This is what happens when you put men and women together in a workplace.
Men chase attractive women. Women chase attractive men.
Some woman somewhere doesn’t like it when an unattractive man tries to act like an attractive man. Some woman somewhere doesn’t like it when a man uses his power and influence to get a woman (women) into bed, and then that woman doesn’t get something she wants (a relationship, a job promotion) or feels something she doesn’t want to feel (guilt, remorse, slutty, used).
Men change and adapt to the situations they find themselves in. Women demand that the situations they find themselves in change and adapt to fit the women in them.
Part of changing and adapting the men are doing are:
1) excluding women, refusing to hire women
2) GTOW/refusing to date women
3) Refusing to interact with women in the workplace
4) Refusing to work with women
5) surreptitious recording of interactions with women
The funny thing is that some of the fixes proposed in that article are clear violations of employment antidiscrimination laws – treating men and women fundamentally differently solely on the basis of sex. And so I think more and more businesses will respond by refusing to hire women and by hiring less qualified men over more qualified women. And the even funnier thing is that that hiring practice IN ITSELF is a violation of US antidiscrimination laws. I am waiting for the day when a company gets sued for employment discrimination and uses as its defense
“We don’t hire women because we don’t want the expense or risk of spurious sex harassment/sex misconduct claims. One claim, even if true, could put us out of business. We want to stay in business. Men don’t make sex harassment claims. Women do – and we’ve investigated them, and found most of them to be so trivial as to be ridiculous, even more of them are a result of thin skinned hypersensitive women, or out and out false. And it costs us a shitton of money and expense and lost productivity. And we’re sick of it. Sure, some women aren’t a problem. But some are, and we don’t know who will be until they’re here. Hiring and employing women is more trouble, effort, time and expense than it’s worth.”
I know, I know. The response is “then hire men who don’t harass women; and fire men who do, and you’ll be fine.” Well, no it isn’t fine. Because businesses have done that. And men have changed. But as usual with women, it isn’t enough. It’s NEVER enough. They always want more, demand more, expect more. They always push and push and demand that people, workplaces, churches, EVERYTHING, change to suit THEM.
Not only that, what the fuck do people expect to happen when you put men and women together, and some of those men are attractive? Well, shit. Women chase that attractive man. And that attractive man can do whatever the fuck he wants – he can violate sex harassment policies to his heart’s fucking content, and fuck his way through all the women in the office. And women HAVE NO GODDAMN problem with that WHATSOEVER. It’s when some middling to unattractive man meekly asks out some woman at work, and she calls HR on him and he gets his ass fired.
It is all about women getting everything they want, and men getting squeezed harder and harder and harder until they get NOTHING they NEED.
I know, I know. “You’re just pissed off because you’re not attractive! Suck it, asshole!” Well, if we’re going to have a society based on “attractive men get everything; unattractive men get nothing”, then Game is what you get. You get more and more unmarried women vying for the fewer attractive men. You get more and more divorces. You get more societal instability. You get more sluts and cads. You get an increasingly alienated, deprived, pissed off male majority living in lack, poverty and sexual deserts. You get more and more “entitled”, bitchy, masculine women.
You get extreme radical fundamentalism. You get hookers and brothels. You get moral decay and depravity. You get societal breakdown where people don’t trust each other at all, where individuals have no stake in society, and where society gives a majority of its individuals nothing and no rights. You get a society in which an increasing number of men see no reason to defend that society. You get civil unrest. You get civil war.
Why do most people here post anonymously? Because at bottom, we don’t trust each other. But more, we don’t trust those we don’t know – lurkers who read here. If we posted under our real names, within the hour the things I’ve said here would be in front of my bosses and I would very likely be fired. The things we talk about here are unpopular, and in today’s #metoo environment, would certainly “make someone uncomfortable”. That would be enough to summarily dismiss me from my employment and make me unemployable, and I’d probably be hauled in front of the state lawyers’ disciplinary board and brought up on disciplinary charges. I’d probably lose my law license or at least get a reprimand, which would be a permanent blemish on my license and likely make me unemployable.
The society we live in becomes less and less free by the day, folks. We are not free.
I’m still waiting for the time when one of these women calls my current employer to accuse me of harassment and demand that I be fired:
–that girl back in college I had a ONS with and didn’t call back
–that girl back in high school I went out with and kissed without asking her first
–that girlfriend back in college I had a huge blowout fight with and we called each other all kinds of nasty names during a shouting match
–that girl back in college i had sex with when we were both really drunk
Bottom line, boys and girls — it’s now illegal to be an unattractive man in 21st century America. If you are an unattractive man, you can make a living; but it is illegal for you to be the “man” part. It is illegal for unattractive men to act on their sexual drives. It is illegal for unattractive men to act like men. It is illegal for unattractive men to ask women out, to ask for dates, to show overt sexual interest in women.
It is illegal for unattractive men to be “men” in 21st century America. If an unattractive man attempts to act like a man, he will lose his job, be sued for damages, and possibly brought up on criminal charges.
That’s where we are at the end of 2017, folks.
And when you make it illegal for men to be men, you radicalize those men. You divest them of any stake in the society they live in. You give them no reason to ally themselves with you. You give them no reason to defend the society they live in; and every reason to attack it and destabilize it from within. You make them into your enemies.
Why would anyone expect any man to give anything to a society when that society makes clear it will give him nothing and in fact will attack him and take from him what little he does have?