Let Me Fix This — Part I


From here,

Pay Chen remembers the moment she soured on dating apps. She was standing in a grocery store checkout line when she saw a man open up a dating app and start frantically swiping through profiles.

So, once again, we have one of these articles.  Let us all agree that when women want to get serious, they want to get serious.  Furthermore, getting married means more to women than men.  This is the starting point for these articles.

For some odd reason, these articles never really explain the true situation.  Perhaps it would be considered to be hurtful to do so.  Perhaps it would eat into subscriptions.  Perhaps, the journalists just can’t think any different than in the manner that they have become accustomed to since birth.

As a public service, I will explain things much more fully.

Chen, a single woman in her 30s living in Toronto, was appalled. But she’s since seen this happen again and again, in other grocery store lines, at the gym and elsewhere. “I’ve thought, oh my God, I hope I don’t come up! It’s that mindless and easy.”\

So she is on Tinder.  What does she expect?  Perhaps she isn’t so bright.  So she is in her 30’s in Toronto, the female entitlement capital of Canada.  Perhaps she feels that she is entitled to not be swiped.  This anecdote is just a poor way to lead off the article; it sets a poor tone.

She’s just one of many dating app users who’ve grown dissatisfied with the mechanical exercise of swiping for love – an act that now feels as dispassionate as scrolling through Netflix. For these disillusioned daters, it feels as though the golden age of online dating has ended – even though the sector appears to be booming. The US$3-billion American dating industry has seen a 140-per-cent increase in revenue since 2009, according to IBISWorld. The market research firm counts approximately 55 million mobile dating app users in North America alone, and estimates that number will grow by 25 per cent next year.

So the industry is booming.  Perhaps part of it is that there is a large cohort of people that are totally comfortable using the web for most everything; I am not sure if this is good or bad.  Anyway, it is big business.

Her primary issue is that she is looking for a long-term guy this time; one that satisfies all of her criteria.  Swiping makes trying to figure out if all of the criteria is met really hard.

Chen, for example, still uses dating apps, but does so begrudgingly. She and her girlfriends regularly send each other outrageous texts they receive from men and laugh about them. Others, such as Anna Heissler, a 26-year-old executive assistant also living in Toronto, describe the apps as a “necessary evil.” And others still are looking to slower forms of finding a mate online or throwing in the towel entirely, preferring instead to revert back to the old-fashioned ways of meeting someone: introductions from family and friends, chance meetings at a gym, or at singles events.

So what exactly are these outrageous texts?  Probably lots are related to DTF issues.  Are they outrageous from the fella’s perspective?  Perhaps not; if they are looking for a pump and dump candidate, best to get that resolved early.

Why are so many men looking for pump and dump candidates?  Lots of reasons, most of them related to how they have been treated by women in the past; be it mom divorcing dad, being friend-zoned too often, etc.

As for throwing in the towel entirely, women don’t do that.  They always have desire and hope.

An issue with the old-fashioned ways of meeting somebody is that the pool is limited; there are are only so many friends of friends, etc.  With the pool limited, it is difficult to find somebody who checks off all of must haves on the list.  Women won’t admit to this, but either consciously or subconsciously they think it.

In closing this segment, why are there so many articles like this, but never with any proposed real solutions that get to the heart of the matter?

BV Comments,

Tinder is the hook-up site, match.com is the marriage market (or where people pretend to be in the marriage market). Chen is in”her 30’s” (so, 42?) And is not getting enough attention on a hookup site. It’s a mystery!

The story of course ignores the 80/20 rule, nor does it even ask what sort of guy she wants, or what is the longest relationship she can reference. The story ignores all the basics. The story doesn’t post a Chen headshot.

The story’s reference to the moms organizing an audition for men, who comply with their qualification checklist, is eye-rolling. Why would a man with options audition?

It’s easy to meet men. Say “Hi! Love your jacket!” And smile. Probably best to understand which league you’re playing in, though.

Barry Diller runs Match and Tinder and a couple of others. (and Expedia and …). Story ignores how fast they’re still growing. Story quotes a sensitive male who also trashes men. It’s just a series of cliches that, in this year of our Lord, could have been written by an AI.

The 20% of men, in the main, whom Chen would rate “good enough” are likely her polar opposite. They’ve been married, have children, constructed a career, have a balance sheet. The Chens appear like aged ghosts from decades past.

It’s harder and harder to be charitable with these women and their culture.

I don’t know a single man who is the male equivalent of these perpetual “choose me choose me” females. Not one.

Deti critiques all,

So, once again, we have one of these articles. Let us all agree that when women want to get serious, they want to get serious. Furthermore, getting married means more to women than men. This is the starting point for these articles.

Yes, women want to get serious, but only after their carousel rides have concluded. And only when it’s time to

–have a baby

–show their parents they can do something without fucking it up

–do what their friends are doing

–retire (cuz sitting at a desk surfing the internet is sooooo hard)

For some odd reason, these articles never really explain the true situation. Perhaps it would be considered to be hurtful to do so. Perhaps it would eat into subscriptions. Perhaps, the journalists just can’t think any different than in the manner that they have become accustomed to since birth.

Journalists live in a bubble of coffee bars, wine and brie parties, work meetings, hookup apps, Democrat/liberal websites, and Hillary/Bernie supporters. Many of them don’t really KNOW the true situation.

More women, though, do know what the true situation is. They don’t talk about that true situation because the real reasons for the present situation make women look bad and because women do not want to take responsibility for their part in creating it.

And here’s what women’s responsibility is: Women wanted it all: All the benefits of marriage, none of the burdens. All the benefits of hot sexy sex with hot sexy men for as long as possible, but with none of the drawbacks.

But, life being what it is, burdens and consequences have a nasty way of showing up, and so here they are. Burdens: You marry a guy and have to *gasp* compromise and make it work and sometimes you won’t get everything you want. Welcome to this little thing we call REAL FUCKING LIFE. And they got consequences anyway, which are that the hot guys you like fucking won’t commit to you, because they don’t have to in order to get what they want.

The consequences showed up anyway, just 15 years later. You don’t get to marry that hot guy. You wouldn’t have gotten to marry him when you were 20, either. You’re now 35, and you end up marrying the guy who would have married you back then. Or a guy of even lesser quality than the ones who would have married you when you were 20.

But we can’t talk about all this, because it makes women look bad and it puts responsibility for the situation squarely upon their shoulders. Because nooooo, we cannot have women be accountable for anything and we cannot require them to take responsibility for anything. It always has to be someone else’s fault.

So she is on Tinder. What does she expect? Perhaps she isn’t so bright. So she is in her 30’s in Toronto, the female entitlement capital of Canada. Perhaps she feels that she is entitled to not be swiped. This anecdote is just a poor way to lead off the article; it sets a poor tone.

She’s on Tinder because she wants to hook up. Tinder is a hookup app. Yes, she feels like she’s entitled to not be swiped (left). She also doesn’t want anyone in, you know, actual real life to see her on there.

Women use dating apps but are kind of embarrassed to state in real life in their voices to actual real live humans that they use dating apps. I think there’s 2 reasons for it: (1) Because if you’re on a dating app, it says you lack the connections, the attractiveness, and/or the skills to actually interest someone in you in real life. It says you can’t make a connection in real life using your real life in real time interpersonal skills. It also says you tried doing that and failed, resulting in your resorting to a dating app.

(2) Women love using dating apps because it blows the doors off choice. The options are unlimited. Women can use online dating to meet men they’d never otherwise have a chance to meet. And they can use it to hook up more or less anonymously with men they just want sex with.

Women want to hook up with attractive men for anonymous sex. They very much enjoy sex with attractive men. But they don’t want people to KNOW this about them. And they don’t want to TALK ABOUT it. They want to do it. They want to preserve the secret society thing they’ve got going, where all women and the most attractive men are privy to what really goes down. And what’s really going down, the dirty little secret here, is that women very, very much will fuck you, pretty much right away, if they’re sexually attracted to you. And women will use whatever they can find at their disposal to get that done.

So the industry is booming. Perhaps part of it is that there is a large cohort of people that are totally comfortable using the web for most everything; I am not sure if this is good or bad. Anyway, it is big business.

The industry is booming because there is an ever increasingly large cohort of people whose social skills are so retarded that they are literally unable to meet people otherwise. (I mean retarded in the literal sense of the word: slowed down, developmentally delayed, stunted.) The industry is booming also because it makes it easier for people to hook up for rapid sex, and makes it easier for women to meet top 20% men for rapid sex. Online dating is a total boon to women and very attractive men for hookups. And ALL women, i mean ALL OF THEM, will do a hookup if the guy is attractive enough.

Her primary issue is that she is looking for a long-term guy this time; one that satisfies all of her criteria. Swiping makes trying to figure out if all of the criteria is met really hard.

They always say they’re looking for a long term guy. They can never find one online that meets ALL the criteria. Either (1) he’s a long term guy but he’s not sexually attractive enough; or (2) he’s hot but he has options so no way is he settling on her when he’s talking to about 8 other women just like her, all of whom he met on that same app.

So what exactly are these outrageous texts? Probably lots are related to DTF issues. Are they outrageous from the fella’s perspective? Perhaps not; if they are looking for a pump and dump candidate, best to get that resolved early.

“Outrageous” texts: Anything from an unattractive man. Unsolicited dick pics. “Hey baby u so sexxxxi”. THey’re not outrageous to men. We are pretty clear about what we want. We’re about sex, now. Women are about sex, now, but ONLY if they’re attractive men. So what this woman is complaining about is sifting through texts from unattractive men. Because to a woman, “outrageous” is having to deal with unattractive men.

What’s happened is that that “sifting” has moved from “meatspace” where it’s more subtle and less frequent; to cyberspace, where it’s more in your face and much, much more frequent. It takes balls and risk to approach a woman in real life. It takes a lot less risk to say “hey” to 100 women on your phone. Both statements are essentially “hi. I want to stick my dick into your pussy.” Online/in cyberspace, that statement just gets said more directly and more often.

Why are so many men looking for pump and dump candidates? Lots of reasons, most of them related to how they have been treated by women in the past; be it mom divorcing dad, being friend-zoned too often, etc.

We all know why, FB. Yes, all of what you said. Also, because other guys got to pump and dump, and less attractive guys learning Game and Red Pill want some of that action.

I don’t know that most of them are related to poor treatment by women. Men want to get their dicks wet. We are constantly looking for the most efficient and cost effective way to accomplish that. If pump and dumps get it done, we’re all for it. If FwB works, that’s fine too. If we have to get a girlfriend and “commit”, well, that’s more expensive, but we’ll do it. If we have to marry, we’ll do that too, if it’s a girl we’re more or less into and like having sex with and want to keep having sex with her, and she basically demands it.

At bottom, men get married because they’re ready for this woman to be the only woman they’ll have sex with , because they like having sex with her, because they want to keep having sex with her, and because they can stand living with her. And because they determine the anticipated benefits from marriage to her balance or are otherwise justified by the costs they’ll have to expend on said marriage. And, because she is demanding it and basically saying “it’s time for you to start really paying for the sex I’m giving you. We’re either getting married or I’m going to start giving that sex to other guys.”

That’s basically it. That’s the thought process behind why men get married.

As for throwing in the towel entirely, women don’t do that. They always have desire and hope.

Yes, but they’re entirely more pragmatic and gimlet-eyed about it than men are, and that pragmatism only increases with age.

An issue with the old-fashioned ways of meeting somebody is that the pool is limited; there are are only so many friends of friends, etc. With the pool limited, it is difficult to find somebody who checks off all of must haves on the list. Women won’t admit to this, but either consciously or subconsciously they think it.

Yes, and women don’t want to be limited. Which is one reason why they like online dating so much. Women also want to be able to have sex with men who their friends don’t know, so that people aren’t talking about their hookups.

If you’re having sex with men in your friends circle, everyone’s going to know about it. Not a big deal when you’re 17 or 18. It is kind of awkward when you’re around 27 or 28, looking for a “long term” thing, but need your itch scratched in the meantime and he’s just so haawwwwt i couldn’t help myself and on and on.

In closing this segment, why are there so many articles like this, but never with any proposed real solutions that get to the heart of the matter?

Deep breath.

Ready? Here we go.

Because we, in real life, and to a large extent on line and even in the Men’s Sphere, are never going to talk about what is really going on. Which is, to wit:

1) Men are, in the main, not attractive enough to get and keep one woman long term. They aren’t hot enough, they aren’t attractive enough, they don’t bring enough to the table. No matter how attractive they get, an increasing number of them will never get attractive enough.

2) Women do not need men for what men usually brought, which was protection and provisioning.

3) Men are responding to this by

a) doubling down on marriage and betaing out

b) GTOW

c) PUA/player/casual sex lifestyle

d) whining about it on the internet

e) Xbox/weed/porn/subsistence labor

4) Women are having sex with attractive men and marrying men they’re a lot, lot less attracted to than the men they used to have sex with.

Men’s dilemma: Either become upper middle class on up and marry for consolidation of material assets in what will likely become a dead bedroom marriage; OR if middle class on down, hunker down, eschew marriage and fatherhood, take what you can get sexually, and it’s every man for himself. It’s catch as catch can for men, sexually.

Women’s dilemma: Can get all the sex they want from hot men; can’t get one to stay with her. Can get men to stay with her, but doesn’t want to have sex with them. Must work and cultivate a “career” she doesn’t really want, which is one of the prices she pays for all that hawt sex.

There. I have now set out the entire problem in today’s sexual and relationship market places.

No one wants to talk about the ACTUAL solutions which would ACTUALLY solve these problems.

1) Repeal the 19th amendment giving women the vote.

2) Women: stop fucking bad boys, seek early marriage, use your youth and beauty to lock down the best men you can by age 25. Go work for some company somewhere and start dating the men there. Marry your boss, quit your job, have his babies, and take care of his house.

College? Sure, if you can do it. But it takes a decided back seat to finding a man for marriage, which should be every young woman’s absolute job 1 top priority. (Especially since they keep saying they want that so badly, all the time.) And get your family to help you pick out guys since you doing that yourself isn’t working very well.

Is that expensive? Yes. Is it difficult? You bet. Will it work? Oh, I dunno, worked for about TWO THOUSAND YEARS before, so, yeah, it could work now.

But, you women will have to compromise. You don’t get to have it all. At least, not at the same time. You are going to have to actually give things to the men you say you want to marry you.

3) Men: stop looking so hard for sex, build and create things for yourself, pick a job/career and get absolutely as good at it as you can. Become the best at whatever you do. Pick a hobby or two and enjoy that, preferably one that involves other humans. GET IN SHAPE, you fatasses. Stop putting up with bullshit from people. As for humans in general, either they add value to your life or you eliminate them from your life. No in between.

As for dealing with women: Have standards for them. Do not commit to any woman until you’re at least 25, and preferably older than that. Stop putting up with bullshit, hot/cold/hot/cold, and temper tantrums from women. Either she gives you what you want and steps into your relationship terms framework, or she is OUT. Either she is what you want or you kick her to the curb. Don’t even think about marriage until you’re at least 25, and preferably not until you’re 30. Any relationship you have with a woman will be on your terms, in your frame, or not at all.

