Alpha Widowhood: How Much Impact?

Women have hypergamy built-in.  They possess a strong desire to pair up with what their tingles tell are top men.  Just to set the record straight, men do not have a comparable feature as hypergamy.  Back to the point, when women have sex with an uber-tingling fella (especially when they are young and impressionable), they never forget it.  Furthermore, since these strong tingle inducing men are unlikely to commit to her, there will often be many returns to the rodeo, with lots of different riders.

The above defines the act, what precisely is the impact?  To the individual and society as a whole?

If you want to be miserable for the rest of your life,

Be an alpha-widow, then a wife.

So from my personal point of view,

Those five minutes will ruin you.

Consider these women.  Very possibly they are alpha-widows.  Notice how miserable they are.  Notice how they disrespect their husbands.  This is often an alpha-widow tell.  Why do they disrespect?  The husbands are all competent breadwinners.  They seem to be competent fathers and beyond that husbands.  It is likely that the disrespect comes form the ever nagging notion that their husbands don’t measure up; and that they embarrassingly settled. For with so many women, tingles uber alles.

Their marriages have issues.  Their husbands suffer.  Their children suffer.  Probably their cats and dogs suffer also.  Everybody pays a price.

Now multiply that by the number of women who have been banged by some hot guy(s) in their youth.  Probably not all women who have engaged in these activities have become alpha-widows, and alpha-widowhood is not to blame for all marital and motherhood woes; but all women who have done so carry baggage as a result.  Very often, that baggage plays out poorly.

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85 comments on “Alpha Widowhood: How Much Impact?
  1. SFC Ton says:

    I need a good English name for my new Triumph

    Any suggest Spawny


  2. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    I think that it may be more the fault of hypergamy than alpha widowhood. Women have all these ridiculous conditions that, if multiplied, would leave less than one percent of the adult male population acceptable. So they find someone who will accept them and are never satisfied. But that is not enough. They proceed to tear him down at their leisure until they run the relationship on the rocks. At least, they were in control.

    As for alpha widowhood. There probably is a lot of that too. If marriage is put off till age thirty and they start being sexually active at fifteen, that is fifteen years, and half her life. for her to be exposed to a guy that pushes all her buttons.

    With Stephanie’s report that a lot of her contemporaries act like their dance card is full, this is not going to change anytime soon.


  3. Yoda says:

    Perhaps a nasty witch’s brew hypergamy and alpha-widowhood are

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  4. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    “Boil, boil, toil and trouble.
    Fire burn and cauldron bubble.”

    “Toto, I don’t think we are in Kansas any more.”


  5. SFC Ton says:

    Lady name


  6. BuenaVista says:

    I wouldn’t make the assumption that they’re alpha widows. Good to see another woman on anti-depressants, though.


  7. Yoda says:

    Difficult to find a virgin woman at first marriage these days it is


  8. SFC Ton says:

    LOL most girls live is some fantasy land of their own making, doubling down on imaginary life what media, fairy tales and what not create in their mostly empty little heads. All that shit makes most girls some version of alpha widow before the take their 1st cock but I don’t think their are enough real live alphas to make so many alpha widows.

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  9. Yoda says:

    Ones “close enough” probably do the trick they can


  10. Yoda says:

    Much fantasy young women have.
    Stands them in good stead it does not.


  11. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    “Difficult to find a virgin woman at first marriage these days it is.”
    When the age of of first marriage is delayed, it brings the age of first sex forward. It seems to be a natural consequence. Women are not going to wait till they are thirty for their first sexual experience. They will have it all the the earlier. This also extends their premarital sexual career, which may give it more significance than their marital sexual career. This does not make for good wives and mothers.

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  12. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    “Much fantasy young women have.”
    It starts early with the Disney princesses and never lets up.

    Liked by 1 person

  13. SFC Ton says:

    Possible Master Yoda and really the one dude only has to more alpha then the current cock fucking her.


  14. Stephanie says:

    LOL all the talk about women is reminding me of this song

    Liked by 3 people

  15. Spawny Get says:

    Triumph Stag was a British classic V8. Classic meaning it broke down a lot, but when it worked it put a big smile on your face…so ‘Stag’? A mate had one, he loved it.

