SOTU — Men’s Ambivalence


Over at RPG’s, she posted about women doing more to put themselves into a position to be found by a fella.  Probably many women just don’t understand; as they have lots of attention in their teens and twenties.   They believe that this attention can be translated into marriage at pretty much any moment.  On that, they are mistaken.  Undoubtedly, lots of the men that they encounter are either not marriage minded, or are marriage material.  This is the classic Sexual Market Value (SMV) versus Marriage Market Value (MMV) mistake.  In short, if a woman wants to get married well, she should optimize her search, as RPG suggests.

However, the title above suggests that men are ambivalent to women.  Why would this be?  In times past, there was the assumption that a man who worked hard to improve himself would be rewarded with a comparable MMV woman as a wife.  That concept has gone out the window.  It really just does not apply any more.  What you have instead is a real hit or miss (mostly miss) situation that a man has to wade through.  There is lots of work, lots of rejection (at least until later in life), lots of pain for little results.  Men get discouraged.

Furthermore, they see what happened to their fathers, uncles and buddies such that they wonder even if they are successful in getting married, would it be worth it.  There are sexual deserts, humiliation, financial ruin and divorce in his likely future.

So fellas perhaps try, but they don’t try very hard.  For many, it is not a priority.

Oddly enough, women seem to be unable to see the situation from the viewpoint of a fella.  This, individually and as a whole, does not work in their favor.  But the herd moves on.

Here is today’s challenge.  Let us continue what was started at RPG’s, explaining how women can get themselves noticed.  After all, there are probably man diamond in the rough men out there who are just hanging around.  Signaling something that might interest him could be a winner.

For example, Ton suggested wearing a Trump shirt.  Irrespective of what you might think of Trump, this signals that you are probably not a rabid feminist.  As we all know, feminists make poor wives.  So, this might very well pique the interest of a fella who could become marriage minded.

Posted in Dating????, FarmBoy, Feminism, Marriage
107 comments on “SOTU — Men’s Ambivalence
  1. earl says:

    What helpmate skills does she have. Can she cook? Does she like kids? Is she available?

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  2. Choicy says:

    Shbe should wear a T shirt with these words printed on the front of it >

    Press the Left one for a slap, the Right one for dinner.

    She would get the average joker’s attention mate.

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  3. Cheque d'Out says:

    I’d want honesty, loyalty and sense of humour. But I’ll settle for the moon on a stick. #Jaded

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  4. Cheque d'Out says:

    A mentally feminine Tarn would have worked. Though I suspect that that is oxymoronic. Have to say that I still miss Tarn.

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  5. Yoda says:

    Probably a bad bet she would be

    Today CNN published a story headlined, “Why I swipe left on Trump voters.” That headline really does sum up the content of the piece. This is author Marcy Fleisher’s discussion of her post-divorce dating life and how she decided to add a ‘No Trump voters need apply’ clause to her Match profile.

    https://hotair.com/archives/2018/02/13/cnn-sorry-male-trump-voters-random-divorcee-swipes-left-kind/

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  6. Yoda says:

    Tarn come back she should

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  7. SFC Ton says:

    Want loyalty? Get a dog. Want humor? Get a high energy dog.

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  8. Ame says:

    Choicy – LOL!

    Check’d Out – i miss Tarn, too 😦

    Ton – our little doggie continues to bring us delightful humor every day 🙂

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  9. Yoda says:

    What type of dog do you have?

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  10. What helped me ‘get noticed’ was getting my shit together – job, education, healthy body and mind, learning to keep my emotions in check. Lots of girls in their 20s are kind of a mess with that kind of thing. They are dependent, insecure, reckless, unhealthy, etc.

    I stood out because the way I carried myself was ahead of my years. I didn’t much go out of my way to get attention from men, didn’t have to, and that’s also what men catch on to. They know when a woman is trying hard and it looks desperate.

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  11. Yoda says:

    Emotional control big it would be

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  12. earl says:

    ‘As we all know, feminists make poor wives.’

    Feminists make poor women.