But, see, women have laid bare the dirty little secret here.

They don’t really want to be married.

They want to be brides. They want to have Her Special Day In Which She Is The Princess. They want all the benefits of marriage. But they don’t want the obligations of marriage.

If women really wanted to be married, they’d lock down the best men they could by age 25. They’d put forth most of their effort in getting it done. They would make the necessary concessions to get it done.

I can see that women don’t want to be married. When you free them up and unmoor them from moral and social restraints, they have sex with the hottest men they can, as many hot men as they can, for as long as they possibly can. They exercise maximum control over everything around them, including their men and their sex lives.

Women in the west, today, are the freest, richest, most privileged humans ever to walk this planet. They can have literally whatever they want, any time they want. So if they want to be married, they can get that done.

And they don’t do it. Because they don’t want it.

 

 

Posted in Dating????, FarmBoy, Feminism, Hypergamy, Lies, Marriage
285 comments on “Let Me Fix This — Part I
  1. Farm Boy says:

    Joe, from the last thread met his wife on OKCupid. He liked the ability to describe and select criteria in a fine grained manner.

    His wife was an SJW, but Joe has dampened that. Her friends remain SJWs however.

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  2. BuenaVista says:

    Tinder is the hook-up site, match.com is the marriage market (or where people pretend to be in the marriage market). Chen is in”her 30’s” (so, 42?) And is not getting enough attention on a hookup site. It’s a mystery!

    The story of course ignores the 80/20 rule, nor does it even ask what sort of guy she wants, or what is the longest relationship she can reference. The story ignores all the basics. The story doesn’t post a Chen headshot.

    The story’s reference to the moms organizing an audition for men, who comply with their qualification checklist, is eye-rolling. Why would a man with options audition?

    It’s easy to meet men. Say “Hi! Love your jacket!” And smile. Probably best to understand which league you’re playing in, though.

    Barry Diller runs Match and Tinder and a couple of others. (and Expedia and …). Story ignores how fast they’re still growing. Story quotes a sensitive male who also trashes men. It’s just a series of cliches that, in this year of our Lord, could have been written by an AI.

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  3. BuenaVista says:

    The 20% of men, in the main, whom Chen would rate “good enough” are likely her polar opposite. They’ve been married, have children, constructed a career, have a balance sheet. The Chens appear like aged ghosts from decades past.

    It’s harder and harder to be charitable with these women and their culture.

    I don’t know a single man who is the male equivalent of these perpetual “choose me choose me” females. Not one.

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  4. SFC Ton says:

    Chicks don’t get dating is an economic issue. The ROI is pretty sketchy so the investment is minimal.

    No likely chain of events is going to change either side of that equation

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  5. Farm Boy says:

    The story ignores all the basics

    Why yes it does. Does the author realize this, or is she clueless?

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  6. Farm Boy says:

    BV is doing a rather good job fixing the article

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  7. Farm Boy says:

    These types of articles seem to have a “if she is there, she is worth it” perspective. Upon closer consideration. woukd they see how silly it is?

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  8. h0neyc0mb says:

    She .. and her friends (likely same ages) .. have hit the ASD zone.

    ASD = Anti-Slut Defense Zone

    Also men know about this zone (28 ish .. but mostly 30 thru 45 years old) .. and know if they aren’t putting out it’s because they want to settle-down ..

    And men don’t want that .. so they move on quickly .. better to find out if DTF or ASD without wasting time or money.

    She .. and her friends .. let their lottery tickets expire. I hope they have to continue to live the necessary evil they helped create for ever.and.a.day.

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  9. mgtowhorseman says:

    Wait for it….

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  10. Larry G says:

    BV, are you really an AI?

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  11. BuenaVista says:

    There’s the “If she’s there she’s worth it…” stuff. And frankly, that might be true. But self awareness in the female “in her 30s” SMP cohort is very rare. So they aim way too high.i think it’s also a defense mechanism, because the story they tell about themselves is that men unfairly reject them — so they choose uninterested men to further the narrative.

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  12. Farm Boy says:

    Life in Twenty-First Century — it is all about the narrative

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  13. BuenaVista says:

    The manosphere being what it is, guys are always peacocking about hustling young girls.

    The biggest blind spot I see with women 30+ is they don’t understand the huge gulf that exists between professional singles and someone who’s been part of a real couple. Ordering dinner is a cinch: a quick check to confirm and I order for both of us.

    Or a great compliment for a small thing. My ex-Gf and I were early risers and I would ask, night before, “Ok, what time out the door?” And at 5:30 am I’d be sitting in the entryway, dressed showered packed. Car warming. Once she said, “I love the way you are always ready to *move*.” And she compared me to some actor action hero. Professional singles have no idea how the smaller things, day to day over time, consistently applied, add comfort and value to a relationship. It’s just rando with them.

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  14. BuenaVista says:

    Tldr: relationship-living is a skill. Chen would have no idea what that means.

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  15. Ame says:

    The biggest blind spot I see with women 30+ is they don’t understand the huge gulf that exists between professional singles and someone who’s been part of a real couple. Ordering dinner is a cinch: a quick check to confirm and I order for both of us.

    Or a great compliment for a small thing. My ex-Gf and I were early risers and I would ask, night before, “Ok, what time out the door?” And at 5:30 am I’d be sitting in the entryway, dressed showered packed. Car warming. Once she said, “I love the way you are always ready to *move*.” And she compared me to some actor action hero. Professional singles have no idea how the smaller things, day to day over time, consistently applied, add comfort and value to a relationship. It’s just rando with them.

    so.well.written.

    it’s always the little things.

    occasionally i ask my Husband what he likes about me. almost every time he mentions something about my eyes and the way i look at him … and how i smile and greet him when he comes home from work … and how i respect and value him by a litany of little things i do. it always amazes me b/c sometimes i wonder if it’s enough, and for him, it’s always enough. but it’s always there, too. he knows when he’s had a bad day at work, when he walks in the door i’m going to smile when i greet him and be glad he’s home. he knows when i look at him i’ll be smiling and he can see in my eyes that i love him. these are intentional on my part b/c i know he likes it.

    – – –

    btw, BV … sorry she’s an ‘ex’ cause you’ve written a lot of nice things about her 😦

    [Thought that boobs what he liked they were]

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  16. Ame says:

    reading the OP and how much money these sites are making … perhaps it’s b/c y’all have enlightened me to the real world, but i wondered how many women in committed relationships are putting themselves on those things just for the validation b/c they need a ‘fix?’

    and … it comes down to … if you don’t want a guy to treat you like *that* … then don’t act like *that*. is that over-simplified and naive on my part?

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  17. Ame says:

    good to see you again Honeycomb!

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  18. Ame says:

    a bit of good news! Husband just told me his company moved their IT support back to the US from india! yay!

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  19. Cill says:

    Kamala Harris is a laugh, as are all those daft bints posing as presidential candidates for 2020. She put forward her Jamaican ethnicity as the reason she tried marijuana and now wants to legalize it. Her father objected to her whole proud Jamaican ethnicity being turned into the stereotype of a pot smoking joy seeker in the pursuit of identity politics.

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  20. Cill says:

    Might I add,

    BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

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  21. The news today is seriously out of hand. A bad day for fake crime folks. (Sorry not sorry — who does that?!?!?)

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  22. Cill says:

    More states in the USA are looking to legalize sports betting. Opponents say it will add to match-fixing and bribing of players etc. Well it can only add to what’s already happening. British bookies give odds on games all over the globe, regardless of legality of betting in the place where the games are played. If not placing the bet in a state where it’s illegal, the world can already bet on sports regardless of where the game is being played.

    If you want an expert in match-fixing, look at cricket and ask an Indian (if you can find one who’ll give you an answer without betting against it).

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  23. Cill says:

    In the Sandman lawsuit, his lawyers stated something along the lines of:
    In order to fully compensate Sandman and to punish, deter and teach the Washington Post a lesson it will never forget, this action seeks $250 million – the amount Jeff Bezos, the world’s richest person, paid for the Post when his company Nash Holdings purchased it in 2013.

    Wrong move. This is the type of crap the MSM would swallow hook line and sinker if it came from an intersectionality victim (it’s still all about judicial and political fear of the MSM even though the MSM is fucked). Sandman is white male.

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  24. SFC Ton says:

    Personally I am on team self-defense mechanism

    30 is a young woman for the legions of men up to and over 40 and about as young as most 40 year old dudes will go. It’s also about as old as most women will go without any serious double think. 28-40 is a seriously large pool of dudes; it’s also the age bracket where men start getting cagey….. Sort of that whole thing that men aren’t vacuum packed waiting on some bitch to pull him off the shelf.

    BV is a smart mother fucker with no shortage of keen observations. His bit about relationship skills is rather simple but brutally on point

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  25. SFC Ton says:

    I made good money off sports betting so I am on team keeping it illegal. A man has to have a side hussle

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  26. SFC Ton says:

    The Girls drank all my peach tea monsters so I take back all that shit about them

    I got nearly 800 miles to ride today, mostly in the rain and the bitches drank my monsters. Gonna make them pay for that shit

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  27. Cheque d'Out says:

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  28. Farm Boy says:

    The year is 2019. You’d think we’d be living in a progressive paradise by now, with energy-efficient trains crisscrossing the idyllic countryside, everyone being accepted for who they are—gay, bi, straight, or polygamous—and all people having equal access to free government breadlines.

    But no. In the actual year 2019 that Trump has created, gay people are still being forced to attack themselves in the streets. Gay people, especially black gay people, have been so brainwashed by the messaging of Trump’s America that they are now hiring people to oppress them right out in the open.

    This isn’t some third-world country where this is happening. This isn’t in some dystopian young adult fiction, where I get most of my political ideas. It’s here. It’s now. Every day, a gay person somewhere in this country hires a couple of Nigerian guys to make it look like he’s hated and oppressed.

    We need to take a good, hard look in the mirror, America, and ask ourselves if this is who we want to be. We have allowed an evil movement of Trump supporters to take over our nation so effectively that we’re now paying people to dress up like them and beat us up. This won’t stand any longer. The time has come to say, “No more!”

    May we look back a year from now and be able to declare proudly that the year is 2020 and the LGBT community is no longer compelled to pay people to oppress them. We owe it to our future, more progressive selves.

    https://babylonbee.com/news/opinion-its-2019-and-gay-people-are-still-being-forced-to-attack-themselves-in-the-streets

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  29. Farm Boy says:

    “At the beginning of October, more than four months into her campaign, AOC’s fundraising had been anemic. Excluding an in-kind contribution from Chakrabarti, she’d raised only $3,032.75 but had already spent $27,591.27 — more than half of which she’d paid to Chakrabarti’s Brand New Congress LLC,” Luke Thompson noted. “By the end of 2017 she’d spent $37,249.94 but raised only $8,361.03.”

    “That’s a lot of money to stick on a credit card. Since no loans are recorded on her campaign books, presumably either AOC or Roberts was fronting the necessary cash,” he added. “It looks to me like Chakrabarti was effectively reimbursing AOC for a third of her expenses with Brand New Congress LLC, perhaps so that she would stay in the race despite her mounting debt.”

    Chakrabarti “funneling money to Roberts – who [Ocasio-Cortez] says is her spouse – is unethical and maybe illegal. And AOC didn’t disclose this income, and didn’t claim Roberts as a spouse, in her candidate financial disclosures,” Thompson tweeted.

    https://pjmedia.com/trending/ocasio-cortez-boyfriend-troubles-reveal-the-corruption-at-the-heart-of-her-campaign/

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  30. Cheque d'Out says:

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  31. Cheque d'Out says:

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  32. Larry G says:

    A DEATH IN THE FAMILY

    A blonde goes to work in tears. Her boss asks, “What’s wrong?”

    She says, “My mom died.”

    He told her to go home, but she said, “No, I’ll be fine.”

    Later that day, her boss finds her crying again. He says, “What’s wrong?”

    She replies, “I just talked to my sister, and her mom died, too!”

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  33. Cheque d'Out says:

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  34. Farm Boy says:

    “I’m a conservative. I have been for a long time. I’m just not a big government guy,” Grammer said, straying off the topic of his performance in the English National Opera’s musical “Man of La Mancha.”

    “I do overhear the talk about Brexit and stuff and I think, ‘Well, why are they voting again for it?’” Grammer went on, referring to the impending departure of the United Kingdom from the European Union. “I think, well couldn’t you vote once?”

    “But that’s a bit like – we do this in America too these days,” he added. “It’s sort of like you keep voting until you get the result you want.

    https://www.bizpacreview.com/2019/02/19/kelsey-grammer-triggers-leftists-with-support-for-trumps-hard-hitting-stance-theyre-used-to-being-the-brats-725441

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  35. Larry G says:

    Q: What do American beer and having sex in a canoe have in common?

    A: They’re both fucking close to water.

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  36. Larry G says:

    A man tells his friend, “My wife is an angel.”

    His friend replies, “Lucky you. Mine’s still alive.”

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  37. Cheque d'Out says:

    Anna Sozzleberries, stalwart bar prop, one of yesterday’s tory party leaving MPs holds a phone in radio show this morning

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  38. Larry G says:

    Q: What do you call a nurse with dirty knees?

    A: The head nurse.

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  39. Larry G says:

    BLONDE NASA ENGINEER

    NASA sends a space shuttle up with two pigs and a blonde on board. While the shuttle is taking off, the NASA command center calls the first pig and asks, “Pig #1, do you know your mission?”

    The pig replies, “Oink oink. Get the shuttle into orbit and launch the trillion dollar satellite. Oink oink.”

    Then NASA asks the second pig, “Pig #2, do you know your mission?”

    The second pig replies, “Oink oink. Once Pig #1 has completed the trillion dollar satellite launch, close hatch and go back to Earth. Land shuttle. Oink oink.”

    Then NASA asks the blonde, “Blonde woman, do you know your mission?”

    The blonde woman replies, “Um. Oh yeah, I remember now. ‘Feed the pigs — and don’t touch a thing!'”

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  40. Larry G says:

    Q: What do you get when you find a dead blonde in a closet?

    A: The hide-and-seek champion of 1996.

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  41. Larry G says:

    BLONDE LOVE-HANDLES

    A blonde finds a lamp with a genie inside. He says, “I will grant you three wishes.”

    The blonde says, “For my first wish, I want my love handles to disappear.”

    The genie replies, “Your wish is my command.”

    The blonde exclaims, “Holy shit! What did you do with my ears?”

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  42. Larry G says:

    Q: How do you know when a blonde has a brain fart?
    A: Her ears flap.

    Q: What is a blonde’s definition of a naval destroyer?
    A: A hula hoop with a nail in it.

    Q: Why are Iranians so smart?
    A: Because none of them are blonde.

    ok, I’m done for now. Coffee time

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  43. Cheque d'Out says:

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  44. h0neyc0mb says:

    and … it comes down to … if you don’t want a guy to treat you like *that* … then don’t act like *that*. is that over-simplified and naive on my part?

