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Here was what the Glorious Patriarch said,
As the Wise Ton said, the advice given to her was appropriate for her, but any man should run like hell.
She’s too old.
She’s going to park her debt on hubby and then give up work. She clearly doesn’t like work.
If she has a kid she’s perfectly capable of deciding that she doesn’t like being a mommy either. Only one kid and done? Plus hire a maid and a nanny so she can indulge her fantasies of competency at doing something frivolous, expensive and money losing (a niknak boutique style shoppe?).
She’s whiny now, she’ll be a fecking harpy once married.
She’s an entitled child looking for a sugar daddy tied to her in marriage.
IfWhen she decides that marriage doesn’t suit her she’s very capable of taking every penny hubby has and justifying it to herself…’baby wasn’t happy’
She’s a complete clusterfuck of a prospect for marriage.
But seriously… why didn’t she listen to her dad when he warned her NOT to go into those ridiculous majors? My parents warned me and pointed me toward STEM and I remember seeing lots of girls going to college with me pick easy ridiculous majors that wouldn’t make that much money. And they viewed college like she did “a big 4 year slumber party.” I’m sorry, but it’s so hard to feel sympathetic to that when I was studying constantly and working my butt off to get A’s in a major that most dropped out of. But I love how kind he is… probably because I wouldn’t be and wish I could be.
But I was married for 8 years at her age, with 2 children… WITH my degree (which was maybe a waste, but at least it makes good money and I can go back when they’re older). It’s just frustrating to see women like this complain about their life when they almost purposefully MISSED all their opportunities.
I’m not a unicorn… I knew SO MANY girls that got married to CHRISTIAN MEN (like she’s looking for) just by putting themselves in the right place at the right time. I met my husband in a campus Christian group, like many other happy women (obviously they’re married with kids by now) did along with me. There was even a joke on campus that our group was called Campus Crusade for Couples (supposed to be Campus Crusade for Christ) because SO MANY found their life partners there.
So I definitely get y’all’s frustration that she’s probably going to settle her debt and ridiculous life choices on to some poor man, but hopefully they will be happy and she’ll be extremely good to him (Stefan’s advice) and manage his home etc. It could work… if she puts her heart into it.
The subject lady is/was not the typical clueless SJW type. She realized that the University was indoctrinating her with a bunch of BS. She was warned about the issue of selecting a degree that did not lead to obvious career path. And when she realized this mistake, she chose another degree with a career path that she hated.
That said, she is not alone. Hordes of women (and many men) follow the same path. Why do they do it? They are told that a university degree is the path to the middle class (more so for guys) or the path to self-actualization (more so for the women). Surely word has filtered out that not all university degrees are considered equal; non-STEM degrees with perhaps the exception of business are often considered worse than useless. It would have been better to stay at home and play video games in those cases, for at least their minds would not be filled with stupid crap. I have a niece who obtained a BS in World Politics, and was genuinely shocked to find that there was not automatically a high paying job waiting for her and her new found expertise. Her friends were just like her.
Why are these women apparently so delusional? Perhaps they feel that they are women and seemingly self-actualizing women should be in high demand due to their awesomeness. Perhaps they felt that the Obama era was just the start of a golden age when such women would be fed into a system where they would flourish.
Can anybody explain this lemming-like behavior?