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  13. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    I think you have it. In their youth, women believe the natural attraction will last forever and they carry that for the rest of their lives. As for confusing sexual market value and marriage market value, I have to second you on that too. Add to that the experience from Yoda’s link by Marcie Fleisher. Women sign on to internet dating and are deluged. It is like fishing with dynamite. They don’t see that all the messages are copypasta from men sending out fifty at a time. No wonder that OkCupid saw that women rated eighty percent of men as below average in 2009.
    I don’t think that I want to date a Hillary voter. However, while women put their 476 point list in their profiles, they frown on men setting any conditions.
    In the face of this, sensible men turn ambivalent. After a while, they stop signing in to their internet dating account. A couple of years later, they see an email from OkCupid saying that their profile is going to be taken down and they don’t bother to respond.

    To the ladies, the boys tried. Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day. Hope that you can find a good movie on Netflix.

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  14. Farm Boy says:

    In their youth, women believe the natural attraction will last forever

    They don’t truly believe it, but they ignore the situation and live for the day.

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  15. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    It never leaves them. Even menopause doesn’t put a dent in their self perceived sexual market value. The problem for men is there is little point in attempting to correct them.

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  16. Ame says:

    We have a little Havanes mix. We got her from the pound when she was 2. She’s so funny and has such a great personality!!!

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  17. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Katie Hopkins is back at it. Runs four minutes.

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  18. Cheque d'Out says:

    Like

  19. Cheque d'Out says:

    Even shitheads can be right every now and again, just as broken clocks are right twice a day.

    Dore really rips into the dems party.

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  20. Cheque d'Out says:

    Pretty good

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  21. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Spawny,
    The Democrats really deserved that.
    As for Obama’s portrait, it is like a big FU to the country as a parting statement.

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  22. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    That was a good video and the first of his that I have seen.

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  23. explaining how women can get themselves noticed.

    Young, attractive women have no problem getting noticed, so who is the target demographic?

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  24. Yoda says:

    “Noticed by men that could be possibly marriage minded” the real issue is.

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  25. @Yoda

    Have to know what the product is before I can figure out who might be interested.

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  26. Yoda says:

    Even the bright red lighthouse in the tiny South Korean port of Sinnam is shaped like a penis.

    The port is home to Haesindang Park, better known as “Penis Park,” a monument to fertility, born from a legend about a virgin and fish. A normally obscure attraction, it is drawing curious crowds of visitors from the nearby Winter Olympics.

    There are penis totem poles, penis benches and penis wind chimes. There is even a penis-shaped cannon, with a warning to tourists that it should not be mounted.

    https://nypost.com/2018/02/13/penis-park-gets-rise-from-olympics-crowd/

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  27. Yoda says:

    Swedish police officer Peter Springare has been reported to police and will likely be investigated after he said the country’s gang rape problem is linked to migration and was a “cultural phenomenon”.

    http://www.breitbart.com/london/2018/02/14/swedish-whistleblower-cop-notice-gang-rape-cultural-phenomenon/

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  28. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Yoda,
    Not all cultures trash male sexuality. There is something similar in Japan that is where frustrated wives go to appeal for fertility. Also, symbols of this were all over Pompeii. Then, there is the world famous water tower in Ypsilanti. 🙂

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  29. Yoda says:

    Canada’s first and only female prime minister denounced sleeveless dresses on news anchors Tuesday.

    Kim Campbell, who was a Conservative prime minister after the resignation of Brian Mulroney in 1993, tweeted her outrage, insisting “bare arms undermine credibility and gravitas.”

    http://dailycaller.com/2018/02/14/first-canadian-female-pm-denounces-sleeveless-dresses-on-news-anchors/

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  30. Yoda says:

    Planned Parenthood announced the launch of an aggressive initiative intended to expand abortion access across every state in the U.S., alleging Tuesday that the president and vice president are grave threats to women’s healthcare.

    http://dailycaller.com/2018/02/14/planned-parenthood-policy-change-abortion/

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  31. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I hope the policeman lands on his feet. Censorship is a terrible thing. Loss of confidence in government by the public would be even worse.

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  32. Yoda says:

    Grab the popcorn, y’all! The feminist infighting has boiled to peak crazy, and it’s wonderfully entertaining.