    My answer is the distracted mind requires constant stimuli .. of course that’s how tbey became that way ..

    Most if not ALL MODERN WIMMINZ I have contact with have this problem to some extent.

    These distractions (phone / social media / etc) produce the same effect as a herion addict taking a hit. And just like herion it requires more ans more to get that same level of pleasure.

    Drug addicts are never fully cured in my view.

    And these Rech Companies know that. And the best part is they willingly consent to this abuse of them .. over and over again.

    There is a rape culture in America / Westetn World .. and it’s being used by the Digital Elites.

    These wimminz (and some men) didn’t have a chance.

    Try telling a Tech Addict to go without their toys / pleasures.

    You’ll see a melt-down.

    In view .. anyone that needs these apps are drug addicts .. and I don’t date drug addicts. And unlike drug addiction .. we don’t have professional help for them.

    We need a hard reset to solve this problem now.

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  45. Larry G says:

    My, my…the chocolate fruitcake is finally canned and ready to ship….maybe he should have paid a little more to hire white guys to stage the “attack” on him…

    https://www.cnn.com/2019/02/21/entertainment/jussie-smollett-thursday/index.html

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  46. h0neyc0mb says:

    Tech Companies not Rech Companies .. lol

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  47. Larry G says:

    HEAVENLY MARITAL HELP

    Betty and Tim die in a car accident on the eve of their wedding. In Heaven, they ask St. Peter if they can still be married.

    “Well, let me find out if this is possible. Stay here and I will be right back.”

    Six months pass and Peter returns. “Yes, we can do this for you.”

    The couple asks, “Well, as we have spent so much time together waiting for your answer, we need to know that if things don’t work out, is there a possibility that we can be divorced?”

    To which St. Peter answers, “It took me six months to find a priest up here — how long do you think it will take me to find a lawyer?”

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  48. Cheque d'Out says:

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  49. thedeti says:

    What’s the first thing a blonde says after sex?

    “Who are you guys?”

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  50. h0neyc0mb says:

    I do love me some blonde (wimminz) ..

    ..

    jokes.

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  51. Larry G says:

    Q: How are blondes and computers similar?
    A: You never appreciate them until they go down on you.

    Q: How do you make a blonde’s brain the size of a pea?
    A: Inflate it.

    A blonde orders a pizza and is asked if she wants it cut into six or 12 pieces.
    She responds, “Six, please. I could never eat 12 pieces.”

    Q: Why don’t blondes take birth control pills?
    A: The pills keep falling out.

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  52. Cheque d'Out says:

    “Orange Woman?”

    Anna Sozzleberries, one of the tory splitters. I’m glad that she’s gone. She’ll be gone completely at the next election. She’s dug in deeper than an Alabama tick right now, fighting against any suggestion of triggering an immediate by-election for her seat.

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  53. Larry G says:

    LITTLE RED’S GRANNY

    Little Red Riding Hood went to her grandma’s house and found her laying in bed.

    Little Red Riding Hood said, ”Grandma, what big eyes you have!”

    Grandma: ”The better to see you with, my dear.”

    Little Red Riding Hood: ”Grandma, what big ears you have!”

    Grandma: “The better to hear you with, my dear.”

    Little Red Riding Hood: ”Grandma, what a big mouth you have!”

    Grandma: ”Of course I do, have you seen Grandpa’s dick?!?”

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  54. Larry G says:

    Louis, the French Fighter Pilot, was lying with his mistress naked in bed. As he was kissing her red, red lips, he stopped.
    “To kiss your red lips, I need red wine.” So he poured red wine over her lips and continued to kiss her. He moved on to her white, white breasts.
    “To kiss your white breasts, I need white wine.” So he poured white wine over her breasts and continued to kiss them. He then moved on to her bush. He poured brandy all over it and set it alight.
    “Louis!” she screamed. “What are you doing?”
    “Baby,” he said, “when I go down, I GO DOWN IN FLAMES!”

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  55. BuenaVista says:

    This week in American ingenuity: Ziptie your flesh wounds, skip the resident with shaky hands at the emergency room.

    https://zipstitch.us

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  56. thedeti says:

    Farm Boy:

    I don’t have much better to do at the moment so i’m going to pick apart your commentary.

    So, once again, we have one of these articles. Let us all agree that when women want to get serious, they want to get serious. Furthermore, getting married means more to women than men. This is the starting point for these articles.

    Yes, women want to get serious, but only after their carousel rides have concluded. And only when it’s time to

    –have a baby

    –show their parents they can do something without fucking it up

    –do what their friends are doing

    –retire (cuz sitting at a desk surfing the internet is sooooo hard)

    For some odd reason, these articles never really explain the true situation. Perhaps it would be considered to be hurtful to do so. Perhaps it would eat into subscriptions. Perhaps, the journalists just can’t think any different than in the manner that they have become accustomed to since birth.

    Journalists live in a bubble of coffee bars, wine and brie parties, work meetings, hookup apps, Democrat/liberal websites, and Hillary/Bernie supporters. Many of them don’t really KNOW the true situation.

    More women, though, do know what the true situation is. They don’t talk about that true situation because the real reasons for the present situation make women look bad and because women do not want to take responsibility for their part in creating it.

    And here’s what women’s responsibility is: Women wanted it all: All the benefits of marriage, none of the burdens. All the benefits of hot sexy sex with hot sexy men for as long as possible, but with none of the drawbacks.

    But, life being what it is, burdens and consequences have a nasty way of showing up, and so here they are. Burdens: You marry a guy and have to *gasp* compromise and make it work and sometimes you won’t get everything you want. Welcome to this little thing we call REAL FUCKING LIFE. And they got consequences anyway, which are that the hot guys you like fucking won’t commit to you, because they don’t have to in order to get what they want.

    The consequences showed up anyway, just 15 years later. You don’t get to marry that hot guy. You wouldn’t have gotten to marry him when you were 20, either. You’re now 35, and you end up marrying the guy who would have married you back then. Or a guy of even lesser quality than the ones who would have married you when you were 20.

    But we can’t talk about all this, because it makes women look bad and it puts responsibility for the situation squarely upon their shoulders. Because nooooo, we cannot have women be accountable for anything and we cannot require them to take responsibility for anything. It always has to be someone else’s fault.

    More in next post. This is too long.

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  57. Liz says:

    Heh, I hadn’t heard of zipstitch, that’s a great link we’ll add it to our emergency kit. 🙂
    Related side note that might be of interest to people, they’ve found that tap water (your basic potable stuff that is) works as well as purified saline for wound cleansing. The most important thing is fluid pressure…so just running tap water won’t suffice you’ll need to apply water pressure to the injury. That cuts through the biofilm that sticks to the injury and it’s typically the source of infection. With pressure, tap water works as well as saline and better than just H2O2.

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  58. thedeti says:

    So she is on Tinder. What does she expect? Perhaps she isn’t so bright. So she is in her 30’s in Toronto, the female entitlement capital of Canada. Perhaps she feels that she is entitled to not be swiped. This anecdote is just a poor way to lead off the article; it sets a poor tone.

    She’s on Tinder because she wants to hook up. Tinder is a hookup app. Yes, she feels like she’s entitled to not be swiped (left). She also doesn’t want anyone in, you know, actual real life to see her on there.

    Women use dating apps but are kind of embarrassed to state in real life in their voices to actual real live humans that they use dating apps. I think there’s 2 reasons for it: (1) Because if you’re on a dating app, it says you lack the connections, the attractiveness, and/or the skills to actually interest someone in you in real life. It says you can’t make a connection in real life using your real life in real time interpersonal skills. It also says you tried doing that and failed, resulting in your resorting to a dating app.

    (2) Women love using dating apps because it blows the doors off choice. The options are unlimited. Women can use online dating to meet men they’d never otherwise have a chance to meet. And they can use it to hook up more or less anonymously with men they just want sex with.

    Women want to hook up with attractive men for anonymous sex. They very much enjoy sex with attractive men. But they don’t want people to KNOW this about them. And they don’t want to TALK ABOUT it. They want to do it. They want to preserve the secret society thing they’ve got going, where all women and the most attractive men are privy to what really goes down. And what’s really going down, the dirty little secret here, is that women very, very much will fuck you, pretty much right away, if they’re sexually attracted to you. And women will use whatever they can find at their disposal to get that done.

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  59. BuenaVista says:

    Well, in the woods one doesn’t have a pressurized water source. What I just bathe it in water and pour isopropyl alcohol or bourbon all over it?

    Thanks. I didn’t know that that, about water vs. saline solution.

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  60. BuenaVista says:

    One of my sordid dating experies: I was seeing a woman in NYC who had two boys. Things progressed. We started doing things with the boys: meals, a hike, play ball in the park. Then I found her profile on OKC.

    I ended the relationship. I felt I was involving my son in something trivial.

    She was furious. “I was just having fun, what are you so worked up about?”

    Per The Deti. No one is supposed to know about such things.

    Too bad. She is from my hometown and her family has a nearby lake house. Once a year she’s out here, single, and we have dinner.

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  61. BuenaVista says:

    The other thing woke single women don’t get: some guys don’t want to catch some other guys social disease. Want to witness true shock followed by anger? Ask a single girl “Have you ever been treated for an STD?”

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  62. h0neyc0mb says:

    She was furious. “I was just having fun, what are you so worked up about?”

    Likely she doesn’t understand men anymore than Hernando Cortes’s men understood their leader pre-sail. [1]

    [1] .. Hernando Cortes .. destroyed 11 of 12 ships to motivate his crew(s) to follow him once he reached his destination.

    Conclusion:
    The analogy is that if a woman was seriois about a guy .. she too would destroy all ships but one (1).

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  63. thedeti says:

    So the industry is booming. Perhaps part of it is that there is a large cohort of people that are totally comfortable using the web for most everything; I am not sure if this is good or bad. Anyway, it is big business.

    The industry is booming because there is an ever increasingly large cohort of people whose social skills are so retarded that they are literally unable to meet people otherwise. (I mean retarded in the literal sense of the word: slowed down, developmentally delayed, stunted.) The industry is booming also because it makes it easier for people to hook up for rapid sex, and makes it easier for women to meet top 20% men for rapid sex. Online dating is a total boon to women and very attractive men for hookups. And ALL women, i mean ALL OF THEM, will do a hookup if the guy is attractive enough.

    Her primary issue is that she is looking for a long-term guy this time; one that satisfies all of her criteria. Swiping makes trying to figure out if all of the criteria is met really hard.

    They always say they’re looking for a long term guy. They can never find one online that meets ALL the criteria. Either (1) he’s a long term guy but he’s not sexually attractive enough; or (2) he’s hot but he has options so no way is he settling on her when he’s talking to about 8 other women just like her, all of whom he met on that same app.

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  64. h0neyc0mb says:

    I’ve met ONE truly open and honest (as they come) womminz in my life ..

    She was very ashamed at her Clam-Media story.

    But she was a reckless girl .. never having protected sex ..

    To atupid for me .. pass .. though she was not upset I asked or nexted her. Which was a shock for me .. I expected the opposite .. so I found the true 0.0000001% girl we talk about her as ideal .. and she wasn’t.

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  65. Cheque d'Out says:

    Warning – Following comment might be alcofrol affected, just treated myself after finishing up a job early. On an empty stomach

    One of the things that I love about male spaces that have arguments and misunderstandings…is that people move the fuck on.

    No years of backbiting and simmering victimhood. No endless drama.

    Just think how much female society would benefit from that…

    I love being male. Though I’m glad that females aren’t the same in every way. Vive some of les differences. A male world would be sane but lacking in some regards

    *hic*

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  66. Larry G says:

    Tsk, tsk…..”Following comment might be alcofrol affected, just treated myself after finishing up a job early. On an empty stomach”

    that is why God created pretzels on the 9th day, so this kind of shit can be avoided…

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  67. Cheque d'Out says:

    I like that zipstitch thing. I had a mate who had a vehicular misfortune, I was not at all impressed with the medical ‘treatment’ that he received for the gash in his chin.

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  68. Farm Boy says:

    Men care more about women’s promiscuity than vice versa. We all know why. Apparently women never get the memo

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  69. Cheque d'Out says:

    Yeah but I have steak for tea and I don’t want to spoil my appetite

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  70. Larry G says:

    just seems that being female is a lot of useless fucked up effort

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  71. Liz says:

    Well, in the woods one doesn’t have a pressurized water source. What I just bathe it in water and pour isopropyl alcohol or bourbon all over it?

    Ouch! 😆
    Heh, if you have a plastic bottle, fill it then cut a hole in it (or slice) that’s big enough to let out some water flow and squeeze it to create the pressure (just thinking…a camel back might work too). Sucks to lose water when you need it so it’s cost to gains, but you never know. 🙂

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  72. Cheque d'Out says:

    Yes, Larry, but sadly for them that’s not my fault and I don’t care to listen to the whining about it. Similar to white guilt, I don’t do original sin.

    We all get born and then have to live with our reality. If you’re rich you have better options. Which while that might sound un-fay-urr to the kids, beats the shit out of communism.

    Hint to commie NPCs; don’t just whine about modern society, offer something better. And communism has never worked, and never will, because it doesn’t understand people

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  73. h0neyc0mb says:

    They get the memo ..

    They just don’t see any repo-cushions for those mis-deeds.

    They certainly know how to act like a chasted womminz when necessary .. so its all an act.

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  74. Larry G says:

    uh oh…time for gratuitous images again – Siberian women this time

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  75. thedeti says:

    So what exactly are these outrageous texts? Probably lots are related to DTF issues. Are they outrageous from the fella’s perspective? Perhaps not; if they are looking for a pump and dump candidate, best to get that resolved early.

    “Outrageous” texts: Anything from an unattractive man. Unsolicited dick pics. “Hey baby u so sexxxxi”. THey’re not outrageous to men. We are pretty clear about what we want. We’re about sex, now. Women are about sex, now, but ONLY if they’re attractive men. So what this woman is complaining about is sifting through texts from unattractive men. Because to a woman, “outrageous” is having to deal with unattractive men.

    What’s happened is that that “sifting” has moved from “meatspace” where it’s more subtle and less frequent; to cyberspace, where it’s more in your face and much, much more frequent. It takes balls and risk to approach a woman in real life. It takes a lot less risk to say “hey” to 100 women on your phone. Both statements are essentially “hi. I want to stick my dick into your pussy.” Online/in cyberspace, that statement just gets said more directly and more often.

    Why are so many men looking for pump and dump candidates? Lots of reasons, most of them related to how they have been treated by women in the past; be it mom divorcing dad, being friend-zoned too often, etc.

    We all know why, FB. Yes, all of what you said. Also, because other guys got to pump and dump, and less attractive guys learning Game and Red Pill want some of that action.

    I don’t know that most of them are related to poor treatment by women. Men want to get their dicks wet. We are constantly looking for the most efficient and cost effective way to accomplish that. If pump and dumps get it done, we’re all for it. If FwB works, that’s fine too. If we have to get a girlfriend and “commit”, well, that’s more expensive, but we’ll do it. If we have to marry, we’ll do that too, if it’s a girl we’re more or less into and like having sex with and want to keep having sex with her, and she basically demands it.

