Frequent Commenter Ame stated
I’ve been kicked out of the herd a time or two for not following along blindly. I don’t like not being a part of the herd. I miss it.
It is a Manosphere truism that women are herd animals. That is, they hang around each other for mutual safety. There isn’t necessarily a real leader, there isn’t necessarily a plan, but they do stick together.
Being cut off from the herd can be a real problem. Can she fend for herself? Even though the herd might not have given much support, there was typically enough for safety’s sake. For women, who historically are more vulnerable, this could be a death sentence. Furthermore, women have historically been raised to be dependent; irrespective of modern Feminism. If not of a man, then of a village (or the US Government Village of Hillary). It takes intestinal fortitude for a woman to allow herself to be cut off from the herd. Therefore this is a rare event.
Men, on the other hand, were taught to be independent, but to be part of a team when necessary. The Manosphere truism that describes this is that men are pack animals. Individual men, on the other hand, historically could make a go of it on their own if they had to; just as lone wolves exiled do.
This is why there are MGTOW and not WGTOW. MGTOWs are the lone wolves operating independently, and doing well by it. Since a potential WGTOW can never really leave the herd, there can never really be any independence. What do you think?
Addendum by RPG,
It’s never fun to be cut out of the herd, but I am actually OK with it if the herd are just idiots anyway. I am probably more OK with this with age, when I was younger I would have hurt feelings. But anymore, it’s like, “OK great, less BS for me!” .
However I don’t like outright conflict, so I would just likely avoid the herd rather than engage in a fight against them.I have always been kindof a loner and OK with being alone. I’d rather be with others, but I have this internal line I can’t cross and will choose alone over not being true to my inner compass.
Addendum from Ton and Ame,
“Women don’t really have friends. Women have catty bitches in her life who display varying degrees of hostility”
Sheesh … ain’t that the truth. If i’d have truly known that truth earlier in my life it would’ve saved a whole lot of misery.
“But otherwise pretty close to wait is going on though I say it’s more about submission. She will submit to her man’s frame or she will be in rebellion. Submission makes her happy and she will be a joy to be around. Rebellion makes her a miserable bitch so she makes the world miserable”
Truth. So he needs to have a solid frame to submit to.