Fie On Thee For Not Pleasing Me


In the comment thread attached to Alpha Widow Society, fuzziewuzziebear introduced an article from the UK’s Daily Mail which presented some “fabulous gals” complaining that men aren’t queuing up to sweep them off their feet into a life of Happily Ever After. Considering that one of these “fabs” brags that “part of my work is teaching young girls that sex should be a reward for men who put them on a pedestal“, what rational man would involve himself with such an aged and entitled princess? [Emphasis mine]

Married men -who had been led all of their pre-marital lives to believe that if they held off on sex while young, they could expect that a wife will later provide it- don’t necessarily get any regular post-matrimony sex if they had. One wife who clearly isn’t taking care of her man complained that her obviously insecure and unattended husband was being a bully by putting a “hug toll” on her as she moved about their home. “Sometimes I just don’t feel like giving hugs,” she whines.

The response I found incredibly inappropriate. “…you cannot continue to feel as if your own home is the equivalent of Checkpoint Charlie.” [Ask Great-Grampa about Cold War Berlin, kiddies! Or read this.] The advice continues to promote the idea of physical violence in response to what is clearly a bit of over-exuberant marital play: “…perhaps it’s time for you to establish a “knee to the balls” tax in response to the “hug tax”.

Dear Prudence is hereby invited to commence her bravura interpretation of La Monica’s Harmonica as originally performed in the Clinton Oval Office, with yours truly as her supporting cast.

But news has reached me that it isn’t just the women of a certain age who miss the male attention they once or still eschew. It is also the college coed deeply enmeshed in the modern hook up culture – and men are to blame! Quelle Suprise!

Reina Gattuso, a Harvard senior majoring in literature and gender studies, wrote a regular column for The Crimson called “Four Dollar Wine Critic.” In one post, she wrote about how she drunkenly accepted a sexual proposition during an intoxication soirée. Morning-after regrets prompted her admit that “I feel weird about what went down” and question what she calls “power imbalances related to sex”.

Because young women feel that “not having a super-exciting, super-positive sex life is in some ways a political failure”, there is a growing belief among them that “the [sex] game remains rigged”, promoted by “male sexual entitlement”.

I will be the last to defend the boorish behavior which too many collegians –especially the fraternitiesdisplay toward their female companions. But where are young men to learn better ways to interact with females without keeping them neutered and celebate in the Friend Zone for their own protection?

I just wrote about the over-protective father threatening young men with bodily harm for getting too familiar with his little princess. Porn takes some experience to work out which parts of it have real value in relationships and which are fantastical elements unsuitable for normal human interactions. Honest sex education drives the religious types insane, and even if it were allowed, just how do the young safely experiment with what they learned?

I don’t have any answers to offer to these questions. But the demand that young men “just get it” without such resources expects far too much. Maya Dusenbery, editorial director at Feministing, says young women on college campuses keep asking how they can get guys to get them off. She admits, somewhat sotto voce and to her “great feminist shame” that after a decade of sexual activity, she very often still doesn’t get off. And she lays this obligation to satisfaction on her male partners:

What I want is not for me to have that burden. I want one of my male partners, who are wonderful men who care about me, to have just once been like, ‘No, this is unacceptable to me. I’m not going to continue to have sex with you when you’re not getting off!’ And I can’t imagine that happening.

In other words, she doesn’t want to take ANY responsibility for her unsatisfying sexual experiences. He MUST solve her problem and rescue her from it!

Australian radio host Heidi Anderson decided to take a proactive stance toward improving her own sexual satisfaction. She took a six-week ‘O Bliss’ program hosted by Sexpert -and ‘orgasm goddess’- Layla Martin, intended to teach the use of the mind alongside exercise to “reach climax”. Anderson admits that she didn’t necessarily achieve orgasmic Nirvana:

I felt disappointed and frustrated. After week one’s exercises I went straight on to the private forum to share my horrible first attempt. Many women could relate.

She does later admit to achieving some beneficial results: learning about her own body, mind set, and probably her preferred sexual stimuli, so it wasn’t all loss – and not a single complaint about it all being men’s fault!

Now as a man, I cannot put down a woman who attempts to make sex a better experience for herself, because it also improves things for her partner. I won’t imply that she’s a slut for wanting to enjoy sex more. I think this is a fine use of the energy too many women alternately expend attacking men because they don’t “just get it” when it comes to sex and females.

But at least in Oz, some women are taking matters into their own hands, so to speak. Call it “a weird Aussie craze” if you must, but I’d rather interact with a woman who knows something about what she likes sexually and isn’t afraid to express it to her partner in a clear, non-judgemental, and desirous manner.