    Couple of early jet fighters and bombers had decent names ‘Venom’ and ‘Vulcan’ (also the vulcan cannon nowadays). Spitfire. Tempest and Typhoon ground attack piston era fighters. Black Prince was a very good tank that just missed WWII. 17 pounder gun (like the Sherman Firefly tank) but with decent armour too. Crusader tank from the battles against Rommel in North Africa.

    Dreadnaught from the birth of the modern warship (unless you want to count the yankee Monitors, which were the previous step forward, but they’re yankee).

    British sports cars that weren’t out and out power machines, more nimble and good handling were called ‘B road blasters’ (twisty windy roads basically point, squirt and brake).

    Conqueror was the British nuke powered hunter/killer sub that took out the Argentine cruiser the General Belgrano. Resulting in the entire Argentine navy spending the rest of the Falklands war in port. They had no effective means of detecting our hunter killers.


  16. Spawny Get says:

    Excalibur (King Arthur’s sword), Merlin (Spitfire / Lancaster / tank engine and King Arthur’s Legend too)


  17. Spawny Get says:

    The guy who wrote Stephanie’s song was pretty red-pill. Nice find

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  18. Alan Kardec says:

    TON: “most girls live in some fantasy land of their own making”

    Years ago a girl says to me, pretending to ask a question but actually just complaining: “Why are men so afraid of marriage?” Without thinking, or even understanding, I say: “We’re not. We’re afraid of women’s imaginations.”

    Thirty years on, my intellect has finally caught up with whatever honest impulse caused me to say that! Heck, there’s even people who’ve figured out what I meant before I did.

    Triumph: Maybe Guinevere (Gwenevere) for something out of King Arthur. I had a Series III Rover I occasionally referred to as Edwina because she was old and had trouble getting up in the morning … no reason, it was just nicer than calling her the Anti Christ.

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  19. Spawny Get says:

    The first couple of likes to Alan were to flag up to him that the comment had been freed up, the final and enduring one was for the comment.

    Also, it sounds like you had the full-fat British sports car experience…


  20. Yoda says:

    I say: “We’re not. We’re afraid of women’s imaginations.”

    Perhaps alternatively phrased as “Afraid of women who understand reality not” we are


  21. Yoda says:

    If motorcycle silly and unreliable it is,
    Call it Pippa you might.

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  22. Spawny Get says:

    I guess my sign off from my wife was saying while very, very drunk (but felt reasonably sober)…”I can never love you as you want me to”, which is to say, I would never be the simp that her dad was to her mum. I told her before we married that she and I were not going to have that kind of marriage…she either didn’t believe me then, or she did but decided to forget it when she decided that she wanted to make what ever stupid decisions she felt like in the marriage.

    Femininity is the assumed right to re-write history at will to suit whatever her feelz require in the moment, for the moment.

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  23. Cill says:

    Call it Goneril for a bitch


  24. Yoda says:

    I told her before we married that she and I were not going to have that kind of marriage

    Women perhaps take men at their word they should.
    Wonder why they do not I do.
    Perhaps projection it is

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  25. Yoda says:

    Barbie still isn’t pulling her weight at Mattel.

    Shares of the toymaking giant dropped nearly 10 percent in early Friday trades after it posted disappointing quarterly sales and profits, partly blaming weak demand for its iconic Barbie dolls.

    Barbie sales tumbled 5 percent during the quarter, marking Barbie’s third consecutive decline despite last year’s launch of three new Barbie body types — petite, tall and curvy — which briefly goosed sales. Barbie is also increasingly available in a range of skin colors in a bid to make Barbie more attractive to kids worldwide.

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  26. Alan Kardec says:

    Yoda: “Perhaps alternatively phrased as “Afraid of women who understand reality not” we are.”

    It’s the “understand” part that’s the kicker. Nothing wrong with many situations if you understand and take responsibility for their various aspects. My mother married my Dad very young. He was an Alpha who delivered quiet, positive and gentle domination in any situation he chose to put himself into. They were married until his death. She backed him in every way and still does, thirty years later. She’s an Alpha Widow and without understanding the term, she understands her feelings. She’s never romantically connected with another man; she knows and has said many times that no one could ever compete. But, culturally, she’s “old” for her generation, having been raised by grandparents born in the late 1800s. I’m guessing this behavior was more common in the past.

