Oddball in the video did not like negative waves, and neither do most men. Especially from women. Recently Red Pill Girl wrote a post about a young woman writer who just oozes negativity. In her writing and on her face. Perhaps many guys will put up with this for a short time for the sake of getting some sex; but let’s face it, fellas seriously interested in marriage just are not looking for such vibes.
Seriously, imagine yourself being stuck with such a woman for the rest of your life. It makes one shudder. And how good of a mother might she be. A good reason that men are looking for a gentle spirit is because this in normally a prerequisite to being a good mother. That, and who wants the negative waves?
It is odd that women cannot see this. Perhaps it is projection on their part. Probably it started young. Perhaps their mothers were the same way. Perhaps the victimhood mentality struck a chord early, with its encouragement of negative attitudes. Perhaps they were taught that such attitudes were empowering. Maybe it all seemed fun at first. But now they have this attitude that is a marriage and happiness killer; and what to do?
For those young enough to perhaps change their behavior, it behooves you to drop it if you want a quality fella. Can it be done? Sure. The first thing to do is to hang around with people that exhibit the behavior that you would like to have. Watch them, emulate them, and become like them. As the PUAs often say, fake it until you make it. But it takes work, and persistence.