Immovable Object? Irresistible Force?

This is the second installment in the crazy series.  Women desire security, both physical and financial; with a seeming natural emphasis on the physical.  Women, at lest from the fella’s point of view, suffer inordinately from various crazy afflictions; examples being BPD, bi-polar, narcissism, OCD and just garden variety neuroses. Perhaps the guys judge too harshly, but it is what it is.

Perhaps these afflictions are amplified by lack of security.  Actually, probably more than perhaps.  In the modern world, where doing your own thing independently is the ideal, this leaves women much more on the non-security side rather than where they want to be (but then security is boring for women, this is so confusing).

Here is the thought experiment: What if a woman with issues amplified by the lack of security meets up with a financially secure fella with strong frame, one that calls her on her shit and explains the reality of the world (i.e. the physical security that she craves).  What would be the outcome?

The answer matters because in today’s version of the Evil Patriarchy, there is no tail-wind to assist a man in asserting himself over a woman.  If a strong man without this tail-wind can not do it, then this would say much about the future.

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106 comments on “Immovable Object? Irresistible Force?
  1. Yoda says:

    Nobody wants to talk about crazy they do?

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Fnu Mnu Lnu says:

    she would pretend to go along with it, until she could dig her claws into him and trap him. then her passive-aggressive would take over, and try to undermine everything he does.


  3. Yoda says:

    So can a modern crazy woman submit like she really wants to?
    Or hopeless it would be?


  4. Yoda says:

    “Insecurity amplifies psychological issues it does”
    Remember this I will


  5. earl says:

    ‘What would be the outcome?’

    I’ll repeat this comment again…(although I didn’t go into realities of the world…but as you can see pointing their issues out doesn’t come without blowup)


  6. SFC Ton says:

    Insecurity amplifies psychological issues it does

    Remember this I will

    Can’t say I give a shit about

    “on her shit and explains the reality of the world (i.e. the physical security that she craves). What would be the outcome?”

    To many variables, to little give a damn. At this point in my life I am out of fucks to give about fuckers I ain’t already bonded with some how

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  7. earl says:

    Also I’ll point out you got the desire part wrong…women desire control. That is their #1 natural desire.

    What they truly need though is physical and financial security. What they want and need are often in conflict.


  8. BuenaVista says:

    She would immediately fall in love, often appear to be deliriously happy, and cycle frequently back to her established habits of fear, distrust, aggressive accusation — only just over smaller shit of less threat than before. We are our habits. We might even induce the very behavior and conditions that afflicted us before, simply because it is so familar. Familiarity is comfort.

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  9. Yoda says:

    BV wins the prize he does.


  10. Yoda says:

    Women want to be dominated except when they do not

    Liked by 1 person

  11. Fnu Mnu Lnu says:

    they are amazing actors. someone i was fond of has gotten back with her ex. the obligatory FB pics look all happy, but she has told someone i know that she is incredibly unhappy. she even told me that she got back with him “because he is safe and had to take us back”, and then said she wishes things were different.

    how despicable is that? being with someone because he is “safe”, and nit because you want him?


  12. earl says:

    ‘Women, at lest from the fella’s point of view, suffer inordinately from various crazy afflictions; examples being BPD, bi-polar, narcissism, OCD and just garden variety neuroses. Perhaps the guys judge too harshly, but it is what it is.’

    If you dig hard enough…often a lot of those disorders stem from some type of sexual abuse in their childhood/teenage years.

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  13. mgtowhorseman says:

    Fucking brilliant!!

    Truth hurts!!!


    Liked by 7 people

  14. mgtowhorseman says:

    Women desire security???

    Who gives a fuck.

    Your a big strong woman!!
    Fight for your own career!
    Change yoiur own tire!!
    Get out your own boat to rescue yourself during the next flood!!

    We Will Not Be Protecting You!!!

    Ton is right!!
    You aint mine? You don’t exist!

    (And manginas save you?? Ya gohead. Sure.)


  15. mgtowhorseman says:

    Notice I long since gave up as to the whys and wherefores?

    I just hang here, Dalrocks, Fabius for the “waaa its so hard” stories from the womenz and watching the consequences come home to roost.

    99.99999999999999% of women I don’t know…
    Selfish, undisciplined, disloyal, unpredictable biatches until proven (0.00000001%) otherwise.


  16. mgtowhorseman says:

    Why am I an asshole?

    Because the red pill reality showed me there is no reward for “being good”
    And feminism released me from my societal role of guardian, provider, decision maker.
    So I am free to do whatever I, as in me, want to do, whenever I want, for any reason.

