Red Pill Classroom – Preselection

It is common knowledge in the Manosphere that women extensively use preselection to choose which fellas to target.  That is, they look for men that are presently getting lots of attention presently from women and/or did so in the past.  The objective of this is to find the best men in order to satisfy their hypergamy.

In reality, this is really a crowdsourcing technique, where the knowledge is gleaned from the fact that other women are paying attention to a given man.  This crowdsourcing is very much a shortcut to gaining knowledge, as digging out information by yourself can be  time-consuming with much effort wasted.   Of course, gathering the information for yourself very well might result in better information being obtained, but would it be worth it?  If you were a rational lady looking for a compatible long term partner, then the answer could very well be yes.  If you are looking just to satisfy your hypergamic itch, then perhaps not.

Actually it is not so surprising that women engage in this behavior; as humans in general regularly engage in it.  People follow the latest fad, because everybody is doing it.  Once again, it is a shortcut for actually gathering info and thinking.  Unfortunately there are often not enough people who suggest that maybe the Emperor has no clothes.

As for the fellas, the first test that women need to pass is based on appearance.  It does not really matter what other fellas think about a particular woman; what matter is what he thinks about her.  Once passed that hurdle; either the fella can go in for the score or decide to gather more info to see if she is worth an LTR.  Note that there is no hypergamy driving anything here, so it is less imperative to find some type of best.

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94 comments on “Red Pill Classroom – Preselection
  1. Yoda says:

    Women attracted to my Jedi skillz they were.
    Like skillz women do.

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  2. Linny says:

    Are you saying that men basing their choice on looks is not *some type of best*? It is my opinion that most men set their sights on the best looking woman they think they can get. The same as a woman looking for the best provider she thinks she can get.

    I have read many places that the more masculine the man the more feminine he prefers his woman to be. From what I read the *perfect* woman is petite, slim, with large breasts and bottom.

    From a biological stance this is not good genetic matching when it comes to breeding. Now if breeding is not on the menu who cares.

    If both men and women looked for a compatible partner and had unromantic discussions about what they both want out of a ltr perhaps things would work out better in the long run.

    Historically speaking men played the hypergamy game in that they did not want to have to marry below their own social standing. And they were more than willing to marry up if the chance presented itself. It is only in modern times with choosing a partner based on romantic ideals that problems have gotten out of hand..

    I also believe that changes in the divorce laws have made things even worse. But if one was to spend more time and energy in choosing a partner in the first place that might be a step in the right direction.

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  3. Yoda says:

    Men often have a “good enough” perspective they do.
    With hypergamy, true this is not

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  4. M says:

    I don’t think preselection helps us very well. It includes the men we would be attracted to already, so it adds nothing really. Really it confuses us by adding in the poor quality men from girly-boy pop stars to the latest fads of “popular” girls. Feminism preselects for us also with weak men who deny masculinity (Ughh). Preselection is a muddling thing.

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  5. SFC Ton says:

    Pretty selection is a time saver and we are designed to be lazy/ save energy/ calories


  6. SFC Ton says:

    Men select for qualities that trigger fertility messages

    Women select for qualities that say surrival and quality baby batter

    Men and women have different biological directives so we have different breeding requirements

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  7. SFC Ton says:

    These biological directives are extremely effective for humanity at large. We dominate the world because of our informal breeding program

    Sure they will frequently fail individuals but evolution doesn’t care about individuals.

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  8. Guests says:

    I agree with M

    To everybody east of the IDL, have a fantabulous Boxing Day! All to the west, have a wonderfab 27th! From the IDL to where it all comes around in back, the sun never sets on spawyspace 🙂 🙂 Compliments of the season and have *totally* *awesome* *fun*!



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  9. Guests says:

    Spawny my pirennial friend, let me add my own compliments of the season. I trust I find you well and in fine fettle. We hope we catch up again here at New Year. Until then, may the best of conviviality and good cheer be with you.


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  10. Spawny Get says:

    Hi Roy, I look forward to it. Currently swearing at the woodburner which is refusing to roar. Wondering about an early night in a warm bed under a 15 tog duvet.

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  11. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Preselection is powerful. A while back, I read a comment about how, in church singles groups, all the girls pine for the top one or two guys and they only start to pair up once those guys are “taken”. However, that is a limited set. If you factor in internet dating and choice addiction, you have an unlimited set and the girls will never accept their equal.