    “Women perhaps take men at their word they should. Wonder why they do not I do.”

    I think we occasionally look for the qualities we value in ourselves in the opposite sex. For millennia women found success in avoiding rules, working the gray areas, using soft constantly negotiable power. Saying what you mean is to get trapped into a position. A man finds comfort there, a woman does not. Emotion compresses our (men and women) sense of time, makes it seem as if things are all happening at once. If you live in an emotional state more often being able to move in any or every direction just makes sense. I don’t really find it commendable but I do find it understandable.

    To my eternal discredit I actually have an Alfa Romeo. She gets called Strega (witch) when she’s acting badly!

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  27. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    The first girl who ever got the best of me was my date to see that on the stage. Douglas Fairbanks Jr. had the the role of Professor Higgins.

    Yoda and Spawny,
    I think that women believe they can alter the deal once they enter into it. To be crude, I think they attribute this to the power of sex. It must have come as a shock to Spawny’s ex wife that he meant what he said.
    I can say that I have seen this with my brother. They’re still married, but she does make major revisions in the plan at her discretion. If I went looking for it, no doubt that I would find it everywhere.

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  28. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Decades ago, there was a television series “Police Story”. A lot of the scripts were written by Joseph Wambaugh and there was no fixed cast. Much of it was brilliant stuff. Given the age, you may not have seen it.

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  29. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I don’t think that it is Barbie who has failed. I think the fortunes of parents are so diminished that Barbie may be an extravagance. Kids are growing up a lot poorer than they did when we were kids. It is safe to chalk a lot of this up to single mommies.

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  30. SFC Ton says:

    Need some girl names. right now she’s just called the bitch but the truck is also called the bug black bitch

    Though I encouraged my neighbour two door downs to do a rebuild on a MG A. Holy fuck is is beautiful and on my bucket list.


  31. SFC Ton says:

    Though I might start calling the truck Dreadnaught

    Liked by 1 person

  32. Spawny Get says:

    Unleash the popcorn

    Liked by 2 people

  33. Spawny Get says:

    Here you go.

    HMS Dreadnought was a battleship built for the Royal Navy that revolutionised naval power. Her entry into service in 1906 represented such an advance in naval technology that her name came to be associated with an entire generation of battleships, the “dreadnoughts”, as well as the class of ships named after her. The generation of ships she made obsolete became known as “pre-dreadnoughts”. Admiral Sir John “Jacky” Fisher, First Sea Lord of the Board of Admiralty, is credited as the father of Dreadnought. Shortly after he assumed office, he ordered design studies for a battleship armed solely with 12-inch (305 mm) guns and a speed of 21 knots (39 km/h; 24 mph). He convened a “Committee on Designs” to evaluate the alternative designs and to assist in the detailed design work. One ancillary benefit of the Committee was that it would shield him and the Admiralty from political charges that they had not consulted leading experts before designing such a radically different battleship.

    DAMN I spelled it wrong! The shame

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  34. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Popcorn? Coming right up!

    I hope they keep going until CNN closes their doors.

    Liked by 1 person

  35. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Spawny Get,
    “DAMN I spelled it wrong! The shame!”
    I have heard that William Shakespears spelt his name at least five different waysx. That is the problem with English. With so many root languages, spelling is not phonetic, nor uniform.

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  36. Spawny Get says:


    We spell that ‘wazzock’. A clown, buffoon, pillock etc


  37. Spawny Get says:

    What a title…popcorn….

    Liked by 2 people

  38. Yoda says:

    If Royal Navy warships names desire you do,

    Iron Duke
    Indefatigable (so British this name is)

    Liked by 1 person

  39. Yoda says:

    Toxicly Masculine he would be

    A nation of children is growing up today under a toxic leader. They’re developing and learning how to be adults. They’re curious about how to find their way in this world. And they’re looking for examples of what it means to “be a man.”


  40. Cill says:


    Liked by 1 person

  41. Cill says:

    Road Rage Aussie style.

    Female passenger in car throws nails and chisel at male in another car, breaking his car window. She stops to confront him and he clobbers her.

