionless, has little life direction of her own.

    –she has poor or superficial friendships.

    –poor, strained, or nonexistent relationship with her father.

    –rapid sexual attachment.

    –warped, distorted concepts of sex and its role in her life. Sexually distrustful and closed off, yet has sex quite soon in the relationship. Weaponizes sex for maximum advantage.

    –promiscuous.

    –all her exes are jerks and assholes.

    –She has never had a successful, fulfilling, satisfying relationship with a man. She has never been able to end a relationship with a man amicably or understandingly- they all crashed and burned.

    –has a pathological need to exert maximum control over her relationships, especially her relationships with men.

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  90. Farm Boy says:

    “After an extensive search, we have found the contents of the package and are arranging for its return,” the UPS spokesman told the news outlet. “UPS will always focus first on our customers, and will never stop working to solve issues and make things right.”

    https://www.dailywire.com/news/breaking-ups-responds-to-disappearance-of-tucker-carlson-package-damning-to-biden

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  91. Farm Boy says:

    Joe Biden: “My Son Hunter Is The Smartest Guy I Know”…

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  92. Farm Boy says:

    MSNBC On Islamist Terror Attack In France: ‘We Don’t Know The Motive’ Yet…

    https://www.air.tv/watch?v=7sdS1-YsRIeJHme6YUio4A

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  93. Farm Boy says:

    Earlier in the campaign slow Joe was talking about a K shaped recovery, without understanding what he was saying. I think he was trying to say the rich get richer, the poor get poorer, which is stupid.

    But what IS happening could be described as a K shaped recovery as applied to different regions. Leftist shitholes are headed even further down – states that are opening up and allowing growth are not only getting their own natural growth, but also the growth from all of the business in the shithole states that is moving.

    http://ace.mu.nu/archives/391024.php

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  94. Farm Boy says:

    [T]he brute censorship this week of my article — about the Hunter Biden materials and Joe Biden’s conduct regarding Ukraine and China, as well my critique of the media’s rank-closing attempt, in a deeply unholy union with Silicon Valley and the “intelligence community,” to suppress its revelations — eroded the last justification I could cling to for staying. It meant that not only does this media outlet not provide the editorial freedom to other journalists, as I had so hopefully envisioned seven years ago, but now no longer even provides it to me. In the days heading into a presidential election, I am somehow silenced from expressing any views that random editors in New York find disagreeable, and now somehow have to conform my writing and reporting to cater to their partisan desires and eagerness to elect specific candidates.

    To say that such censorship is a red line for me, a situation I would never accept no matter the cost, is an understatement. It is astonishing to me, but also a reflection of our current discourse and illiberal media environment, that I have been silenced about Joe Biden by my own media outlet.

    http://ace.mu.nu/archives/391027.php

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  95. horsemanbombadil says:

    Came for the title

    Stayed for the Brrrrrrrrrap

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  96. horsemanbombadil says:

    Ton

    Is the leg placement better?

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  97. Gunner Q says:

    “President Donald Trump’s deputies have launched a fundamental reform of the H-1B visa system…”

    “Too little, too late…???”

    Notice Trump didn’t simply shut down H1b. How typical. He didn’t purge the Deep State after successfully shutting down the government, he didn’t stop megacorporate “free trading” with China even when Winnie the Flu provided the perfect excuse, he didn’t kill the Dept. of Education when Teacher Karens everywhere refused to go back to work and he didn’t appoint a John Bircher to the Supreme Court after Kavanaugh’s embarrassing post-confirmation cuck-up. To say nothing to his constantly hiring & firing Deep State underlings instead of simply recruiting from outside the Beltway. Nothing Trump has done for America will last one week after he’s gone.

    But hey, Israel couldn’t be prouder of him. He’s successfully reshaped the entire Mideast for Israel’s benefit.

    Trump may be a great negotiator but he could still have been outperformed by a high school kid who simply wanted to win. It’s a maddening truism of all our so-called leaders. No matter how pious and patriotic they act, they always jump when the devil says “frog”.

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  98. horsemanbombadil says:

    Sumo the Mighty

    It’s scary that I followed that.

    I just assume most people are full of shit because they truly believe the truth is whatever lies they want to be true from those who are lying to them.

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  99. theshadowedknight says:

    Gunner Q, he also didn’t personally provide a wife to every one of his supporters, punch out Satan, fly to the moon, or any other number of ridiculous things that are completely unrealistic and absurd.

    H1B visas are used to undercut American workers. Now you have to be offering them higher salaries in order to get the visa. That kills the purpose of it.

    This shot is why the right loses. If they bother fighting for you all you do is whine that you didn’t get everything and a cherry on top, and the left screams at them and calls them racists and tries to expel them from society. If they abandon you all you do is whine that you didn’t get everything and a cherry on top, the left screams that they are racist, but not as loudly or as often, and lets them come to their parties. Why the fuck should anyone help you people if all you do is bitch that they didn’t do enough while three quarters or more of the political establishment, the entire media complex, the entire bureaucratic establishment, and over half the population was actively opposing every fucking move he did.