    In a comment somewhere else, it was suggested that preselection can be gamed. Hire a great looking escort and go to art gallery showings. Let the escort sing your praises when you are out of earshot. While I haven’t done it, It sounds like it will work and it is amusing to contemplate.


  12. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    M!!! Good to see you!
    Cill’s sister #2!!! Good to see you too!


  13. Linny says:

    Okay, I thought I knew what the word hypergamy meant and I did but only the simple definition. Seems like while I wasn’t looking there was a lot added to the meaning of that word.

    So perhaps my earlier post is a little off kilter.


  14. mgtowhorseman says:

    and so it begins.
    if the AI has enough vocabary it will reinforce the herbivore lifestyle in japan and mgtow here.

    Combined with a dog for physical companionship and this for pseudo emotional support it would be the tipping point for men to fully go their own way. Even the most self sufficient person gets lonely so if this fills the gap at a lower “emotional cost” then women will finally truly price themselves out of the market.

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  15. mgtowhorseman says:

    I lersonally wouldnt like it but im sure we all know people like the guy in the ad.

    also think about all the old people, the shutins, etc. it could be the support they need in older age.

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  16. mgtowhorseman says:

    So its a chatbot.

    when was the last time you got a text asking how your day was going? That “felt” like the texter gave a shit about you?

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  17. mgtowhorseman says:

    Its a shame it tKes so little to make someone happy yet peoe wont.

    enjoy the decline.


  18. mgtowhorseman says:

    its a shame it takes so little to make someone happy yet most people wont.

    enjoy the decline.

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  19. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Horseman! I hope that you had a Happy Christmas. Good to see you back.

    About the hologram girlfriend, I just don’t know. There is an air of unreality to it.

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  20. Yoda says:

    Wonder if virtual girlfriend has big boobs she does I do

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  21. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I hope that she can speak something besides Japanese.


  22. Yoda says:

    Boobs speak no language they do

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  23. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Considering how quickly we went off topic, the sense that I am getting is that men don’t care all that much anymore. If Average Jane is only interested in movie stars, what is Joe going to be able to do about it?
    Today, I checked out some videos on youtube that related to Tinder. Tinder has only made things worse. It has gotten beyond ridiculous.

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  24. Yoda says:

    Boobs never off topic they are

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  25. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Yoda, you are obsessed. Try thinking about sandwiches, maybe?

    Liked by 1 person

  26. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Grilled ham and cheese?


  27. Cill says:

    “Boobs speak no language they do”
    Boobs should be sentient by substance they should.


  28. Yoda says:

    Tarn’s boobs sentient they would be


  29. Cill says:

    More damage than the Patriarchy boobs did do. Plenty a poor sucker the boobs did exploit.


  30. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I think Tarn started that rumor when she made comments under the name of her left and right.


  31. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    A French Dip with rare roast beef?


  32. Cill says:

    Hang in shame they should


  33. Cill says:

    Parsimonious hanging Judges they are.


  34. SFC Ton says:

    Pre selection is extremely powerful Fuzzie. Not sure how the hooker at the art gallery would work but there use to be videos of a guy faking he was famous and small gathering of women forming simply over the rumors he was famous.

    Bike rallies are huge, staged events. Millions and millions of dollars on the line. Promoters bring in hot bitches from all over the usa to staff tables, beer booths, bars etc. and women can make a good money doing these events. These bitches are 9’s and 10’s. Any rate you can see these chicks change the way they interact with men who brought their own hot bitch with them. A little more flirty, smile a little bigger etc etc

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  35. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    How can you speak ill of boobs? They would never do as much to you. Quiet they are with never a discouraging word to be heard.


  36. Cill says:

    “How can you speak ill of boobs?”

    Tongue in cheek?

    Goodnight from me now. See you tomorrow.

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  37. Yoda says:

    A “boobs supporter” I am

    Liked by 1 person

  38. Spawny Get says:

    the 20 seconds in bit

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  39. Spawny Get says:

    News of sanity from madworldnews

    Although she may have thought she was clever at the time, an entitled brat recently got quite the reality check. After making a few sickening demands and posting them publicly for the world to see, she’s found herself in a bit of trouble – and a judge just wiped the smug grin off her face.

