Intentionally Conflating

Over the past few decades when there was a domestic dispute; it normally was assumed that the fellow was guilty.  Why is this?  What is the gist of what is going on here?  Surely men are not always “guilty” in these situations.

Notice the quotation marks around guilty.  What does it man in a domestic dispute?  Is the the one that is the root cause of the dispute?  And what does root cause mane in the typical dispute?  Often they are so complicated, with lots of events happening over the course of time making it difficult to untangle.

When matters escalate the situation gets interesting.  Men and women often have different approaches when this happens.  Women use words that bite, often taunting men.  Men sometimes are tempted to react in a physical manner.  These differing approaches are the key, for this is where women individually and as a whole gain much power.

The basic idea is that men who react physically, or men who maybe even tempted to react physically, need to be locked up; or at a bare minimum need to have a restraining order placed upon them.  There is no consideration of what led the situation, rather it is required for the power of the state to be brought to bear against the fella.

The assumption is that if a fella has the state come down on him, then he must surely be the guilty party.  For the state is operates in a just manner (justice is blind, innocent until proven guilty, and such).  So guilty he is.

The conflating of the application of the power of the state with guilt is purely intentional.

Posted in FarmBoy, Feminism, Lies, Trainwreck, Why
84 comments on “Intentionally Conflating
  1. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Until I read this, I understood how women could use this as a lever against men. Now, it has be made plain and inarguable. The only defense men have against this abuse is to not marry. One phone call and Daddy can never come home again.
    I wonder if this was the feminists intention? Taking away marriage as an option for women would definitely be contrary to the feminine imperative. However, they are hateful and stupid.

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  2. Spawny Get says:

    Don’t miss the new comments by Mega on the ‘Sad News’ thread. There might be a few (depressing) posts to come from them. Soured my day already. But people need to be aware of these things.

    The first one

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  3. Stephanie says:

    This is random, but since Mother’s Day is coming up and so many women seem to lose themselves to motherhood…

    Liked by 3 people

  4. Spawny Get says:

    Some trolls become great, others are born with it, apparently


  5. Yoda says:

    Always vote for what is best for the children one should.
    Because feel good it does.
    Just believe one needs to do

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  6. Spawny Get says:

    New to me, unreasonably amusing so far (the one below is even better)

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  7. Spawny Get says:

    On my second video now, LMAO (maybe beer and British sense of humour assisted)


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  8. Spawny Get says:

    He’s gone full Bernie, never go full Bernie Sanders

    When you know you can’t win the GE, but your survival as leader of the Labour party is more likely the more votes you can buy…

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  9. Spawny Get says:

    Corbyn asks Brown for help.

    Rumours that Tony Bliar will be involved in setting up a new breakaway party after the inevitable catastrophuck at the General Election.

    It’s getting surreal

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  10. Choicy says:

    Spawny the labour party must be dumber than a wagon load of rocks if they don’t know they will go down the gurgler if they don’t change leader. The stupidist of God’s creatures is not that dumb mate. There’s got to be something us outsiders aren’t being told. Can you wise us up mate. Why don’t they give Corbyn the flick mate.

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  11. Yoda says:

    Is that “new” party not the “Liberal Democratic Party”?


  12. Cautiously Pessimistic says:

    Hey, women say stuff. And the courts have to/are happy to take them at their word. And hilarity/tragedy ensues.

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  13. Spawny Get says:


    Ed Milimong resigned as leader after the last GE. He allowed new people to join the party for £3 and vote for his replacement, to make it ‘more democratic for the people’. Error 1. They did precious little vetting of the people that joined. For £3 they couldn’t afford to, for a start. They also didn’t realise till far too late how monumental the fuck up this was.

    Error 2 was when the MPs chose the candidates to run for election. They chose all Bliarites who had absolutely nothing new to say. No new ideas. Nothing. Shite. The electorate had had its fill of such types and the MPs knew it. Then some bright spark suggested letting a lefty run too, just to be fair and offer other ideas…some of the Bliarite MPs actually ‘lent’ Corbyn their vote to become a candidate. Else he wouldn’t be able to stand for the leadership election. ISYN.

    So…a lot of Labour party members were sick of the bliarite candidates who offered no vision, they abstained or voted Corbyn because at least he had ideas…how bad could they be?

    Hard lefties from outside the party saw a chance to pay £3 and vote to try and hijack the party. These are, generally speaking, part of the Momentum bowel movement within Labour. Commies, Marxists, Maoists, the lot. True believers that will never realise that nobody wants their shit policies. Every failure will result in a call to go further left.