    Feminists are now attacking alleged comedian Amy Schumer for being — wait for it — too pretty.

    https://www.dailywire.com/news/27126/lol-infighting-feminists-attack-amy-schumer-being-amanda-prestigiacomo

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  33. earl says:

    Ok fellas…this is a long read but it reinforces everything we talk about when it comes to girls attraction to ‘bad boys’. Sure she hated it…but she got her thrills out of it too.

    https://livinglarosa.com/2018/02/13/when-you-when-i-words-of-an-abusive-relationship/

    And the thing I got out of it…she probably enjoyed the rebelling at the time, then hated it when the predictable ‘bad feelz’ came. A lot of reading this was like a person deep in the throes of a drug habit. They all like being drunk, but hate the hangover.

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  34. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Yoda,
    I don’t think that Canada has the equivalent of the Second Amendment, but that will not stop them from misinterpreting it. “Support the right to bare arms.” It just doesn’t sing as well as “Support the right to arm bears.”
    Still, it does get hot under all those lights in a TV studio. Yet, February in Canada? Summer dresses?

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  35. earl says:

    That’s sums it up right there, Yoda.

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  36. Stephanie says:

    “Emotional control big it would be”

    Understatement of the YEAR that would be. LOL

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  37. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Earl,
    It was long and I read it all. Yes, it is like drugs. She is a very sick puppy and I don’t think that she will ever be good for Steady Eddie.

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  38. Kim Campbell, who was a Conservative prime minister after the resignation of Brian Mulroney in 1993, tweeted her outrage, insisting “bare arms undermine credibility and gravitas.”

    Queen Cirsei, I mean Megyn Kelly wearing a cocktail dress for the presidential debates comes to mind.

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  39. Feminists are now attacking alleged comedian Amy Schumer for being — wait for it — too pretty.

    Schumer is pig-ugly by Hollywood standards (1/10), but anywhere else outside of NYC,Miami, etc., she’s what passes for average in a lot of places in the U.S. (which is a complete tragedy for us).

    Here’s the whatzit is complaining that Schumer is too pretty.

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  40. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    It has been a while since I watched broadcast television. I do remember it being a race to the bottom to be the best undressed, but they did dress with more coverage once the weather turned cold.
    I can see why the former PM of Canada would be shocked to see a newscaster wear a summer dress in February. It is out of season and out of place, especially in the Great White North.

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  41. Yoda says:

    It was long

    Get that lots I do

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  42. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Could Amy Schumer be close to normal? At last count, forty percent of women were obese and two thirds were overweight or obese in the US. That thought is almost as effective as a cold shower.

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  43. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Yoda,
    You are three foot tall.

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  44. Cheque d'Out says:

    Mirth time

    Three women die together in an accident and go to heaven. When they get there, St. Peter says, “We only have one rule here in heaven: don’t step on the ducks!” So they enter heaven, and sure enough, there are ducks all over the place. It is almost impossible not to step on a duck, and although they try their best to avoid them, the first woman accidentally steps on one. Along comes St. Peter with the ugliest man she ever saw. St. Peter chains them together and says, “Your punishment for stepping on a duck is to spend eternity chained to this ugly man!” The next day, the second woman accidentally steps on a duck and along comes St. Peter, who doesn’t miss a thing. With him is another extremely ugly man. He chains them together with the same admonishment as for the first woman. The third woman has observed all this and, not wanting to be chained for all eternity to an ugly man, is very, VERY careful where she steps. She manages to go months without stepping on any ducks, but one day St. Peter comes up to her with the most handsome man she has ever laid eyes on … very tall, long eyelashes, muscular, and thin. St. Peter chains them together without saying a word. The happy woman says, “I wonder what I did to deserve being chained to you for all of eternity?” The guy says, “I don’t know about you, but I stepped on a fucking duck!”

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  45. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Quack!!!

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  46. earl says:

    ‘Yes, it is like drugs. She is a very sick puppy and I don’t think that she will ever be good for Steady Eddie.’

    I don’t know if it is the same like the alcoholic who can’t drink again, the smoker who can’t smoke again, or the meth addict who can’t do meth again to stay on the sober path…but it seems if a woman has had a bad boy addiction in her past, it’s possible she could relapse again when the trigger happens.

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  47. earl says:

    ‘Here’s the whatzit is complaining that Schumer is too pretty.’

    She’s either doing that for the attention…or she sees herself as ugly.

    I don’t know if women take it seriously how other women view their looks…but they should take it with a grain of salt. Most of the time the other women are just projecting their jealousy.

