What’s For Dinner?


 

To which commenter HappyHouseWifey says,

My dreams and goals get reached more easily if I have dinner on the table in time. My dreams are to stock my mind chock full of happy memories and my goals are to maintain a wonderful happy family. To grow old and look back on a life full of warmth. To have our children *want* to come back and visit us when we’re old. To make my husband feel like he is lucky to have me. 

So those hopes and dreams are quite compatible with making dinner🙂

My Mom agreed with HappyHouseWifey.  Why wouldn’t she?  She had no ambition to go out in the world, to have a career,  to be “awesome and stuff”.  It was more satisfying to be at home, to make a home.  Because she did not work outside of the house,  money was tight, and we very often did without.  However, she, my siblings and myself were very satisfied with the tradeoff.

As for careers, many fella have jobs, not so much careers.  Those who do have what people might term careers, often can’t wait to retire.  The work world is for most just not as satisfying as Feminists have continually suggested.  Work world dreams are often just that, dreams.  On the other hand, it being a good SAHM is easily within reach of many women, especially if they try.

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62 comments on “What’s For Dinner?
  1. Women are programmed to feelz. To drama. To need.

    Up until the 1920s in the west this was possible. I don’t have enough food to eat. I might die in childbirth. Half my kids don’t see five. Laundry takes all day in the washtub. I have to feed tbe fire/stove all day to stay warm.

    It was legit.

    Then the economic revolution came. Food became available. Medicine caugh up with science. TB and polio were cured. Machines made housework easier. For a brief period relief.
    Then I need drama. Really I am bored but I feel …bad.
    I need to have a cause, a reason to feel….bad.

    Patriarchy! Equal rights!
    So for twenty years they had a legit cause. They got the vote. They got a say. For a brief period a labour free home and rights! Relief.

    But I need drama and Im not happy….I need a job.
    Along comes the war and poof! Jobs! In a factory!
    For a brief period. Food, rights, meaningful work in the war effort! Relief.

    But I need drama and Im not happy….I need meanigless sex.
    And the pill and woodstock and disco.

    So. Food. Rights. Work. Sex. Relief. For a minute and a half.
    So. Drama? Not much left…..hmmmm
    The corporate suite and government.
    For a brief period…Thatcher. Then yahoo and HP and Merkle.

    So. Food. Internet connected appliancs. More than equal rights. Work. Meaningless sex. In charge of government and the economy. Relief. But this work is actually hard.

    Im not happy…..I need to stay home and have babies!
    Ummmm. ……

    Where did everybody i.e. men go?
    What do you mean now that we do everything you’re going fishing…forever. Alone.

    But. But. Im not haaaaaappppppy!

    Hello?
    Anyone?
    Hello?

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  2. Farm Boy says:

    My dreams are to stock my mind chock full of happy memories

    Why can’t they just want this?

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  3. Yoda says:

    Why so much drama women need they do?

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  4. Yoda says:

    What makes women happy it does?

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  5. Yoda
    214 because
    233 nothing

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  6. Yoda says:

    Terse the horseman is

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  7. Ame says:

    when my first husband and i met, we were both agreed that we wanted me to be a sahm when we had kids someday. someday ended up being 11 and 13 years later, and i loved every moment of being a sahm. i had thought he did, too … but there were little things that came up at the end of our marriage that made me wonder if he was, hummm … disappointed in me for not having a career? jealous of other husbands whose wives had careers? something along those lines. i was baffled. we both grew up with mostly sahm’s … we had both always agreed that’s what we wanted. i’m still a bit baffled about it … except, perhaps, that those professionals he worked with at his level who had two professional incomes had a LOT more disposable income, and he (like his parents) was obsessed with other people’s money and how much they made. i never quite understood that.

    i’ve heard there are men out there who seem to use their wives careers as a type of competition. idk if that’s just in the big city, just in multiple degreed positions, or what.

    it’s interesting being *just* a sahm without a career to “fall back on” or income on-the-side. women have all sorts of views on this, become very very defensive, feel the need to justify their choices. it can get messy, especially in the Christian/church-going world.

    the thing is … someone needs to tend to and care for the home, or the needs of the home won’t be met. how a couple wants to balance that in their marriage is not my problem. but a neglected home means neglected children, and then that becomes a problem for all of society.

