The first thing to understand is that the women have the institutionally backed power, and you not so much. But there is much more. A young man needs to know how exactly the world works; how it is stacked against him. Once he knows this, then he can
I. Make rational decisions with respect to his general future
II. Optimize his present short term situation
III. Feel confident that he knows what he is doing.
The general term for understanding all of this is termed the red pill. Naturally enough this blog provides good information on this, as do other manosphere blogs. It takes time to absorb it all; often just a bit per day, with careful consideration of each aspect. It should be noted that the red pill is about contradicting lies that you were told, and providing information that you was deliberately withheld rom you. As such, it may take time to digest. After a bit, it will all become internalized, which is what you want and need. Now you can consider your situation.
Don’t move too fast. Explore how you might want to change your life. Note the differences in reactions with every change that you make. By doing this, you are building your own red pill database; seeing for yourself the red pill in action.
After experience, you will be more confident about how the world world works. This is really valuable. Part of modern Feminism is about trying to keep men off-balance, to have them unsure about how things work and what the real situation is. This state of affairs gives women more power of course. Armed with knowledge, their power over you is diminished. This is a big start.