    And Im not an asshole, just a blunt, truth bombing libertarian….

    “Asshole!” Is just the only response most have to painful truths.

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  17. Yoda says:

    The male vote not lose entirely he will.
    The men vote lose entirely he will


  18. Some women seem bent on drama and games. No matter how attractive or charming (and often they are both), these types are best avoided.

    The advice, “don’t stick your dick in crazy,” is sound. Nothing but misery comes from it in the long run. Many in the manosphere have been dashed against the rocks in pursuit of a beguiling harpy. His strong frame and financial stability crushed in the effort. Some women just can’t seem to avoid destroying a good thing rather than appreciating and enjoying it.

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  19. Cheque d'Out says:

    Love the Pitch Meeting series. So biting and accurate.

    Liked by 1 person

  20. Cheque d'Out says:

    ‘Women desire security’

    Fair enough

    ‘Men should seek to supply security very selectively in only those cases where there is a quid pro quo of some kind’ (and no that isn’t just for shagging and sprogging)

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  21. earl says:

    Yes much like women shouldn’t give out the sex to strange men easily…men shouldn’t give out the security to strange women easily.

    A lot of men claim in the sphere they keep that priviledge to their family…that’s a good foundation.


  22. earl says:

    You just watch…the way these things go in cycles…fifth wave feminism will be a return to a patriarchal system for women.

    Liked by 1 person

  23. earl says:

    LOL…that’s exactly what equality is all about.

    ‘Cute BBC. Trying to play this off as comedy but accidentally saying EXACTLY what women have been saying for years. Also good job admitting that “equality” isn’t as nice and easy as you think it is. It means long hours, long days, being treated like shit and being expected to pay. This is what men have had do do ALWAYS. You don’t like the equality? Tough. You asked for it, now enjoy it. And with it, enjoy loneliness, dissatisfaction, and the unhappiness that goes along with it. I know, you say that women have a long way to go to get equality. And you’re right. You haven’t gotten the soul crushing depression that afflicts people to kill themselves, and currently hit men four times as often as women. But don’t worry, at the rate you are going, you will be there soon. I’ll be here, cheering on your equality in ALL areas.’

    The reality is…women didn’t want equality…they wanted all the perceived ‘perks’ men get while still getting the perks women have. Can’t have it both ways and you can’t have both roles.

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  24. Love says:

    Lol Earl… The woman on this blog seems very angry. Not sure why. Is there a backstory? But I would definitely not poke the hornet’s nest.

    Liked by 1 person

  25. Love says:

    Great video MG Horseman. 😂 I can relate. They should show that video in middle school on career day.


  26. Love says:

    What is sprogging and how does it differ from shagging?


  27. Farm Boy says:

    The quote I was looking for wasn’t even on this ranked list of 10 quotes, but what astonished me was what the author, Michael Felling, deemed appropriate to put not only on the list but in first place: “A news story should be like a mini skirt on a pretty woman. Long enough to cover the subject but short enough to be interesting.”

    How sexist do you have to be to think that was even worth repeating?


  28. Farm Boy says:

    Others have seen the same thing. Stephen Baskerville, a professor at Patrick Henry College, says “by far the main predictor of shooting rampages — along with all other criminality and virtually every social pathology among young males — is a home without a father.”

    Barbara Hollingsworth, writing for CNS News, observes, “Growing up without a father has a far greater statistical correlation to gun violence than most sociological factors, including poverty and gun ownership, a statistical analysis of gun homicides in the U.S. shows.”


  29. Farm Boy says:

    Following State regulations to counteract traditional gender roles, a number of Swedish preschools have begun experimenting in innovative ways to blur the differences between boys and girls.

    The Swedish government has been committed to the deconstruction of gender for decades, and in 1998, added a requirement to its national curriculum that all preschools “counteract traditional gender roles and gender patterns” and encourage children to explore “outside the limitations of stereotyped gender roles.”

    At preschools across the country, toddlers are addressed by gender-neutral pronouns, encouraged to play at games commonly associated with the other sex, and forced to overcome natural tendencies toward aggression or passivity, according to a March 24 article in the New York Times.


  30. re Fifty Shades pitch:

    “So she’s like super-sexy, with a great personality?”

    “Oh, no. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,no, no.”

