Why Won’t He Call?


This is a common lament of women.  The answer is easy and simple to explain; but perhaps of more interest is the reason why women are left wondering why.

As to why he doesn’t call, the reason is the he suspects that she wants to take the next step in a relationship, which normally means more work for him for the same amount of sex. Probably the fella that she wishes would call is attractive and sexy in some manner, and has options.  For these fellas, it is just a simple cost/benefit situation. If women really want a guy who will call back, they need to stop shooting for the sexy cad types.

As for why women wonder why, the answer is easy.  Nobody tells them the true situation.  Why is this?  Because the situation is somewhat embarrassing to women.  Due to hypergamy, women all flock to the sexy guys (many whom are cads), giving him lots of options.  Furthermore, many perfectly acceptable fellas (by any objective measure) are left on the shelf.  This is not a good look for women in general, hence it must never be mentioned.

Better to suffer the collateral damage upon both men and women rather than embarrass women as whole

Exit question — How much collateral damage because of this is there?

Posted in Dating????, FarmBoy, Feminism, Hypergamy
80 comments on “Why Won’t He Call?
  1. horsemanbombadil says:

    Why won’t he call?

    1 of 3 in any situation for any girl

    He is a pnd player and now that he screwed you he wont remember your face let alone your number.

    He is a guy with money, status, resources aka options and honey you aint that good

    He was the last nice guy in you will ever meet, he took his shot, you nuked him and to him you are a fucking bitch.

    Asked.
    Answered.
    Moving on.

    P.s. This from a guy who asked her out Sunday night, went out following Saturday, Friday after that decided what month for the wedding. That was 32 years ago and still married.

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  2. theshadowedknight says:

    Uncountable. There are so few people having sex its crazy. The few attractive men get it as much as they want, the rest of the men mostly go without, and the women are stuck waiting their turn and trying to jump higher up on the list.

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  3. Please pray for healing for one of our own!!! 💕❤️💕

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  4. Ame says:

    Bloom – assuming you mean one of your family … Praying.

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  5. okrahead says:

    Young man: If I work/go to school/intern with her and call, I can be fired/expelled/arrested if she doesn’t like me, or if she likes me now and changes her mind later. My dad/uncle/older brother all got taken to the cleaner/fired in divorce court/campus Title IX hearing/HR sexual harassment hearing.

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  6. b g says:

    On a happier note, the sweetie is picking a bountiful raspberry year. My wife loved them too, even added them in her honey mead with champagne yeast. Added a little sugar to yield “champagne” that I thought kind of tasted like Cream Soda pop to me. But her girlfriends loved it, and because it was roughly the equivalent of a mixed drink which they never grasped, let alone the rapid effect because of the champagne. Many would try to go to have a pee and fall flat on their bum, I would try to help… but you have to be kind of careful about how you grab a female ;-D

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  7. RichardP says:

    Two thoughts come immediately to mind:

    – Tomorrow is promised to no one.
    – We don’t get to keep what we can’t defend.

    Well, a third though also comes to mind:

    – Stupid. Stupid. Stupid.
    With all of the tools out there to copy website contents, that is the only reason to loose it all.

    And, yet, he did.

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  8. RichardP says:

    A nice distraction. Good camerwork and musicianship. Topical too, sort of.

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  9. Cheque d'Out says:

    This is what happens when a man tries to have a serious and uncomfortable conversation on critical matters with a woman who refuses to engage with reality (because it’s awkward and icky and she’s in the fucking wrong and they both know it).
    Sick of politician jellyfish, they have no business in running anything beyond a bath.

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  10. May was spineless tho … so would that be bullying? 🤔

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  11. Cheque d'Out says:

    I gather that IQ tests are not a required part of the driving test wherever this is

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  12. Cheque d'Out says:

    Ruh-Roh the normie gamers have caught on to the woke nature of the game

    Plenty of choice if you’re looking on the used market, I understand.
    (I haven’t played either the original or sequel)

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  13. Is licensed to drive and vote in elections. I wonder why democracy is failing…

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  14. Cheque d'Out says:

    How hard is it to remember that the filler cap is on the same said of the car as you are?
    So pull up with the petrol pump next to you.

