PUA’s and Game have been at a little bit mainstream for a decade now. Stuff has soaked in. Has there been a reaction to men trying to employ game?
According to anecdotes floating around the web, game is not as effective as it once was. Word has spread to women, and they are on the lookout.
So what is the result? The short answer — if your game is poor, it will be ineffective these days. Perhaps in times past, it might have worked, but it is mockable now. As we all know, women on the prowl, thinking they have all the power, do like to mock.
So what precisely is/was the problem. I am thinking that much of it comes from incongruity; that is, a fella implements some game concepts, but they are not at all what he really is inside. Women can sense the disconnect if they are looking for it, and often even when they are not. For example, a fella might act cooly confident, but in real-life he is anything but. Little incongruities can tip one off. Or a fella will try too hard, over-doing what ever technique he implementing, something one who is “real” would never do. In short – you have to be good.
How might one find success thes days. The first rule is to stay within yourself. Or at least mostly stay within yourself. Implement techniques that play to your already present strengths. Tweak them, improve them. Don’t provide tells.
It is probably true that this will result in less strong game, meaning less visible / less extravagant game. However, it could lead to more effective game.