Young Blokes — Learn Game

Young men are beaten down and despised by women and society.  They need a bit of confidence to compensate.  This is justification enough for a young fella to learn game.  It is basically a set of techniques that will improve your appeal and standing with women.  This is important, as women apparently have become the arbiters of value in people.  Of course they truly are not, but since most see them as such, this is a useful skill to keep in your back pocket.

So much of life success is about social skills; and this can be a very useful social skill.   Ideally the confidence gained through its skillful application will bleed into other aspects of your life, creating a domino effect.  If nothing else, learning game will remove much of the mystique that has been intentionally been built around women, allowing you to better handle them in all situations.

There are people who do not want you to understand game.  Some believe that only the so-called naturals should have access to it; no fakers need apply.  Others believe that it is mystical sorcery from the devil; as with manospherian Joseph of Jackson who was excommunicated from his church because of game.  Still others believe that men should not be manipulative, just as women are not manipulative.  Mostly it comes down to who’s ox is being gored, and that person is not the fella with knowledge of game.

So why not?

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116 comments on “Young Blokes — Learn Game
  1. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Still angry about Joseph of Jackson I am.
    See his boys take girls to the drive in and share a malted milkshake was his goal.
    Booted out he was at insistence of church hens.
    The last word was he was looking for a new church. Anyone know more?

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  2. Yoda says:


    ” If she’s unsubmissive – and most modern women seem to be – then that is the problem, not the man’s lack of alpha-ness.”

    I’m going to chime in. I would argue the exact opposite. Women need boundaries. They crave them. Their desire for a bad boy is rooted in not being able to manipulate him and being given firm boundaries for their relationship. To a woman unhealthy boundaries are better than none.

    Personally, I set boundaries for women all the time. It has become one of the most important parts of my game (I know a lot of guys around here don’t like that term).

    Example from this last Sunday:

    Girl: (runs over to tell me hi and intentionally interrupts my conversation) Hey, what are you……….

    Me: I’m sorry, I was talking. Now you have to wait.

    Conversation continues as normal and I make her wait for at least 2 minutes while I make eye contact periodically to let her know she’s not forgotten. The guy I’m talking to gets really uncomfortable.

    Me: Ok, I’m done. Hi.

    Girl: That was rude.

    Me: You were rude first. Do better next time.

    5 minute conversation…….

    Girl to my Fiance: I really like talking to him, I can see why you picked him.

    Fiance: I didn’t pick him, he picked me.

    No exaggerations. Suffice it to say she is very respectful of me and what I’m doing every time she sees me. She has firm boundaries with me and she enjoys talking to me because of them.

    Women can’t fix themselves as a group (some individuals can, but they are exceptions). We literally have to do it for them.

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  3. Yoda says:


    The important part is not rewarding bad behavior. Women know that they are pushing limits. They want to see if yours are real or not (thus displaying value). The important part is to make sure you approach it like you would a game (which is where the term comes from, a lot of people don’t know that). You don’t have to be serious. I smirked at her while I made her wait. She knew what she did wasn’t right and I called her on it, then I made sure not to reward bad behavior by indulging her (while still not taking it/her too seriously).


  4. Yoda says:


    “She might not nag, but she doesn’t ‘add value.’”

    You tell me how to market this to the average western woman and I’ll buy you a steak. Women today honestly consider themselves marriage material based on how few (what we would refer to as) bad traits they have.

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  5. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    With all the women bent on rebellion, I have to wonder. Even Roosh has said that he tires of being an “entertaining clown”. After Morpheus’ wife dumped him, yielding to the influence of her female peers, it took the wind out of my sails.

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  6. Yoda says:


    “Now, we bang out a witty remark in someone’s comment section and do no more, satisfied that we’ve accomplished something.”

    Speak for yourself. I tried teaching game to a group of men at my church and got kicked out for my trouble. What came out of it? 6 men, and yes I mean men, who have learned to better themselves very effectively and I want to turn this into a ministry (of some sort). None of this would have been possible without Dalrock and the others. If my mind is a sword, then these blogs are my whetstone.

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  7. Yoda says:


    “That’s a beautiful quote but my question is how do we make the minds of other boys and men into swords? ”

    You have to invest in them. Nobody seems to understand this, but one of the most important things for men is experience respect. Not just in relationships, but from everyone. We crave it at a deep level. You use this to draw men in.

