I know of this women with two daughters. One is a lesbian, the other looks to be on the path. There is no father in sight, as she has a pre-disposition for choosing cads. There is an on and off boyfriend whose primary purpose is to use her for sex. It is a rather rocky relationship for them. She is intensely jealous and stalks him on facebook. He treated her poorly in general. She spends almost no time being a mother. The older daughter is raising the younger daughter.
If I were her daughter, I would see an example of relationships with men being more trouble than they were worth. Perhaps it is just better be a lesbian such that you don’t have to worry about that or children.
What is this situation the fruit of? Here are some possibilities
- Free sex, the new found right to pursue and have sex with cads that will disappear
- Unleashed jealousy directed at such cads
- Being allowed to ignore anything that resembles a rational life game plan
Please feel free to add your own