What is the biggest miscalculation that young women make? Undoubtedly, there are many candidates.
Here is perhaps the highest one on the ladder: confusing the sexual marketplace with the marriage marketplace. It is easy enough to do with all of the intoxicating attention and the freebies.
So what precisely is the disconnect? Manosphere veterans all know. But as a service to naive young women, it will be explored here. It all starts with the fact that young men really, really want sex now. Marriage is on the back burner, maybe some time in the future. They are interested in one thing only, not an array of attributes.
For other men, many of them older, marriage is about finding the right woman. Typically the main criteria are that she is attractive and not a slut. Stable, low maintenance with fine life skills are also a plus. Note that almost all (except for attractiveness) are attributes discouraged by the sexual market place.
So there it is. What will you aim for?