    The reason there are groups of White Knights in churches that two the party line is that they are in positions where they have authority. They receive respect for enforcing what the women want to see happen and thus are 100% willing to sacrifice the good of other men because they will receive the respect they crave in return for these actions. The list of men who do this is the same in almost every church, the pastor, associate ministers, deacons, elders, small group leaders. Find a man who has a position of authority in the church and you will automatically know who will be opposed to you teaching men differently about women BECAUSE they receive respect from the women for towing that line. You have to flip this script. Offer them respect, verbally and in action, for doing something different.

    The easiest way to do this is build a core group of men first who have gotten their game down. Then use them to change the culture of the church. Women are like people in the marketplace, they don’t know what they want until you show it to them. Trust me, show them real men and they will want it. Make them men of character and they will follow. When the women follow this core group, the church has no choice but to follow. The leadership follow the desires of the women in return for respect, and the women follow the real men you brought in because they are attracted to them.

    The tingle can be controlled, and sadly, so can the church through it.

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  8. Yoda says:



    They won’t be moving away from anything. They will be doing what all good church leaders do, following the women. You use game with a core group of men to create an environment that encourages young women to submit. Let me lay it out in a step by step game plan for you.

    1) Find men who are willing to learn
    2) Teach them game and offer respect for them using it to further the ends of Christ. This is a little nebulous, but essentially, they stop putting women on pedestals and instead put God on the pedestal where he belongs.
    3) Use them to begin changing the culture of the church by getting the women interested in what they have to offer instead of what the church currently does (aka: high quality men who don’t put up with their crap and actually read their Bibles).
    4) Attract more men to this cause slowly over time. Teach them as you did the others and have them join your ranks.
    5) Begin introducing the women to principles of submission and show them the kind of men they will be submitting to (aka: the guys you are raising up)
    6) Rinse and Repeat until the direction of the church has been changed from the bottom up.
    7) The leaders in the church will simply continue doing what they are doing. They will rationalize previous behaviors away and begin supplying the new “product” that the women now want.

    Make sense?

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  9. Yoda says:



    “In fact, I guess that the basic truths (for example, female hypergamy and male polygamy) were known by the ordinary people of yesteryear, because they are evident to anybody who has eyes.”

    The reason we don’t pick up on these things so easily today is because of our addiction to media. It’s hard to watch the world around you when you aren’t actually watching the world around you.

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  10. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I can see why the Nervous Nellies got Joseph booted out. He would have replaced their matriarchy with patriarchy.

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  11. Yoda says:

    The important part is not rewarding bad behavior. Women know that they are pushing limits. They want to see if yours are real or not (thus displaying value).

    Perhaps a man enforcing limits useful here it would be

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  12. RichardP says:

    Yoda – thanks for the link to “A Criticism Too Kind”. Some excellent writing there.

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  13. Yoda says:


    Welcome you are.
    Good stuff that thread would be


  14. Yoda says:

    Jeremy Corbyn will on Friday link Britain’s involvement in military action abroad to terrorist attacks such as the Manchester suicide bomb.

    The Labour leader will point to “the connections between wars the Government has supported or fought in other countries and terrorism here at home”.

    This relationship would work for Germany not

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  15. Yoda says:

    Interesting… I am a member of Mensa and have a doctorate in arguably one of the hardest hard-sciences and I find what is said in the manosphere accurate and concise. Unfortunately, it also goes against every belief of the types of idiots that stick their heads in the sand and refuse to see reality. Now, I am a lot older than most of the guys that learned from The Game and other books. I learned from reality, and was enjoying women long before there was a community dedicated to teaching younger guys how to interact with women to their advantage. I learned by empirical observation, and trial and error.

    And, it has been heartening to see this information is finally getting out there. Of course, I see backlash like that of Mr. Istrice – but that is to be expected. There was the KKK as a reaction to the civil-rights movement, and these people are like the KKK – failing to see reality and grasping at their failed ideology while refusing to see, and denying. But that is to be expected – there are always those small minded individuals who cannot deal with change, or reality. Those of us who live in the real world, use it to enhance our lives. So you can call it what you will – Game, seduction, whatever – it doesn’t matter. Women lap it up, and the man that is serving it, can use them as he wants. That is reality – and it is truly wonderful…


  16. Yoda says:


    I would argue that we are indeed doing something new, if not by concept, then by scale. Never before has such a large group of men gathered in one location to bring ideas together and to learn on so focused a topic as this. I am currently teaching a guy from Thailand game from my house in the States that I met on your website. While I agree we do stand on the shoulders of giants, the reality is that we are indeed standing and the next generation of men will rise even higher than us.

