The Bitter Vibe

Oddball in the video did not like negative waves, and neither do most men.  Especially from women.  Recently Red Pill Girl wrote a post about a young woman writer who just oozes negativity.  In her writing and on her face.  Perhaps many guys will put up with this for a short time for the sake of getting some sex; but let’s face it, fellas seriously interested in marriage just are not looking for such vibes.

Seriously, imagine yourself being stuck with such a woman for the rest of your life.  It makes one shudder.  And how good of a mother might she be.  A good reason that men are looking for a gentle spirit is because this in normally a prerequisite to being a good mother.  That, and who wants the negative waves?

It is odd that women cannot see this.  Perhaps it is projection on their part. Probably it started young.  Perhaps their mothers were the same way.  Perhaps the victimhood mentality struck a chord early, with its encouragement of negative attitudes. Perhaps they were taught that such attitudes were empowering.  Maybe it all seemed fun at first.  But now they have this attitude that is a marriage and happiness killer; and what to do?

For those young enough to perhaps change their behavior, it behooves you to drop it if you want a quality fella.  Can it be done?  Sure.  The first thing to do is to hang around with people that exhibit the behavior that you would like to have.  Watch them, emulate them, and become like them.  As the PUAs often say, fake it until you make it. But it takes work, and persistence.

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95 comments on “The Bitter Vibe
  1. This snarky tone seems to be something encouraged by the herd. In the gal in the example, much of her writing career seems to be based on writing in this idgaf tone. It’s kindof reminiscent of a rebellious teenager. But it gets her praise and “go gurrrls” from other gals her age, and assignments, and followers, so all that reinforces it. Kind of a Lord of the Flies thing?

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  2. Farm Boy says:

    Kind of a Lord of the Flies thing?

    Indeed it would be. We are seeing it on Universities now. There is a post addressing the University problem scheduled for early Monday Morning Patriarch Time.

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  3. Liz says:

    Mike’s ex had a serious RBF (resting bitch face). Anything associated with her he hates. She wore her hair in a french braid all the time, so he hates it when my hair is up (which sucks, I look a lot better with my hair up). She wore panama jack hats, he hates panama jack hats. She wore bermuda shorts, he hates bermuda shirts. And polo tops, he hates those on women too. Really, he’s not terribly picky in general. She must’ve really made an impression on him.

    I’m a big believer in doing=thinking, so I do think that even “faking” being pleasant can make one more pleasant over time (if one does it consistently, at any rate).

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  4. Padawan says:

    THE FIRST TIME EVER I SAW HER FACE (by Padawan, Blog Laureate 2014 – ?)

    Her face was forged by sneers at men
    And petulantly talking,
    You wouldn’t even eye it when
    Fat Andrea is Dorking

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  5. Farm Boy says:

    Mike’s ex had a serious RBF (resting bitch face).

    So he hates her because she had a RBF or because she was a bitch?

    Is this the one that his parents liked?


  6. Farm Boy says:

    Let’s just show it


  7. Tarnished says:

    So he hates her because she had a RBF or because she was a bitch?

    Most likely the latter, FB. Having a RBF doesn’t necessarily mean one is a bitch. However, acting like one proves it.

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  8. Yoda says:

    What precisely a bitch is?

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  9. Darth Maul says:

    Yo’ mama!

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  10. Padawan says:

    “It is odd that women cannot see this” (by Padawan, Blog Laureate 2014 – ?)

    ‘Tiz odd that women can’t see that
    They script their own daft anguish,
    Don’t treat him as your dumb door mat!
    Go knock him up a sandwich.

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  11. Tarnished says:

    What precisely a bitch is?
    Yo’ mama!

    Pffft. Hahahaha! 😂

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  12. Tarnished says:

    Go knock him up a sandwich

    I…I think you’re doing it wrong if you’re going around trying to knock up sandwiches. 😕

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  13. Tarnished says:

    You know what wasn’t in the last post at all? PFUDOR! Don’t worry, I won’t let this thread go without…


  14. Padawan says:

    Which of them would you prefer (by Padawan, Blog Laureate 2014 – ?)

    They’re both of them of the same ilk,
    Fat Andrea and Massey,
    Their faces both would curdle milk
    And tarts should not be fussy

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  15. Tarnished says:

    A “bitch” is typically a female version of the term “asshole”. Sometimes it’s just used to mean “whipped” though, and then it can apply to both sexes.
    For some strange reason, flamboyant gay men tend to use this term a lot. Like, a lot a lot. It’s very weird.