    my husband works two jobs, his second one being on-call and often weird hours. he loves that i’m flexible to those hours. if i were working outside the home, i would not be able to be flexible to him.

    i know i’m not the *perfect* sahm, but i do know my husband is very happy with me, and our kids are peaceful and content and know that at least one of us is always available for them. and that, imo, is priceless. i’ve asked my girls from time-to-time if they would have rather i worked outside the home and we had more disposable income. they have both emphatically said no. for one, they both know that my aspie girl would have died in any kind of childcare. they both knew that i was always there for them – 24/7. and there was, and still is, a lot of security in that for them. they both know enough kids with dual-income parents to see the difference … the kinds of clothes they get to wear, the places they get to shop, the tech-toys/cars they get to have, the frequency with which they eat out, the activities they get to participate in, the vacations they get to take … and still, my girls choose to have me home with a very simple life, to all that. they humble me. and my husband enjoys being catered to, too.

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  8. SFC Ton says:

    Me and the HHW share a common dream

    It is easy to make women happy; be there benevolent dictator. Take away the stress of making decisions for them. Their fragile minds never evolved to make decisions more important than what ice cream flavor they want. Treat them like little girls, laugh at them when they are pouting, smack em on the ass, bang them out from behind and clean your junk off with their hair and call them pet names when they are being obedient

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  9. Yoda says:

    Figured that this post bring Tarn out of the woodwork it would.
    So far it is successful not

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  10. Yoda says:

    my husband enjoys being catered to, too.

    Also likes your boobs he does
    Perhaps for dessert they are

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  11. Ame says:

    hahaha! he enjoys them much more frequently than simply dessert 😉

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  12. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Horseman,
    I’ll say! Twice frivorced and no qualms? Thank you for the insight.

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  13. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    I don’t think they make them like your Mom anymore. You would think that making a good dinner for the whole family would be endorsed by feminists because the whole family, including Mom, gets to eat. They are so meager with their affections that this is too generous.

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  14. FNU MNU LNU says:

    omfg, i have finally figured out that the feminazis are really just like every program manager in the .gov!

    they believe that a bigger pile of stuff, is better than a smaller pile of quality.

    more stuff is just a burden. whether it is a bigger house, higher N count, more clothes, trying to have more kids while still working, all the “go girl” paraphernalia, etc.

    do with less, and you can get better quality that lasts.

    and that includes your spouse.

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  15. Yoda says:

    and that includes your spouse.

    One spouse better than two it is?

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  16. Yoda says:

    Two boobs better than one boob it is

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  17. SFC Ton says:

    4 boobs are better then 2 boobs

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  18. Cill says:

    “Two boobs better than one boob it is”

    All right you bastards let’s not beat around the bush:

    One, two, sixteen nipples, nothing but nothing can beat a mighty mouthful especially if it’s a significantly succulent singularity OK?

    Beat that you buggars.

    cill@iloveboobs.mighty.metaphor.consonance.and.assonance.com

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  19. Yoda says:

    What Moe say about boobs he does?

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  20. Moehau Man says:

    Yes well, whilst you foreign jokers dream about it, us Moehau Mans casually get on with chugging on Moehau Man sheilas’ juggs.

    “But then”, Mrs Moehau Man (my nurturing old mum) interjected just then, “you foreign males have long been fed a junket of false female tit.”

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  21. Cill says:

    I distance myself from Moe’s comments btw

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  22. Cill says:

    And I’m coming into range of my home. Good to be back.

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  23. Cill says:

    In range of my pad. You bastards are all asleep, probably. When I drop anchor I don’t intend to go asleep.

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  24. Yoda says:

    Good to see Moe and Cill it is

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  25. Yoda says:

    For Cill and Moe, what for dinner it is?

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  26. Yoda says:

    In charge of government and the economy. Relief. But this work is actually hard.

    Perhaps referring to Justin you are?

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  27. Yoda says:

    What the ideal number of boobs it is?

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  28. Cill says:

    what for dinner it is

    Nothing yet. I went to sleep after all. Now it’s 4:20 am, time to catch up on more kip.

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  29. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I am glad to see you home, Cill. Things on the South Island must be much improved.

    As for boobs, if they are attached to a woman who makes sandwiches, this is a very good thing.

