I have acquaintances and relatives with teen girls. Some of them have a hands off approach assuming that all teen girls of today will “go off the rails”, so there isn’t much point in doing anything about it. This is just lazy parenting. It is most unimpressive.
Let us consider what happens with typical teens. The girls start to notice that the boys are noticing them. They realize that they have this power. It feels good. They start experimenting with this power. Being a young teen, their minds are not particularly well developed, so long term implications are often not up for consideration. Being children still, they are very much shaped by behavioral psychology, effectively learning by doing with positive or negative reinforcement. They start doing stuff; being children it typically is lowest common denominator stuff. Through behaviorism, this becomes what they are.
For the girls, it is about experimenting to learn tricks of the trade to obtain validation, tingles, and resources. Often these tricks work in the short term, but are counterproductive in the long term. Many have an underhanded nature to them. But kids will be kids and let them figure it out, or so they say.
I have seen many adult women who are the adult version of this, where their whole existence revolves around working men to obtain validation, tingles and resources. By the time one is a mature adult, those activities should be have been long gone for two reasons,
- They are lots of work. Often, the guys are wise to the game and are not giving up what she wants easily. So there is lots of heat generated, and not so much light
- Ideally she has locked down validation, tingles and resources; and should be moving on to other more important things in her life.
Short answer — being a teen slut sends one down a path of stunted growth. In the long run, men just use them, for they really are not much good for anything else.