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  16. Moehau Man says:

    Yes well, it’s a strange thing that Padawan doesn’t appear unless I have nothing to say. Though I says it meself, it’s quite clear that I’m the default brains of the outfit.


  17. Yoda says:

    Moehau Mans women never bitter they are?
    What secret they may have?


  18. Moehau Man says:

    The secret of the Moehau Man sheilas is, they won’t turn against their own men.

    As Mrs Moehau Man (my pragmatic old mum) said, “Moehau Man sheilas would never leave themselves unprotected by emasculating their sons and future protectors.”

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  19. Spawny Get says:

    Marriage, a wonderful way to ruin not just your life, but someone else’s as well (start early. At 1’45) for the monkey scene

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  20. Spawny Get says:

    At least Cat Ladies stay inside with their families. Not like American Dog Ladies…

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  21. Liz says:

    “So he hates her because she had a RBF or because she was a bitch?”

    She was a bitch (or, in his words a “social irritant”), but also perpetually unhappy with the RBF.

    “Is this the one that his parents liked?”



  22. Liz says:

    Lol Swithy re crazy dog ladies. 🙂
    We see a lot of those out here. One lady walks her pooch in a stroller (I’m serious). Another lady talks to her dog constantly…it’s almost like that video above.
    Mike was TDY once and checking into a hotel. It was a really nice hotel with a large oriental rug running down the middle of the hall in front of the elevators. He went over to the elevator where some elderly lady was standing with her (large) dog and stepped right on a huge pile of dog crap that was on the oriental rug (he was wearing his military boots).
    He lifted his boot and told the lady the dog had crapped and his boot was covered in it. She didn’t talk to him, she addressed her dog.

    “Oh, Mister Biggles, you’ve created a very embarassing situation….”

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  23. Liz says:

    Just thinking further about the RBF and Mike’s ex. She had a habit of saying, “Excuse me…” and then she lower her jaw and give him the bitch look, whenever she heard something she didn’t like. Kind of like this, but without the finger in the air:

    It’s really weird to image because he’s a very happy, easy going guy. But this was his life for three whole years.

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  24. SFC Ton says:

    Been thinking about playing the PTSD game so I can have my dogs listed as companion animals and take them everywhere I go

    Mostly because nothing is said about bitches taking their worthless little rat dogs into stores and what not. Rat dog vs Girl or rat dog vs Thor

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  25. Yoda says:

    Happened to the RBF girlfriend what did?


  26. Yoda says:

    Pleasurable to be a bitch it is?


  27. Yoda says:

    Bear missing he is


  28. Liz says:

    “Been thinking about playing the PTSD game so I can have my dogs listed as companion animals and take them everywhere I go”

    I’m not sure you need a disability, Ton. We have a friend who registered his dog as a “therapy” dog, or something like that, and he can take it anywhere with him (it’s his hunting dog). The dog sits right next to him on the plane.


  29. Liz says:

    Our friend has no disabilities, should’ve added.


  30. SFC Ton says:

    The missing Bear isn’t on me… well lest not our Bear.

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  31. Tarnished says:

    Pleasurable to be a bitch it is?

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  32. Yoda says:

    An bitchy leader she is

    Today’s undergraduates probably know little, if anything, about the cataclysmic movement in China known as the Great Proletarian Cultural Revolution. It began in 1966 before all of them (and even a great number of their professors) were born. This massive national crusade, instigated by Chairman Mao Zedong, was intended to create a pure communist man and woman, devoid of the constraints of materialism and personal ambition.

    It started with the closing of the schools and the re-education of intellectuals and the bourgeoisie and ended up with years of incredible violence, taking millions of lives. The actual statistics are still a state secret, but a recent biography of Mao states “at least 3 million people died violent deaths and post-Mao leaders acknowledged that 100 million people, one-ninth of the entire population, suffered in one way or another.

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  33. SFC Ton says:

    LOL well its part of my fiscal war of starving the beast
    I am already 100%, eligible
    100% ineligible and social security kicks in

    The VA has been pushing the PTSD thing on me for awhile now. Pretty sure 30 minutes of story telling would have me at the ineligible mark.


  34. Liz says:

    “Happened to the RBF girlfriend what did?”

    She got married right after Mike and I did (she called Mike’s sister the day of our wedding). She was a mechanical engineer in Miami, one child, now divorced.