    At bottom, men get married because they’re ready for this woman to be the only woman they’ll have sex with , because they like having sex with her, because they want to keep having sex with her, and because they can stand living with her. And because they determine the anticipated benefits from marriage to her balance or are otherwise justified by the costs they’ll have to expend on said marriage. And, because she is demanding it and basically saying “it’s time for you to start really paying for the sex I’m giving you. We’re either getting married or I’m going to start giving that sex to other guys.”

    That’s basically it. That’s the thought process behind why men get married.

    As for throwing in the towel entirely, women don’t do that. They always have desire and hope.

    Yes, but they’re entirely more pragmatic and gimlet-eyed about it than men are, and that pragmatism only increases with age.

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  76. Larry G says:

    CdO,
    “Yes, Larry, but sadly for them that’s not my fault and I don’t care to listen to the whining about it. Similar to white guilt, I don’t do original sin.”

    Agreed. I had a rather intense but brief communication with my feminist sister a couple years back; went something like this…..

    Her “You are a chauvinist pig and you put down women!”

    Me “Look deep into my big brown eyes and you’ll see I don’t really give a fuck. Bye, bitch.”

    End of conversation.

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  77. Cheque d'Out says:

    Can you ever get a liberal to condemn another liberal? Is it even possible?

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  78. Cheque d'Out says:

    Documentary based on The Battle of the River Plate and its aftermath

    You know? The Battle of the River Plate. One of those films that I keep mentioning (because it’s a hell of a film) but haven’t yet done ‘that post’ about such films.

    Clearly the documentary contains SPOILERS for the fact based film

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  79. thedeti says:

    An issue with the old-fashioned ways of meeting somebody is that the pool is limited; there are are only so many friends of friends, etc. With the pool limited, it is difficult to find somebody who checks off all of must haves on the list. Women won’t admit to this, but either consciously or subconsciously they think it.

    Yes, and women don’t want to be limited. Which is one reason why they like online dating so much. Women also want to be able to have sex with men who their friends don’t know, so that people aren’t talking about their hookups.

    If you’re having sex with men in your friends circle, everyone’s going to know about it. Not a big deal when you’re 17 or 18. It is kind of awkward when you’re around 27 or 28, looking for a “long term” thing, but need your itch scratched in the meantime and he’s just so haawwwwt i couldn’t help myself and on and on.

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  80. Cill says:

    BV “so they choose uninterested men to further the narrative.”

    Interesting thought! I attract them without trying, and never entirely understood why. It has to be more than looks and size. There are better looking men and taller men than I, who don’t attract women as much. I always put it down to masculinity but suspected there must be something else. “Uninterested” is a definite possibility. Most women bore me.

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  81. thedeti says:

    In closing this segment, why are there so many articles like this, but never with any proposed real solutions that get to the heart of the matter?

    Deep breath.

    Ready? Here we go.

    Because we, in real life, and to a large extent on line and even in the Men’s Sphere, are never going to talk about what is really going on. Which is, to wit:

    1) Men are, in the main, not attractive enough to get and keep one woman long term. They aren’t hot enough, they aren’t attractive enough, they don’t bring enough to the table. No matter how attractive they get, an increasing number of them will never get attractive enough.

    2) Women do not need men for what men usually brought, which was protection and provisioning.

    3) Men are responding to this by

    a) doubling down on marriage and betaing out

    b) GTOW

    c) PUA/player/casual sex lifestyle

    d) whining about it on the internet

    e) Xbox/weed/porn/subsistence labor

    4) Women are having sex with attractive men and marrying men they’re a lot, lot less attracted to than the men they used to have sex with.

    Men’s dilemma: Either become upper middle class on up and marry for consolidation of material assets in what will likely become a dead bedroom marriage; OR if middle class on down, hunker down, eschew marriage and fatherhood, take what you can get sexually, and it’s every man for himself. It’s catch as catch can for men, sexually.

    Women’s dilemma: Can get all the sex they want from hot men; can’t get one to stay with her. Can get men to stay with her, but doesn’t want to have sex with them. Must work and cultivate a “career” she doesn’t really want, which is one of the prices she pays for all that hawt sex.

    There. I have now set out the entire problem in today’s sexual and relationship market places.

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  82. h0neyc0mb says:

    Cill .. I think it’s more “indifference” than “uninterested” ..

    But .. I can’t say either way really.

    I know this though .. an indifferent man is a mystery to wimminz .. cuz their whole lives they’ve had th womminz privilege of male attention ..

    And any man that doesn’t act like those other dudes must be a mystery.

    Either way Cill .. soak it up and smile .. wimminz love a good mystery 😎

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  83. Farm Boy says:

    I know this though .. an indifferent man is a mystery to wimminz .. cuz their whole lives they’ve had th womminz privilege of male attention ..

    I have had this happen. It is real. A shock when another form of entitlement doesn’t happen the way it is supposed to

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  84. Cill says:

    h0neyc0mb, point taken. Either way, the “further the narrative” aspect of BV’s comment is intriguing.

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  85. thedeti says:

    No one wants to talk about the ACTUAL solutions which would ACTUALLY solve these problems.

    1) Repeal the 19th amendment giving women the vote.

    2) Women: stop fucking bad boys, seek early marriage, use your youth and beauty to lock down the best men you can by age 25. Go work for some company somewhere and start dating the men there. Marry your boss, quit your job, have his babies, and take care of his house.

    College? Sure, if you can do it. But it takes a decided back seat to finding a man for marriage, which should be every young woman’s absolute job 1 top priority. (Especially since they keep saying they want that so badly, all the time.) And get your family to help you pick out guys since you doing that yourself isn’t working very well.

    Is that expensive? Yes. Is it difficult? You bet. Will it work? Oh, I dunno, worked for about TWO THOUSAND YEARS before, so, yeah, it could work now.

    But, you women will have to compromise. You don’t get to have it all. At least, not at the same time. You are going to have to actually give things to the men you say you want to marry you.

    3) Men: stop looking so hard for sex, build and create things for yourself, pick a job/career and get absolutely as good at it as you can. Become the best at whatever you do. Pick a hobby or two and enjoy that, preferably one that involves other humans. GET IN SHAPE, you fatasses. Stop putting up with bullshit from people. As for humans in general, either they add value to your life or you eliminate them from your life. No in between.

    As for dealing with women: Have standards for them. Do not commit to any woman until you’re at least 25, and preferably older than that. Stop putting up with bullshit, hot/cold/hot/cold, and temper tantrums from women. Either she gives you what you want and steps into your relationship terms framework, or she is OUT. Either she is what you want or you kick her to the curb. Don’t even think about marriage until you’re at least 25, and preferably not until you’re 30. Any relationship you have with a woman will be on your terms, in your frame, or not at all.

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  86. thedeti says:

    But, see, women have laid bare the dirty little secret here.

    They don’t really want to be married.

    They want to be brides. They want to have Her Special Day In Which She Is The Princess. They want all the benefits of marriage. But they don’t want the obligations of marriage.

    If women really wanted to be married, they’d lock down the best men they could by age 25. They’d put forth most of their effort in getting it done. They would make the necessary concessions to get it done.

    I can see that women don’t want to be married. When you free them up and unmoor them from moral and social restraints, they have sex with the hottest men they can, as many hot men as they can, for as long as they possibly can. They exercise maximum control over everything around them, including their men and their sex lives.

    Women in the west, today, are the freest, richest, most privileged humans ever to walk this planet. They can have literally whatever they want, any time they want. So if they want to be married, they can get that done.

    And they don’t do it. Because they don’t want it.

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  87. Larry G says:

    “When you free them up and unmoor them from moral and social restraints, they have sex with the hottest men they can, as many hot men as they can, for as long as they possibly can. They exercise maximum control over everything around them, including their men and their sex lives.

    Women in the west, today, are the freest, richest, most privileged humans ever to walk this planet. They can have literally whatever they want, any time they want. So if they want to be married, they can get that done.”

    like all living creatures, women eventually die….so it’s really a moot point how much these silly bitches think they have actually “won”

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  88. thedeti says:

    Larry G:

    And women don’t really want to commit. They don’t really want to limit themselves to one man because that limits their choices and options. Once they marry, that’s it, or at least that is supposed to be it. They can’t keep choosing. They can’t get out of it. They have to live with that choice. They have to make it work. They can’t go back and get a “do over”. They have to make a choice and make the best of it they possibly can.

    But we’ve reengineered all of society to eliminate all of that. For women, now, even after they marry, they can keep choosing. They can get out of it. They don’t have to live with that choice if they’re unhappy with it and they don’t have to make it work. They can go back and “do over”, either by remarrying or heading back out to the carousel.

    It used to be like this for men. Men married, and after the kids were born, usually stopped having sex and did without. Or, they got sidepieces if they were high status enough, or paid hookers if they weren’t. Because, it was simply de rigueur that once the kids were born, the wife didn’t “have to have sex anymore”. And men dealt with it – by doing without, or by taking mistresses or seeing hookers on the downlow. Women didn’t like it, but they put up with it. SOciety and social rules enabled this for men. For men, the preferred sexual strategy is variety, as much as possible, all the time.

    Now, society and social rules enable this for women. For women, the preferred sexual strategy is serial monogamy. All of society is set up to make serial monogamy as easy as possible for as many women as want it. DIvorce is easy. Not only can they get divorces, women can force their ex husbands to pay them for years – all they have to do is say “I am mother, give me my kids” and poof! Instant income stream until last kid is 18. (They want the kids because the kids represent entitlement to lots of money, which funds their going back out to get a better man.)

    She can have sex with whomever she wants, whenever she wants, and no one gets to say anything about it. Men are not allowed, socially, to have standards for the women they date. Men are not allowed to ask women about their pasts – they are shamed mercilessly for even expressing concern about it.

    That’s how it works now.

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  89. Larry G says:

    Deti, I do not disagree with your evaluations on the modern sleaze-sluts here in west that get passed off as women…you are accurate.
    Because the females were degrading long before the internet, computers and hookup apps existed, after disposing of my ex in an environmentally friendly way, I went MGTOW for awhile and left the US of A for quite some time.
    When I found a foreign virgin girl that would do nicely as a wife, I skipped all the trivial intermediate bullshit and just bought her from her father for cash…

    I have zero fucking sympathy or concern about the modern sluts, men ought to use them as nature intended, dispose of, rinse and repeat. Women are property and must be managed well.

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  90. thedeti says:

    I’ll be quiet now. I’ve dirtied up this thread enough.

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  91. Larry G says:

    oh hell no!
    “I’ll be quiet now. I’ve dirtied up this thread enough.”

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  92. Larry G says:

    I have not heard anyone recently bitch about someone writing too much on any topic, have you?

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  93. Larry G says:

    “She can have sex with whomever she wants, whenever she wants, and no one gets to say anything about it. Men are not allowed, socially, to have standards for the women they date. Men are not allowed to ask women about their pasts – they are shamed mercilessly for even expressing concern about it. That’s how it works now.”

    Because western men are allowing that kind of female bullshit behavior to happen. When it becomes extremely painful and unproductive for women to act like sluts, when lethal terror is back in their black little hearts, this female rebellion could end rather quickly

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  94. Cheque d'Out says:

    “I’ll be quiet now. I’ve dirtied up this thread enough.”

    Never too much truth in a thread. It’s not possible.

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  95. Cheque d'Out says:

    Every immense thundercloud has a tiny silver foil lining, I guess

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  96. BuenaVista says:

    ” Furthering the narrative” that men are lower order beasts who only think about sex, is very useful if a woman tells the story that women *never* think about sex.

    (Anecdote here about Sunday afternoon conversation with middle aged heavy woman, with whom I had a pleasant conversation about cross-country skiing. (Not sure what I’m supposed to do with the phone number she proffered.)

    As a mature man, I would slightly modify Deti’s premise. As I age out, money supercedes looks. I am a handsome motherfucker, goes without saying, but if I show up in insulated bibs, boots with pig shit and a Pioneer hoody, I’m invisible. If I wear Gucci’s and a good jacket I had made, It’s “Who are you?” time.

    I know I’m getting older because the 20-somethings who flirt are getting fatter and fatter.

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  97. Larry G says:

    “Every immense thundercloud has a tiny silver foil lining, I guess”

    Or possibly a lightning bolt with my name on it primed to vaporize my skinny ass to atoms. But I like your option better, CdO

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  98. Cill says:

    Larry you are an example of a bloke who set your standards and requirements and then did something about it – something rather effective and emphatic, by the sound of it. Onya mate.

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  99. BuenaVista says:

    It takes 15 seconds to know if a married woman wants some silent, secret hubba hubba hubba.

    Of course, as we have been instructed, women don’t think about sex.

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  100. Stephanie says:

    From Ame:

    “occasionally i ask my Husband what he likes about me. almost every time he mentions something about my eyes and the way i look at him … and how i smile and greet him when he comes home from work … and how i respect and value him by a litany of little things i do. it always amazes me b/c sometimes i wonder if it’s enough, and for him, it’s always enough. but it’s always there, too. he knows when he’s had a bad day at work, when he walks in the door i’m going to smile when i greet him and be glad he’s home. he knows when i look at him i’ll be smiling and he can see in my eyes that i love him. these are intentional on my part b/c i know he likes it.”

    ^^That made my heart swell ❤ ❤ ❤ !!!!!

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  101. Larry G says:

    LOL….Cill, yup. It can be annoying at times to have to enforce the “rules” but it’s gotten easier with time (years). Last night wife was on the couch watching tv, mentioned SHE was getting hungry…..oookay, there is the kitchen, there are the pots and pans, go make some fucking noise with them and get food cooked. Simple.
    When the cooking was done and served, she started the laundry….THEN when the evening domestic duties were done, she could enjoy tv.
    Know something? When my wife was in the kitchen fixing our food, she was singing. Happy.

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  102. Stephanie says:

    “I am a handsome motherfucker, goes without saying, but if I show up in insulated bibs, boots with pig shit and a Pioneer hoody, I’m invisible. If I wear Gucci’s and a good jacket I had made, It’s “Who are you?” time.”

    LOL BV!!

    Just went with my husband to a dr apt and he legit had all the front girls who check you in laughing and giggling like little school girls!!!

    He flirts and doesn’t even know it (and isn’t even trying) and I even the older ladies were laughing like that!!!

    But I make sure he wears jackets that make him look sexy… sometimes he’ll pick a hoodie that he’s had for years, but it just doesn’t have the same affect (and I’ve told him this).

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  103. Sumo says:

    I know I’m getting older because the 20-somethings who flirt are getting fatter and fatter.

    I need to either stop drinking various liquids while perusing this blog, or install a sneeze guard for my monitor. Now I have to clean coffee spew off of it.

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  104. Larry G says:

    “*effect”

    piss poor spelling and grammer is accepted, usually. Just don’t make a habit of it.