    You deserved Clinton.

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  100. theshadowedknight says:

    Also, “muh Israel, da JOOOOOS!” crap is shill talk. Everyone who calls Trump “Zion Don” or accuses him of being controlled by the jews is a shill. Period. I have never seen one who could pass the shill test. Don’t listen to them.

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  101. Ame says:

    Always good to see you, Horseman, regardless of why you came and stayed 😊

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  102. Ame says:

    Deti – it’s good to see you! How are things in your world?

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  103. Ame says:

    Not that anyone probably cares, but I really don’t like the new icon for gmail. Something about the colors and the lines do something weird to my eyes. Okay, /rant 😁

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  104. h0neyc0mb says:

    Stunt double.

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  105. horsemanbombadil says:

    DIBS!!!!

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  106. horsemanbombadil says:

    P.s. make her hair lighter and add 10 pounds and thats Mrs a decade ago.

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  107. Farm Boy says:

    A @TheJusticeDept official confirms that in 2019, the @FBI opened up a criminal investigation into “Hunter Biden and his associates,” focused on allegations of money-laundering, and that it remains open and active today. More very soon on your @WeAreSinclair stations.

    I would say “Ha-ha, let the media try to cover this up now,” but that would be stupid. They are beyond corrupt. They are brazen because they think they are untouchable.

    http://ace.mu.nu/archives/391030.php

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  108. Farm Boy says:

    Girl Scouts Introduce ‘Peaceful Protest’ Badge For Girls Who Throw Their First Molotov Cocktail

    https://babylonbee.com/news/girl-scouts-introduce-peaceful-protest-badge-for-girls-who-throw-their-first-molotov-cocktail

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  109. Farm Boy says:

    Interesting stuff

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  110. Farm Boy says:

    I mentioned this approach a week ago. Glad they did it.

    NY Post’s ‘Smoking Gun’ Hunter Biden Email 100% Authentic, Forensic Analysis Concludes

    Graham previously told the DCNF that emails sent from Gmail, such as Pozharski’s message to Hunter Biden, can be “absolutely verified beyond a shadow of a doubt” by testing its contents against the unique DKIM signature found in its metadata.

    Graham used the DKIM signature within the email to verify with a private key on Google’s servers that the sender, recipient, subject, date and body of the message that the DCNF obtained from Giuliani were unchanged from when the email was originally sent in April 2015

    https://dailycaller.com/2020/10/29/cybersecurity-expert-authenticates-hunter-biden-burisma-email/

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  111. Farm Boy says:

    No way eh

    I have no idea what this is aboot

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  112. Farm Boy says:

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  113. b g says:

    “I have no idea what this is aboot”

    It is about kissing female arses, which is why they should not have a vote because they do not understand responsibility My wife, a woman with an IQ of 134, knew that the mindless bimbos could be suckered into policies that would destroy her nation. She was correct, a unicorn, a woman that actually thought and measured.

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  114. SFC Ton says:

    ACAB

    The FBI is bunch of cops and Comey had a bunch of cases thrown out because he was doing dirty shit

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  115. SFC Ton says:

    Trump is a center left populists, ie way pervert friendly and also way way way to friendly toward the skypes.

    If that makes me a shill then I am a shill

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  116. Cill says:

    So I’m lying about lying, but because I mostly tell the truth, everyone assumes that I really am lying to them, because they know since I tell the truth that I can be trusted. (Sumo)

    If you admit you lie all the time then your admission is false if it’s true and true if it’s false 😉

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  117. theshadowedknight says:

    No, it doesn’t make you a shill. Its just that these people go on and on about the evil jews and then when you ask them to talk about George Soros or Victoria Nuland, they change the subject or duck the question. For people that supposedly hate jews, they are awfully hesitant to talk about jews we know do bad things.

    Is Trump further left than I would prefer? Yes, sure, but then George Washington was too far left for my taste. We take what we can get, and changing H1B visas so that they can’t undercut and replace American workers is a step in the right direction. Bitching about that is just stupid. Not everything in life comes coated in solid gold with a blowjob to make you feel good about it. This is a war, and Trump has been more wildly successful than we could have hoped in 2016.

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  118. Liz says:

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  119. Gunner Q says:

    theshadowedknight says:
    ” If they bother fighting for you all you do is whine that you didn’t get everything and a cherry on top”

    He fought for Israel with a Jesuit on top. Just because a politician persecutes you less than the other guy would have, doesn’t mean he’s doing you any favors.

    This changing-America-forever plandemic lockdown didn’t happen on Biden’s or Clinton’s watch. It’s happening on Trump’s watch and he’s fine with it.

    Don’t listen to what Trump says. Look at what he does. If he’d wanted to protect American workers from foreign labor then he could have ended H1b visas with less effort than it took to revise it. Both would have been equally unpopular with his enemies.