    Ton, if you’re interested I could ask our friend how he got the therapy (or support, or whatever) dog thing. I’m sure it wasn’t difficult. The dog’s got a vest and he can bring it anywhere. Black Lab. 🙂

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  35. Yoda says:

    Let’s be clear about what is happening at Yale and Missouri, and at colleges and universities all across the nation: Freedom is under assault.
    It’s actually been under assault for quite a while. But the attack has intensified in recent years, aided and abetted by the Obama Department of Education and its 2011 re-interpretation of Title IX of the Education Amendments of 1972. The assault has been, in the manner of today’s liberalism, somewhat erratic and intermittent, enveloped in gauzy clouds of grievance and pious protestations of victimhood. The assault has been primarily on academic freedom—but not just academic freedom. For what is the limiting principle that would constrain the assault to the university campuses?
    What is to be done? We could begin from the observation that the Education Amendments of 1972 were passed by the United States Congress. The University of Missouri is a public institution, funded by taxpayers and operated under the authority of the legislature of that state. Yale is governed by a corporate body whose membership is a matter of public record. The responsibility for acting to defend freedom on campus falls to our elected officials and to those with a responsibility for these institutions. Academic freedom, it is now clear, is too important to be left to academics.

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  36. SFC Ton says:

    Thank you Liz, but I know the basic plan. Friend of mine did it with his Bulldog. Crusty retried E-8, early divorce, never remarried and retired well for a single man etc. One of those MGHOW fellas I know who has never heard the term

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  37. Liz says:

    Totally OT side note, last night we started watching a movie called Blindspot. I only bought the first episode from Amazon because I wasn’t sure we’d like it. And it did turn out to be kind of a stinker.
    (spoiler alert)
    The main character is a woman who wakes up after being drugged and left in a large duffel bag in Manhattan. She’s covered in tattoos, and they’re all very new. She can’t remember anything about herself (not even her name) due to some drugs they put in her system. Her tatoos are a “map” of sorts. Anyway, starts out with an interesting plot line.
    But then, she starts to realize she has a lot of abilities. She reads and speaks Chinese (including obscure dialects that even most educated Chinese people trained to read it have trouble with). She has a lot of skills with fighting and weapons (she takes down four men simultaneously from her mad fighting skills, and she’s very thin of course so they outweigh her quite a bit). Apparently her face and fingerprints don’t show up in the FBI computers anywhere but they discover she had a Navy Seal tattoo (I think…it’s kind of a blur, some badass military tattoo). They figure she’s in some uber selective, secret units for women like her. (okay, I made that last sentence up, but the handwriting is on the wall) She’s beautiful, brilliant, badass, and fights better than three male blackbelts. I felt sleepy and went to bed.

    Mike didn’t come to bed until pretty late last night, so I asked him if the show got better. He said, “No, it was a real stinker…” and he went on to explain how bad it was. Turns out, he’d stayed up and watched TWO MORE EPISODES of this crap. So I said, “It’s the girl, right?”
    He answered, “Yep. Something about that edgy hairdo”.

    So I told him not to tease me about my Highlander series books anymore. 😛

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  38. Yoda says:


    As an associate professor for MU, Click been making over $50,000 a year to teach and conduct research in the field of communications. Click’s curriculum vitae (academia’s glorified, lengthy version of a résumé), available on MU’s website, chronicles an eclectic set of interests that she studies at taxpayer expense, including Twilight, Martha Stewart, and more. Here’s the highlights:

    1. “Graduate Certificate in Advanced Feminist Studies, University of Massachusetts-Amherst”

    The ground zero of Click’s activism. While officially a communications professor, she also made the effort to get an additional credential, not just in women’s studies, not just in feminist studies, but in advanced feminist studies. A quick online investigation suggests this exact program may only exist at UMass-Amherst.

    2. ‘More drinkin’, less thinkin’, fewer teeth, and beer’: Representations of class in CMT’s My Big Redneck Wedding”

    Available online here! Click’s conclusion: “Pink Sneakers and CMT have no plans for a fourth season of the show and that is probably a good thing—the show is too steeped in stereotypes to offer viewers any sort of useful look at redneck identity.”

    3. “Fifty Shades of postfeminism: Contextualizing readers’ reflections on the erotic romance series. In E. Levine (ed.) Feeling Feminine: Popular Culture for Women in the Early 21st Century.”

    Sadly, this book chapter has not yet been published, so the masses will have to wait to learn about Click’s critical post-feminist insights on 50 Shades of Grey

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  39. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Did I see a photo of SheWho WillNotBeNamed upthread?

    Now, back to catching up.


