The Next Big Thing

Old friend Deti commented,

“I think this would be the Holy Grail for feminism to see this (polyamory) go respectable mainstream.”

OF COURSE that’s the goal. That’s the next big push, now that gay marriage has been accomplished and they’re well on their way to getting transgender accepted.

The next big thing is women’s polyamory and open marriages. It’s the beta bux living at home and helping take care of the kids (which might or might not be his) while wifey goes out and has sex with alpha fux guys. In some cases her fave alpha fux will live with her and beta bux.

and it will be justified with “come on, you men! You don’t have a right to have sex with her. You don’t own her sexuality. That’s backward, conservative, tradcon, evil repressive shit. Don’t you want your wives to be happy? Look at what you’ll get – a wife who lives with you and kids! You want families. you should be happy to have the families you claim you want. And you get to support them and live with them.

Sex is no big deal, it’s just sex, and she can have her fun. You can too (but we all know how that will work out wink wink nudge nudge – go have a bit of fun fucking $5 crack whores and jerking it to porn while she’s out getting railed by Harley McBadboy). Come on men – it’s all in the name of Progress!!”

Progress indeed.  More of what women want, less of what men want.  But then, white men are evil oppressors, so this is the next step in eliminating their oppression.

The question is: will it ever get this far?  This is just so drastic, affecting most everybody.  With gays, trans and the like, the changes only affect just a few directly.  Not in the polyamory case.  It would so visible to the fellas.  Would they recognize what is happening, and not play the game?  Unfortunately, men as a whole do not have a good track record with respect to seeing women’s silliness.

Note that polyamory has never been successful in history.  Of course, it will be said that never has there been a society as enlightened (or wealthy, at least for now).  Still, there is a built-in something in people such that they know that it will not work.  Perhaps it starts with men having a real distaste to being cuckolded.  Perhaps it ends with women being unhappy when they have no boundaries set for them.  And perhaps in between it would be a unhealthy environment for the children.  But then again, do progressives actually care about the well being of children?

Posted in alpha fux beta bux, FarmBoy, Hypergamy, Politics, Trainwreck, WTH
117 comments on “The Next Big Thing
  1. SFC Ton says:

    Polygamy is pretty main stream these days and by that I mean you don’t catch any shit for living that way. Harmems are natural for men

    No one will respect cuckolds no matter how you dress it up. The revulsion toward such men is genetic and wired deep down in the human soul

    Sort of like how two chicks making out isn’t creepy like two dudes making out

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  2. Ame says:

    “But then again, do progressives actually care about the well being of children?”


    – – –

    “Sort of like how two chicks making out isn’t creepy like two dudes making out”

    though i know the former doesn’t bother many people anymore, they’re both really creepy to me.

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  3. Cill says:

    I couldn’t live in that setup and wouldn’t respect any cuck or woman who did go along with it. A society like that would not be worth saving. Russians have already told me they’d accept me back there. I’d probably emigrate to Russia, or Asia, or some part of the world that doesn’t suffer from the disease of feminism.

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  4. Cill says:

    Or I could hunker down right where I am and live by my own rules independently of the barking mad women’s world and if they tried to interfere with me I’d give them what-for.

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  5. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    What worries me is that married men with kids would have to choose between this and divorce, with its attendant drawbacks, like living in your car and never seeing your kids. Single men can opt out by not participating. Married men without kids can call it quits. Women wouldn’t try this unless they had government in their corner.

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  6. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I don’t think you’re safe in your own little enclave. If you aroused their ire, they would have you out. I am reminded of how Arlington National Cemetery came to be.


  7. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    It has to be said one more time. This society is so ready to promote women ahead of men that it will allow women to cheat and laugh it off as girls being girls while shame is heaped on their men. The law given to Moses by God puts things in proper perspective.

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  8. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Off topic. It is worse than it was in 1095 when Urban II had an idea.