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  17. Spawny Get says:

    Better get…better get a bucket
    (Sargon vid)

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  18. Yoda says:

    Leakers and journalists are tied together like drug dealers and junkies.

    Unfair analogy? Maybe a bit, but people who live “respectable middle-class lives” can be just as dangerous, more dangerous, ultimately, than the murderous El Chapos of the world and that’s pretty bad. Only the other day some U.S. intel people or person leaked to the New York Times about the Manchester terrorist, causing news to be reported that could have instigated more Islamist child murders.

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  19. Spawny Get says:

    Brillo did thirty minutes with Corbyn…holy shit it was bad. Denied that issuing bonds represented increasing debt. ISYN. Talked all about Jezza’s past with terrorists. Forget car crash, this was an RMS Titanic v iceberg re-enactment but with a less happy ending


  20. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I have been giving Game some thought. While it may help a comparatively few individuals, what is needed is a collective solution. What it does is increase the SMV of the few people who can apply it, while all men need a boost in that area. Hypergamy has done a lot of damage. As women continue to set standards to ridiculous heights, the few feed the ego of women, counter the interest of men at large. In the end, women are going to find out the cost to them of imposing involuntary celibacy on the overwhelming majority of men.

    That photo of Michelle Obama brings this point home. Women’s status has been raised so far that her own husband is not free to criticize her choice of clothing.


  21. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Of possible interest to Yoda,

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  22. Spawny Get says:

    Uh oh
    CON 43%(-1), LAB 38%(+3), LDEM 10%(+1), UKIP 4%(+1)

    Fieldwork for this poll was conducted on Wednesday night and Thursday daytime, so is the first conducted entirely after the Manchester bombing.


  23. Yoda says:

    this was an RMS Titanic v iceberg re-enactment but with a less happy ending

    In real Titanic, saw Kate Winslet’s boobs we did
    Corbyn compete he cannot

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  24. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I don’t remember her boobs. i just remember the Renault’s window all steamed up. Maybe, her boobs are not all that memorable.


  25. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I just saw a video of Lauren Southern and she announced that she is speaking at Cal Poly today. Cal Poly is pretty laid back compared to Berkeley. Maybe, they will allow her to speak. If news comes from there, it may also be listed as San Luis Obispo.


  26. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    What feminism has done for football in America, they just did to hokey in Canada. How is Game expected to overcome this blatant misandry?

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  27. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    A hopeful note. There is more to Melania than good looks.
    Jackie Kennedy was able to charm Charles De Gaulle by speaking French.


  28. Spawny Get says:


    Liked by 1 person

  29. Farm Boy says:

    The growing number of Muslims in Germany represents not a threat but a learning opportunity, said Finance Minister Wolfgang Schäuble, discussing Islam in the wake of the Manchester attack.


  30. Farm Boy says:

    A doctor who called for ethnic minorities to rape female Front National (FN) voters so as to bring France “multicoloured descendants” and “kill right wing poison in the egg” has quit work after a ruling by the Order of Physicians.

    Liked by 3 people

  31. Farm Boy says:

    Taking migrants would do more damage to Poland than European Union (EU) sanctions, Interior Minister Mariusz Błaszczak has said, after fresh warnings from Brussels over the country’s refusal to welcome asylum seekers from the third world.

    Liked by 3 people

  32. Spawny Get says:

    Some good news

    Liked by 2 people

  33. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Spawny Get,
    Could the lid have finally blown off the kettle in Malmo?


  34. Spawny Get says:

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  35. Spawny Get says:

    Last I heard there were no casualties…

    Liked by 1 person

  36. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    No doubt French feminists endorsed Macron and ignored that.

    Spawny Get,
    The bike lock professor is not going to have too many friends in prison. If they give him a slap on the wrist after a charge sheet like that, I will be surprised.

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  37. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Thank you, Spawny for keeping us posted.

    Liked by 1 person

  38. Spawny Get says:

    ’bout right

    Liked by 2 people

  39. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I see the point. When it comes to censorship, where does it end? And while it is ongoing, who is going to believe what is being put forward?

    Liked by 2 people

  40. Yoda says:

    So sad this is

    A feminist student group at the University of Mary Washington has filed a Title IX lawsuit against the institution for failing to protect them from mean comments on the internet.