    It all started back in November when a few threats were posted to Twitter, targeting black students from New Jersey’s Kean University. Once an investigation was launched into the matter, you can imagine their surprise when officers learned that the person responsible was Kayla McKelvey, a black student who also attended the school.

    Give that judge a prize

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  40. Yoda says:

    Pre selection is extremely powerful

    Big shortcut to info it is.
    All needs to be said this would be

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  41. Yoda says:

    Any rate you can see these chicks change the way they interact with men who brought their own hot bitch with them.

    Wonder if realize their change of behavior I do


  42. Yoda says:

    In a comment somewhere else, it was suggested that preselection can be gamed

    Big leaps of faith made when used by women happen they do.
    This why very gamable it would be

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  43. Yoda says:

    Barack Obama said the first thing he’ll do once he’s out of office is take time to think about himself.


  44. Spawny Get says:

    Does anyone think that narcissists ever stop thinking of themselves?

    Liked by 2 people

  45. Spawny Get says:

    Sadly, Carrie Fisher died.

    Liked by 1 person

  46. Yoda says:

    Process Leia, sad this is

    Liked by 1 person

  47. Yoda says:

    Autocorrect odd it would be


  48. Spawny Get says:

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  49. SFC Ton says:

    A heart attack is never good but having one on an airplane couldn’t have helped her any

    Liked by 1 person

  50. SFC Ton says:

    Does anyone think that narcissists ever stop thinking of themselves?

    I do try to think of something more important then myself to think about but rarely succeed

    Liked by 1 person

  51. Spawny Get says:

    You a narcissist? Colour me sceptical. I’m pretty sure that your self-confidence is more based on deeds and such, not on your ego for ego’s sake.

    BTW check out the end credits (there are two parts) for a laugh 2:10


  52. Spawny Get says:

    ECC just keeps the heart alive while waiting for the oxygen and the zapper. I did a fair amount of resus training, only later did I hear that it’s very rare for the heart to spontaneously restart. All those movies where the patient wakes up without real medical attention are spinning a yarn…as far as I’ve heard.


  53. Linny says:

    I had to do CPR once. I will never do it again.


  54. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Sad about Princess Leia I am.
    Wonder if she ever kissed the Wookie I do.

    Preselection powerful it is.
    I would have to be to overcome Tinder induced hypergamy.

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  55. Spawny Get says:

    Linny, it’s only been theoretical for me, other than helping a bent diver (PFO) oxygen and a helicopter ride for him.


  56. SFC Ton says:

    A regular topic of conversation in these parts is men going their own way because of the goofiness in the smp.

    I still maintain economics will be the driving factor and not the smp


  57. SFC Ton says:

    LOL I have always been on the other side of emergency medical treatment

    As in needing it or creating the need. I can tell you I have always found it bizarre what humans can and cannot survive/ come back from

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  58. Cill says:

    I’ve just skulled a beer brewed by Charles Wells, Havelock Street, Bedford, MK40 4LU United Kingdom. Better than your average Kiwi brew, I’ll admit, but nothing – repeat – nothing can match the peerless wort that ferments into the mighty CDDU.

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  59. Cill says:

    Barack Obama said the first thing he’ll do once he’s out of office is take time to think about himself.

    Maybe I should think about the way I sing the praises of my own grog. Bugger me days, I’d hate to think I have anything in common with Barack.

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  60. Yoda says:

    A South Carolina woman has been arrested after deputies received videos of her performing sexual acts with an animal


  61. Yoda says:

    A Florida woman was charged Monday with engaging in sexual conduct with animals.

    Collier County Sheriff’s Office deputies say Miranda Johns, 21, of Naples, recorded herself while she had sex with her two dogs


  62. Yoda says:

    Going to the dogs the USA is

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  63. Cill says:

    In a comment somewhere else, it was suggested that preselection can be gamed

    Yes, I’ve seen some of my mates put it into action and it works.

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  64. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Did anyone take a statement from the dauchsund?

    Liked by 3 people

  65. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    What the heck are people thinking when they record stuff like that?

    Liked by 2 people

  66. Cill says:

    Bloody hell Fuzzy, I didn’t know you had that level of coarseness in you 😉


  67. Choicy says:

    I wish you all have a merry festive season my mates.

    Liked by 2 people

  68. Yoda says:

    Did anyone take a statement from the dauchsund?

    “Rough” the dog said it was

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  69. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Happy New Year, Choicy!

    That poor, confused dauchsund!