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  9. Farm Boy says:

    Sort of like how two chicks making out isn’t creepy like two dudes making out

    Everybody knows that this is true. Yet, I probably shouldn’t write a post about it


  10. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    While it may not be a good topic for a post, it does add some weight to my contention that this society is too permissive with women. both instances of making out should be equally repulsive in a healthy society.


  11. Yoda says:


    Probably from deep inside the responses are.


  12. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    It is of little import. The net effect is to absolve women while making men responsible for their transgressions.


  13. mgtowhorseman says:

    so how is any of this better than mgtow????

    Jesus just from self respect alone I wouldnt touch a woman who even thought this was acceptable let alone who wanted to do it.

    The old question. why are you women better than nothing.
    And now to balance out its nothing plus porn of all types, economic freedom, release from the burden of performance (cause if I dont want a woman why do i need to compete etc.)

    The victorian era made women nigh untouchable for religious social reasons. today women are untouchable for attitude, skankiness or obesity.

    Many victorian men went mgtow. They devoted themselves to their non women pursuits. Edison and Effel gave us engineering marvels. Verne and Rice Burrows gave us literature. Livingston gave us adventure. All mgtows whose potential was unlocked by an indifference to women.

    Trump, Le Pene and others are going to allow men to be open about rejecting women and embracing mgtow. Musk is going to put people back in lunar orbit in two years plus create a new car line from scratch. you think he chases std ridden entitled pussy?

    We can either collapse into wimpering useless cucks. Or we can rise and free ourselves from those who would restrict us.

    I chose the Latter.

    “A day may come when the world of men comes crashing down.
    …. But It Is Not THIS DAY!”


  14. Choicy says:

    Fuzzie you said “If you aroused their ire, they would have you out”. Bloody hell that’s serious if you don’t know the facts mate and funny as a one-legged man in an arse kicking contest if you do.


  15. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I am losing faith in a society that is controlled by feminists.


  16. Choicy says:

    Anyways I have to go but before I go this open marriage crap is the last straw if it ever is the norm which it probably will be. A lot of cucks will go along with it as they do with every fucking shit test women dig up. Feminism relies on weak white knights and manginas turning arse up at every shit test or we wouldn’t be in this mess. See you mates.

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  17. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    To get back to the original post, with no fault divorce, there is no downside to any bad behavior in marriage. Couple that with laws that chase men out of the house on a woman’s say so, then we are already there. Youtuber Patrickhenryist was told to leave his home after his wife of fifteen years called the police because he found her on OkCupid. I am afraid that it is already here.


  18. RichardP says:

    Relevant to the O.P. above, this is an interesting read. It is but one of many such stories. If you can, at least skim through the sections labeled “Complex Marriage” and “Decline”. This was a utopia of sorts, with “free love” being the norm. “Possessiveness and exclusive relationships were frowned upon.” The decline began as the original members aged and the younger members “desired to enter into exclusive, traditional marriages.”

    Seems like, over time, life sorts itself into what its members desire. Times come when it seems wise to contest the norm, and so various subgroups like the Oneida Community form. But over time, human relationships seem to gravitate back to a general norm – as evidence by the young folks in the Oneida Community who “desired to enter into exclusive, traditional marriages” – despite having front row seats to the “joys” of having uncommited relationships that their parents demonstrated.

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  19. SFC Ton says:

    It comes back to a key that opens many locks is valuable while a lock that takestrel many keys is fucking unless.

    Whether people are comfortable with it or not, a man with a harem/ large n count is respected by men and women. Even when they semi frown on it.

    moslems with their more then one wife is out breeding and replacing Whites in the West, and when not out right replacing us, they have the conventional political leadership cowed so you can’t say they are unsuccessful


  20. mgtowhorseman says:

    for those in marriage and weak this is the downside to oblivion and they will beg for scraps as they go.

    for those strong enough to take the emotional/financial hit of divorce (me in a heartbeat if she even jokingly suggested it) this is the burden to bear, being fucked by a change in the rules mid game.

    for those not married and for every generation following
    Why the Fuck would I ever FREELY VOLUNTEER for this shit??