    Trump chose to “fix” foreign labor coming in rather than “stop” foreign labor coming in. Word.

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  120. Liz says:

    TSK is right about the H1B visas.
    Companies were hiring skilled immigrant workers for cheap, at the expense of US workers.
    With the salary requirement this balances things. If they truly can’t find US workers who qualify, they can procure them elsewhere. And yes this is a thing. BV mentioned his company had to hire Russian scientists as they couldn’t find enough US scientists who qualified.

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  121. Liz says:

    ROK flu vaccination death toll is up to 72 now.
    Higher than all the covid related deaths in Seoul over the past ten months.
    They remain unconcerned.

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  122. theshadowedknight says:

    Trump has been fighting against the lockdowns for nearly as long as they have been in existence. Unfortunately he isn’t a dictator and can’t just have Newsom and Cuomo shot. Or, for that matter, Fauci and the rest of the medical bureaucrats. The shutdowns are a move the Democrats pushed, and they stampede the idiot masses into believing in it.

    Imagine you wanted to ban something, but you can’t get it done. Instead, you make a permit requirement that you have to crush your dick in a vice to get the permit approved. How many permits do you think are going to get approved?

    The whole point of the H1B visa was to undercut American workers. Without that, it has no purpose. So what that he didn’t get rid of it? He made it totally useless. You can’t fire American workers to hire cheap foreign labor in their place. Do I care how he changed the rules so that I can’t be replaced by a cheap immigrant? Fuck no.

    So a shill test for you: What jew has been doing the most damage to America, and who was the jew that was the point woman on Ukraine? Can you name them? Or are you just another paid shill whining about da JOOOOOS but unable to name the ones who have done things that make them the most deserving of being hated?

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  123. Liz says:

    I’m hard pressed to think of a person who hates Trump more than Soros. He’s basically waged war on him.
    As far as peace in the Middle East. Well, I’m happy we finally have a president who hasn’t invaded more countries and established worthless, counter productive and expensive no fly zones.

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  124. theshadowedknight says:

    Yeah, thats another one, no more foreign wars. He bombed Syria just long enough that he was able to mostly pull the forces out and not get stuck in deeper. Also, mysteriously, all of the ISIS and related forces wound up dead once Trump took over, which means that Assad is still firmly in place. Not sure how that benefits Israel, to have a strong, stable Syria on their border. I’m sure its all some complex plot by da JOOOOOS!

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  125. Ame says:

    ROK is not concerned about the vaccine deaths???

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  126. Liz says:

    ROK is not concerned about the vaccine deaths???

    That’s correct.
    Singapore stopped the vaccines for a time to investigate, but South Korea has pressed on. They say there’s no correlation.

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  127. Liz says:

    https://nationalinterest.org/blog/korea-watch/south-korea-discovers-no-evidence-flu-vaccine’s-role-reported-deaths-171414

    The KDCA noted that the country has seen similar small spikes in deaths in the past following flu vaccinations. Last year, about 1,500 people aged sixty-five and over died within seven days after receiving a flu shot.

    I wonder how many people died of the flu last year.

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  128. Liz says:

    …who didn’t have a flu shot.

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  129. Ame says:

    I’m so not a fan of the flu shot.

    It would be interesting to know the number of flu deaths with and without the flu shots.

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  130. SFC Ton says:

    Well a huge plus for Trump is I habe lost 0 friends down range in 3 years.

    Trumps big problem is listening to his kids and their fuck toys. His kids are basically the worse of necons and dems…. depending on the issue

    I do think Trump favors blue collar workers but he keeps listening to and wanting approval of people who don’t give a shit about anyone with out college and 6 figure income

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  131. SFC Ton says:

    Actually it does. Syria hasn’t been their worse problem in a goodly while since what’s his name is pretty secular

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  132. Liz says:

    Ame:

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  133. “The KDCA noted that the country has seen similar small spikes in deaths in the past following flu vaccinations. Last year, about 1,500 people aged sixty-five and over died within seven days after receiving a flu shot.”

    I bet more people 65 and over died within seven days of reading a newspaper.

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  134. Liz says:

    Population of the ROK is a little over 50 million now. So, our population is around six times that. So 1500 people died last year within a week of getting the flu shot. That’s like 9000 people here. Correlation isn’t causation but good Lord imagine if someone told you, “You need this shot, it won’t prevent the flu but might make you less symptomatic. Maybe. And 9000 people died last year within a week of taking it”. I have to wonder if the ROK is just screwed up with their vaccines, or is this standard?

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  135. Liz says:

    I bet more people 65 and over died within seven days of reading a newspaper.

    Maybe.

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  136. Ame says:

    That’s pretty convoluted, Liz! And I’m not a science or statistics person.

    What that does show is that we’ll never know the truth because the truth would not be in their best interest.

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  137. feeriker says:

    Exit question: How many borderlines are out there in the world?

    An easier question to answer would be “how many NON-borderlines are out there in the world?”

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