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  105. Larry G says:

    “install a sneeze guard for my monitor. Now I have to clean coffee spew off of it.” just let it dry then scrape the residue off later…works well for this ancient piece of shit I’m typing on

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  106. Cheque d'Out says:

    Hi Stephanie, good to see you again. Nice spelling troll bait…and correction. You have no idea how many times I resort to editing my own mistakes. The only thing that I can’t fix are comment notification emails.

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  107. Larry G says:

    LUCKY BABY HERMAPHRODITE

    A woman gives birth to a baby, and afterward, the doctor comes into her room and says, “I have something to tell you about your child.”

    The woman worriedly asks, “What’s wrong with it?”

    The doctor says, “There’s nothing really wrong with it, it’s just a little different. It’s a hermaphrodite.”

    The woman looks confused. “A hermaphrodite? What’s that?”

    The doctor replies, “It has both male and female features.”

    The woman looks relieved. “Oh, you mean it has a vagina AND a brain?”

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  108. Cheque d'Out says:

    Regarding your latest hate crime hoaxer. Spelling isn’t quite there, but that’s his mother’s fault
    http://www.english-slang.com/eng/British/British-J/jessie

    Basically, a bit of a twat.

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  109. Stephanie says:

    “Hi Stephanie, good to see you again. Nice spelling troll bait…and correction. You have no idea how many times I resort to editing my own mistakes. The only thing that I can’t fix are comment notification emails.”

    Well, when you run the blog, you get allll the prerogatives, as it should be! Fix away!!! 😀

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  110. Cheque d'Out says:

    With great power etc etc

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  111. Larry G says:

    Stephanie, boring over at Blooms?

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  112. h0neyc0mb says:

    Well .. They (old Fem-Bots) used to say .. “my body, my choice” .. now Modern Fem-Bots say ..

    “All bodies (real or fake), my choice” .. lets jus’ say this one is a bit of a stretch ..

    https://sputniknews.com/europe/201902211072612639-sweden-sex-robots-feminism/

    Ban those THOT-Bots .. 😂

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  113. Cill says:

    thedeti “Any relationship you have with a woman will be on your terms, in your frame, or not at all.”

    That’s the way it is for me.

    The relationship is entirely on my terms. Her wealthy father (a good man I’ve known all my life – I call him the “old boy”) even gave me documents prepared by his fancy lawyers laying out a lot of detail supporting his certain knowledge that I’m exceptional with children and would be a good father (etc etc) and will be primary custodian of any children of the relationship. The docs were signed by his daughter and his wife (her mother) and himself.

    He lodged a large sum of money in trust and in the event that we separate for any reason the trustee is to pay the money to me if the courts don’t award me primary custody. He explained to me that the trust fund came out of money that would otherwise have gone to his daughter under his will. The trustee sends me regular statements and it amuses me that the old boy, a good investor, has made it grow considerably. There are a lot of other aspects that bolster my position way too numerous to detail here.

    The old boy, my girlfriend and her mother were just delighted when I agreed, and that’s an understatement. They never made any secret of the fact that they wanted to see her happy, which meant her and me together. She’s an only child and they have always loved me like a son. They are close friends of my parents.

    [Cill edit: I should explain I agreed to a relationship, not marriage. I’ll never marry. Also, she’s not after my money. She could buy me out several times over]

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  114. Larry G says:

    Gawd BV! LMAO…Ban those THOT-Bots

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  115. h0neyc0mb says:

    We can’t have any compo-tits-hun with our iron grip on men having options.

    You know you live in a Chit-Hole when the only rational choice is a sex doll.

    Once again .. Feminism is limiting men’s choices while expanding theirs.

    Soon the whole globe will be single men with illegal sex bots.

    ..
    ..

    Those men should use the same slogans on the Fem-Bots they used on them ..

    “My wallet, my choice.” .. or .. “My body, my choice.” (I know .. very unoriginal).

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  116. Larry G says:

    Cill, sounds like plan A is a go…..great to have a good prospective father-in-law running center

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  117. thedeti says:

    Eh, so Jussie Smollett is jammed up now on a felony false report charge. Big deal.

    He’ll plead it down to a misdemeanor charge, pay a pretty big fine and court costs, and he’ll be on his way. It’ll be down the memory hole quite soon.

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  118. Cill says:

    Yeah he’s a good bloke, not yet 50. He spends most of his free time with me fishing and hunting, and his wife actually encourages it. They’d both like me to be their son-in-law but I’ll never marry. They’ve all known that from the start.

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  119. Larry G says:

    well, state sponsored paperwork ought to be optional anyway…don’t recall God saying anything about signing on the dotted line to get a wife….something about a rib comes to mind. Anyway, good luck!

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  120. Larry G says:

    Q: What do older women have between their breasts that younger women don’t?

    A: A belly button.

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  121. Cill says:

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

    I’m going to remember that one!

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  122. RichardP says:

    It was correct either way. A more complete version would be this: “The hoodie did not have the same affect as the sexy jacket, so it didn’t generate the same effect with the office girls.” If you doubt, look up the definitions.

    Stephanie just left off the second half of that sentence, since it would be understood from the first half she wrote.

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  123. molly says:

    We are *all* delighted in the clan! Cill was the only one who wasn’t married with kids by 31, eh. Cill and M are made for each other! It was some time ago when we celebrated Cill and M “together”. It’s not like me and my husband “together” tho. Cill won’t “cohabit”. It works okay as they both own their own houses. We understand why he won’t marry.

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  124. Liz says:

    “He’ll plead it down to a misdemeanor charge, pay a pretty big fine and court costs, and he’ll be on his way. It’ll be down the memory hole quite soon.”

    Pretty sure his career is over though.

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  125. Larry G says:

    “Pretty sure his career is over though.”

    maybe not. He could front for the new Chocolate Twinkies commercials

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  126. Liz says:

    “He could front for the new Chocolate Twinkies commercials”
    😆
    Or the old SWA ones.
    “Wanna Get Away?”

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  127. Larry G says:

    Your bedtime story for tonight….

    Once upon a time, there was a king who thought that his officers were going to try to have sex with his queen. So he made all of his officers put on tight pants and told them that if anyone got a boner their head would be chopped off.

    So he lined them up and the queen came to the first one and took off her gown. He got a boner, so that was the end of him.

    Then she came to the next one and took off her gown, he got a boner and that was the end of him. This went on until she came to the last one and took off gown, then her underthings and he didn’t get a boner.

    So she took off his clothes and started rolling on the floor with him, half an hour went by, then an hour, finally after two hours the king came in to see what was happening and as soon as the king came in the guy got a boner.

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  128. Cill says:

    Fuck Smollett. I need rain. 59 consecutive dry days now. Time to feed out the hay.

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  129. Larry G says:

    Q: Why are blonde jokes one-liners?

    A: So brunettes can understand them.

    Off to take my afternoon nap…..

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  130. Cheque d'Out says:

    When you look at it in the right way…

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  131. Cheque d'Out says:

    [video src="http://poststuff2.entensity.net/020119/Addicted.mp4" /]

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  132. BuenaVista says:

    It was a serious question Liz: does straight alcohol or high test booze inhibit the chance of infection? In case I don’t want to ruin a water bottle. After 40 fractures two punctured lungs 9 surgeries 2 divorces I have the pain threshold of a fire hydrant. I do cut myself open from time to time.

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  133. BuenaVista says:

    Cill’s crushing me in the FIL department. After her husband refused to see me in his office, and locked the door, I called her Dad. But he wouldn’t take the call. Her Mom was very pleasant, though.

    A year later, I passed her mom on the road. (This is the country; everyone knows what you’re driving.) This was last weekend. She waved.

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  134. Farm Boy says:

    Just outside downtown Dunn, N.C., a historic antebellum-style house honors Maj. Gen. William C. Lee, a hometown hero often described as the father of the U.S. Army’s airborne infantry. The World War II veteran served as the first commanding general for the 101st Airborne Division, nicknamed the “Screaming Eagles,” and helped plan the Allied forces’ D-Day invasion of Normandy.

    He’s a widely respected, if somewhat obscure, military figure — which is why, after anonymous vandals attempted to torch a statue of him last week, museum officials concluded it had been a case of mistaken identity. They suspect that the perpetrators thought they were burning a memorial to Confederate Gen. Robert E. Lee.

    “This is not a Civil War museum and this is not Robert E. Lee,” Mark Johnson, the curator for the Maj. Gen. William C. Lee Airborne Museum, told WNCN on Tuesday. “This is General William C. Lee from United States Army Airborne from World War II.”

    https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2019/02/21/jerk-punks-torched-statue-general-lee-it-honors-wwii-veteran-not-confederate-leader/

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  135. Farm Boy says:

    Here is the dumb blonde of all the previous jokes

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  136. Farm Boy says:

    And here is the blonde’s story

    Yesterday, HuffPost fired a recently hired, Los Angeles-based social media editor after her managers were alerted to the fact that an Instagram account belonging to the new hire was spewing racist rants online.

    https://theconcourse.deadspin.com/huffington-post-fires-social-media-editor-for-being-inc-1832764183

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  137. h0neyc0mb says:

    Is that “car-in-the-in” leather .. me thinks so .. hehehe

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  138. Farm Boy says:

    Women have to keep fighting and challenging the rise of trans misogyny,” one anonymous woman wrote. She argued that transgender activism “is the ultimate string to their male ego, while we who are the genuine female article get kicked from pillar to post.”

    Lesbians like Miriam Ben-Shalom have denounced the transgender movement, arguing that it removes fundamental protections for women and that it targets lesbians by pushing a “rape culture” and “conversion therapy.”

    https://pjmedia.com/trending/lesbian-army-vet-transgender-legal-victory-dehumanizes-women/

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  139. Farm Boy says:

    From the Trump website

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  140. h0neyc0mb says:

    I’m pretty sure her “catipeller” eyebrows have their own waxing zip-code.

    ..
    ..

    I know how she turns the lights on after sex .. she opens the car door ..

    &

    I know what she sez after sex .. “get off me daddy .. you’re squshin my cigerettes.”

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  141. Ame says:

    SFC Ton
    21h ago
    Chicks don’t get dating is an economic issue. The ROI is pretty sketchy so the investment is minimal.

    truth.

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  142. Ame says:

    Farm Boy
    20h ago
    These types of articles seem to have a “if she is there, she is worth it” perspective. Upon closer consideration. woukd they see how silly it is?

    that’s how girls are raised … “I exist, therefore I am worth it.” this is what they’re told from birth. the truth is that we are valuable, that we were created by God, but the other half of that truth is that we need to do something about what we were given … that we were created for a purpose, not simply to exist and be catered to, but a purpose that is about giving and doing. it is never and was never intended to be all about me. respect and submit to your husband … care for your home and children and family … these are active ‘doing’ things for others, and our actions always reflect who we are and what we believe inside.

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  143. Ame says:

    [Thought that boobs what he liked they were]

    yes, Yoda! he LOVES those, so i make sure he gets to see them, a lot! lol! 😉

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  144. Ame says:

    h0neyc0mb
    Ame
    10h ago
    and … it comes down to … if you don’t want a guy to treat you like *that* … then don’t act like *that*. is that over-simplified and naive on my part?

    My answer is the distracted mind requires constant stimuli .. of course that’s how tbey became that way ..

    Most if not ALL MODERN WIMMINZ I have contact with have this problem to some extent.

    These distractions (phone / social media / etc) produce the same effect as a herion addict taking a hit. And just like herion it requires more ans more to get that same level of pleasure.

    Drug addicts are never fully cured in my view.

    – – –

    Honeycomb – this is interesting to me.

    i’ve had men tell me that they get so frustrated with their wives/SO’s because they are always busy … they can’t just sit and watch a movie but also need to be doing something with their hands – writing thank you notes, knitting, etc.

    i wonder, in light of your comment, if women are made to do many things at one time, and when a woman is not taking care of her husband and children and family and home, then she has lots of mental free time to dispose of and so often chooses to do so in unproductive and detrimental ways.

    hummm . . .

    for example, women used to keep mending close by so that if they had a few moments to sit down, they had something with which to keep busy.

    modern women now have so much free time coupled with terrible foundational values and truths and philosophies, that they use this time in unproductive and unhealthy and detrimental ways – such as being obsessed with technology.

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  145. Ame says:

    Farm Boy –
    The year is 2019. You’d think we’d be living in a progressive paradise by now, with energy-efficient trains crisscrossing the idyllic countryside, everyone being accepted for who they are—gay, bi, straight, or polygamous—and all people having equal access to free government breadlines.

    this.piece.is.unbelievable.

    this is the kind of thing that makes people ponder how close we are to sodom and gomorrah and wonder how we’re still here.

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  146. Ame says:

    Larry was on a roll this morning! lol!

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  147. Ame says:

    Cill
    7h ago
    BV “so they choose uninterested men to further the narrative.”

    Interesting thought! I attract them without trying, and never entirely understood why. It has to be more than looks and size. There are better looking men and taller men than I, who don’t attract women as much. I always put it down to masculinity but suspected there must be something else. “Uninterested” is a definite possibility. Most women bore me.

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    h0neyc0mb
    h0neyc0mb
    Cill
    6h ago
    Cill .. I think it’s more “indifference” than “uninterested” ..

    But .. I can’t say either way really.

    I know this though .. an indifferent man is a mystery to wimminz .. cuz their whole lives they’ve had th womminz privilege of male attention ..

    And any man that doesn’t act like those other dudes must be a mystery.

    Either way Cill .. soak it up and smile .. wimminz love a good mystery 😎

    – – –

    not sure if i can articulate this well, but i’ll give it a shot . . .

    in general, women do not like weak men, and weak men are needy, and needy men are always leaning into a woman and into her space, begging.

    strong ‘masculinity,’ ‘indifferent,’ ‘uninterested,’ … these show a man is strong and self-contained … not needy … not going to be like a puppy following on her heels, not begging.

    one is a man *she* must take care of like a little child.

    the other is a man who can take care of her and their children.

    – – –

    i think that one mistake men make when a woman they love starts pulling away from them is to chase after her. all the memes say a woman loves a man who chases her, but those are a lie. yes, women like to be pursued, but not chased. chasing a woman makes a man degrade himself and his masculinity, and that is ewww.

    better for a man to be strong, stay strong and in his place, and demand that she come to him and into his space when he calls her. if she doesn’t come to him when he’s strong, she’s not going to come to him when he chases after her … and if she does accept him when he chases after her like a puppy, she won’t respect him.

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  148. Ame says:

    Cill
    4h ago
    thedeti “Any relationship you have with a woman will be on your terms, in your frame, or not at all.”

    That’s the way it is for me.

    The relationship is entirely on my terms. Her wealthy father (a good man I’ve known all my life – I call him the “old boy”) even gave me documents prepared by his fancy lawyers laying out a lot of detail supporting his certain knowledge that I’m exceptional with children and would be a good father (etc etc) and will be primary custodian of any children of the relationship. The docs were signed by his daughter and his wife (her mother) and himself.

    He lodged a large sum of money in trust and in the event that we separate for any reason the trustee is to pay the money to me if the courts don’t award me primary custody. He explained to me that the trust fund came out of money that would otherwise have gone to his daughter under his will. The trustee sends me regular statements and it amuses me that the old boy, a good investor, has made it grow considerably. There are a lot of other aspects that bolster my position way too numerous to detail here.