    We may get a few years of “open marriage” say for a decade. Then marriage will cease to exist. No man will EVER AGAIN lock himself down in marriage, living together or even LTRs. And women will have to have careers for life to support themselves.

    Even my son who has a girlfriend for last 4 years. They live together in the same house with 2 other roommates. He made sure she pays rent and is on the lease. In his words “Yes we are together but if it ever goes south she is legally just a roommate like John or Sally. She would have to prove otherwise.”

    This is the women, high on recent SJW Feelz pushing to the extreme with no foresight. Then “Where did the men go”
    That chart someone posted extrapolating statistically the marriage rate to 0 by 2030. Its gonna happen.

    And I will laugh and laugh. (More nurses forced to work for me to recruit from.)

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  21. mgtowhorseman says:

    farmboy and spawny. several comments not showing. was it something i said?

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  22. thedeti says:

    nice to hear I’m an “old friend”.

    Polyandry is coming. It will happen just enough to peel off more and more men away from marriage. Just enough to make a noticeable dent in the marriage rates; just enough to make a lot of men take notice and say “nope”.

    It will seep its way down into the most Blue of Blue Pill men. Even Blue Pillers are noticing how insane things are getting. Even some Blue Pillers are starting to say “maybe we’re going a wee bit too far; maybe this is too much; maybe we should put the brakes on”. Because even in my Bluest of Blue days, even at my most Omega, I would not have gone for this. There is no way I would be ok with being husband/provider while wife fucks other men in a one-way open relationship. Even Blue Pill me would have heard alarms going off. Even the dumbest most unaware Blue Pillers won’t be THIS thirsty.

    There’ll be a few who do this; but a good number of men will walk away. There will be just enough men who do this, though, to make it a thing.

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  23. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    The sense that I am getting is that we are at a tipping point. For most men, the wife imposing one way open relationships is not going to fly.. For most men, the deal has been altered too much to be worth buying into. When women start crying, men can respond that they did it to themselves.

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  24. Yoda says:

    When women start crying, men can respond that they did it to themselves.

    But men respond that way they will?

    Liked by 1 person

  25. thedeti says:

    We’re not really at a tipping point. Polyandry and women insisting on one way open relationships is really just another waystation on the long slow slide we’re experiencing. It’s not going to “tip”; it will just keep sliding and slipping in the general direction of dysfunction, nonfunction and malfunction.

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  26. Stephanie says:

    “Would they recognize what is happening, and not play the game? Unfortunately, men as a whole do not have a good track record with respect to seeing women’s silliness.”

    The younger generations are considerably more and more red pill it seems. I’m not sure how accurate it is, but I’ve heard that generation “z” (born after the 2000’s) is supposed to be the most conservative generation since before the baby boomer’s were growing up (WWII era).

    Very strange how it’s kind of going back to values and red pill ideas of masculinity and femininity after such a liberal push and “free sex” kind of environment.

    What do y’all think about the changes in the wind coming with the next generation?

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  27. mgtowhorseman says:


    see Japan.
    demographically they are about a decade ahead of us.
    very telling.

    Liked by 2 people

  28. NY Times saying something GOOD about Trump? Wow! Hopefully a sign of things to come?

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  29. Spawny Get says:

    Horseman, nothing pending or spam when I just checked. Did FarmBoy already sort it?


  30. Yoda says:

    Farm Boy fix-it man he was

    Liked by 2 people

  31. Spawny Get says:

    May not travel well

    Liked by 2 people

  32. Cill says:

    Well it travelled half way around planet Earth and generated some mirth down here. Jesuit Jerry in the bottom left, especially.

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  33. Cill says:

    I don’t know why I think of Jesuits when I look at pictures of Jerry. I don’t know why I chuckle at him, either. There could be some deep psychological factors there. Perhaps I better seek help.

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  34. Spawny Get says:

    House of Lords voted to amend the Article 50 legislation…here we fucking go. The Lords just declared war on the people.


