This is the first of a series considering sluts, why they do it, what they are, and perhaps most importantly, how to prevent the onset of this disease. Today, we consider why a young woman would want to be a slut.
A teen/young woman has lots of power. Even if they are not the prettiest, or are even overweight, they have one thing going for them that is considered to be of value — they are young. The question is about how to leverage this. Probably many do not consider this in depth; rather they just fall into doing the easy stuff that gets rewarded.
Let us consider what these rewards are,
I. Lots of attention. If you have a reputation of being available, then that will get around, multiplying the attention that you receive. Probably the attention is intoxicating, it is fun, and is easy to obtain. What is not to like?
II. Sex. Despite protestations to the opposite, women do at least sometimes like sex. Though I do wonder if this is much less rewarding than the attention that they receive.
III. Free goodies. These might include, but not limited to, food, rides, cars, clothes and entertainment.
IV. The thrill of victory. When they score with the guy that they target, they are awash in the feel goods.
V. Scoring out of their league. Though they might not know it, they are probably hooking up with fellas beyond what they could ever hope to snag. What ego wouldn’t be boosted? And what young chick doesn’t want an ego boost?
It should be obvious that there are lots of advantages to being a slut. Just make sure that you use the pill, and you are good to go. So young women – embrace your inner slut.
Addendum By Deti as to why women would be sluts,
Power. The sexual power a young, pretty woman has is simply immense. With it she can get many men to do virtually anything she wants them to do. All the things you mentioned – freebies, goodies, trips, meals, entertainment, fun times, hot sex — are an expression of her use of her power.
That is what sex really means to women. To men, sex almost always involves some level of connection, some emotional “meeting of the minds and hearts”. Despite what everyone tells us, sex doesn’t mean that for most women. Sex is an expression of power for women.
Affirmation/validation. This is kind of an offshoot or extension of power, but it warrants its own paragraph because it’s important to women. Her ability to get hot men, high status men with options, to pay attention to her is an expression of her worth and value as a woman. ALso, gives her “bragging rights” among her frenemies. A hot woman who can get hot men to give her attention must be a woman who has some value.
To cover up pain/trauma/issues. Sex is a balm for prior hurts. Makes her feel good about herself that she can get an attractive man to pay attention to her. Covers the pain for a while. I think most women do not become sluts and then this causes lots of issues. Used to think that; but I don’t think most women become sluts and then it causes problems. Some women do, but probably not most. I think (theorizing here) most women become sluts because they have some kind of unresolved pain, trauma or shit in their pasts, that gives them distorted views of themselves, relationships, sex, whatever. They resort to the one thing they have that gives them power — their sex appeal. Their bodies. Sexual access to their bodies.