    Many normal people wanted the Labour party to fucking die for their treachery 97-2010. Some also joined for £3 and voted for Corbyn because they knew, unlike the hard lefty true believers, that he was toxic to normal voters. The political blogs are full of people who say “best £3 I ever spent” whenever the issue of Corbyn comes up.

    So Jezza won. Any MP with a clue refused to join the shadow cabinet. So it’s full of mongs and chancers without a clue. His manifesto is going to redefine unelectable, exceeding even the 1983 one under Foot which Labour themselves described as the longest suicide note in history.

    After the coming GE, Jezza Corbyn is said to be determined not to quit whatever happens. Even if he agrees to go it is believed he’ll insist on a hard left candidate being allowed to stand. That candidate will win because the party membership has gone hard left true believer. And the £3 party haters will vote that way too.

    If Bliar forms a new party, Tories already grabbed much of their territory. And anyway, in surveys here Bliar is even less popular than Corbyn.

    It’s fucking great here, mate. Epic times.

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  14. Spawny Get says:

    Yoda, the LimpDumbs are partly the remnants of the last bunch to split from Labour in the eighties. The Big names of Labour formed the SDP. It fizzled and merged with the Liberal party. The LimpDumbs went into coalition with Cameron in 2010. It murdered them electorally. Their MPs could travel together in a minibus after the last General Election. Only the catastrophic Labour party is offering them a way back. Timmeh Farron, from whom I have taken the piss here many times, is their joke of a leader. Mr Fishfinger will be running against him in the General Election, much kek. I hope the breaded fishy food product for the undiscerning child beats him, or at least causes him to lose.

    Much hilarity incoming, bet you’re jealous.

    Now if we can just trust May to get us the fuck out of the EU…The not so funny bit after the election.

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  15. Farm Boy says:

    It is great to have non-PC explanations of what is going on

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  16. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    “When the law doesn’t apply to those in power, we no longer have rule of law.”
    We end having a bunch of useless cynics being proved right.
    Hillary must be prosecuted.

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  17. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Spawny Get,
    Thank you, To someone outside of UK politics, it would be painfully convoluted.
    I still think the Monster Raving Looney Party should get serious. They are free to write their own platform and they owe no political favors.

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  18. Spawny Get says:

    When Labour’s manifesto is officially released (rather than a leak of an alleged draft like today), I’m sure that we’ll all know that they’ve surpassed The Official Monster Raving Loony Party

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  19. Spawny Get says:

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  20. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    There is a difference. One knows that they are being silly and the other doesn’t. That tells me which possesses more wisdom.

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  21. Spawny Get says:

    insight on the manifesto leak. Did Jezza do it himself?

    The Buttscratcher Jimmy • an hour ago
    Can anyone explain to a thicky like me why the Corbyn leak is good for him? Something about clause 5 (might be clause something else) or the Labour NEC having to approve it?

    Euseless The Buttscratcher Jimmy • an hour ago
    The labyryth system that is approval of a manifesto within Labour means that stakeholders of different kinds and persuasions need to sign off.
    By leaking it, Corbyn has made the pledges public making it difficult for them to be rowed back on.

    The Buttscratcher Jimmy Euseless • an hour ago
    Thanks. So they’ve gone full leftard and now there’s not much anyone can do about it!

    Euseless The Buttscratcher Jimmy • an hour ago
    Yep, great ain’t it.

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  22. Yoda says:

    Etch the manifesto into stone they will?

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  23. Spawny Get says:

    Another Ed Stone? (‘headstone‘ from Ed Milimong’s Labour’s grave gerrit?)

    I posted a faked one here several weeks ago. There won’t be a real one though.

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  24. Spawny Get says:

    Also about Bliar. He wants BREXIT…or not? You judge

    The thing is though, in the surveys done recently, 75% just want BREXIT done and dusted. Not just 52% any more. Many remoaners have seen that the world didn’t end with the referendum, others have realise what a cunch of bunts the EU polit bureau and national leaders are. Every bit of EU shit-stirring just puts more Brits’ backs up. I don’t know if we’re all that different to other EU nations, but maybe we are? You judge and let me know. The people on this blog don’t seem very different to me. *Shrug*

    So, getting back to the point, any new party he wants is already down to 25% max support if the voters consider BREXIT the central issue in politics here. And if you don’t know that you’re too fucking stupid to vote.