  35. Spawny Get says:

    I knew you’d get it, Cill. The humour I mean.

    Liked by 1 person

  36. molly says:

    Haha Cill needs a shrink? Good luck to the shrink, she’s1 going to need it LOL

    1Most shrinks are women messed in the head eh.

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  37. Moehau Man says:

    Yes well, head shrinking was a big part of Moehau Man culture not long ago.

    “It’s where the expression cracked in the block and fucked in the head came from”, Mrs Moehau Man (my retentive old mum) reminisced just then, “a bit like those foreign British cars in the days of Ted Heath”, she added to clarify her point.

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  38. molly says:

    Hey I got the Down Under joke Unca S! 😛

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  39. Yoda says:

    Moehau Mans free love they do?


  40. Yoda says:

    “a bit like those foreign British motor cars in the days of Ted Heath”

    Old I am
    Remember this era I do
    Not always reliable they were
    Leaked fluids common it was

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  41. Yoda says:

    Kind of apply to Democratic Party also this does

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  42. Moehau Man says:

    I think she might’ve meant cracked in the engine block and fucked in the cylinder head there. Not that she knows much about motors.

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  43. Moehau Man says:

    “Gay Lovers Find Out They Are Brothers”

    Yes well, Moehau Mans found out a while ago that bum bandits are actually the same sex as well. You foreign jokers really are backward in some ways. “Arse about face”, Mrs Moehau Man (my witty old mum) quipped just then.

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  44. Yoda says:

    If pregnant they cannot be,
    then still incest it is?

    Liked by 1 person

  45. Moehau Man says:

    “Bum bandits wear their chaps backwards”, she added.

    Liked by 1 person

  46. Moehau Man says:

    “pregnant they cannot be?”

    Yes well, no Moehau Man has ever put it to the test.

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  47. Spawny Get says:


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  48. Spawny Get says:

    I’m not sure that the democrats are as fucked as the labour party. If they had Bernie as the top banana surrounded by a coterie of Bernie clones and the party membership were overwhelming Bernie mini-me’s then they’d be in the same league.

    Our tragedy is that we have disMay while you have the Trumpinator, different leagues entirely

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  49. SFC Ton says:

    Trump is a one off

    After Trump the GOP will go back to shitting on middle class/ working class White men and go back to losing national elections

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  50. Cill says:

    In NZ we have Bill English, who replaced John Key when Key resigned. Key and English both are pragmatic realists. Not an ideological cell in their bodies. They balance the country’s books and screen every immigrant, inter alia.

    On the other side we have the equivalent of the Labour Party in the U.K. Our Labour Party includes idiots as well, though not as bad as Jerry & co.

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  51. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Pragmatism in politicians is a good thing. It is when they get carried away that leads to trouble.


  52. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I saw this and immediately thought of our Glorious Patriarch.

    It might do well to be passed around in the UK.

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  53. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I hope that it is not a long, slow slide into the a new dark age. With that chart of marriage going to nil, it reminds me that we need some influence not currently in play to change things. The most powerful that I can think of is, that while men are opting out, women react with fury to living as involuntary celibates. They are not used to it and they do not like having their options limited. Also, women are dependent to a greater extent than they realize.

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  54. mgtowhorseman says:


    so they react in fury. it only gets to tbat point if 10 to 15% of men or more have opted out.

    when it gets to that point who cares.

    the men will be so used to ignoring them that they will just shrug.

    what are they gonna do?
    Protest some more….yawn
    Withhold sex…from who?
    Stop working….ahahahabahaha.
    New Taxes…. on minimists
    New laws… politician gonna piss off the last workers

    no worries bear. To paraphrase the age old question:
    if a women weeps in an empty bar does anyone hear it?
    or care?

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  55. mgtowhorseman says:

    Horseman’s Observation
    “A woman’s only power is that which you give to her by paying attention to her.”