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  48. earl says:

    You know how you don’t want to look at a trainwreck but yet you have to.

    https://livinglarosa.com/2018/01/23/twenty-five-hundred-words-of-bullht/

    This blog that I found I think is going to pretty much give a lot of insight to why MGTOW is a thing. This could certainly be fodder for future posts. It’s always the guy’s fault and never their’s.

    ‘It’s the stuff that keeps us hopeful. It’s what keeps us up late at night wondering- it’s guys and all their bullshit.

    Dudes wonder why women overthink everything in life. They wonder how we could possibly go from sweet to the devils mistress within 0.002 seconds. It’s because guys are full of shit, so us ladies are walking around petty and guarded as a result of their bullshit. Simple as that. There. That’s my blog. Bye.

    Joking, but seriously. How does the universe expect us to take on the world, shave our legs, while also dodging all of this bullshit simultaneously? It’s exhausting.’

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  49. earl says:

    Justice or a case of bad luck health? This just happened.

    Lena Dunham Had a Full Hysterectomy to Remove Her Uterus and Cervix and End Endometriosis Pain

    http://people.com/bodies/lena-dunham-uterus-cervix-removed-endometrosis-pain/

    The bear wondered when it catches up with girls…feminism doesn’t shield them from the ‘you reap what you sow’.

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  50. RichardP says:

    earl – that livinglarosa link you posted. Should be required reading from top to bottom. All the cliches and memes discussed in the manosphere on full display there.

    Mostly full of bragadocio about being her own girl and not needing anyone else to take care of her. Mentioned in a number of different places.

    Totally undercuts her proclamation (and seems to not even recognize it) with this:

    “especially after all the bullshit they made you believe”

    They. made. you. believe? No responsibility here? No participation in the process? Well … she does admit she falls for it every time. I guess that counts as participation in the process.

    My question is “why?” – since she is a strong girl and doesn’t need any one other than herself. Why does she fall for it every time? I think that question has been answered all over the place in the manosphere.

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  51. Cheque d'Out says:

    It was a blog like the one Earl linked that lead me to the original Chateau Roissy. She called him ‘he who must not be named’, I was intrigued. I searched back ten posts to find a link.

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  52. earl says:

    Isn’t it funny that all these strong, smart, sassy, awesome women keep falling for cads. Sure it didn’t work the first 20 times but number 21 will work.

    Perhaps they should go back to no more than high school education, learn home ec and be a helpmate for her husband…at the very least they wouldn’t just keep falling for cad’s schemes.

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  53. SFC Ton says:

    I make 2 women who are better looking then Amy Schumer every morning in the toilet

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  54. @ton
    Well, I only make one, but she’s a biggun. Corny sense of humor, too.

    @earl

    I graduated with a degree in Digital and Broadcast Journalism from the University of Georgia. But she can’t write worth a damn. Even for blogging purposes, that’s pretty shite when you’re a journalism major.

    Does not have a clue what she’s going to do now. Guess she thought the SEC network would be knocking her door down since she’s blonde and not fat.

    Graduating at 21 is some kinda heroic feat these days I guess. Used be, everyone graduated in 4 years or you were thought to be a retard.

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  55. SFC Ton says:

    No White person should ever see this movie, let alone ape any aspect of it

    http://archive.is/zzEU4

    Never forget to the other side you are always wrong, other and at fault and you know the movie will be anti White propaganda

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  56. @ton
    At worst, they could be perceived as an unwitting form of cultural appropriation, which has in recent years become a subject of freighted discourse.

    So little (white or black) kids would appropriating Jewish culture by wearing black panther costumes, right, since the character (and his whole fictional country) was created by two NYC Jewish guys.

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  57. SFC Ton says:

    was created by two NYC Jewish guys.
    ……
    Probably why I could never get into the comic book deal

    Never much cared for science fiction and now it looks like it is produced by and for perverts

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  58. SFC Ton says:

    Never trust an officer above the rank of 04. From that point forward only the politically reliable get promoted

    https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2018/02/14/opinions/air-force-academy-superintendent-why-diversity-opinion-silveria/index.html

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  59. earl says:

    ‘But she can’t write worth a damn. Even for blogging purposes, that’s pretty shite when you’re a journalism major.’

    I’ve been around journalism majors both in school and in the field…you just need a pulse, minimal intelligence to ask questions and read a prompter, and look pretty to get a degree/job.