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  25. Spawny Get says:

    The Official MRLP is a bit of fun for the eccentric English (and one Welsh candidate) and perhaps a protest vote from time to time.

    Some Brexit Policies 30th April 17
    * Health – Germany to pay for all treatment of German Measles, and Spain ditto for Spanish Flu.
    * France must give us back Brittany.
    * All Europeans to pay to use the English Channel, and all Creme Anglais to be made in Britain.

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  26. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Spawny Get,
    You are right. Tony Blair is completely incomprehensible.
    By comparison, the Monster Raving Looney Party is much more coherent.

    Liked by 1 person

  27. Yoda says:

    Every bit of EU shit-stirring just puts more Brits’ backs up.

    An endearing quality of the Brits this is

    Liked by 3 people

  28. Spawny Get says:

    “An endearing quality of the Brits this is”
    Not to the EU it isn’t


  29. Spawny Get says:

    There’s nothing that Jeremy touches that he can’t turn to comedic shit

    Liked by 1 person

  30. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    OOPS! So much for good relations with the press.

    Liked by 1 person

  31. Yoda says:

    Not to the EU it isn’t

    A problem this is not.
    Likker up Jean-Claude one could

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  32. Spawny Get says:

    (He’s a journo)

    With thanks to the awesome Brendan O’Neill…


    “Why won’t people vote for us?”

    “We want Brexit.”

    “I mean, we are talking about food banks and zero-hour contracts and extra bank holidays, and yet they won’t vote for us.”

    “It’s Brexit we’re interested in.”

    “It’s just a mystery. It makes no sense. What do they want?”


    “Why won’t they tell us? How can we connect with them? What issues do they care about, *if any*?”

    “Brexit, primarily.”

    “What is drawing them to the Tories, such an evil party!?”


    “We’re offering to listen but they just won’t speak to us. Why won’t they engage with us?”

    “Hello? We like Brexit.”

    “Just silence. Ah well, their silence and betrayal of Labour speak
    volumes. They’re apathetic. They’ve been got at by the Murdoch media.
    Big media has brainwashed them so that they just don’t know what they
    want anymore.”

    “We want Brexit.”


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  33. Spawny Get says:

    Bad news for Timmeh


  34. Spawny Get says:

    Timmeh before the bad news

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  35. Spawny Get says:

    Mr Fishfinger and wife

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  36. Spawny Get says:

    Epic times here, just epic

    Liked by 1 person

  37. Cill says:

    Spawny, me old garden gate –

    I must admit I was puzzled why Labour seems so completely hamstrung with Jesuit Jerry. Thanks for the excellent explanation, mate. Choicy is appreciative too, but it looks like he was distracted by the rogue baboon and placed his thankyou on the wrong thread.

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  38. Choicy says:

    Yeah I placed it on the wrong thread mate. Could you me a favour and move it over to the right thread here would you Cillo or Spawny or Farm Boy. Thanks mate.


  39. Cill says:

    You better nominate one of us for the job, Choicy or there’s a danger we’ll double up.


  40. Cill says:

    … or triple up


  41. Choicy says:

    I nominate the patriarch mate


  42. Spawny Get says:

    One of the nicknames of Corbyn is Catweazle. Sadly the actor for Catweazle died today aged 93. Spot the resemblance


  43. Cill says:

    Out, damned spot


  44. Spawny Get says:

    I’m not sure that I can move all those comments over. The comment’s address appears to include the post that it’s on.

    I’m in favour of leaving sleeping baboons lie…if Cill can do it, I’m fine. The principle is fine, the practice is beyond me

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  45. Cill says:

    I think we’d have to use a plug-in such as Tako Movable Comments. Not worth it Choicy mate.

    Liked by 1 person

  46. Spawny Get says:

    BTW Eighty thousand comments! Wish Tarn was here to share

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  47. Choicy says:

    I didn’t know it was so complicated as that so let sleeping dogs lie my mates.

    Spawny’s picture of C orbyn at 6:34 pm looks like he’s got his balls in a vice-grip mate. or a cattle prod up his gunger.

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  48. Choicy says:

    Tarn was one in a billion and believe you me I meet some unusual characters in the boonies so I know one when I meet one. Tarn was bloody good value suddenly gone about a year ago and I wonder what happened mate?

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  49. Spawny Get says:

    When I say that the UK is full…

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  50. Spawny Get says:

    Choicy, I have no idea. My most optimistic option is she decided I was a cunt and left. Everything else is worse.