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  70. Yoda says:

    Wonder if the dog video inspire Lena it will I do

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  71. Spawny Get says:

    Beer festival season soon. Such a large selection that you drink it in 1/3 or 1/2 pints…had a good time last time

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  72. Spawny Get says:

    Dachshund…dachs hund is badger dog. Used to hunt badgers out of their burrow, I guess.

    Are we sure she didn’t have a couple of vadgerhunds?

    I’ll get me coat.

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  73. Spawny Get says:

    Hi Choicy, hope you’ve taken time for some fun. Happy New Year

    Liked by 1 person

  74. Cill says:

    The woman and the dachshund reminds me of the mouse and the elephant. The elephant reversed up to a tree where the mouse waited against the trunk at the appropriate height. The mouse started pumping away but the elephant couldn’t feel anything and moved her hips side to side against the tree. This shook loose a coconut which landed on her head. The elephant said “Ouch!” and groaned. The mouse, pumping away like crazy said “Suffer baby, suffer.”

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  75. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    To the mouse, that’s ambition!

    Liked by 1 person

  76. Choicy says:

    Thnaks Spawny yeah mate I’m having fun.

    Me and my mate Cillo are going out to do some fishing. Cillo’s sister will drive the boat and M will be the crew because Cillo and me are into the seasons cheer, which is a Glenmorangie 20 YO single malt. I’m grinning like a shot fox mate.

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  77. Yoda says:

    Weinerdog the dachshund called it is
    Perhaps appropriately it would be

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  78. Yoda says:

    Wonder if a dog consent it can I do

    Liked by 1 person

  79. Yoda says:

    Wonder if the women picked the dog because surrounded with bitches he was

    Liked by 2 people

  80. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I am hesitant to use that word. It denigrates the four footed variety. The ones with four paws are loyal, affectionate, and cooperative.


  81. Farm Boy says:

    Boobs speak no language they do

    Actually, boobs need no translation

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  82. Farm Boy says:

    There is a new post.

    Boobs are not mentioned at this time

    Liked by 2 people

  83. Farm Boy says:

    Fired teacher and son fathered by student both found dead

    The former Bronx student who got his teacher pregnant in 2012 has confessed to police that he killed the woman and their 4-year-old boy, police sources told The Post.

    Cops charged 21-year-old Isaac Duran with murder Tuesday after he admitted to the double slaying of ex-Dewitt Clinton High School teacher Felicia Barahona, 36, and their little boy, Miguel, inside her upper Manhattan apartment, law enforcement sources said.

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  84. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    He was paying child support. Who knows where the money came from.


  85. thedeti says:

    Preselection seems to serve two purposes: sexual attraction, and safety/security.

    If other women are paying attention to him, he must be sexually attractive. This is why married men seem to generate sexual attention from some women, and they do so by checking out the relative attractiveness of his wife. “If he was able to get HER, there MUST be something attractive about him,” She thinks.

    Works the other way too. If women don’t pay attention to you, there must be a reason for it. If you’re married to an ugly woman, then there must be a reason for that too. De-selection.

    Works for safety/security. Women not only want sex with attractive men, they want to feel it’s safe to have that sex, even if it’s a hookup, even if it’s with a married man. She won’t do it if she doesn’t feel at least some modicum that it’s “safe” to do what she’s about to do. That’s why PUAs emphasize “comfort building” — even if she hasn’t known you a long time, she FEELS as if she HAS known you a long time. Women even say it — “I just feel so comfortable with you. Feel like I’ve known you forever.”

    It’s also why a lot of men are able to fuck all the girls in their “friend groups”. It’s also why a lot of married women who have affairs, have those affairs with men they’ve known a long time, either from school years ago, or through work, or through their married friends (including husbands of their friends). These men are known to these women. They’re known quantities. They know where and how these men live, how they respond and react, what they like and don’t like. They have a history. And that aspect of preselection lends itself to safety and security for the woman having sex with him.

    I’ve written before that I am seeing more and more women leaving husbands and returning to men they’ve known when they were younger. AF/BB/AF I called it at JustFourGuys. I am convinced preselection is a big part of what’s going on here. Not only is there sexual attraction which never really went away, there’s security. She knows this man. She has a history with him. She understands him. Getting back with him is like riding a bike – you never forget how, and it just feels right.

    Those are the main aspects of preselection, I think.


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