    Liked by 2 people

  31. Farm Boy says:

    In the book, Paul argues that meritocracy is evidenced by how video games value “skill and technique” and “hard work,” and contends that this meritocracy fuels everything from “the deep bred misogyny epitomized by Gamergate” to “sexist industry practices.”


  32. earl says:

    The lesson for women is to not be a hornet’s nest…be a bee hive.

    Liked by 1 person

  33. Farm Boy says:

    “So I’m hearing that there was a well-developed bullying culture going on at Stoneman Douglas High School where a bunch of students in the ‘cool kids’ clique habitually harassed and picked on weaker students. Like Nicholas Cruz. Yeah, it turns out that he was one of the victims, and furthermore, David Hogg and others who were leading the marches this weekend were members of the bullying clique. This had been going on for some time, and nobody did jack sh* about it. I guess the school admins took their cue from the Broward County Sheriff’s Office and adopted a ‘wait and see’ attitude toward the bullying.”

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  34. earl says:

    ‘How sexist do you have to be to think that was even worth repeating?’

    How offended do you have to get when you subtly know that metaphor works?


  35. earl says:

    ‘On Bridling Unruly Wives and Horses’

    ‘If you don’t mind comparing your marriage to horse training, here’s a lesson I found while reading Ryan Holiday’s The Obstacle is the Way:

    As a young man, Alexander the Great trained his famous horse, Bucephalus.

    No one had been able to train this horse prior to Alexander. Even his father, King Philip II, could not break the horse in. They tried whips and ropes and every kind of force they could muster. But still, the horse would only buck off the riders.

    But Alexander had a different approach.

    He would lightly mount the horse and simply hang on until the horse was calm. The harder Bucephalus tried to buck Alexander off, they more quickly he tired out. The horse had no choice but to submit to his rider’s influence.

    Alexander used the horse’s own force against itself.

    It’s a similar situation with high-strung wives…

    Sometimes the best approach is simply to remain calm. Ask her a series of fact-based questions to get more data on the situation (who, what, where, when, why, how). The more emotional she is, the more she’ll exhaust herself trying to address your simple questions.

    Soon enough, she’ll have no fight left in her and, being too exhausted, she’ll turn to you for guidance.’


  36. Cheque d'Out says:

    When the wedding ‘vow’ is just too much

    Liked by 1 person

  37. Cheque d'Out says:

    Do we know that Fuzzy is okay?

    Liked by 2 people

  38. Stephanie says:

    I’ll email him!

    Liked by 2 people

  39. Stephanie says:

    Fuzzie’s alive!!!!! LOL

    Liked by 3 people

  40. JDG says:

    How sexist do you have to be to think that was even worth repeating?

    I’m too sexist for my shirt
    Too sexist for Big Bird
    Too sexist for Big Red
    Too sexist for her bed

    That is all, except for sammiches. I’m not too sexist for sammiches.

    Liked by 1 person

  41. Cheque d'Out says:

    Thanks for the Fuzzy update.


  42. “Soon enough, she’ll have no fight left in her and, being too exhausted, she’ll turn to you for guidance.”

    Ha, ha, ha. No.

    Horses have more sense, and there’s no limit to the crazy.


  43. mgtowhorseman says:

    Horse will join up. Looking for guidance and direction, standing quietly until you tell them its time to do something.

    Womenz will just retreat to a pout and stew until they get their strength back.
    Hence the term “FINE!!”


  44. SFC Ton says:

    Pretty sure the best way to deal with high strung wives is a good pimp hand….. Which is why feminist defined domestic violence downward to the point the word has no meaning. Like the diversity worshippers did to racist


  45. Yoda says:

    Good that Fuzzie OK he is

    Liked by 2 people

  46. mgtowhorseman says:

    “Stormy Daniels, star of the current striptease tour “Making America Horny Again,” is a heroine for our times.”


    “No, Stormy Daniels will not bring down Donald Trump. But in a world where the bully in the White House too often gets his way, it’s inspiring to see him bested, for once – and by a woman, too.”

    So a porn star is a better role model than Monica Lewinsky……or say Mother Theresa?

    Margret….I used to like your writing.


  47. Yoda says:

    Rumor has it that high for her big interview she was.
    Impressive this is not

    Liked by 1 person

  48. SFC Ton says:

    That twat video clip is some funny shit. Two Ton Thumbs up

    Liked by 1 person

  49. SFC Ton says:

    That fat bitch would be anyone’s biggist advocate. Literally. She is fucking huge


  50. SFC Ton says:

    Twats video is damn near as funny the 2nd time round

    Liked by 2 people

  51. Cheque d'Out says:

    [Seems appropriate to add this it does]

    Liked by 2 people

  52. earl says:

    David Hogg is going to make a fine house husband to a feminist wife someday.