    Liked by 4 people

  42. Yoda says:

    Perhaps most appropriate ship name for the Ton would be


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  43. Farm Boy says:

    I just got out of the movie theater. I watched Valerian and the City of a Thousand Planets. It is a Luc Besson flick. I like Luc Besson flicks. But not this one. It sucked. I hated the main characters, and hoped that they died during the movie. The plot was cringeworthy. Don’t see.

    Liked by 2 people

  44. Cill says:

    Aussie Road Rage (contd)

    In that video, another driver alleges that those same 2 scrubbers (women) threw things at her car on an earlier date. Later they vandalised her car outside her house.

    Liked by 2 people

  45. Cill says:

    Also after that road rage incident the skanks tried to run him over. They admit it all on facebook. It’s all on that video.

    Liked by 2 people

  46. SFC Ton says:

    Can’t recall the last movie I enjoyed. Maybe it was 13 hours but they all just suck ass these days


  47. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Spawny Get,
    It is a wonder that anyone pays attention to them. They are that loathsome.

    For all that they did, people are still condemning this guy and defending these women. They should be in jail. The good news is that as behavior by women like this becomes more common, they will go to jail.

    That link was written by Gavin Newsom’s wife. He is the former Mayor of San Francisco and the current Lieutenant Governor. Vitriol on that level means that Donald Trump’s political enemies are mortal.

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  48. BuenaVista says:

    I thought “Baby Driver” was very good. Can’t think of another good, original movie this year. The director wrote the movie ‘backwards’: he started with the soundtrack, then blocked the action to reflect what was happening in the music, then wrote the script. This hadn’t been done before.


  49. BuenaVista says:

    This is the first six minutes of BD:


  50. BuenaVista says:

    I thought 13 Hours was good but left out the good stuff:

    a. Who was running the consulate; odd that he/she didn’t make the picture. Where was he/she?

    b. How was the villa supposed to be defended? did the consular officer know what he/she was doing in selecting it?

    c. They didn’t actually issue any visas, so …

    d. Why was an indefensible villa, 80 miles from the fighting, chosen to host a black op?


  51. SFC Ton says:

    The dude who made 13 hours said he avoided politics/ political questions to focus on the PMC’s.

    Part of me thinks the mission went bad because SEAL’s were basically running the ops and their missions go sideways on the regular


  52. Yoda says:

    Halal certification chief Mohamed Elmouelhy told his Facebook followers the solution to this perceived demographic crisis for Australian women is for Muslim men to “fertilise them” and “keep them surrounded by Muslim babies” as part of what he foresees as the gradual Islamisation of Australia.

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  53. Yoda says:

    It makes me wonder what happened to the Brave New World we’d envisaged for our daughters and granddaughters. A world of unlimited possibilities, choices and equality for girls to become or do anything?

    A world I — like many women — fought for in the Sixties.

    Has feminism made life worse, not better, for today’s generation of girls?

    Certainly, women have never existed in such a bleak emotional landscape.

    Liked by 1 person

  54. Yoda says:

    A female mountain climber in Sweden called out air ambulance and rescue personnel because she felt tired and wanted a ride back down from a mountain she had scaled.

    Liked by 2 people

  55. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    That is the most pooped out bear I have ever seen. About the female hiker, I wonder if she would have pulled this stunt if she were in the company of women? It is good that they charged her serious money. That should dissuade other women from pulling the same trick.

    I read that link about the feminist grandmother. She is still blaming men. They can’t stop.

    I am surprised this clown can still access his facebook account. Had a white Christian said as much, He would be banned permanently.

    Love that bear!

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  56. Yoda says:

    Women suffered most they did

    Britain’s Prince William and his wife, Kate, on Sunday joined Belgian royals and relatives of soldiers who fought in the Battle of Passchendaele to mark 100 years since the offensive

    Liked by 1 person

  57. Yoda says:

    Comforting this is

    “He was known as an Islamist but not a jihadist,” he stated.


  58. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Forever will be attached to that sentiment. No wonder that she was the feminist candidate.


  59. Master Yoda
    The Dailynews article and many like it interesting they are.
    Feminists not liking wide open competion they are.
    (Strength and endurance gender fluid they are not)
    Forced to show their bodies as no other tools they have.

