Women really need to stop having so much premarital sex. This isn’t a Puritanical, Christian tradcon argument. They really need to stop doing it because it screws them up so much. It prevents them from being able to gin up sexual attraction for men they can actually get a commitment from.
Women really need to stop settling for and marrying men they aren’t sexually attracted to. Women need to reserve marriage for men they want to fuck so badly that they can’t stand it. The only marriages that really work now are those in which she is strongly sexually attracted to him. There are two manosphere examples of this, and we both know who they are. Those are the only marriages that work now.
Where does a woman want to place her bet, now or later? Or perhaps more importantly, does she even know that there is a choice? Probably in most cases, she does not.
Most young women grow up being told that they are awesome; the way that they can readily attract men just confirms and intensifies this. Furthermore, they are told that they can and should have it all. So even it was suggested to women that there is a choice to be made between now and later, she would not believe you.
But a choice it is, even if they do not realize it. Let us consider the options. Riding the carousel is seemingly fun, with lots of attention and validation. There is a price to be paid. Her ability to pair bond decreases with every partner, with every sexual act. The ultimate manifestation of this is the so called alpha-widow; where a man who tickles her tinglator is never forgotten, always to be pined for.
How does this all play out? She marries a fella, has kids, hates her husband and her situation (and pines for her glory days). There is misery all around. Her, him, and the children all suffer. Not only does she pay the price for her Faustian bargain, but also her husband (probably she doesn’t really care) and her children (hopefully she does care). Furthermore the sins of the mothers are passed onto the children, maybe from generation to generation. A true tragedy this is.