    If you think most women are already vain and solipsistic…multiply it by a factor of 10 for a journalist or anchor. I really thought being on tv fries a woman’s brain.

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  60. earl says:

    ‘The only step left is to make the lies reality.’

    https://pushingrubberdownhill.com/2018/02/14/the-only-step-left-is-to-make-the-lies-reality/

    ‘No, what is going on here is something far different. Feminists and women in general have ingested the lie that all men are evil wife beating patriarchal maniacs for so long that they have reached the point where they fully believe this. Remember, it’s not a lie if you believe it.

    The fact that reality paints a different picture is a mere annoyance to them. They believe the lie so badly that the want the world to reflect their twisted reality. They want men to hit them. They want men to hit them hard and often, to beat them into bloody messes, to oppress them in countless and diabolical ways. They desire this above all else because it would result in them being vindicated. All of their warnings would have turned out to be true. This would make them the great prophets and druids that heralded the awfulness of men while almost nobody believed them.

    This would give them the greatest satisfaction of all time, the satisfaction of having been right. Of having been on the side of truth. This is a shit test on a societal scale where the women scream at their husbands that they are total bastards who just want to hit them, goading them with extreme pressure into an act which finally becomes reality in an explosion of violence.

    They desire this above all else. They care not for the multitudes of women. They care not for the fabric of society. They only seek their lies to become reality.’

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  61. earl says:

    And a few more…what it looks like after Prohibition was repealed.

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  62. earl says:

    Woman wears scandalous swimsuit, 1907

    She’d be an 8 today.

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  63. earl says:

    ‘The Misandry Bubble’

    http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html

    ‘Executive Summary : The Western World has quietly become a civilization that has tainted the interaction between men and women, where the state forcibly transfers resources from men to women creating various perverse incentives for otherwise good women to inflict great harm onto their own families, and where male nature is vilified but female nature is celebrated. This is unfair to both genders, and is a recipe for a rapid civilizational decline and displacement, the costs of which will ultimately be borne by a subsequent generation of innocent women, rather than men, as soon as 2020.’

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  64. earl says:

    http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html

    ‘Women are far more interested in marriage than men. Simple logic of supply and demand tells us that the institution of monogamous marriage requires at least 80% male participation in order to be viable. When male participation drops below 80%, all women are in serious trouble, since there are now 100 women competing for every 80 men, compounded with the reality that women age out of fertility much quicker than men. This creates great stress among the single female population. In the past, the steady hand of a young woman’s mother and grandmother knew that her beauty was temporary, and that the most seductive man was not the best husband, and they made sure that the girl was married off to a boy with long-term durability. Now that this guidance has been removed from the lives of young women, thanks to ‘feminism’, these women are proving to be poor pilots of their mating lives who pursue alpha males until the age of 34-36 when her desirability drops precipitously and not even beta males she used to reject are interested in her. This stunning plunge in her prospects with men is known as the Wile E. Coyote moment, and women of yesteryear had many safety nets that protected them from this fate. The ‘feminist’ media’s attempt to normalize ‘cougarhood’ is evidence of gasping desperation to package failure as a desirable outcome, which will never become mainstream due to sheer biological realities. Women often protest that a high number of sexual partners should not be counted as a negative on them, as the same is not a negative for men, but this is merely a manifestation of solipism. A complex sexual past works against women even if the same works in favor of men, due to the natural sexual attraction triggers of each gender. A wise man once said, “A key that can open many locks is a valuable key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a useless lock.”

    The big irony is that ‘feminism’, rather than improving the lives of women, has stripped away the safety nets of mother/grandmother guidance that would have shielded her from ever having to face her Wile E. Coyote moment. ‘Feminism’ has thus put the average woman at risk in yet another area. ‘

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  65. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Earl,
    I think that livinglarosa is addicted to the emotional roller coaster. Steady Eddie would bore her to tears. She is ruined.

    In your post Prohibition photo, they are all drinking beer from bottles. I don’t think this could have been possible under Prohibition. Kegs and glasses would have been a lot more discreet.

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  66. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Yoda,
    Disney is not done wrecking the franchise.

    Worse than Palpatine they are.