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  15. Liz says:

    Gracie is very popular at our house (Mike and the boys are into BJJ, MMA)
    Good to see this. They won’t put him on speed ticket detail.

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  16. Sumo says:

    How hard is it to remember that the filler cap is on the same said of the car as you are?
    So pull up with the petrol pump next to you.

    Y’all don’t have these in the UK?

    6251967c

    The arrow points to which side of the vehicle the gas cap is on. Standard on all vehicles in North America.

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  17. Sumo says:

    Which, it goes without saying, is what makes that dumb broad so very, very dumb.

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  18. Liz says:

    Could she even figure out the gas pump if and when, by means of chance (surely a monkey could do it faster), she’s able to get it on the right side?

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  19. “The reserve officers will help to provide training and outreach programs for the town’s police department, and will also receive law enforcement training.”

    So they swore in some non-cops to provide training to the actual cops?

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  20. I can’t recall seeing that in my truck, but it could be there. I just know which side the gas goes in because that’s where the gas goes in, if’n you get my meaning.

    Anyway, she’s going to go home and tell someone there’s something wrong with the gas station.

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  21. Cheque d'Out says:

    Cathy Lobster Newman of C4 nooze whines

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  22. Cheque d'Out says:

    A helpful man tries to explain things to her

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  23. Cheque d'Out says:

    Wondering what Penis Moron has been up to lately?

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  24. Cheque d'Out says:

    “The reserve officers will help to provide training and outreach programs for the town’s police department, and will also receive law enforcement training.”

    Sounds like what they did in one of the Robocop movies; they paralysed him with rules and guidance until he couldn’t do his job.

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  25. Cheque d'Out says:

    Time has clearly taken Cathy behind the shed for a good kicking. Perhaps it’s karma for all her bile and bigotry?

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  26. I have heard conflicting reports about the MC’s… fact or fiction?

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  27. Liz says:

    So they swore in some non-cops to provide training to the actual cops?

    Not as odd as you might think.
    The MPs at the last base received this training (as many as the extra funds could manage, at any rate…it covered many of them).
    15:17 to Paris is a live action example of the reason for this training.

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  28. theshadowedknight says:

    Ju jitsu training, so they are better prepared to hold people down and submit them without killing them.

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  29. okrahead says:

    The guy providing the training is ROYCE FREAKING GRACIE, UFC Hall of Famer, scion of the Gracie family that developed BJJ from Judo. So yeah, if he’s offering training, you take it, period.

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  30. Sumo says:

    That sounds like a terrible idea.

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  31. Ummm, yeah, not!

    https://www..twitter.com/mrwest45/status/1278096144954843136

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  33. I am not sure how we root out this like minded bunch, but it must be done. Who’s side are they on anyway?

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  34. Cill says:

    Why won’t he call?

    You ain’t worth the price. All sensible realistic men know their chances of ever meeting a good-value woman are only about one in five hundred grand. Their default position is that you’re just an itch to be gotten rid of with the least amount of fuss (i.e. sex only). No use complaining. With feminism as your wrecking ball, you made it this way.

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  35. Cill says:

    The hoses are long enough to reach the other side of the vehicle anyway. There are reels behind the covers above the bowsers. As Liz said, a chimp could have figured it out quicker.

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  37. RichardP says:

    Singing exercises the lungs, increases the heart rate, brings more oxygen to the brain, and encourages the production and release of endorphines. All of these are good antidotes to too much news.

    How can I keep from singing?
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_Can_I_Keep_from_Singing%3F

    My life goes on in endless song
    Above earth’s lamentations,
    I hear the real, though far-off hymn
    That hails a new creation.
    Through all the tumult and the strife
    I hear it’s music ringing,
    It sounds an echo in my soul.
    How can I keep from singing?
    While though the tempest loudly roars,
    I hear the truth, it liveth.
    And though the darkness ’round me close,
    Songs in the night it giveth.
    No storm can shake my inmost calm,
    While to that rock I’m clinging.
    Since love is lord of heaven and earth
    How can I keep from singing?
    When tyrants tremble in their fear
    And hear their death knell ringing,
    When friends rejoice both far and near
    How can I keep from singing?
    In prison cell and dungeon vile
    Our thoughts to them are winging,
    When friends by shame are undefiled
    How can I keep from singing?

