The only thing that could make me avoid women is the risk of imprisonment or loss of my future. I can cope with bitchiness by telling the woman to shape up or ship out. I can defeat shit-tests with humor. I can live with the excessive privilege of women without bowing down to it. I can deal with the controlling behavior of a typical western female without being cowed in the least. The one thing I won’t do is live with the risk of injustice at the whim of a woman. The injustice is a false accusation and the way it is dealt with.
Feminism and the legal system work hand in hand to give women power over men. The “Yes means Yes” consent laws are just one of many examples. Things have reached the stage where it doesn’t matter what a woman’s whim is, the State is ready to oblige her. If she decides to accuse a man of rape, the State will leave no stone unturned to bring him to “justice”. Regardless of eventual conviction or acquittal, his life is ruined from the moment he is charged. Feminists have made sure of that. They and the media and the police quickly label her the victim and him the accused. If he is acquitted, feminists and others will do their utmost to damage him. The rape charge will follow him into employment and accommodation and his social life. Doors will close. He will become a pariah.
Meanwhile his accuser will be free to carry on with her life. Doors will open. She could even make a career out of her deceit, with all the resources and duplicity of feminism to back her. She could become a role model for victims of rape.
The whim of a woman is greater than the life of a man.
I won’t give anyone that amount of power over my life.
The false rape cases show that the targets of false accusations are usually the sought-after men. Hell hath no fury etc. For me personally, the stakes are as high as they could go: I’d rather be dead than locked up in jail.
Here’s something else I’ve been wanting to say for a while: The detractors like to say MGTOW are lonely losers and women don’t want them anyway: What’s the big deal, they scoff, these men are no loss, let them go their own pathetic way, and good riddance to bad rubbish.
It would give me great pleasure to reply to them along the following lines:
“YOU ARE WRONG. I know a group of men IRL who are anything but losers. It makes no odds to them, but women make it clear that they’d like to know those men better – a lot better. Whatever it is that makes a man attractive to women, those men have got it in spades. And they have one thing in common: they’re MGTOW.
MGTOW is not an ideology. It’s a phenomenon. All kinds of men, including increasing numbers of the ones you’d like to date, are going their own way.
The fact that you turn your nose up at most men actually expedites MGTOW. You make it easy for millions of men to do without you.
Any interaction in which one party has an implicit right to employ the power of the State against the other party is to be avoided like the plague. Such is the case with all male/female interaction.
How many of us know men who were falsely accused by women? I personally know two. One was able to prove that he was not in the city where and when the rape allegedly occurred. The other barely knew the accuser and had an iron-cast alibi as well. In both those cases the man accused could easily have been me.
Don’t think it couldn’t happen to you. False rape accusations in New Zealand are so numerous, I don’t have time to count them (“It’s a false rape epidemic in New Zealand”). Even then, the listed cases are just “the tip of the iceberg”. If you need more convincing, read this Submission to Justice and Electoral Select Committee Inquiry . The Police are under pressure from women’s groups to prosecute no matter how flimsy the evidence (‘Year of hell’ after false rape claim).
Men can no longer ignore the growing risk of injustice. Although some of us are less visible to women than others, no man is safe in the western world. The decision we all face is simple: (a) MGTOW, or (b) accept the risk.
You can’t eliminate the risk, but you can minimize it by reducing interaction with women as much as possible. Don’t dwell on the thought that it’s an extreme thing to do. Women are the ones who made it this way, and every year, as sure as the sun sets in the West, they make it worse.