Over at Dalrock’s here and here, he discusses women who go from man to man, never staying long. Perhaps it is her choices, perhaps perhaps it is his faults, or perhaps it is just a habit. Young women can become acclimated to moving from guy to guy from their mid-teens onward. It is what everybody is doing. It adds spice to their life. After many years of doing this, the thought of anything different just doesn’t seem right.
Of course, in years past, the expectation from the get-go was that one was looking for a good match, with poor matches resulting in breakups, upon which an improved match was sought. There was no thought of this process becoming a habit; furthermore, there was no time for it to become a habit.
Probably many of the women with this habit don’t really realize it. Even as they have their present fella, she is eyeing the next; laying the groundwork in order to be ready to jump at the appropriate time. So, everybody out there, where does this lead?
Addendum by Red Pill Girl
It will end up with her being a barfly who nobody wants to take home anymore!
But seriously, I know women in this mode and its true, it’s like a bad habit they just can’t stop the musical chairs mentality. The older they get, the more precarious their situation gets. It’s not a good life plan (not that they consciously realize its a plan at all, or their role in it.)