New Zealand women are considered to be the most promiscuous in the entire world. A survey by the condom maker Durex has reported that Kiwi women had an average of 20.4 sexual partners in their lifetime. And remember, that’s just an average. It means that friggin’ Cruise liner loads full of New Zealand women are getting banged up a LOT more than that.
By comparison, the global average was 7.3 sexual partners per woman. Astoundingly, New Zealand was the only country in the survey where women had more sexual partners than their men, a reflection of the huge twentysomething backpacker culture this country has on top of their general sluttiness.
The long-term consequences of rampant female promiscuity can be serious, and any women who has a notch count higher than 10 is a major red flag, especially for men who wish to have a healthy long-term relationship or marriage.
The higher the notch count a woman has, the less likely they will be able to pair bond well with a single man, especially after they have been repeatedly plugged in every hole by dozens of obnoxious alpha male bad-boy cocks throughout their teens and twenties (or beyond).
It is commonly understood in the manosphere that women suffer much more due to their n-counts than men. Actually, the concept should perhaps be inflicted with damage, as women who fail to bond to their husbands make all around them suffer.
But why might do women sustain the damage while men do not? Probably there are many reasons, but one possibility stood out to me. When Bill’s affair with Monica was revealed, lots of psychologists came out of the woodwork saying basically the same thing; that is, that men are much better able to compartmentalize than women were. That meant that even though Bill was under intense pressure due to the scandal, he conceivably could still handle his presidential duties well. One was separate from the other, and when he was engaged with one, he was not engaged with the other.
On the other hand, it was said that Hillary would suffer continually, as women do not compartmentalize so well. So matter where she went, what she did, it would always be on her mind.
In my personal case, I compartmentalize very well. I focus on what ever context I am in. It is very useful for getting the job done. My Mom on the other hand, would continually obsess over things, even in situations that seemed odd to me.
How does this relate to n-count? With the fellas, the context that they are in is the current marriage. Ideally, that is the focus. With women, there is no current man in her life, there is always the men in her life from time zero. This is perhaps much of the explanation behind the alpha widow.
Cill and Molly have in times past touched upon this phenomenon. Perhaps they would comment on it further.