Men also used to marry younger and in larger numbers to lock down their very own real-life woman. Now, why bother doing the decent work of marrying and raising a family if you can swipe right and see a new pair every night? “Seventy percent of American males between the ages of 20 and 34 are not married, and many live in a state of ‘perpetual adolescence’ with ominous consequences for the nation’s future,says Janice Shaw Crouse, author of ‘Marriage Matters.’”
Well, it is not just easy access to online pr0n that is doing this. Women are busy doing lots of things other than considering marriage. In that age bracket, women hold all of the cards these days. Oddly enough, it is always “men and stupid pr0n (and video games)” that gets blamed.
In a bizarre gambit to gain equality, women gave away a ton of the power they had accumulated in society. They held a majority of the cards in sexual relationships and, facing a royal flush, decided to fold. Women used to set the cultural standards and parameters for intimate activity. Now often the guys wield more power over sex and the girls are working way too hard, way too soon, for no reciprocity. More widely available hookups have made men less likely to commit.
There is some truth here, wrapped up in lots of BS. Yes, women did have power because they held a cartel on sex. Yes, they gave it away. They also took the power that men had over them, that is; the expectation of support. With their own fancy education on careers, women put less consideration on finding a man for this reason.
All of the above freed women to pursue hawt guys. These are the men that she is referring to; the ones with the power. The large number of non-hawt guys have no power. The author obviously does not see this. I wonder if it is because women like her do not look, or maybe they see, but just pretend not to know. Still, even empowered women must always be damsels in distress (i.e. victims).
Take what happens when there are more women than men in a dating pool. Manhattan has three women for every two men in the under-30 college grad dating pool. Men in a market like this, where there is a preponderance of available boobs women, tend to not settle down and engage in productive activities like building a family. They may even start to see women as interchangeable, as the market incentives drive them to move on as soon as they need to put in some effort to sustain a relationship.
So why does Manhattan have such a ratio? Probably it is because there are lots of advertising and other such jobs there, but more importantly, hawt and/or rich men. Yes, these men probably do see them as interchangeable. Why wouldn’t they, as they are probably not exactly signally much of anything else other than sex. And still, lots of guys are left out here. Women always seem to not notice this.
Finally there is the “not settle down and have a family” silliness. And who’s fault is this? Perhaps divorce courts and the cock carousel have an effect.
Unsurprisingly, men tend to be less — I’ll say it — promiscuous when women are more scarce. Consider Santa Clara County, Calif., home to Silicon Valley and the only well-populated area in the country where male college grads outnumber female ones by a significant margin. There, it’s women who have the dating leverage. ‘I think it’s pretty good for the girls,’ one single woman told the San Jose Mercury News a few years back. ‘You can be more picky,’ because guys ‘have to try harder.’
So the rich and/or hawt men around have to try harder. That’s great. “You can be more picky”, she says. As if women are not picky enough. And still, lot’s of guys are left in the cold. So very blind.
This may sound a bit Trumpesque, but to Make America Great Again we may need to Make Seeing Boobs Rare Again. Men did great things often in pursuit of women.
Yes, they did. But covering up boobs will not turn the trick; there needs to much more. Hypergamy needs to be reined in. Men investments in family matters needs to be protected. That is just for starters. However, oddly enough, the author believes that problems can be solved by covering boobs.
P.S. NAWALT applies