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  51. thedeti says:

    Ton posts about the TN case where lesbian couple has baby, then divorces. The partner in that “union” who didn’t bear the child is the “father”, and has the “parental rights” of a father (i.e., every other weekend visitation).

    Interesting. Well, the courts have to do something when same sex couples “marry”; then “divorce”.

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  52. Cill says:

    Choicy I can’t help thinking:
    Either I misjudged Tarn completely, or Spawny’s “worse” applies, or… human living is an infinitely various thing. Who knows.

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  53. Spawny Get says:


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  54. Choicy says:

    thedeti.. lezzos disputing child custody would be a spectacle mate. I hope the one with the rights of a man gets the same rights as a real man which is two-fifths of one-eighth of fuck-all mate. I don’t feel sorry for the lezzo mate.

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  55. Choicy says:

    It’s way past my bedtime down under. Goodnight mates.

    Liked by 3 people

  56. Spawny Get says:

    The rigged election, the rerun and now this

    Austria on the edge: Government set to COLLAPSE – and it could cause an EU nightmare

    AUSTRIA’S government is on the verge of collapse due to a shock resignation, opening the door to the far-right Freedom Party.

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  57. Spawny Get says:

    Goodnight Cboicy


  58. Spawny Get says:

    Re Austria. A reminder

    70sgirly Tegucigalpa
    10 minutes ago
    Good a government run by a Bellen who says that all Austrian women will (eventually) have to wear a fucking Islamic headscarf deserves to collapse, and he deserves to be shot

    Liked by 2 people

  59. Cill says:

    With women having the vote and being a majority of the population, lefties are in a position where they can fool most of the people all of the time.

    Liked by 3 people

  60. Spawny Get says:

    Cill, I really don’t think that you misjudged Tarn.

    Liked by 1 person

  61. Spawny Get says:

    Looking good for the cubic cod goujon
    Mr Fishfinger for the win!

    We decided, Tim!’ Voters in Farron’s own constituency FED UP by his referendum obsession

    FARMERS in Tim Farron’s own constituency have hit out at the Liberal Democrat leader for his “social media activism” to overturn the EU referendum.

    Liked by 1 person

  62. Spawny Get says:

    One of Timmeh’s constituents yesterday when he mentioned accepting the results of the referendum, but…wants another referendum on the results of the BREXIT negotiations

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  63. SFC Ton says:

    I thought Tarn walked because her personal life was to hectic


  64. Spawny Get says:

    Hope that’s the reason. I don’t remember any such message though

    Liked by 1 person

  65. SFC Ton says:

    Trump trolls the left

    Liked by 1 person

  66. Spawny Get says:

    Good doggy.

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  67. SFC Ton says:

    That’s bad ass. Going to see how my Lady Pit does on that

    Liked by 1 person

  68. Spawny Get says:

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  69. Yoda says:

    While secretary of state, Hillary Clinton made a personal call to pressure Bangladesh’s prime minister to aid a donor to her husband’s charitable foundation despite federal ethics laws that require government officials to recuse themselves from matters that could impact their spouse’s business.
    The Office of Bangladesh Prime Minister Sheikh Hasina confirmed to Circa that Mrs. Clinton called her office in March 2011 to demand that Dr. Muhammed Yunus, a 2006 Nobel Peace prize winner, be restored to his role as chairman of the country’s most famous microcredit bank, Grameen Bank. The bank’s nonprofit Grameen America, which Yunus chairs, has given between $100,000 and $250,000 to the Clinton Global Initiative. Grameen Research, which is chaired by Yunus, has donated between $25,000 and $50,000, according to the Clinton Foundation website.

    “Former US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton telephoned Bangladesh Prime Minister Sheikh Hasina in March 2011 insisting her not to remove Dr. Muhammad Yunus from the post of Managing Director of Grameen Bank,” Deputy Press Secretary Md Nazrul Islam told Circa in an email.

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  70. Yoda says:

    The Senate’s first Latina, Sen. Catherine Cortez Masto, is also the first female senator to suggest diversity quotas in place of democratic selection for members of Congress.

    The liberal senator, who won former Senate Minority Leader Harry Reid’s old Nevada seat, made her comments during an appearance on Politico’s “Women Rule” series of podcasts.

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  71. Yoda says:

    The walls outside bathrooms on the taxpayer-funded campus of Northern Arizona University now feature signs informing students that they have “pee privilege” if they aren’t transgender or don’t have cross-dressing fetishes.


  72. Yoda says:

    A new post there is


  73. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Tarn bait.

    More Tarn bait.

    I miss Tarn.


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