    Liked by 1 person

  41. Cill says:

    Americans can sign a petition here to appoint a special prosecutor to investigate the murder of Seth Rich

    Liked by 3 people

  42. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Done. This guy deserves justice. While a petition won’t produce evidence, it may light a fire under the backside of the US Attorney General.

    Liked by 2 people

  43. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I hope this cheers up our Glorious Patriarch. A female PM who calls a spade a spade and gets a stand ovation from the whole house.

    This may be the death of the EU, if they can’t threaten Poland.

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  44. Cill says:

    Should Yoda sign the petition as well? He’d be required to give first and last names, however. And a valid email address.

    Perhaps he could give Yoda as his first name and O’Degobah (or de Jedi) as his last name. He could pose as a member of the establishment by giving his email address as:

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  45. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Lauren Southern got to talk. I’m sorry. I had the dates mixed up. She got to talk yesterday. It’s a short video.
    She even baked a pie for the protesters.


  46. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Wasn’t it a requirement to be a resident of the US? Yoda lives on Degobah and his email address may reflect that. 🙂


  47. Yoda says:

    Silly way to give tribute it is

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  48. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I would rather see them lined up at the hardware store buy hammers and saws.


  49. Yoda says:

    Let Stephanie Crowder know we should

    The plan by the Alamo Drafthouse movie theater chain to offer women-only screenings of the upcoming film “Wonder Woman” has received a backlash of criticism

    “Apologies, gentlemen, but we’re embracing our girl power and saying ‘No Guys Allowed’ for one special night at the Alamo Ritz,” Alamo Drafthouse wrote on its site. “And when we say ‘People Who Identify As Women Only,’ we mean it. Everyone working at this screening — venue staff, projectionist, and culinary team — will be female.”

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  50. Yoda says:

    Allowed to sign the petition because speak fine English I do

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  51. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Jedi mind trick you dis use.
    I wonder if it is even legal to offer a woman only event in Texas. We are going to see more as it was a commercial success.


  52. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I don’t think that Mike Cernovitch was trying to spread rumors when he put it out that Hillary seemed to have Parkinson’s during the campaign. The coughing is still there and it is supposed to be a side effect of the medication. I wounder if we will ever get confirmation? Still, if true, seeing her lose is the most fortuitous thing that has happened in our country in a very long time.
    I would bet that no one walked out on her as they did for Mike Pence at Notre Dame. By the way, Wellesley is an all women’s college.

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  53. Spawny Get says:

    “Everyone working at this screening — venue staff, projectionist, and culinary team — will be female.”

    Well done you. Clap, clap

    Liked by 2 people

  54. Farm Boy says:

    The Manchester suicide bomber used taxpayer-funded student loans and benefits to bankroll the terror plot, police believe.

    Salman Abedi is understood to have received thousands of pounds in state funding in the run up to Monday’s atrocity even while he was overseas receiving bomb-making training.

    Liked by 2 people

  55. SFC Ton says:

    Mostly couples go to movies so that woman only deal will flop
    Feminism always flops in a free market environment

    Liked by 2 people

  56. Spawny Get says:

    If the guy isn’t going, who’s she going to get to pay for the tickets and the snacks?

    Liked by 3 people

  57. Farm Boy says:

    Women are woefully under-represented in movies, and as the misogynist backlash against last year’s “Ghostbusters” reboot revealed, there are plenty of people who resent it when women celebrate efforts to create empowering figures in our pop culture zeitgeist.
    This brings us to the backlash against Alamo Drafthouse who will be hosting a women’s-only screening of “Wonder Woman”across several locations on June 2.

    Said Morgan Hendrix, representative for the nationwide theater chain, “We asked ourselves, ‘How do we create a land of Amazonian women? Well — we just hold a women’s only screening!’” Morgan added, “After all, she lives on a women’s only island and comes from a land of women. This makes perfect sense.”

    Indeed it does.

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  58. Yoda says:

    “After all, she lives on a women’s only island and comes from a land of women.

    Wonder how have children they do I do


  59. At Dalrocks TheDeti hits one out of the park, again. Men and women and the Red Pill summed up in one comment.

    thedeti says:
    May 26, 2017 at 8:52 am
    “Let’s be frank gentlemen. For close to one hundred years, Western women have wanted for nothing. They have zero good reason for a shit test, none. So stop trying to give them one and place the onus on them to control their urges. None of this shit stops until you do.”