    Liked by 1 person

  53. Yoda says:

    Which video the Ton referring to he is?


  54. Cheque d'Out says:

    7:36pm, I think.


  55. earl says:

    The comments are quite eye opening. Things like MGTOW, simp, beta male. I guess the terminology is spreading the more these type of stories get out.

    ‘Jayhawks fan Clint Bowyer gets ‘no’ from wife on Final Four trip’

    MARTINSVILLE, Va. — Clint Bowyer snapped a 190-race winless streak Monday, but the Kansas native couldn’t parlay the euphoria of the win into a trip to San Antonio this weekend.

    Having grown up in Emporia, Kansas, about 80 miles from Lawrence, Bowyer is an avid fan of the Jayhawks. So it was natural, after he won Monday at Martinsville Speedway for the first time since October 2012, for him to wonder about going to watch his beloved Jayhawks in the Final Four.

    Bowyer’s victory snaps 190-race winless streak
    Clint Bowyer earned his first Cup victory in more than five years as Stewart-Haas Racing continued its strong start to the NASCAR season.

    “When is it? It’s this weekend, right?” he asked the media.

    The NASCAR Cup Series is off this weekend. He then looked for his wife, Lorra.

    “Hey, babe. This is a positive thing. Can I ride this wave of momentum and make it?”

    The response was a swift “no.”

    “It’s KU,” Bowyer pleaded, although he probably knew the answer

    “Don’t care,” Lorra said.

    It was the only time all day Bowyer was defeated.


  56. mgtowhorseman says:

    Ton refers to my BBC clip.

    It will never get old.

    Liked by 1 person

  57. Farm Boy says:

    A professor from the University of Southern California who is the director of the Center for Urban Education at the Rossier School of Education wants universities across the country to discriminate against white applicants for faculty positions.


  58. Marry a woman named “Lorra”? Expect problems.

    She is hot though; fake boobs and all.


  59. Farm Boy says:

    Right-wing activist Lauren Southern has been officially banned from the United Kingdom for conducting a social experiment to find whether criticizing Allah would get the same treatment as criticizing Jesus.


  60. As her experiment showed, you’re allowed to attack Jesus Christ in the most vile ways possible, but mocking Allah will get you banned from the country.

    From the article it only showed that criticizing Allah was banned. When/where did she hand out the anti-Jesus leaflets, and what were the results?

    She is looking haggard for 22.


  61. earl says:

    Perhaps Lorra read the article and comments.

    She’s a kinder, gentler tyrant.


  62. earl says:

    ‘She is looking haggard for 22.’

    It takes a lot of sacrifice to be an internet celebrity.


  63. earl says:

    ‘4 Things Every Man Should Look for in a Wife’

    2, 3, and 4 are okay. If it were me I’d repeat #1, 4 times.

    1. Non-Controlling
    As Henry hints to Anne, a controlling wife stands to crush the spirit of her husband and damage their relationship. Thus, the man who wishes to avoid this type of marriage will seek a woman who is not easily angered, nor will hold grudges against him when he inevitably makes mistakes. The non-controlling woman, Henry implies, is also one who respects the decisions of her husband and exercises cheerfulness in life, refusing to quibble over small, unimportant details.

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  64. mgtowhorseman says:

    Can’t relate


  65. mgtowhorseman says:

    Can relate. (Who but someone with a work ethic takes a new job, outside, hauling shit, at 54, because they are bored sitting at home?)


  66. mgtowhorseman says:

    Ok last one…..but its soooooooo fucking true.

    Liked by 1 person

  67. copperfox3c says:

    All girls start at at least a 4 on the crazy scale … that’s just what I call “normal girl crazy”

    Liked by 2 people

  68. Farm Boy says:

    All girls start at at least a 4 on the crazy scale

    Four out of what?

    Liked by 2 people

  69. earl says:


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  70. mgtowhorseman says:

    Okay I am too fucking old!!!
    I can do all 40.

    I literally did four yesterday
    (Carried 50 lb feed, cut firewood, stripped a wire and cooked a meal (commonly known as Monday))


  71. copperfox3c says:

    @FarmBoy: four out 10 … I’ve met some real humdingers in my time lol

    Liked by 1 person

  72. Farm Boy says:

    In the middle of Schumer’s hateful speech she let loose with something most media outlets refuse to acknowledge. Progressive actors spouting progressive talking points are hurting their own bottom lines.