  40. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Why do I haqve the feeling that Ms. Click and her colleague who makes still more will be standing in the unemployment line soon?

    Farm Boy,
    That’s the blogger that Bloom wrote up? Not only bithy resting face but, she looks done it and well older than he stated age.

    I wou7ld say hat naything that reminds Mike of his ex-girlfriend will set him off. She must have been awful. You may have saved his life.

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  41. Yoda says:

    Bear many typos he does make
    Perhaps get claws trimmed he should

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  42. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    “Bear Walks Into Nail Salon. Film at eleven.”

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  43. Cill says:

    I wonder if I could register Dog? He’d sit beside me on a plane. I hate planes. People on the street always smell of intent. It’s not always an unpleasant stench. They smell of kindness and lies and lust. On a plane their smell turns into a stench. The air stinks. Dog would bite everything around him on sight, including seats and especially other dogs – even kids toy dogs. He hates them with an unsleeping malevolence. He had a hard life before we met. I am his world now.

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  44. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    That is part of the reason that I have to make my own sandwiches. What terrible servie! I’ll never go back!

    From what you have said, I think Dog is in the best of all places he could be.


  45. Yoda says:

    Mow a dog he does have?


  46. Yoda says:

    Apologize for autocorrect error above I do


  47. Yoda says:

    Fuzzie Bear in the city,

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  48. SFC Ton says:

    I need to go bear hunting at Subway

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  49. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Bears should stay away from the city. All we do is get into trouble.

    SFC Ton,
    I don’t think that Subway would be a good place to find bears. They know what kind of service they’ll get, so they’ll not go there.

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  50. Yoda says:

    Amherst College students do demand,

    5. President Martin must issue a statement to the Amherst College community at large that states we do not tolerate the actions of student(s) who posted the “All Lives Matter” and “Free Speech” posters. Also let the student body know that it was racially insensitive to the students of color on our college campus and beyond who are victim to racial harassment and death threats; alert them that Student Affairs may require them to go through the Disciplinary Process if a formal complaint is filed, and that they will be required to attend extensive training for racial and cultural competency.

    6. President Martin must issue a statement of support for the revision of the Honor Code to reflect a zero-tolerance policy for racial insensitivity and hate speech.

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  51. SFC Ton says:

    But Fuzzie….. I love it when city folks run into nature. It’s hilarious

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  52. molly says:

    ” I love it when city folks run into nature”
    Like women when my cuzzie walks by them like a big floating X. Ghostie shivery brrrrr…
    They peek at his V shape back like a Taniwha escaped from the rocks. Lol
    It’s so funny! Men *always* look at him first, then me then him.. they look away when he looks back. 😛

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  53. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    These SJWs are going to bring higher education to its knees.

    SFC Ton,
    I worked for a while at Lake Tahoe. When one of the locals referred to to a tourist as a “flatlander”, it took a while to sink in.

    The way you say it, I don’t think anyone has the physique of you Big Cuz. I see trouble for you if you use h9s for a yardstick.
    🌯 🌯 🌯 🐻 🙄

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  54. Yoda says:

    Ironic his name is Wolfe. The incidents surrounding University of Missouri president Tim Wolfe’s resignation following protests of racial insensitivity on campus might as well be plot points in a novel by Tom Wolfe. They are certainly as funny.

    The graduate student on hunger strike against oppression is the son of a millionaire railroad executive. The administrators who gave in to the radicals’ demands did so not out of sympathy or solidarity but out of fear of a football strike. The professor who called for “muscle” to help her expel a reporter from a protest held a “courtesy post” in the department of journalism. The details of the saga—including, and I am not making this up, a “poop swastika”—read like a missing chapter of Wolfe’s 2004 novel I Am Charlotte Simmons.

    That book was released more than a decade ago. Yet its portrait of university life as an orgy of hormones and physical and intellectual posturing remains both vivid and prophetic. It’s why the 85-year-old Wolfe is more than the greatest living journalist and satirist in America. He’s the most important writer of the twenty-first century, full stop.

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  55. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    There is enough photographic evidence. Why not use it to fire the staff and expel the students who participated in this?


  56. Liz says:

    News alert!
    Attacks in Paris. 😦


  57. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Thanks for the tip! I found this link. It’s still very speulative.

    Spawny Get,
    Well, women are finally going on record condemning their “colleagues” for monkey brnching and deoralizing men.
    It begins. Feminism does not serve the Feminine Impreative.