    FH, you’re tilting at windmills. You might as well tell men to stop liking women with big breasts, tight butts and long legs. Can’t do it. I have no good reason to like girls with big boobs. But I do. I just do. I can’t help it.

    A girl doesn’t need big boobs to be a functioning woman. We’ve advanced to the point where you can feed a newborn with formula and supplements and a woman need not breastfeed one minute of her entire life. But women still have boobs. Some women have big boobs. Even though in modern society, women don’t really need to have ANY boobs. But they still do. And I like the way those women look. as do most men.

    Men are visually sexual in a way most women just don’t get. We get visually aroused. All it takes is looking at the body of a hot girl, and an 18 year old man at the height of his sexual prowess is at attention and ready to go in about 10 seconds. He doesn’t have to love. He doesn’t have to feel secure. He doesn’t have to care about her. He doesn’t have to feel ANYTHING. All he knows is that she’s physically appealing to him, and he wants, he NEEDS, to deposit his semen into her. Women – most women – just do not understand that.

    Women shit test. Because they have a need for safety and security that I just don’t get. They shit test because they’ve been doing it for thousands of years. They do it because they just need to know the man they’re with has their back, doesn’t get easily disturbed, can keep it together, and won’t buckle under pressure and stress.

    Stop banging your head against a wall expecting women to do something they couldn’t do even if they tried. Women have demanded for decades now that men be attracted to unattractive women and fat women, and men just can’t do it. Women have tried mightily to “change their attraction triggers” to be sexually attracted to betas (HUS, I’m looking at you), to no avail whatsoever. Women have tried to change men into women with penises, and it’s not working. It created the Red Pill.

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  60. Spawny Get says:

    May not be exactly what you were expecting


  61. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    The Alamo Draft House can go ahead and do that. It is going to leave a bad taste in the mouths of guys and, if they want to watch a movie, there are other theaters.

    Spawny Get,
    Girls don’t need guys to take them to the theater. They have money of their own. It’s just that they have been holding out on us for decades and it has gotten to be a habit. In their eyes, their money is to be spent on themselves and our money is to be spent on them.
    Tarn is an exception.

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  62. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Yoda at 7:09pm,
    I hope that Hillary sees that.


  63. Yoda says:

    Wonder if losing it she is I do

    Nancy Pelosi actually complained that President Trump’s trip to Saudi Arabia was unusual and ‘wasn’t even alphabetical’. What does that even mean? You just can’t make this stuff up!


  64. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    This is parallel to the Alamo Draft House story.


  65. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    Common sense is not common. If it were, then everyone would have it. When you get down to it, it is quite rare.

    Liked by 1 person

  66. Yoda says:

    I hope that Hillary sees that.

    Coughing and “cigars” mix not.

    Liked by 1 person

  67. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Laughing I am.


  68. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Tommy Robinson explains why he as arrested in the wee hours of the morning.

    This is not good.


  69. SFC Ton says:

    They shit test becuase your frame is weak


  70. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    With fewer hubbies to cut checks for wifey’s credit card bills, the inevitable happens.
    Dollar General accounts for eighty percent of all new store openings in the US. For those outside the US, the chain has relatively small stores that deal in primarily dry, non perishable goods sold at low margins.

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  71. For all the 30 year old SJW.

    That kid is Ton Spawn in her savagery.

    Liked by 1 person

  72. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Things are out of control in Spawnyland.

    Warning, this song is obscene. Every line has an Fbomb.


  73. Farm Boy says:

    There is a new post


  74. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Spawny Get,
    When the police arrive, it is supposed to transform chaos to order. I think that we have a problem here. They show up, and a scuffle between two becomes a riot.


  75. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    A final thought about the subject of the original post. The presumption is that men will always have to put in more effort while women get to receive it. Game is no exception. What I see is that the Law of Diminishing Returns is beginning to apply. If feminism is a society wide shit test, the best answer is for men to collectively walk away, leaving women baffled that this could ever happen.


  76. Why expend the effort?

    If it never ends then the returns must deminish.

    Its like the toddler Why? Game. You both know it has no point and it is just a game of who loses it first. It never ends well.

    So why keep playing?

    Never before in 3000+ years of history have men, as a collective, actually bothered to ask the question. Why?

    Women are going to regret they drove us to ask.

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  77. Yoda says:

    Remember, game useful even if picking up girls you are not

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  78. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Not that they were likely to think ahead, but they should have considered that there is a limit to everything. In their short sightedness, they really have cut their own throats.


  79. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    The knowledge is useful.

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