    Speaking up about this puts literal targets on our backs, and for sick bullying and lies about us, and it narrows the people who will support our work. We sell half as many tickets because we’re standing up for what is right.

    She’s… right.

    One of many reasons the Age of the Movie Star sits in the same dustbin as Teddy Ruxpin and 8-track tapes is because stars are too political these days. And by “too political” we mean aggressive, mean-spirited, cruel and eager to twist facts to help their causes.

    Most entertainment outlets refuse to publish this cold, hard truth.

    Liked by 1 person

  73. Cheque d'Out says:

    Shame etc.


  74. mgtowhorseman says:

    Trudeau just increased paid maternity leave to 65 weeks. Now the Ontario Libs will pay for daycare from 2.5. So the family only had to care for the child on their dime for the year between 1.5 and 2.5.

    Wont cost much in taxes!! (Only 2.2 Billion for the worlds most indebted non sovereign government. We are bigger than California!!)

    Another reason not to go back to work!!

    Fuck me!!

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  75. earl says:

    This is why women shouldn’t vote. They love the control, getting money from big government through socialism, and not having to be under the authority of a man to get any of it.

    Now their kids don’t have a father, it makes the nation bankrupt, and their lives are 5 times as hard…but hey, they got what they wanted.

    Liked by 1 person

  76. earl says:

    Women gotta stick together…because they love misogyny and women are the best at it.

    Liked by 2 people

  77. More “celebrity” wisdom:

    Tiffany Haddish Extols Virtues Of Drinking Poisonous Turpentine
    The comedienne incorrectly believes ingesting a toxic solvent will give you “the best doo-doo” of your life.

    [Gwyneth Paltrow use turpentine on her Vayjay she should]


  78. SFC Ton says:

    I call bullshit. Literally every millennial I know, knows how to do those 40 things.


  79. Cheque d'Out says:


    [Clearly many women suffering here they are]


  80. SFC Ton says:

    See i thought the reason women shouldnt vote is because they are women. Ie mentally, morally, intellectually etc deficient

    Liked by 1 person

  81. earl says:

    Sometimes a tree is just a tree.

    Besides even the tree’s back in the day knew better.


  82. RichardP says:

    @yoda: “So can a modern crazy woman submit like she really wants to?”

    This comment stopped me cold and I’ve read no further. If others have already said the following, then nevermind.

    1. She submits to him.
    2. He dominates her (she is made subject to).

    Points 1 and 2 are not the same.

    Do women really want to submit (responsibility for action resides with her)?

    Or do the want to be dominated (responsibility for action resides with him)?

    If you have any understanding at all at how much women do not want to take the initiative (except for those who do want to), then you should have no trouble figuring out which women really want (to submit, or to be dominated).

    If responsibility for action resides with the woman, then she is in a position where her choice can be critiqued. If you know how much women love to be critiqued, then you should have no trouble figuring out whether women would rather be moved by outside forces rather than moved by inside choices.

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  83. RichardP says:

    Forgot to say, for purposes of my comment above “dominates” = “rules over”, per what God told Eve that Adam would do.


  84. mgtowhorseman says:


  85. Yoda says:

    Wonder if Tide Pods or turpentine worse I do


  86. Yoda says:

    Apparently incentives matter in Ontario not


  87. Yoda says:

    Odd that men expected to be critiqued they are.
    But women do not


  88. Yoda says:

    Difficult to know what to like it is

    Last week, Harry Potter author J.K. Rowling “liked” a tweet — by mistake — and transgender activists excoriated her for it.

    “I don’t want to jump the gun here. But perhaps you should clarify, J.K. Rowling, do you also believe that trans women are men in dresses?” one “alt centrist woman” tweeted. “And that people fighting for our rights is misogyny? Because that’s how it looks from you liking this tweet.”


  89. earl says:

    ‘Do women really want to submit (responsibility for action resides with her)?’

    No…but they need to.

    Or do the want to be dominated (responsibility for action resides with him)?

    No…but they need to.

    What women really want is control. That way they don’t have to submit or be ruled over. And then they complain how hard, tiring and lonely it is.

    Liked by 1 person

  90. SFC Ton says:

    Twats video is still funny as fuck.


  91. SFC Ton says:

    Shit tests = please dominate me

    Liked by 2 people

  92. earl says:

    If a man doesn’t have some interior emotional control…those tests will eat him up.

    Liked by 1 person

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