Women have hypergamy built-in. They possess a strong desire to pair up with what their tingles tell are top men. Just to set the record straight, men do not have a comparable feature as hypergamy. Back to the point, when women have sex with an uber-tingling fella (especially when they are young and impressionable), they never forget it. Furthermore, since these strong tingle inducing men are unlikely to commit to her, there will often be many returns to the rodeo, with lots of different riders.
The above defines the act, what precisely is the impact? To the individual and society as a whole?
If you want to be miserable for the rest of your life,
Be an alpha-widow, then a wife.
So from my personal point of view,
Those five minutes will ruin you.
Consider these women. Very possibly they are alpha-widows. Notice how miserable they are. Notice how they disrespect their husbands. This is often an alpha-widow tell. Why do they disrespect? The husbands are all competent breadwinners. They seem to be competent fathers and beyond that husbands. It is likely that the disrespect comes form the ever nagging notion that their husbands don’t measure up; and that they embarrassingly settled. For with so many women, tingles uber alles.
Their marriages have issues. Their husbands suffer. Their children suffer. Probably their cats and dogs suffer also. Everybody pays a price.
Now multiply that by the number of women who have been banged by some hot guy(s) in their youth. Probably not all women who have engaged in these activities have become alpha-widows, and alpha-widowhood is not to blame for all marital and motherhood woes; but all women who have done so carry baggage as a result. Very often, that baggage plays out poorly.