As a kid and also into my blue pill younger days, I vowed never to kneel when asking a chick to marry me. It just seemed so degrading. The whole kneeling thing struck me as begging, and even as I kid I knew that a man should never beg a woman. Combined with the fact that marriage was the bigger benefit to her made the whole concept seem ludicrous.
As I got older, wedding became more and more over the top. Everything had to be expensive, everything had to be perfect. The groom was just a small fashion accessory lost in the sea of extravagance. But then, if he started the whole chain of events by kneeling, then he only has himself to blame. Once frame is lost, it is difficult to regain.
Women probably like to say that kneeling is all so romantic. I am not buying it. It is about giggling that a man put himself in such a position. It is about showing him who is boss. If I could figure this out at time when I couldn’t figure much of this out, then there really must be something there.