A young friend of mine is from a very good family. Both parents have prestigious STEM jobs, he is a STEM man, his brother is a Medical Doctor and lastly, his sister is a slut. But not just a garden variety slut; but a very smart well educated one.
She is thirty years old, and had a baby six months ago. Naturally enough, she wasn’t married. And the boyfriend (from another race, which did not make the parents happy) lived in. But he did not have a job. And he would not take care of the baby. In fact, he moved out when it was suggested that he do so. So naturally, the grandparents have been put upon to do this, especially on weekends.
She does have a nursing job. But she lived an hour away from her parents. I predicted that she would move closer to her parents, and three months after that prediction, it came true. With the grandparents set up now to do more babysitting, the father has decided to move back in. The next step is for her to get a nursing job closer to her new home. Probably this will happen within two months.
Now let us look at the past. She has had a string of worthless tingle-inducing boyfriends from day one. One of them moved in with the parents when she was still at home. The discomfort was too much for him, so he left. The short assessment is that this has been building for more than a decade.
The question is: “Why does this happen so frequently?” I really can’t think of many men going off the rails so drastically when coming from a good family. Is it because guys know that there is less tolerance for them doing so? Is it that women just can’t control their tingle reactions? In this particular case, she is very intelligent, but not in this area. Or maybe she is?
She can have her cake and eat it too.