    The old boy, my girlfriend and her mother were just delighted when I agreed, and that’s an understatement. They never made any secret of the fact that they wanted to see her happy, which meant her and me together. She’s an only child and they have always loved me like a son. They are close friends of my parents.

    [Cill edit: I should explain I agreed to a relationship, not marriage. I’ll never marry. Also, she’s not after my money. She could buy me out several times over]

    WOW. that’s … amazing, Cill!

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  149. Ame says:

    BuenaVista
    2h ago
    It was a serious question Liz: does straight alcohol or high test booze inhibit the chance of infection? In case I don’t want to ruin a water bottle. After 40 fractures two punctured lungs 9 surgeries 2 divorces I have the pain threshold of a fire hydrant. I do cut myself open from time to time.

    BV’s a walking miracle!

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  150. Liz says:

    “It was a serious question Liz: does straight alcohol or high test booze inhibit the chance of infection?”

    I’m sure it does, BV (both would). They’re powerful antiseptics.
    But I’m not sure which would be more effective (irrigation pressure versus very strong antiseptic).
    I got my information from a podcast emergency medicine series a couple of ER doctors made, a while back. I can’t even remember the name now.
    That particular one was on general wound care, but as far as I can recall they only compared irrigation with saline, water, and H2O2 (soaking versus pressure).

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  151. molly says:

    “all the memes say a woman loves a man who chases her, but those are a lie. yes, women like to be pursued, but not chased. chasing a woman makes a man degrade himself and his masculinity, and that is ewww. ”

    I agree Ame.

    Cill commented he attracts women! He is told that by friends and family (and me!) yet I never knew if he listens or believes women are attracted to him. I decided he didn’t care one way or the other.

    Now his comment! Heaps of people IRL would *love* to know his thoughts he put there. Women and his mates as well. His friends call him the woman magnet. They want to take him clubbing, so the women go home with them for any tiny little chance to get close to the big guy in future.. LOL

    Aaaaand double whammy! The women get dumped by Cill’s mates and didn’t get to know Cill either! It happened only about once or twice, yet his mates won’t forget the fast track to scoring with the sheilas! (lol) I think his mates gave up asking him out with them. They asked me to ask him and I said no. We hardly ever go to night clubs or pubs or socializing (besides each other). We are a private family.

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  152. Farm Boy says:

    A Google search of “University of Tennessee women’s studies” displays on the first page the following sites: Women Gender and Sexuality Program; Women’s Studies Concentration, BA; Women’s Studies Minor; Women’s Studies Graduate Certificate; Women’s Studies (Special Collections); History of Women at UTK, followed by sites on women’s studies programs at the University of Tennessee Martin and UT-Chattanooga.

    Type “University of Tennessee men’s studies,” and there is … nary a mention. You won’t find any glowing descriptions of male student-boosting programs. Rather the opposite.

    https://www.knoxnews.com/story/opinion/columnists/george-korda/2019/02/20/men-marginalized-minority-campuses-george-korda/2932936002/

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  153. Farm Boy says:

    Logan talked about “information warfare” in her interview with Ritland, an intriguing observation because the narrative of her assault was so clearly bent to accommodate the prevailing media narrative of the Arab Spring and the Obama administration’s political needs. The fall of Hosni Mubarak was supposed to be a lovely flowering of democracy. The view Lara Logan got of the proceedings from that filthy street in Cairo did not fit the narrative, so her story does not loom large in the media’s collective memory.

    Take it from another female reporter who found herself swimming against the partisan tides of the media and paid a career price for it:

    “This is another national journalist cautioning us to think about the info we get and the attempts to censor views and facts. Hard to argue, whether you’re left, right or otherwise if you’re seeking accurate info”. https://t.co/vqVFiBBy6g

    — Sharyl Attkisson🕵️‍♂️ (@SharylAttkisson) February 18, 2019

    Yes, the media should listen to Lara Logan’s critique, but it won’t, no matter how much horror she endured in the pursuit of truth.

    https://www.breitbart.com/politics/2019/02/19/hayward-rape-survivor-lara-logan-gets-cold-shoulder-from-media/

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  154. Liz says:

    Just thinking further (I think Ton would agree with this, if memory serves), diluted bleach might be one of the best antiseptics around. I’ve seen a diluted bleach solution cure an infection folks with advanced studies in wound care degrees weren’t able to treat after many weeks, in a couple of days and for pennies.

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  155. mgtowhorseman says:

    Fuck all that shit.

    Just have fun and get the manly work done with your buddies.

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  156. Ame says:

    another stupid fb lie/meme:

    “A Real Man gives his Lady the attention she deserves, gives her all his love, calls her beautiful, and treats her like a queen.”

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  157. Ame says:

    Larry’s idea of fun while working is pissing people off! lol!

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  158. Ame says:

    https://www.itstactical.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Dakins_Solution.pdf

    How to Make Dakin’s
    Solution
    Dakin’s solution is used to kill germs and prevent germ growth in wounds. This
    recipe for Dakin’s solution may save you money and allow you to fix only the
    amount you need. Another name for this is diluted sodium hypochlorite solution
    0.5%.
    Supplies:
    C Sodium hypochlorite solution 5.25% (Clorox® or similar household bleach).
    Be sure to purchase unscented bleach. We do not recommend using ultra
    bleach products that are more concentrated and thicker.
    C Sodium bicarbonate (baking soda)
    C Clean tap water
    C Clean pan with lid
    C Sterile measuring cup and spoons (Refer to handout on How to Sterilize
    Equipment or use a dishwasher on highest setting for hot water and heat)
    C Sterile jar with sterile lid (see above)
    Making the Solution:
    1. Wash your hands well with soap and water.
    2. Gather your supplies.
    3. Measure out 32 ounces (4 cups) of tap water. Pour into the clean pan.
    4. Boil water for 15 minutes with the lid on the pan. Remove from heat.
    5. Using a sterile measuring spoon, add ½ teaspoonful of baking soda to the
    boiled water.
    6. Your doctor may prescribe one of several strengths. Measure bleach
    according to the chart and add to the water also:
    ì Full
    Strength
    ì ½ ì ¼ ì c
    Strength Strength Strength
    Clorox 3 oz. (or 95 ml) 3 Tbsp + ½ tsp. 1 Tbsp + 2 tsp. 2½ tsp.
    (or 48 ml) (or 24 ml) (or 14-12 ml)
    Water 32 oz. 32 oz. 32 oz. 32 oz.
    7. Place the solution in a sterile jar. Close it tightly with the sterile lid. Cover
    the entire jar with aluminum foil to protect it from light.
    Page 2
    Dakin’s Solution
    Dilution __________________________
    Date/Time Prepared ________________
    Date to throw away _________________
    Sample Label
    8. Throw away any unused portion 48 hours after opening. Unopened jars can be
    stored for one month after you have prepared them.
    Label:
    Label the jar with the date and time you made
    the solution.
    Precautions:
    C Keep out of the reach of children.
    C If the solution is used as a mouth wash, do not swallow it.
    C Do not use longer than one week, unless directed by your doctor.
    C Do not use if you are allergic to any of the ingredients.
    C Stop use of the solution if your condition worsens, or a rash or any other
    reaction develops.
    Call Your Doctor If You Have:
    C Pain or burning sensation
    C Rash or itching
    C Redness of skin
    C Swelling, hives or blisters
    C Signs or symptoms of wound infection
    Storage:
    C Keep the solution stored at room temperature.
    C Cover jar with aluminum foil to protect it from light.
    C Be sure the jar lid is tight for storing.
    If you would like more written information, please call the Center for Health Information at
    (614)293-3707. You can also make the request by e-mail: health-info@osu.edu.
    © Copyright, (8/2002)
    Department of Inpatient Nursing
    The Ohio State University Medical Center
    < Upon request all patient education handouts are available in other formats for people with special
    hearing, vision and language needs, call (614) 293-3191.

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  159. mgtowhorseman says:

    Let loose, have a good time. Notice its mostly guys cutting it up.

    We’ve come too far to give up who we are

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  160. mgtowhorseman says:

    Ok a theme song is bad ass when its drinkin music played on banjo and accordian. This guy is brilliant.

    And its not that soyboy ass in the remake.

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  161. h0neyc0mb says:

    Her village called .. they want their idiot back .. heh

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  162. h0neyc0mb says:

    CAT scans of men and women idle show stark differences.

    When told to think of nothing .. a womans minds is 95+% active ..

    Men on the other hand have no problem thinking of nothing at all .. I forget the number but its in the teens for a percentage.

    Tech companies tapped into this and super-charged it with the pleasure centers of the brain.

    The brain scans of someone on facebook (for example) checking for likes to a post was the same as a herion addict.

    It’s documented science.

    and these folks don’t mind spending thlusands of dollars a year on tgeir devices & plans .. and don’t care that they are being spied on .. it’s the cost of doing business to them.

    Suckers everyone!

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  163. mgtowhorseman says:

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  164. Farm Boy says:

    And while many on the left are now keen to disavow any connection to the Venezuelan disaster, their earlier enthusiasm is on the record. Greg Grandin, writing in The Nation in 2013, offered a laudatory take on Chavez and suggested that Venezuela “might be the most democratic country in the Western hemisphere.” (He also argued, oddly enough, that Chavez “wasn’t authoritarian enough.”) Jeremy Corbyn, leader of the U.K.’s Labour Party, has also been a big Chavez fan

    https://www.bloomberg.com/opinion/articles/2019-02-20/venezuela-is-a-failure-of-the-left-not-just-a-failed-state

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  165. BuenaVista says:

    Thanks very much, Liz. So blast it with water and bathe it in alcohol will be my plan. (I’m accident prone!)

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  166. BuenaVista says:

    Molly: “We are a private family.”

    Not to be sentimental, because I’m the least sentimental man in the world, but this is extremely heartwarming. The family should be a haven, a refuge, and what goes on in the house should stay in the house. IMO.

    This was a more common ethic in the USA a couple of generations ago. Now you can deconstruct a woman’s family outlook by tracking a few social media accounts.

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  167. BuenaVista says:

    Honeycomb, I’d like to read the journal article about brain activity on screens. Thx.

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  168. Farm Boy says:

    WASHINGTON, D.C.—In a statement to D.C. police given Tuesday, senator and presidential candidate Elizabeth Warren claimed that two men in colonial outfits accosted her on the street and assaulted her with smallpox-infected blankets.

    Warren claimed she was simply on her evening walk with her favorite peyote blend when the two men leaped out of the bushes, fired a round, spent several minutes reloading their muzzle-loading rifles, fired again, and then hollered “battle cries” as they hurled smallpox-infested blankets at her.

    “The men fired muskets at me, threw several blankets infested with smallpox in my general direction, and told me this was colonial country,” she said, holding back tears. “They told me to go back to my reservation and that I wasn’t welcome here.”

    According to Warren, the men stuck a feather in her hair and then called her “macaroni” before dancing around her in a mock Native American rain dance.

    “It is just despicable to me that in 2019 a woman can still be targeted for lynching because of her .0001% Indian heritage,” she said in a press conference. “This is Trump’s America, people.”

    Police quickly poked holes in Warren’s story, such as the fact that she never dropped her peace pipe throughout the ordeal and that she left the smallpox blankets and mock Indian headdress on herself as she walked to the police department to make her statement.

    https://babylonbee.com/news/elizabeth-warren-claims-two-men-in-colonial-outfits-assaulted-her-with-smallpox-infested-blankets

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  169. Farm Boy says:

    But abortion is not the only form of child sacrifice eagerly practiced by those eager to climb the progressive totem pole. Remember the 10 year old boy dressed as a transvestite and dancing at a gay club for money? That is also a form of child sacrifice. In that case the child has been sacrificed by his parents for their own social benefit in the progressive society in which they live. Their social status has been elevated as a result of the debauchery that their child engages at their direct encouragement. Parents in my day used to stand on the sidelines and cheer when we hit a four or scored a goal. Now they cheer when their child gets a fifty dollar bill.

    https://pushingrubberdownhill.com/2019/02/20/child-sacrifice/

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  170. SFC Ton says:

    Ever notice how non-american the names are of the people who run the DNC party machinery?

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  171. SFC Ton says:

    skip the resident with shaky hands at the emergency room.
    ……..
    Why not stich it up yourself? It ain’t like it requires much skill.

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  172. Cheque d'Out says:

    I certainly hope that he’s not implying that this is a double for RBG (RIP)?

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  173. h0neyc0mb says:

    I’ll look for it.

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  174. SFC Ton says:

    Dakin’s solution is used to kill germs and prevent germ growth in wounds.
    ……..
    Once again that shit sounds needlessly complex. A can of break cleaner will do the job. So will bleach or gasoline

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  175. Cheque d'Out says:

    Now that’s a hardcore habit

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  176. Farm Boy says:

    Is that Liz’ Mum?

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  177. Farm Boy says:

    To wit: Feminists are now merely being hoisted with their own petards. They themselves laid the foundation for the transgender agenda they bemoan.

    Let’s take a trip down Bad Memory Lane. For approximately three decades, the prevailing feminist doctrine was “gender neutrality” theory; it held that the sexes are the same except for the superficial physical differences, therefore raising boys and girls the same way will result in their being identical beneath the skin. This was embraced so radically that, as iconoclastic feminist Camille Paglia once related, feminists would corner her on college campuses in the ’70s, glaring, and swear that hormones didn’t exist and that even if they did, they couldn’t possibly influence behavior.

    Though I never believed it, I was accosted with this theory as a teen and young adult, as many of you no doubt were. It was convenient for feminists. After all, convince people of the sexes’ sameness, the thinking (feeling?) goes, and there can be no justification for keeping women from traditionally male arenas.

    The social pressure brought to bear was profound, too. “Gender neutrality” theory was Science™, opposed only by knuckle-dragging, mouth-breathing, backward Neanderthals. Sound familiar?

    The connection to transgenderism should be obvious. The feminists spread notion A, “that the sexes are the same except for the superficial physical differences.” Then transgender activists came along and merely espoused B, a corollary: if you change the superficial physical differences, you can be the opposite sex.

    https://www.americanthinker.com/articles/2019/02/feminists_screaming_about_transgenderism_their_own_demon_child.html

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  178. Farm Boy says:

    Thirty nine years ago today

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  179. Cheque d'Out says:

    Sheffield flypast LIVE: Watch RAF 75th anniversary Yorkshire flypast in full – VIDEO

    SHEFFIELD residents gathered in Endcliffe Park today to watch the RAF flypast which marks the 75th anniversary of a US bomber that crashed and killed 10 American airmen – watch live video as the flypast took place in the South Yorkshire city.

    The flypast paid tribute to the crew of the B-17 Flying Fortress, nicknamed Mi Amigo, and featured F-15E Strike Eagles from the USAF and a Typhoon from the RAF. The crash, which happened in 1944, was witnessed by then eight-year-old Tony Foulds. It was presumed the pilot of Mi Amigo veered away from Mr Foulds and his friends who were in Endcliffe Park after conducting a bombing raid.

    https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/1090779/Sheffield-flypast-live-video-RAF-2019-Endcliffe-Park-memorial-anniversary-BBC-watch

    [Eight year olds conduct bombing raids they do?]