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  56. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    They still do have the ear of politicians, just as they had before they got to vote.
    I honestly don’t know which way it will go, but it won’t be boring.
    As for the Japanese, while they are ten years ahead of us demographically, they have a culture that is far removed from ours. What works or fails for them may not do as much for us. However, we should keep an eye on them.


  57. Choicy says:

    I’d like to know from my best mate Cillo if his beautiful sisters and goddess relatives will be joining the woman strike on the 8th of this month mate.

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  58. Yoda says:

    Join the strike Mrs. Moehau Man will?

    Liked by 1 person

  59. Yoda says:

    A group of illegal aliens held a protest against deportation in Jackson, Mississippi.

    Then were quickly detained by ICE.

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  60. Yoda says:

    Rachel Dolezal, the former head of Spokane, Washington’s NAACP chapter who claimed to be black before her parents ‘outed’ her as white, officially changed her name to Nkechi Amare Diallo in a Washington court in October, legal documents obtained by show.

    Nkechi, short for Nkechinyere, is a name that originates from the Igbo language of Nigeria and means ‘what god has given’ or ‘gift of god.’

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  61. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    About that strike, I understand that Angela Davis has promised “militant protest” as opposed to peaceful protest. I wonder how the world will take it if they turn violent?

    Illegal immigrants stage a protest and are taken in by ICE? It has been a long time since that result could be expected.


  62. Yoda says:

    On “strike day” Mrs. Moehau man will make cod pieces not?

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  63. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I just had a wonderful idea. Moehau Man’s mum could fly to Washington to sell them. Moe, with his Kaori club, could provide security. I don’t know about people being able to buy them with puaa shells, though. The Kaori club, being made from wood, would have no trouble getting past airport security. Upon his return, we could all look forward to a series of posts from Moe.

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  64. Spawny Get says:

    The House of Lords defeat of the A50 thang.

    The amendment was over guaranteeing the rights of EU nationals to stay in the UK, with no mention of getting the EU to guarantee UK nationals to stay in the UK.

    Colonel Mustard • an hour ago
    328 unelected traitors (including 102 Illiberal Undemocrats) impede the majority will of 17 million British people because they are more concerned about 3 million foreigners.

    That, more than anything else, demonstrates what is wrong with the political establishment.
    28 • Reply•Share ›

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  65. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Spawny Get,
    I am sorry. The House of Lords has failed as the senior legislature to curb the abuses of the junior. At least, that was the intention of James Madison when he wrote our Constitution.


  66. SFC Ton says:

    Marriages going to 0 is pure click bait. Won’t ever fucking happen.

    There are more feminist nations in the usa and their marriage rate isn’t 0; hell we have a grow Amish population and their rates won’t drop to 0. Marriage has been ww3 for colored folks and their marriage rate ain’t 0… etc etc

    I get women falling into hysterics. They are women after all but red pill men should be to rational to fall for that kind of shit.

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  67. Spawny Get says:

    Flying Hippo At the shrine of St Michael • a minute ago

    My wife told me to go out and get something that makes her look sexy… so I got drunk.

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  68. Spawny Get says:

    Seeing as the scoznaz are bleating about another referendum, this is the most brutal verbal beating that I remember Brillo ever giving (he’s a Scot too)

    Truly desperate stuff.

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  69. Yoda says:

    Another judge has ruled that a school’s disciplinary proceeding against a student suspended for sexual assault was unfair, and has denied the school’s motion to dismiss a lawsuit filed by the student.

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  70. Stephanie says:

    Started a fitness blog a few months ago about living as a healthy, fit, and wanting to be thin woman… Ya’ll might be interested… latest post is about being a wife, having babies and looking amazing (that there’s nothing wrong with it like our fat culture tries to tell us).

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  71. Spawny Get says:

    Puts some perspective on stuff

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  72. Spawny Get says:

    Oh boy, this is accurate stuff from Sargon. #That’sMyBoy

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  73. Cill says:

    It’s the wee hours in choicy land, but when you wake up, choicy, here’s the goss. I asked my sisters this morning and they hadn’t even heard of the intended women strike. When I tried to explain it (sex strike etc) they thought I was joking, and that’s as far as it went mate.