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  38. RichardP says:

    And – a different presentation of the same song. As with most old songs, lyrics and melody and tempo change over time.

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  39. Cheque d'Out says:

    An analysis of the performance of the two foot nothing, kneecap agitating swamp-fraggle chief of London police.

    Thou shalt not try and hold a woman responsible for anything under any circumstances, it’s all your fault.

    Yesterday had Treeza May pop up in Parliament to have a tantrum over the sacking of her political placeman who had ridiculous power for a civil servant. He (Sedwill) is widely said to have controlled her every move, her every betrayal of Brexit, support for Huawei 5G.

    Dominic Cummings decided that he had to go.

    The political swamp draining has begun here, starting at the top

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  40. Cheque d'Out says:

    How is she still in her job, you might find yourself asking.
    Well, her boss is The Absolute Khant, mayor of culti-multi London

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  41. Cheque d'Out says:

    Kate Hoey, on the left of the image above, is a class act. Even if she is of the left.

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  42. Cheque d'Out says:

    Oh dear. After the PL (Premiere League of football) went all in with the blm trend and had players wearing special shirts and taking a knee, the rather awkward marxist views of the movement (anti-capitalist, antisemitic) have been made public. Oh dear, oh dear.

    Some of the fans are taking black power salutes and knee taking by multi-multi-millionaires rather badly. £££s may have been lost permanently.

    People just wanted to watch very well paid players of all colours play football. Who could have guessed how inserting politics into sport might backfire.


    *Crunching and grinding of someone trying to find reverse gear*

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  43. Cheque d'Out says:

    The Laba leader’s dilemma

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  44. Cheque d'Out says:

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  45. Cheque d'Out says:

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  50. Cheque d'Out says:

    Notice the past tense

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  51. Cheque d'Out says:


    Those place names might seem familiar to those following ‘certain’ scandals.

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  52. Liz says:

    Too bad about the CHOP.
    I thought it should go down on its own as it disintegrates without police involvement.

    Per that Randy Savage Never Shuts Up twitter, we have a friend who owns a gun shop in Miami. He says he’s never seen it this busy, and he has been in the business a long, long while.

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  53. Ame says:

    love those, Richard!

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  54. Liz says:

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  55. I’m perfectly fine with all professional sports/activities (NASCAR, Surfing, whatever) being de-rezzed by their displays of SJW ass-kissing. I’m also fine with college sports being down-sized by 95%, and we can start with ending athletic scholarships, which seem to bring in knuckleheads who can’t read but demand to be treated BETTER than everyone else.

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  56. Cheque d'Out says:

    This channel won’t be live for long. You can skip the first 10:30 (he’s playing guitar waiting for people to arrive)

    He’s a nice guy speaking from the heart. Which will be why he’ll disappear. Ex Royal Marine

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  57. Cheque d'Out says:

    Not watched this yet, saving the link

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  58. Cheque d'Out says:

    Yorkshire Tea was a good company that decided to jump on the latest SJW bandwagon

    Made me laugh

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  59. Cheque d'Out says:

    Sod it! I’m liking my own comment there. Sue me.

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  60. SFC Ton says:

    Why won’t he call?

