From the TMI post RichardP asked,
Are the acquaintances evenly split between the two sexes. Or does this TMI activity take place more with one sex than the other?
I will ask
So I did ask. This is phenomenon is mainly just a guy thing. This makes sense form a certain perspective, as guys can be into publicizing their conquests. As for the women he knows; mostly his wife’s girlfriends, the answer is no. They are all college educated with various fluff degrees, with white collar careers, and would not benefit from outright advertising that they are sluts. Some things never change, guys don’t like sluts (at least for marriage), and all of these women have/had marriage aspirations.
These women are all wallish, with no solid prospects in sight. They are all alpha-widows. So basically they are ruined with respect to marriage. So I asked a bit more about their histories. It seems that they mostly had sex at the drop of a hat (to sexy/confident/wealthy guys). They had no problems at all with ONSes. The rationalization among their group was that “STD’s are inevitable, so it really doesn’t matter what we do.” This is all very odd, as the probability of catching and STD goes down quite a bit if you are not doing ONSes, as they are the kind of fellas most likely possessing STDS. But then again, I am sure they were the sexiest of the fellas. Short answer — one can still be slutty, but avoid ONSes if you want to lower your risk to STDs dramatically.
Of course, they are all puzzled and frustrated by their situation. The people who understand are afraid to tell them, so this cohort sails on toward the coast of Catland.