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  67. Cill says:

    Fuzzy my old mate,

    Some beers are better after they have been poured into a glass. Some are not. Not to put too fine a point upon it, CDDU is simply the superior noggin. This is a fact that all well-intentioned people should – nay MUST – accept. I’m sorry but it’s true.

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  68. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Something to cheer our Glorious Patriarch. People in Germany are thinking along similar lines. Runs five minutes.

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  69. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Cill,
    I don’t doubt it. However, CDDU was not available in 1933. My thought was for all the bottles that would have to be stored, washed, and refilled at the brewery. They would take up a lot of space. You might as well put up flashing neon sign inviting in the police to raid the establishments.

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  70. Cill says:

    ” for all the bottles that would have to be stored, washed, and refilled at the brewery”

    I agree mate.

    I agree.

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  71. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Cill,
    Some of the stuff that was passed off as liquor during Prohibition was unconscionable. People went going blind drinking wood alcohol.

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  72. Cill says:

    True.

    I’m fucked. See you tomorrow Fuzzy.

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  73. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Tomorrow, then. Today was good.

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  74. SFC Ton says:

    I think the us licker industry started recovering from prohibition and ww2 about 15-20 years ago. It’s very cool to see micro brews, small vineyards, small batch whisky and runs etc taking off but I doubt we have reached the same level of small craft outfits that were around pre prohibition

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  75. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    It took a while, but I get it. He did what she told him to do. The moral of the story, if there is a way to misinterpret instructions, it will be found. This might be a corrollary to Murphy’s Law.

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  76. earl says:

    @FB

    Excellent joke…segues into this new post by Wayne.

    ‘Disciplined, Submissive, Happy Wives’

    https://sigmaframe.wordpress.com/2018/02/15/disciplined-submissive-happy-wives/

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  77. earl says:

    ‘I think that livinglarosa is addicted to the emotional roller coaster. Steady Eddie would bore her to tears. She is ruined.’

    Especially since in other posts anytime she is with a guy she’s wondering if he’ll turn into the abusive bf who took her innocence she can’t stop yapping about. He was probably her ‘alpha widow’ not just because of the d but because of the roller coaster he put her through. I know the sphere talks about ‘tingles’ as mostly a rememberence of sexual encounters…but I have yet to see much in the emotional trauma these guys have to make a woman continue to remember him over others. The guy who marries her will either be her punching bag because of how she views men from this one guy…or will have to be an even bigger d-bag in order to keep her tingles around.

    The empowered female stuff she keeps spewing I think is a cover for this guy who still lives in her head rent free.

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  78. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Earl,
    She will never evict him. Any guy who comes after will have to stand in his shadow. The wise ones will date her for a while and move on not wishing to compete with ghosts.

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  79. Cheque d'Out says:

    Follow up to the burnt bridge video

    I like his calm, determined tone. My kind of MGTOW for the experienced red-pillers.

    SydneyMGTOW is for the newer red-pilled (more pissed off but still making sense)

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  80. Cill says:

    Where/how do you blokes come across all these blogs such as livinglarossa? This is not a criticism or accusation, I’m just intrigued by the sheer number of them.

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  81. Cill says:

    Hells teeth I gave it my best shot (livinglarosa). What is the point of it?

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  82. earl says:

    They show up in my wordpress recommended readings. I’ve also seen plenty of married women recommend their egalitarian marriage model nonsense.

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  83. Cill says:

    Anyway, it’s just past 6 am Friday here and my cuzzie Jim reminds me we are to have a crack at cooking a tough steak this morning. The challenge is to make it good. Easier than trying to read livingla-fucking-rosa any day of the week.

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  84. Cill says:

    “wordpress recommended readings”

    I see. I haven’t looked at those.

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  85. Farm Boy says:

    Feminist organizers who work for the Women’s March launched a new project Sunday to dismantle and redistribute the “social and financial” power of white women.

    The Confront White Womanhood project encourages white women to stop participating in the “oppression of people of color” by educating themselves about how they’ve been “accomplices” in white supremacy and “violence” against racial minorities.

    https://pjmedia.com/trending/womens-march-organizers-now-targeting-white-womanhood/

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  86. Farm Boy says:

    A page on the University of Dayton’s website recommends that students avoid using gendered language, including “husband” and “wife.”