    The resounding reply in the comments of such articles (even by manginas)

    “Bed you made, lie in it (alone) you must” and

    “Boo FUCKING Hoo”

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  60. Re Mrs Spawny not believing what her man said.

    Most do this. It is projection because women’s intentions are malliable.
    They cannot concieve of a fixed intention.

    Major change in the horseman household was finding out words are exactly as stated.
    “I’ll fix the fence”. ..Voila fence is fixed.
    “I’ll do it later.” …Not moving for two hours and then it is done.

    And the number one believe it or else:

    “There is the door.” …go or go not, there is no threaten.

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    Ok being serious here with a question for real consideration.

    Just as alpha widowhood five minutes of fantasy wrecks girls expectations for life,
    How many guys (even betas) after five minutes with a guilt free hassle free lifelike substitute will be doll widowers.

    I.e. after finding an acceptable substitute will be unable to put up with female whining bullshit long enough to survive even three dates to start a relationship.

    They may be the bottom 20% but you take 20% out of the pool its still a big impact.

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  62. Imagine that doll thats lifesize with the onboard ai of the gatebox thing.

    Not saying its right but the competition is getting closer.

    Especially when this is what it is competing against

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  63. Spawny Get says:



    Couldn’t resist

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  64. Yoda says:

    The University of Iowa’s student newspaper has announced the discovery of a special privilege which intelligent people acquire as an accident of birth. This new privilege — called “cognitive privilege” — functions in essentially the same way as white privilege.

    Liked by 1 person

  65. I just can’t concieve of being stupid

    Liked by 1 person

  66. Farm Boy says:

    Chris Sevier says that if same-sex couples are able to get married and demand that Christian bakers make them wedding cakes, then he should be allowed to marry his laptop and demand a cake to celebrate the union between one man and one machine.

    Liked by 1 person

  67. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Women should be very nervous over the conjunction of A.I. and sex dolls. On this, they have painted themselves into a corner.


  68. Farm Boy says:

    There is a post related to that coming in two days

    Liked by 1 person

  69. Yoda says:

    “There is the door.” …go or go not, there is no threaten.

    Charge you licensing fee I will.
    Send loonies to:

    Planet Degoba

    Liked by 2 people

  70. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Be careful. Horseman may take that to mean that he may divert all the people who threatened to move to Canada with Trump’s election. They would qualify as “looney”, would they not?


  71. Yoda says:

    Lewd and rude “desnudas” – naked female panhandlers – are harassing tourists in New York’s Times Square, but cops reportedly can’t arrest them “because most of them are illegal immigrants.”

    Liked by 1 person

  72. Yoda says:

    A student from Evergreen State College named Kai-Ave Douvia is of Native American and Puerto Rican descent.

    He’s also a progressive, yet he became the target of fellow students at Evergreen before the protests began this spring.

    According to Douvia, he posted something on Facebook which was meant to point out the hypocrisy of social justice warrior students. They had written something about “students of color” and he rewrote it substituting with the word “white” to show the double standard. That simple action earned him scorn, confrontations, and even an order to stay away from certain other students.

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  73. Yoda says:

    After the incident, Douvia went to campus police and told them what had happened. He was given a no-contact order and told to stay 100 feet from any student involved in the incident, which meant he had to avoid on-campus meetings the other students might attend. The student who yelled at him and the people he was with when he did it were not disciplined at all.

    “I get told that I am some sort of race traitor or that I hide behind my light-skinned privilege because I am not siding with the students,” Douvia said. He continued, “That’s something that just blows my mind because I don’t feel like behavior like this towards anything is acceptable, especially when you’re specifically trying to target a race. I don’t feel like that’s an acceptable thing to do. And, for me, because I didn’t side with the group that looks the most like me, I’m now a racist.”

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  74. thedeti says:

    I’m with BV. I dn’t think these women in Bloom’s post are alpha widows. They’re just women who never were really all that attracted to the men they married, and what little attraction was there, wasn’t enough to carry them through the shit that happens in all marriages.

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  75. thedeti says:

    Oh yeah. And some of these women are just a little bit nuts. Some of them are sorely disappointed at their marriages because marriage wasn’t what they thought it would be. Some of them didn’t have their “scripts” or their “plans” go exactly as they wanted.

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