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  30. Yoda says:

    Bears just want sammiches they do

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  31. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Something interesting from Dr. Helen. She picks up on where The View left off.
    https://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2016/12/11/men-is-trump-a-litmus-test-for-your-relationship/

    The short version, if your wife off girlfriend is cutting off sex because you voted for Trump, dump her of prepare for divorce. Her theory is that it will only get worse.

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  32. Yoda says:

    After insisting the RNC was not hacked, Priebus said to a combative Todd, “I don’t know why you are so hot about this.”

    Todd shot back, “It’s not about me.”

    Later in the exchange Todd said, “Do you believe — let’s clear this up. do you believe — does the president-elect believe that Russia was trying to muddy up and get involved in the election in 2016?”

    Priebus said, “Number one, you don’t know it. I don’t know it. There’s been no conclusive or specific report to say otherwise.”

    Todd asked, “Do you dispute 17 intelligence agencies that have assessed that Russia agents were behind this? You dispute this?

    Priebus said, “Chuck, this is insane. In the same article about the 17 agencies, it said it was inconclusive.”

    http://www.breitbart.com/video/2016/12/11/reince-priebus-battles-nbcs-chuck-todd-on-russian-election-hacking-chuck-this-is-insane/

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  33. Fuzz

    That this was on the View openly discussed that the use of sex as a political butthurt weapon shows
    A. How open women are that they are doing this
    B. How safe in their superiority they feel to do A.
    C. How naive they are that men dont see B.
    D. How unable to see consequences that they think men wont do something about C.
    E. How funny its going to be to see female reaction when D. Aka mgtow sweeps the planet (kinda like no liberals saw the election coming)

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  34. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Horseman,
    They are making their own bed to lie in. They see men as toys to be manipulated, not as men to team up with. It is a surprise that they think that they can operate with so little respect for us.

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  35. Spawny Get says:

    Game’s up for Trump

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  36. Spawny Get says:

    It gets worserer

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  37. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Uh oh! I think he is busted.

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  38. Yoda says:

    More appealing on the pot than Lena was he is

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  39. Cill says:

    Thanks mates. Fairly quiet here, eh? (probably because it’s still Sunday in your part of the world)

    I had intended to take last night off, but ended up catching up on some sleep instead. I’ll have to catch up with the farm work now and see how many livestock have disappeared in my absence. I usually lose a few to wild animals – especially human.

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  40. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    When you get a chance, let us know what you have been up to. Maybe a post would be the best means.

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  41. Farm Boy says:

    I wonder if Cill knows that Lena took a selfie when she was taking a dump

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  42. Yoda says:

    she was taking a dump

    Not very appropriate on a “What’s for dinner” thread this is

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  43. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    I don’t think that Cill needs to see the picture. Imagination will suffice.

    Horseman,
    Thinking back, if ordinary housewives will cut their husbands off sex for not voting as they wish, they could do it for for anything. I think they already do. It is a little more than stupid for the women on the The View to go this far public. They are putting another nail on the lid to the coffin of marriage in America.

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  44. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    Now, I need an antidote for Bloom and all of us who react to Lean sitting on the toilet. Some thought will be needed.

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  45. Yoda says:

    Find a picture of pikelets you should

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  46. Where’s the bacon??

    Mmmmm baaaaacon!

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  47. Yoda says:

    Canadian bacon desire you do?

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  48. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    You have reminded me that Moe likes women who smell like pickelets.

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  49. Yoda says:

    A new post there is

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  50. Spawny Get says:

    “react to Lean sitting on the toilet.”
    A highly inappropriate misspelling.

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  51. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Oops. I did think that I was getting betting better.

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  52. Yoda says:

    Wonder what next for Lena there would be I do.
    A selfie at the moment of ejection she would capture?

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  53. Yoda says:

    Effectively killed this thread I have

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  54. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    For this, a specially equipped toilet Lena would need.

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  55. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Perhaps saved this thread I have.
    Perhaps not.

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  56. happyhousewifey says:

    Mgtowhorsemans post, only exciteability differs ENORMOUSLY between people. So for me, just the tension between husbands first bite and the smile, or the time a little one needs a bruised kissed better is like WHOA DRAMATIC MOMENT. Just the daily things feel intense, for me. My husband never yelled at me – if he did, I’d probably need therapy LOL.

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