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  180. Cheque d'Out says:

    US bomber about to crash land in a park after a raid.

    They are believed to have spotted a bunch of kids playing in said park. The plane veered off to save the kids but this killed the crew.

    According to the story, and I have no reason to disbelieve it, brave men.

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  181. Cheque d'Out says:

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  182. PET scans will show brain activity, but CAT scans are basically just x-rays.

    https://www.healthline.com/health/brain-pet-scan

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  183. Cheque d'Out says:

    She got a bit lucky there

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  184. h0neyc0mb says:

    Thanks KHH ..

    All I recall was the Book was written by Dr Amen and he referenced his studies on men and women.

    I haven’t found anything at amazon book store that jogs my memory.

    But I am certain it was Dr Amen and I believe his wife co-authored.

    It was about men and women being different .. it was a relationship book my ex-gf (gf at the time) wanted me to read.

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  185. Cheque d'Out says:

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  186. Liz says:

    I’ll just drop this here.

    https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/crime/police-couple-thought-murder-plot-untraceable-on-snapchat/ar-BBTUoAv?ocid=ientp

    Things I learned from the above article:
    1) Don’t plan a murder over Snapchat
    2) Sometimes you can judge a book by its cover
    3) The US army must need warm bodies for a shoplifting platoon, or something.

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  187. Larry G says:

    enough of this…going back to bed

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  188. Cheque d'Out says:

    News to me

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  189. Cheque d'Out says:

    Tomorrow is Tommy Day

    And England vs Wales at rugby

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  190. Larry G says:

    Two elderly ladies are sitting on the front porch, doing nothing.

    One old lady turns to the other and asks, “Do you still get horny?”

    The other replies, “Oh sure I do.”

    The first old lady asks, “What do you do about it?”
    The second old lady replies, “I suck a lifesaver.”

    After a few moments, the first old lady asks, “Who drives you to the beach?”

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  191. Larry G says:

    The blonde walks into a drugstore and asks the pharmacist for some bottom deodorant. The pharmacist, a little bemused, explains to the woman that they don’t sell anything called bottom deodorant, and never have. Unfazed, the blonde assures him that she has been buying the stuff from this store on a regular basis, and would like some more.

    “I’m sorry,” says the pharmacist, “we don’t have any.”

    “But I always get it here,” says the blonde.

    “Do you have the container it comes in?”

    “Yes!” says the blonde, “I will go and get it.”

    She returns with the container and hands it to the pharmacist, who looks at it and says to her, “This is just a normal stick of underarm deodorant.”

    The annoyed blonde snatches the container back and reads out loud from the container: “To apply, push up bottom.”

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  192. Cheque d'Out says:

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  193. Cheque d'Out says:

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  194. Cheque d'Out says:

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  195. Larry G says:

    Three women were at the doctor’s office for the second trimester check up. The first woman, a brunette, said that she was sure that she would have a girl because when she made love to her husband, she was on top!
    The second affirmed with certainty that she would have a boy, because she was on bottom. The blonde grabbed her head between her hands.
    “Oh, crap! Puppies.”

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  196. Cheque d'Out says:

    And the classic

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  197. Larry G says:

    An old couple celebrates their 50th wedding anniversary in their home.

    “Just think,” the old man says, “we were sitting here at this same breakfast table, naked as jaybirds, 50 years ago.”

    “Well,” the old lady snickers, “what do you say — should we get naked?”

    The two immediately strip to the buff and sit back down at the table. “You know, honey,” the little old lady says slyly, “My breasts burn for you now as they did 50 years ago.”

    “I’m not surprised,” replies the old man. “One’s in your coffee and the other is in your oatmeal!”

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  198. I could have used the zip stitch stuff! I cut myself near my wrist while pruning. Was bad technique. Anyway.. I made my own steri strips from medical tape and carried on. Healed up nice! (I have heard you can also use that instant glue… shoot the stuff in the little tubes… can’t think of the name at the moment…)

    I’ll have to remember the bleach thing. I hear honey is also curing wounds modern medicine can’t! Antibacterial. Antimicrobial. Antiviral! Yep. But not the stuff in the bear, that’s not all honey, use the raw stuff from a local beekeeper.

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  199. Larry G says:

    A blonde goes on a hot date and ends up making out with the guy in his car. The guy asks if she would like to go in the backseat.

    “No!” yells the blonde.

    Things get even hotter, and the guy asks again.

    “For the last time, no!” says the blonde. Frustrated, the guy asks, “Well, why the hell not?”

    The blonde says, “Because I wanna stay up here with you!”

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  200. Larry G says:

    A blonde walks into a library and loudly asks the librarian, “Can I have a burger and fries?”

    She replies, “Sorry, this is a library.”

    The blonde whispers, “Oh, sorry. May I have a burger and fries?”

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  201. Farm Boy says:

    The University of Minnesota recently unveiled the latest draft of a proposed administrative policy on gender identity that removed controversial language that had proposed punishing students and faculty for not using preferred gender pronouns. Potential sanctions had included firing or expulsion in previous drafts.

    https://www.thecollegefix.com/university-of-minnesota-backs-off-proposal-to-punish-people-for-not-using-preferred-gender-pronouns/

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  202. Cheque d'Out says:

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  203. Farm Boy says:

    “So, it is now being claimed that Jussie’s hiring of extra help to shoot himself in the foot was due to a salary dispute. Oh. How much was he making? According to this article, he was pulling in somewhere around $125,000, or maybe a bit below. That’s right, 125 large. Oh, and that’s *per episode*. And most shows nowadays have, what, 10, 13 episodes per season? You do the math. Heck, *I’ll* do the math: Smollett’s salary could be as high as $1.625 million per season. And he’s complaining? Seriously? Tell you what, Jussie, you don’t like your salary, just send it to me, I’d be happy to take it off of your hands. Then you wouldn’t have to complain no more, you could stop faking hate crimes, and I could retire with a whole troop of females to keep me suitably entertained. It’s win-win.”

    http://ace.mu.nu/archives/379892.php

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  204. Farm Boy says:

    [T]he widespread development of the multinational corporation is one of our major accomplishments . . . Today a corporate management in Detroit or New York or London or Dusseldorf may decide that it can best serve the market of country Z by combining the resources of country X with labor and plan facilities in country Y—and it may alter that decision six months from now . . .

    But to fulfill its full potential, the multinational corporation must be able to operate with little regard for national boundaries—or, in other words, for restrictions imposed by individual national governments.

    To achieve such a free trading environment we must do far more than merely reduce or eliminate tariffs. We must move in the direction of common fiscal concepts, a common monetary policy, and common ideas of commercial responsibility. Already the economically advanced nations have made some progress in all of these areas through such agencies as the OECD and the committees it has sponsored, the Group of Ten, and the IMF, but we still have a long way to go . . . [W]hat we seek at the end of the voyage is the full realization of the benefits of a world economy.

    Implied in this, of course, is a considerable erosion of the rigid concepts of national sovereignty, but that erosion is taking place every day as national economies grow increasingly interdependent, and I think it desirable that this process be consciously continued. . . . [I]t seems beyond question that modern business—sustained and reinforced by modern technology—has outgrown the constrictive limits of the antiquated political structures in which most of the world is organized, . . . the present crazy quilt of small national states. And meanwhile, commercial, monetary, and antitrust policies—and even the domiciliary supervision of earth-straddling corporations—will have to be increasingly entrusted to supranational institutions . . .

    [B]usiness decisions are frustrated by a multiplicity of different restrictions by relatively small nation states that are based on parochial considerations, reflect no common philosophy, and are keyed to no common goal.

    https://www.amgreatness.com/2019/02/20/when-congress-turned-on-to-globalism/

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  205. Farm Boy says:

    Muthara: Maybe therapy lessons, it may be a process that will insure us that we’ll never do this again. Jail time, I don’t know if that has an effect on people.

    Yeah, jail time, let’s not even consider that. How about just some nice therapy, maybe a good day at the spa, kind of let me get some of my troubles out of here, just relax a little bit, de-stress, maybe that would help. Wow, to be able to look an interviewer straight in the face and say, “Yes, I called for the spilling of American blood in the name of the Islamic state, I’d left and renounced my country, I joined a major international terrorist group and helped people slaughter innocents throughout the Middle East. I think I probably just need a little touch of therapy.”

    https://www.dailywire.com/news/43822/knowles-isis-widows-want-therapy-after-marrying-michael-j-knowles

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  206. Liz says:

    We watched “Valley of Violence”, and Mike liked it. I don’t remember who mentioned it…maybe BV? At any rate, so far the movies our family has liked most that I’ve picked have come from recommendations here.
    Candidly, I’m usually a suckish movie picker, so
    grazie mille Spawny Space participants! 🙂

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  207. Liz says:

    ISIS brides should be forced to wear MAGA hats outside, for 24 hours, in Chicago.

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  208. Liz says:

    Mike just sent a text with a picture of a sign that says, “Personal having currently active diarrhea or who have had active diarrhea within the previous 14 days shall not be allowed to enter the pool water”
    He added, “I bet there’s a story here”
    😆
    (he’s in Orange county, California)

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  209. Cheque d'Out says:

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  211. Cill says:

    The Patriarch 12:06 pm “One thing you just can’t copy is a persons gate [sic] when they walk and how they plant their feet when take steps”

    What if they don’t have a garden path?

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  212. Cheque d'Out says:

    You can drive a zombie to water but a pencil must be lead?

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  213. Cheque d'Out says:

    Kate Hoey is a…the?…good female laba MP

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  214. Cill says:

    “good female laba MP” (emphasis mine)

    Well I’m sure that coming from you, me old Empire, that’s not an (ahem) out-of-the-box oxymoron?

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  215. Cheque d'Out says:

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  216. Cheque d'Out says:

    Kate Hoey is the real deal…honest. What the hell she’s doing in laba is a question to ponder

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  217. Cheque d'Out says:

    I think that she’s from Norn Irn. That may well be a factor.

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  218. Cill says:

    If she joined Jerry’s party otherwise than by duress, she’s crackers mate.

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  219. SFC Ton says:

    Bleach is lways good to have around Liz but I keep more brake cleaner on hand then anything else.

    Family….. I am down in South Florida. My not father in law needs help with his home. He’s a good dude, made a great life for himself, his old lady and their kids selling high end useless useles shit to dudes with serious money but he never learned to do anything else but sell shit. His sons are ok young dudes, both in the Coast Guard, which I strive to respect, but neither know how to do a damn thing the CG ain’t taught them. So I came down early to get shit lined up. Ton2.0 and my son in law will be here today. My son in law is in the same boat. He don’t know a damn thing West Point/ college/ army or his employer didn’t teach him.

    Me and Ton2.0 will put on a little clinic. Can’t stand not father in law old lady so I told him to send that bitch to Camp Ton Coastal for the week but it just kills me how useless most folks are

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  220. RichardP says:

    @Ton said: but it just kills me how useless most folks are.

    Perspective is everything.

    Everybody is useless for the stuff they don’t know how to do.

    “Useless” depends on what needs doing.

    The garbage man probably doesn’t know how to build a house. But I couldn’t live without him.

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  221. Stephanie says:

    “for example, women used to keep mending close by so that if they had a few moments to sit down, they had something with which to keep busy.”

    LOL Ames I just brought up to my husband not that long ago that I needed to learn how to darn socks 😀 There’s just too many of us to have to constantly buy new ones when they get holes….

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  222. SFC Ton says:

    The garbage man probably doesn’t know how to build a house. But I couldn’t live without him.
    ……..

    I can get by without one just fine

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  223. Cill says:

    There has never been any garbage collection at my place or for many miles around. I do my own garbage disposal better than the way the town and city ones do it by a country mile.

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  224. Stephanie says:

    Richard, but with the old hoodie, it’s still the same one I fell in love with him while he was wearing (during that time period). Before we were even dating, he let me borrow it one time and I slept in it that night lol. When he found this out (after we were engaged I think), he couldn’t get over it and that he “missed all the signs” that I liked him.

    BUT he really does look much more well-dressed in a better jacket. Hence my buying him nice jackets sometimes.

    AND being so comfortable around women that you treat them all like sisters, that happens with or without nice clothes I think 🙂

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  225. Cill says:

    Richard you’d find it difficult to come up with an expertise that I’d need from any outsider. Obviously there’s medicines that I can’t produce, and I can’t perform major surgery on myself. Short of that, if my animals or I get wounds that need to be stitched, I do it. As long as I stay in good health I don’t need anything I can’t do for myself.

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  226. Ame says:

    bleach, break cleaner? gasoline?

    really? i’ve got the hibbie jibbies thinking about it! i mean, i’m sure The Ton is right … but … !!!

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  227. Ame says:

    Ton and Cill have proven, over and over, that they’re in a very rare and small (numbers-wise) class of people who can do just about anything … and the things they can’t do are usually things they choose not to do.

    that’s pretty impressive in and of itself, but it’s nothing compared to y’all’s willingness to help others even when those people irritate you b/c they can’t do what you can. i think your willingness to help others is what sets you apart even more than your ability to do just about anything.

    not everyone can be – or is meant to be – the Leader, or the King, or the Alpha 😉

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  228. SFC Ton says:

    No not everyone darling, but a man is only free and sovergien to the degree he has to rely on others for his basic needs

    Office drones that have to dail 911 and who can’t even mange a decent lean to and a tree rat on the grill ain’t good for much

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  229. Cill says:

    “not everyone can be – or is meant to be – the Leader, or the King, or the Alpha”

    … but anyone can be more independent by learning how to do things for themselves. Even the early stages of physical independence can open the way for more mental independence as well. Mental independence usually needs some channeling, which seldom comes from IRL help or role models these days. The suffocating bullshit needs to be siphoned out. This can be achieved by looking at sites such as ss and following the posts and links that expose feminism and diversity and intersectionality and “toxic white masculinity” etc etc ad nauseam for what they are: the hate war against The Patriarchy.

    A man is never going to be independent from women while that crap is clogging up his mind.

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  230. Larry G says:

    “Office drones that have to dail 911 and who can’t even mange a decent lean to and a tree rat on the grill ain’t good for much”

    Dunno Ton. If SHTF a good supply of untalented, quiet and expendable labor can still be used for grunt work. Some of those female cubical drones might still be worth breeding stock. The rest can be used as decoys or bait

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  231. Larry G says:

    like grandma said “waste not, want not” and “a dick in the bush is worth two in the hand”

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  232. Farm Boy says:

    Muthara: Maybe therapy lessons, it may be a process that will insure us that we’ll never do this again. Jail time, I don’t know if that has an effect on people.