  58. Yoda says:

    Bear still not availed himself to nail salon services he has

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  59. Spawny Get says:

    Suitable research material for Bloom’s latest post.

    11:30 onwards for the morning after. These days the outcome would have been worse for Dave.

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  60. Spawny Get says:

    ‘Well, women are finally going on record condemning their “colleagues” for monkey brnching and deoralizing men.’

    “deoralizing”? Spitting?


  61. Spawny Get says:

    Well, I laughed…

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  62. Praying for Paris 😦 and for all my European friends! Be safe.

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  63. blurkel says:

    New post scheduled for 11/16/2015 0:30

    Liked by 1 person

  64. Farm Boy says:

    I already had a post scheduled for the 16th, so Blurkel’s post is moved to the 17th

    Liked by 1 person

  65. People are tweeting updates as fast as officials can ask them not to report military and police mobilizations and responses….ug! The blessing/curse of the Internet world. Praying. For safety of hostages, wounded, and responders.

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  66. Farm Boy says:

    There is a new post


  67. Tarnished says:

    Same here, Bloom.
    Hoping that the affected families find comfort from their grief, and the death/wounded toll grows no more.

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  68. SFC Ton says:

    It is my desire the French find their balls to save themselves and their culture and drive out the moslems


  69. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I can’t see them letting an outrage of this magnitude slide.


  70. SFC Ton says:

    What do you want to bet Bear?


  71. BuenaVista says:

    The liberal state is incapable of truly responding; Europe’s suicide (and our own) is wired into every public institution.

    Someone I know, set to take over the consulate in a south Asian locale where similar attacks occurred a few years ago, shrugged. “So some Euros found out what happens daily in Aleppo.”


  72. SFC Ton says:

    Like I have been saying being progressive is hating yourself and your own kind

    Thats how BV’s acquaintance can brush off what happened in France as no big deal


  73. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    SFC Ton,
    We don’t need to bet. If you’re right, you’ll be sad. If you’re wrong, you’ll be happy.
    I want you to be happy!
    “Have you had enough of this shit yet?” I wonder how that ranslates into French.


  74. SFC Ton says:

    LOL you’re the best Bear


  75. blurkel says:

    @ Fuzzie and Ton:

    Vous en avez assez de cette merde encore?

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  76. blurkel says:

    By the way, Ton, Aleppo isn’t in France. I thought good soldiers knew the terrain.

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  77. BuenaVista says:

    She, and I, know exactly where Aleppo is.

    The point was that because innocents are being slaughtered across the Levant, often by evil Crusaders, a few dead in Paris don’t rate — from the POV of the progressive, multicultural, socialist State.

    The Potus said yesterday morning that ISIL was now contained, incidentally.

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  78. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I can’t help of thinking of the First Crusades when Aleppo is mentioned. It was their first big victory. Only one problem-Aleppo was Christian. Oops!


  79. blurkel says:

    As far as the current POTUS is concerned, he is a liar fronting for those few who would dominate the globe for private profit. Anything he says has to be treated with contempt for the lies that they are. What happens in Southwest Asia and/or France is of no consequence as long as someone well-connected makes money.

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  80. Cill says:

    The European solution will be:

    We haven’t been nice enough to the Muslims. It’s all the patriarchy’s fault. We must tell the MSM to blame it on colonialism. Let’s come together to find new ways of being nicer to ISIS! We must shut out the white racists who want us to apply the rule of law to immigrants.

    I see the nasty hand of feminism behind Europe’s pathetic weakness. Feminism in its entirety has been a disastrous experiment.

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  81. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I’d like to say something profound but, I just wat 6to see the bad guys get theirs.


  82. Cill says:

    Islam could kill the human race. Feminism most certainly will. More and more white men see Islam as the only way to put a stop to Feminism.


  83. Cill says:

    FTR I detest Islam and would hate to see it happen. (A takeover by Islam I mean)


  84. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I got confused by cities in that part of the world. The city I was thinking of was Edessa, not Aleppo. I am watching the five hour version of The Crescent and The Cross to get my facts straight.
    Circumstances were very much different then.


  85. And no surprise, at least one of the attackers recently came from Syria via Greece. Not good… 😦 Not good at all…

    Time for everybody to get on the bus and go back home! That’s what Europe should do ASAP.

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  86. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I wouldn’t tak very much much money to send them ome.Certinly not s much as it takes to supportthem in Europe. Of coure, they wold have to volunteer for this


  87. SFC Ton says:

    I have to much 1st hand experience with islam to not detest moslems

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