    You spend more time talking then sucking his cock

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  61. SFC Ton says:

    Royce is well known here in the usa

    He’s not the family beast. And judo is a watered down version of ju jistu

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  62. Cheque d'Out says:


    The Absolute Khant, mayor of London

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  63. okrahead says:

    Ton,
    Helio Gracie thought judo was just “watered down jiu jitsu” until Masahiko Kimura disabused him of that notion in 1951 by more or less ripping his arm off (Kimura broke Gracie’s arm twice and was in the process of breaking it again when Gracie’s corner threw in the towel).
    Traditional Kodokan judo became Japan’s national sport and recognized national martial art as a result of Kano’s students defeating every other jiu-jitsu school in Japan in open matches. Judo itself has been watered down somewhat since Kano’s time; first by MacArthur’s rules placed on how it could be taught and practiced as part of Japan’s demilitarization following World War II; secondly after 1964 when judo became an Olympic sport and as a result had some dilution of its rules.
    Pre-64, and especially pre-WWII judo was the basis of most hand-to-hand combat training for many Western nations as well as Japan. Judo was first introduced to the Naval Academy by Teddy Roosevelt, who was himself the only President of the U.S. to date to hold advanced rank in any martial art (as far as I can determine, correct me if I’m wrong).
    And yes, Gracie jiu-jitsu, the foundation for all BJJ, was directly derived from Judo brought to Brazil by Mitsuyo Maeda.
    Just sayin’.

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  64. okrahead says:

    Additionally, the Marine Corps Martial Arts Program, Krav Maga and Taiho-jitsu (the Japanese police martial arts program) all make extensive use of judo techniques as part of their repertoire.

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  65. SFC Ton says:

    I learned Judo from a man who learned it from Gene Level and I’ve meet the Gracie’s. Eat with them a number of times, pissed of Royce(because I didn’t want our fighters to earn a belt/ pay a fee) , made Ruion laugh ( for the exact same thing)…. probably lucky it was in that order because Ruion was unreal….. scary unreal……had them in my house to plan a camp, been in their camps, here and in Brazil.

    Judo came about so ju jistu guys could test themselves without getting hurt to badly( I think ju Jistu as a term came about in the 1500’s and included learning to use swords and what not) … and the judo we know now came about because we made Japan demilitarize their various sports. Ju jistu shot callers went under ground…. the more combative part of judo were removed…. so they could perseve what they could of their tradtions….. apparently it was a big, big deal for all sorts of combat sports schools and tradtions. With men fighting and dying over going under ground and keeping it real or. modifying what they loved….. Judo has continue to get watered down because the rules of the sport keeps getting watered down to protect the athletes. We don’t even call them fighters. They are called practitioners because they are practicing a sport…. Never put a sport you love in the Olympics… but it is by its very creation a watered down version of the older ju jistu…. which is probably a watered down version of something else. But my history only goes back so far.

    Now sport ju jistu/ gi ju jistu is basically filling the pre Olympic judo gap, with no gi ju jistu filling the old’ish school ju jistu slot. No gi/ MMA pulls the ju jistu guys who want to be fighters

    Judo vs ju jistu ( or any other two schools you want to comapre) will come down to agreed upon rules and the fighters… if the exepeince level, fitness etc etc of the fighters are comparable…. which is why that’s a bad example of trying to make your point….. but as I stated judo is an Olympic sport these days and is very limited in scope because of rules desgined to protect the athletes, (Not fighters)…. which is why you see so many ju jistu dudes in mma vs judo dudes.

    I was also one of the guys the extra special cadre hit up to test various unarmed combat programs folks were trying to sell. It didn’t go very well for them and it’s also the 1st time I heard a man tell me he was to deadly to show me how deadly he was…..If anyone has a more over inflated combat reputation then the usmc it’s the kava maga guys. I use to challenge kava / scars/ fists etc schools and they all gave me the dim mak bullshit answer they were to deadly to prove how good they are. And thst was after i went down a lung. Even tried to pay them and they wouldn’t do it.

    There is another great ju jistu school in Brazail, independent of Garice jistu. Can’t recall the name… because there was more then one dude traveling around teaching. It’s still a big deal down there but not as popular up here because the Gracie clan happen to be amazing businessmen and really, really good at marketing on top of dedicated to their craft but their are some hard ass dudes in Brazil who will go to the mat over the notion Gracie ju jistu is the foundation of BJJ. And they stuff Gracie’s and Gracie trained fighters a,l the time. Anyrate the reason the Graci clan switch out of judo was to develop and learn a more pragmatic fighting style.

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