When I was in the process of being divorced, my ex would hard to humiliate me. My sin basically was not being good enough. I didn’t deserve it and felt that it reflected more on her than me. In fact, her friends and relatives (parents included) were on my side. In any case, being fully in my blue-pill days, I was starting to see some red-pill ideas.
In this situation, it is that in many cases, you can only be humiliated by an act if you allow yourself to be. Various responses along the lines of ZFG (Zero Fucks Given) (which I implemented in this case), calmly stating how this reflects poorly on the other then walking, or maybe Agree And Amplify could work. Your milage may vary. In short, this can be a twofer, upping your masculinity and defusing a potential weapon.
Exit Question — Would doing this be considered to be abuse?