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  74. Cill says:

    Spawny at 6:58 pm
    “Have you looked in the mirror and asked yourself this question: could the problem actually be me.”
    “No”, the stalwart Jerry replied.

    Again I find myself chuckling at Jerry. It’s not an unkind chuckle. It makes me feel quite well-disposed toward him, and I’d like to give him warm words of support “atta boy Jezza, keep it up mate.”

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  75. Spawny Get says:

    As long as he’s out of power there’s a lot to enjoy about the Jezza Experience.

    Liked by 1 person

  76. Spawny Get says:

    Meanwhile, in tech news

    14 minutes ago
    Apple computer announced
    today that it has developed a computer chip that
    can store and play stereo music in women’s breast implants.

    The iTit,
    will cost between $499 and $699, depending on‘speaker size’.

    This is considered to be a major breakthrough because women have always complained
    about men staring at their breasts and not listening to them

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  77. Yoda says:

    Tarn already have talking boobs she does

    Liked by 1 person

  78. Yoda says:

    iTit the next big thing it is

    Liked by 1 person

  79. Yoda says:

    Dive face in between for best stereo effect one should

    Liked by 1 person

  80. Yoda says:

    Wonder if high powered bass jiggles them I do

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  81. Yoda says:

    A discount for two there would be?

    Liked by 1 person

  82. Yoda says:

    Wonder if Apple provide their excellent product support they will I do

    Liked by 2 people

  83. Yoda says:

    Rename CPU from ARM to BOOB they will

    Liked by 1 person

  84. The gift that keeps on giving.

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  85. Farm Boy says:

    There is a new post


  86. Farm Boy says:

    Ms. Emily wants constructive criticism. I gave her some. She might consider it

    Liked by 2 people

  87. Spawny Get says:

    Lady, please proceed to cats. Go directly to cats. Do not drag some poor man into your drama. And certainly no kids. Your head is a slow motion car crash and you lack any introspection whatsoever. I’m sure your heart is good but…what the hell.

    Liked by 1 person

  88. Spawny Get says:

    A different era, I certainly don’t remember it (much)

    Liked by 1 person

  89. Cill says:

    I wonder if we’ll be able to tweak the iTit for sound quality.

    Liked by 1 person

  90. Spawny Get says:

    I believe there will be a couple of knobs to twiddle

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  91. Spawny Get says:

    Good night y’all

    Liked by 2 people

  92. Yoda says:

    Buttons go in and out they will.
    Sometimes have mind of their own they do

    Liked by 2 people

  93. Cill says:

    Will the iTit come with a remote control?

    Liked by 1 person

  94. Cill says:

    What are we supposed to do if the iTit goes off in church, muffle it with the old laughing gear or Just Give In?

    Liked by 1 person

  95. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Spawny Get,
    While you may not see this, it is hard to believe what comes out of Nicola Sturgeon’s mouth. Would someone please stuff a corndog in it. Trying sidestep overspending tin the teens of billions for over ten years is not traditionally Scottish. There are only five million people left there. Canada has a population one tenth that of the US and I think there may be more people that can claim Scottish ancestry in in the sparsely populated Western side of it. Also, those people truly know what it is like for their federal government to spend all their taxes in Eastern Canada. After eating her corndog, Nicola may profit from that education.

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  96. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    As for the iTit playing music in church. If it plays hymns synchronized to the church organ, this may be accepted.

    Liked by 1 person

  97. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Spawny Get,
    I had another thought as I watched that interview. In order to encourage investment in rebuilding, the city fathers of San Francisco understated the extent of the damage of the 1906 earthquake and subsequent fires. In the short run, the city recovered miraculously fast. The problem is that they set up the city to suffer worse in the next one that has yet to hit.
    Nicola is doing as much in minimizing the dependence on overspending in Scotland.

    Horseman, She does continue to keep giving. When she hits the wall, she will be doing over one hundred miles per hour.

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