    That is not really the point of prison time. The point is to serve as a warning for others in the future

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  233. Farm Boy says:

    Ugo Okere, a Democratic candidate for Chicago city council, said Thursday he believes democratic socialism should have total control over how people live.

    https://freebeacon.com/politics/chicago-dem-wants-socialism-to-have-control-of-every-single-facet-of-our-life/

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  234. Farm Boy says:

    WASHINGTON, D.C.—In a stunning, masterful move this week that’s being called a fine example of “4D chess,” President Trump announced a push for the decriminalization of homosexuality across the globe, immediately forcing his political opponents to bend over backward explaining why they actually disagree with the idea.

    As soon as Trump announced the plan, liberal activists across the country began working overtime on editorials, opinion pieces, and tweets explaining why this move actually means that Trump hates LGBT people. They then carefully detailed why true progressives actually need to oppose the decriminalization of LGBT people and practices.

    “See, decriminalizing homosexuality is actually bad,” one thinkpiece in an LGBT magazine began, “because, well, mainly because Trump is calling for it now. But I will press on for the next 1,000 words trying to justify my sudden reversal on this issue. And if you don’t finish reading it, well, you’re part of the problem.”

    Trump told reporters sometimes he just has his staff announce obviously good ideas so that he can laugh as he watches his political opponents try to justify their opposition to them. “Maybe next week I’ll come out in favor of pizza so they can explain why it’s racist and homophobic,” he told his cabinet. “Yeah, that’s a great idea. Jot that down!”

    https://babylonbee.com/news/4d-chess-trump-announces-support-for-decriminalization-of-homosexuality-forcing-liberals-to-come-out-against-it

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  235. Ame says:

    Ton and Cill –

    what’s remarkable to me about both of you is *not* what you can do and what you have achieved, but what you’re willing to do to help and teach other.

    what you can do and what you have achieved is due to a lot of things: natural ability – both mental and physical, natural inclination to try and willingness to fail and get back up … opportunity – either offered or created or both, etc. there are things we cannot change … we’re born with our IQ, with our personalities, with our physical bodies – can’t make a short man tall or a tall man short, etc.

    those are things that you had no control over and were gifted to you.

    we can admire you for what you had no control over having … or we can admire you for what you’ve done with it and how you’ve used it to help and benefit others.

    – – –

    my first Husband’s father knew how to do all that stuff … live off the land, etc, but he refused to teach it to his sons. not only did he refuse to teach them, but when he was doing something, like fixing the washing machine, he told them to stay away and not touch anything because they would mess it up. so his sons grew up believing that if they tried to fix anything or hunt or fish that they would screw it up. grrr.

    – – –

    watched a show once on the guys who work the cables that stop planes on an aircraft carrier (i might get some of this wrong, and y’all can correct me). i remember their commander saying that these weren’t the smartest guys out there, but they were diligent. their job is routine and boring, but with their IQ and personality, that’s what they excelled at. and an aircraft carrier that can’t land planes is useless. so their job is critical.

    my take away from all that: do the best you can with what you’ve got. be compassionate with others but not an enabler – huge difference. be willing to use what you’ve got to help others who are willing to receive help and/or learn. those are the things that set people apart from others.

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  236. Ame says:

    Cheque d’Out
    11h ago
    US bomber about to crash land in a park after a raid.

    They are believed to have spotted a bunch of kids playing in said park. The plane veered off to save the kids but this killed the crew.

    According to the story, and I have no reason to disbelieve it, brave men.

    ahhh! *tears*

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  237. Ame says:

    h0neyc0mb
    Ame
    21h ago
    CAT scans of men and women idle show stark differences.

    When told to think of nothing .. a womans minds is 95+% active ..

    Men on the other hand have no problem thinking of nothing at all .. I forget the number but its in the teens for a percentage.

    Tech companies tapped into this and super-charged it with the pleasure centers of the brain.

    The brain scans of someone on facebook (for example) checking for likes to a post was the same as a herion addict.

    It’s documented science.

    and these folks don’t mind spending thlusands of dollars a year on tgeir devices & plans .. and don’t care that they are being spied on .. it’s the cost of doing business to them.

    Suckers everyone!

    – – –

    h0neyc0mb
    Kentucky Headhunter
    11h ago
    Thanks KHH ..

    All I recall was the Book was written by Dr Amen and he referenced his studies on men and women.

    I haven’t found anything at amazon book store that jogs my memory.

    But I am certain it was Dr Amen and I believe his wife co-authored.

    It was about men and women being different .. it was a relationship book my ex-gf (gf at the time) wanted me to read.

    ———————————————————–

    many years ago, when Aspie-Girl was about 4 years old, i was recommended the book by Dr Daniel Amen, Change Your Brain, Change Your Life, and it was hugely instrumental in how i parented from then on. one of the BIG things i did following reading his book was teach my daughter to, “Take control of your brain.” it seems like an oxymoron, but it worked. her brain would get out of control, so i taught her that she needed to usurp that and take control of it. this has been hugely beneficial all through her life.

    Dr Amen has done extensive research on the brain, and it’s fascinating. i haven’t kept up with him … just took away what i needed and moved on, but it’s still very fascinating.

    i found four of websites with his info with a quick search – i’ll put them in without links so i don’t get sent to spam 🙂 :

    danielamenmd dot com
    amenclinics dot com
    brainmdhealth dot com
    healthydirections dot com

    one of the things that was super beneficial to me was his ability to relate to the average person who does not have all that scientific knowledge, and i’m sure this is what set him apart. it’s one thing to be that super smart and knowledgeable, it’s another to be able to relate it to the average person with no scientific background.

    – – –

    i heard once that Dr Amen is the one who determined that Troy Aikman, former Dallas Cowboys quarterback, should not play football anymore due to all his concussions. couldn’t find a link to that with a quick search, though, and it’s been years.

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  238. Farm Boy says:

    An elderly woman said she doesn’t think streets in Portland should be shut down by activists. Audience tells her to sit down and holds signs up saying “lies.”

    — Andy Ngo (@MrAndyNgo) February 22, 2019

    This is a sh-t show. Activists are calling for @PortlandPolice to be disbanded. It is a circus of identity politics & hysteria.

    — Andy Ngo (@MrAndyNgo) February 22, 2019

    Audience woman is calling for white supremacists to be jailed, for city to work with Antifa & It’s Going Down, and to leave homeless people alone in the city. #Portland

    — Andy Ngo (@MrAndyNgo) February 22, 2019

    Woman speaking says she was offended that they didn’t acknowledge this was Chinook land in the beginning. #Portland pic.twitter.com/3A9NigErbs

    — Andy Ngo (@MrAndyNgo) February 22, 2019

    Haley Adams, a right-wing Jewish #HimToo activist in #Portland shouted at the panel for allowing crowd to mistreat the few conservative citizens from the public who spoke. The mob surrounds her & shouts “NAZI SCUM.” She is then kicked out of the @PortlandPolice town hall event. pic.twitter.com/b8ghplHgf3

    — Andy Ngo (@MrAndyNgo) February 22, 2019

    Portland Police had extremely limited presence at the town hall. That was a mistake. Antifa masked up outside & was harassing & following the conservatives who were leaving. There was around 25 of them outside in the dark & no police in sight when I went outside after event.

    — Andy Ngo (@MrAndyNgo) February 22, 2019

    By their own admission, the mob wants the @PortlandPolice to be disbanded. They are rather candid about this goal. Further, they have no qualms about wanting to use the state to imprison & prosecute their political opponents while allowing themselves to do whatever with impunity.

    — Andy Ngo (@MrAndyNgo) February 22, 2019

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  239. Ame says:

    i should point out that it’s not just Cill and Ton who help others … most of the people out here do the same. BV’s mentioned many times how he’s helped men … Detti is always giving out wise advice … Spawny by just having this place where ideas and people are welcome … Liz has mentioned how Mike gets calls all the time for mentoring and advice … on and on.

    that’s what’s admirable, imho.

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  240. Farm Boy says:

    I would like to offer an alternative approach. Concede citizenship for Muthana. Let her come back “home.” And then immediately try her for treason.

    Treason is a constitutionally defined high crime. It is defined in Art. III, Section 3 of the Constitution:

    Treason against the United States, shall consist only in levying war against them, or in adhering to their enemies, giving them aid and comfort. No person shall be convicted of treason unless on the testimony of two witnesses to the same overt act, or on confession in open court.

    https://www.dailywire.com/news/43856/hammer-let-isis-bride-come-back-and-then-try-her-josh-hammer

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  241. Ame says:

    h0neyc0mb
    Ame
    21h ago
    CAT scans of men and women idle show stark differences.

    When told to think of nothing .. a womans minds is 95+% active ..

    Men on the other hand have no problem thinking of nothing at all .. I forget the number but its in the teens for a percentage.

    reminds me of this oldie but goodie 🙂 :

    (at 3:15 he begins taling about The Nothing Box)

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  242. Ame says:

    this might be one of the links to the study he mentions in the above video. is this what you were referring to, Honeycomb?

    https://www.pennmedicine.org/news/news-releases/2013/december/brain-connectivity-study-revea

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  243. Ame says:

    h0neyc0mb
    Ame
    21h ago
    CAT scans of men and women idle show stark differences.

    When told to think of nothing .. a womans minds is 95+% active ..

    Men on the other hand have no problem thinking of nothing at all .. I forget the number but its in the teens for a percentage.

    Tech companies tapped into this and super-charged it with the pleasure centers of the brain.

    The brain scans of someone on facebook (for example) checking for likes to a post was the same as a herion addict.

    It’s documented science.

    and these folks don’t mind spending thlusands of dollars a year on tgeir devices & plans .. and don’t care that they are being spied on .. it’s the cost of doing business to them.

    Suckers everyone!

    there are some people who have more addictive natures than others. i’ve told my girls that if they’re going to be addicted to something, choose something positive … like diet or exercise or something like that that is positive and not negative 🙂

    addiction doesn’t always have to be bad! 😉

    – – –

    did a quick google search for bible verses and idle hands, and there’s quite a few. women who do not choose to fill their time with positive things are susceptible to a world desperate to fill them with detrimental things.

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  244. SFC Ton says:

    Someone else taught me everything I know. Even if that someone else was a YouTube video

    My father was to impatient/ to much of a perfectionist to teach me anything I didn’t have an affinity for but farm kids get loaned out on the regular and I did a lot of odd jobs. Then when I was in the army there was never a shortage of dudes who knew what they were doing and who were willing to work for beer and pizza.

    It’s an odd deal with the not father in law us being of similar age but I am sure he’ll enjoy the experience. Few things make office pussies feel better about themselves like building something by hand

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  245. SFC Ton says:

    Also South Florida must be the trophy wife capital of at least the east coast.

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  246. Ame says:

    Cill –

    you mentioned that you girlfriend’s father legally worked it out so you get part of her inheritance based on xyz. i was thinking about that and was reminded about a wealthy man i know who has 3 married daughters. he redesigned his will so all his son-in-law’s are included … meaning, the daughter’s inheritance is split with their husband … so it is financially in her best interest to stay faithful and married to that man. their family staunchly believes in marriage, being faithful, wives honoring, respecting, and submitting to their husbands, and the patriarch put his money on it. interesting . . . hadn’t thought of it that way before.

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  247. Ame says:

    Ton – i find it interesting how people perceive others. people who have a lot b/c, more often than not, didn’t get where they are without help. when they think they *deserve* the abundance they have because THEY worked hard and earned it all themselves … and those without *deserve* to not have anything b/c they assume they didn’t work hard enough, i have learned to raise a red flag.

    on the flip side … often people without are jealous and bitter towards those who have a lot simply b/c they have a lot. it is rare to find one who can be happy for what another has regardless of whether or not they also have.

    anyway … things Ame ponders 😉

    – – –

    i have no doubt your ‘not fil’ (that makes me giggle!) truly will get enormous satisfaction from accomplishing something with his hands. kudos to you, Ton2.0, and Ton SIL for giving him that opportunity.

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  248. SFC Ton says:

    LOL My son in law is still in the learning stage. He comes from a long line of educated office drones. He’ll work mostly independently this week and he’s looking for to being down here where it’s warm and escaping the office

    I don’t typically run into people who are jealous like that. Maybe it’s a rural bible belt thing but almost everyone seems to understand it’s not luck.

    ………….

    Come to think of it and what BV said about relationship skillz , my not father in law and my son in law are learning how to be in an extended family as well

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  249. Stephanie says:

    “My father was to impatient/ to much of a perfectionist to teach me anything I didn’t have an affinity for but farm kids get loaned out on the regular and I did a lot of odd jobs.”

    The awesome thing about that is that you’re self-reliant, and I’m sure a lot of what you’ve figured out is self-taught?

    For your “not father in law,” at least he gets the opportunity to learn and improve himself, which should make his wife proud of him/turned on etc.

    My husband had a similar experience with his dad… he was just telling me about it the other day (again) that his dad really didn’t take the time to teach him a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g… even simple things like shaving, he threw an electric razor at him, that didn’t work for him, and never even took the time to show him little things like that! There were a lot of examples he went into, and hearing it made me so sad, yet grateful he’s so different with our sons in actually taking the time to teach them all kinds of things.

    I think if a man has the opportunity to teach himself a lot of this stuff, or seek it out from someone who CAN teach him, it’s admirable. Self-taught or seeking out the help to get good at something, that should earn respect.

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  250. Liz says:

    My husband had a similar experience with his dad… he was just telling me about it the other day (again) that his dad really didn’t take the time to teach him a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g… even simple things like shaving, he threw an electric razor at him, that didn’t work for him, and never even took the time to show him little things like that!”

    That’s sad. 😦 Mike learned a lot from his dad (and tries to teach our sons everything too). This includes human interactions (how to shake a hand and look a person in the eye, how to order a meal…no mumbling, ect).
    He and his dad put together a 69 camaro, with a 400 small block rebuilt completely (by Mike). It had a 3800 stall torque converter, and used high octane fuel. It was a beast…so fast it would lift you off the ground. Also loud and extremely impractical, but it taught him a lot.

    At the last base they had “Airman shadow” days, where the boss would shadow an enlisted Airman about once a month to see what they do on the day to day. It was really more an opportunity for the troops to gather around and laugh because there weren’t many officers who could do anything (shoot, mechanical work, ect). Mike did it all.
    He told me he changed an oil filter on one of the jets and the mechanics were all gathering around watching, which was a little unnerving. He’d never done it before, but he’d worked on plenty of cars. When he was done, he asked how long it usually took a mechanic to do it and they said he was about as fast as it got.

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  251. Stephanie says:

    My dad didn’t teach my brother either 😦 soo… I do think it’s a general problem. He was a really good dad for daughters I think, but not so much for sons, which was tragic watching my brother have to navigate through everything with an absent father who pretty much didn’t care to be involved with him (that sounds so harsh, but in retrospect, it was true and it’s how he felt).

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  252. SFC Ton says:

    Don’t get shit twisted my father taught me a lot. He taught me how to ride fast, shoot straight and always report the truth not to mention how to drink, fight, hunt, cuss, fish etc etc

    As an adult I know repairing cars and working on the house were pretty stressful for him. Probably not anything he had a natural talent for either

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  253. Ame says:

    women getting a man’s sh*t twisted?!

    hold my sweet, peach tea 😉

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