    The university describes the guide as “an educational resource,” rather than a policy or “guide,” but sophomore Piran Talkington fears it sets a dangerous precedent that could lead to a future where words are stripped of meaning.

    https://www.campusreform.org/?ID=10515

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  87. Cheque d'Out says:

    Pressure cooker for de-toughising meat. I think that that’s the techinial term for it

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  88. Cheque d'Out says:

    Might be of interest and use for da laydeez

    I’m six minutes in and the women are talking sense.

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  89. earl says:

    ‘I see. I haven’t looked at those.’

    Yeah I get some with similar interests…but it also seems to know what the complete opposite of those are.

    So yes wordpress…I love good male insight on things, good women who love God & men, and I abhor the wimminz

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  90. earl says:

    Here’s another example.

    ‘The curse of the breadwinner wife’

    https://breadwinnerwife.blog/2018/02/14/the-curse-of-the-breadwinner-wife/

    Another woman probably gets what she wants…and ends up resenting and divorcing the guy. This is why I’m done understanding women’s ‘fried ice’ brains. Go with God’s word…He set everything up.

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  91. earl says:

    This one is interesting too…kind of like the ‘fried ice’ thinking for men. It’s like they give the politically correct answer but their true nature knows that’s not the type of woman necessary for sucess.

    I’m personally looking for the best helpmate God provides me. Leave the strong independent nonsense out.

    ‘When I began my research, almost all the guys I interviewed or chatted up insisted that when it came to the women they wanted, “the more, the better.” They also said that while they were not personally intimidated by smart, successful, attractive women, they felt most other men were. But as I got guys talking—really talking—they started to say some more revelatory things.

    I talked to my good friend Jack, a witty and self-aware 27-year-old consultant. When I asked him what he was looking for in a lifelong partner, he said that, of course, he wanted a smart, independent, successful, beautiful woman (yada yada). However, later in our conversation, he also said that if he didn’t feel like he could win over a girl who fit the bill, he’d “start looking for reasons to discount her.” And he told me, “You can pretty easily convince yourself that you never really wanted her to begin with.”’

    ‘Why Are So Many Smart Women Still Single?’

    https://pushup24.com/2018/02/14/why-are-so-many-smart-women-still-single/

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  92. earl says:

    ‘Hells teeth I gave it my best shot (livinglarosa). What is the point of it?’

    I took it as her diary about her alpha widow, and highlighting her victimhood….while at the same time convincing herself how awesome she is.

    This is how most modern women operate now. Feminism has turned them into a mess.

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  93. Yoda says:

    Guys say that they want smart independent women because to say otherwise won’t be PC not

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  94. Cill says:

    “Pressure cooker.” One of those old steam pressure pots?

    We fell back on the tried and true method of beating the shit out of the steak. It’s still not as tender as high quality steak but okay.

    The meat is from a kill that didn’t go to plan. The best method is to let the cattle get used to you coming close to them with a gun. I even talk to the brutes. Then when the time comes, they are nice and relaxed in the paddock when I shoot them through the brain. Chain them to the bucket of a tractor, lift them up and off to the butcher shed.

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  95. earl says:

    I really don’t want a smart, strong, sassy, independant woman. Most of the time they are actually a mess.

    If a woman describes herself as humble, pleasant, pretty (aka not obese), and demure…that’s better and would probably attract more men. I have yet to see that though.

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  96. earl says:

    My 4 point checklist for women makes more sense than their 451 point checklist for a man.

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  97. Yoda says:

    Wonder if women ever consider what a fella wants I do

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  98. Cheque d'Out says:

    Cill, that’s the way I’d like to go.

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  99. RichardP says:

    @Cill: “We fell back on the tried and true method of beating the shit out of the steak.”

    I was going to mention whacking it with a meat hammer. And if that didn’t work, just let the cows walk on it for a while. But it looks like you got it figured out.

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  100. Yoda says:

    Actress Retta said in an interview with Variety that her upcoming crime comedy-drama series Good Girls will appeal to women who feel “helpless” in the era of President Donald Trump.

    http://www.breitbart.com/big-hollywood/2018/02/15/good-girls-star-retta-says-nbc-show-speaks-to-women-who-feel-helpless-under-trump/

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  101. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Earl,
    More intelligent women are not unattractive per se. It is just that it will turn into dominance issues in time. What sane man wants to fall into that trap?

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