Roger Blakely over at RPG’s writes,
“You have a feminist bomb in you,” said Nicole Michelle (black red pill dating coach in Atlanta).
I have been meaning to post something on this topic for a week or so. I heard Nicole Michelle say this in a Youtube live show. It wasn’t until I read Fuzzie’s post that got the help that I needed to clarify it. Nicole Michelle was talking about how American women are so steeped in feminism that even traditional conservative young women adhere to feminist ideas without even realizing it. Nicole said that she as a Generation Xer was raised on reruns of Mary Tyler Moore (me too). Traditional conservative young women tell Nicole that they are not feminists. Then Nicole asks them as series of questions. These young women give feminist answers. Nicole then points out to them the feminism in their answers and says, “You have a feminist bomb in you.”
Aaron Clarey’s comment was key. He writes, “Women truly do want marriage and children more than anything else in the world. But their actions prove they effectively value their politics, careers, educations and feminism more.”
The point is that a young woman can get a young man to marry her, but sooner or later her core feminist values are going to express themselves, and she will blow up her marriage. I, by the way, come out of the feminist left, so traditional conservative values are foreign to me.
Nicole Michelle says that as a younger woman she listened to the bitter women around her and came to a point where blowing up her marriage seemed like a good idea. She is passionate about reaching out to young women so that they do not go down the path that she did and blow their marriage to smithereens. In that sense Nicole Michelle and Red Pill Girl are peas in a pod. Smithereens.
So what precisely is this Feminist Bomb? It is rebellious, impulsive behavior that has been encouraged by Feminism. Girls are steeped in it from birth. Even though these young women believe themselves to be conservatives (defined here as “not blatantly Feminists”), vestiges of Feminist Programming remain. It is just so hard to hold back the impulses, especially when you believe that you have to power to get away with them, and the backing of so many women when you try.
But what exactly are these conservative young women? They may come down many paths, but a commonality is that there is some type of belief certain behaviors/thinking are detrimental to their prospects. And they would be correct; for they are detrimental to long term prospects for sure, 99% guaranteed. For many, the goal, even if they can’t acknowledge it to themselves at the time, are kids and a healthy environment for them. Without even thinking things through, everybody can see that ambitious Feminist types make poor mothers (if they ever become mothers). It is also obvious that the town-bike path to motherhood is not a winning proposition. So, conservative it is.
Almost all men are never is such a temptation-rich positions. They must work/produce/be effective. Realism uber alles. No temptations there. No bomb potential as a result.
Many of these conservative women will feel put upon eventually (has anybody not seen this?). They just aren’t getting their due; they are just not getting what they want, what they feel they deserve. “Welcome to life” a fella might say. This is when the bomb start ticking. Tick, tock.