This phenomenon is even popping up in a slightly different version in the Land of the Spawny Git! Earlier this year, a new activity emerged in the UK known as “orgasmic meditation“, which is described as “Men Who Stroke Women’s Genitals For The Purpose Of Helping Them Meditate”. The article doesn’t go into any detail about whether the recipients of such attention show any appreciation for the effort of their “strokers”, but some of the comments at the post indicate that men are OK with this practice:

Sean

…from a guy’s perspective, if you gained expertise and became skilled at it (honestly, who gets THAT much practice on a regular basis?), then that’s all you should really need. Hell, I’d put “achieved ultimate mastery of the clit” on my friggin’ resume, or on my wall next to my degree.

jack_sprat2

Ask and ye shall receive. No man ever attained skill as a lover without a willing, eager, and INVOLVED partner. Listen to your body and [confer with] your guy. It isn’t a sin that he requires practice and feedback, explicit as well as implicit, to gain expertise. Don’t sit in judgement over either him or yourself. Instead, approach your time together as an opportunity, rather than a task. (That’s something that’s rather difficult to do when it feels as if you’re on the clock.)

But the last word has to go to yet another commenter:

CJS3

So does this mean that women really don’t know how to masturbate?

So it appears. THAT is ALSO the Heinous Fault of Vile Men – right, ladies?

As long as women deny any responsibility for themselves and their undeveloped and unrequited sexuality, women will increasingly live without partnered sex. That number is likely to grow as long as their daughters follow the same stiflingly non-libidinous danse macabre and drive otherwise-suitable men away.

And thus men will remain the target of opportunity for misdirected feminine blame and anger. No wonder sexbots and AI make investors drool! [Bro Cill! Link via New Zealand’s Dominion Post]

I extend this information to young college men in the hope that they recognize that fraternization with females you hardly know (biblical-style reference to sex pun partly intended) is becoming a route to disaster. I was young once, and despite not being very successful at dating, I remember the drive to make the attempt. You have two basic choices: take what you get once you choose a woman, or wait for the unicorn. Those who took what we got wish now that the unicorn was more appealing then. A pink fluffy unicorn dancing on rainbows is much preferred over a hateful harridan slicing your life away in strips in divorce court – or worse: risk having to adopt her persona when rooming with Bruno and Bubba after a rape conviction.

As the ancient Crusader told Indiana Jones, “Choose wisely.”

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173 comments on “Fie On Thee For Not Pleasing Me
  1. blurkel says:

    Due to some vagary of WordPress, this got posted early. Apologies if I stepped on someone’s post.

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  2. Spawny Get says:

    My guess is that many women need a ‘connection’ before having their first orgasm. Once they’re off and running, so to speak, this need might reduce for many. May be some good old guilt going on there as well, she needs to come to feel that she has a ‘right’ to orgasm, before she can.

    Men need to not get hung up on her getting off. If she senses that he thinks there’s a problem with her ability to orgasm…her ability to orgasm will decrease. Not visibly worrying is the best route to getting her to get off

    I’m not surprised that the stats show that ONS are not a great route to a woman getting off. It’s mostly in her head, the problem, not in what he does.

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  3. Farm Boy says:

    This is a good spot for this post. It will have the weekend to itself.

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  4. Liz says:

    Is this is phrased strangely, or is it just me?

    “What I want is not for me to have that burden. I want one of my male partners, who are wonderful men who care about me, to have just once been like, ‘No, this is unacceptable to me. I’m not going to continue to have sex with you when you’re not getting off!’ And I can’t imagine that happening.”

    Sounds like she wants the guy to stop having sex with her if she doesn’t get off.
    Maybe she only comes under pressure. Feminist chicks have weird wiring.

    “Reward a guy sexually only if he puts you on a pedestal” eh? But the same women who say that are nauseated by the men who put them on pedestals. Quite a quandary there. No wonder they all go bat-shit crazy in the end.

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  5. Liz says:

    ““Gross,” “disgusting,” “deplorable” and sexist. Those are just a few of the words being hurled at the cover of a forthcoming book by author Doug Henwood”

    Gross: check, disgusting: check, deplorable: check. But it’s only those things because that’s exactly what she looks like.
    But “sexist”? I don’t get that one.

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  6. Tarnished says:

    So does this mean that women really don’t know how to masturbate?
    Seems like it, if the talk in the locker room at school were any indication. Not only were the majority of girls talking about it upset that their boyfriends were incapable of “giving” orgasms (as though it’s something one picks up at the grocer next to the milk and eggs?), but they were also unsure if they even had orgasms via themselves.
    Interestingly, the female only forum I read at doesn’t go even a full week without a question on:
    1. What does an orgasm feel like?
    (Varying answers, a decent number of which say “I don’t know”)
    2. Are there any guaranteed ways to make oneself have one?
    (General answer has been “no”)
    3. How often do you have one during sex?
    (Less than half say they do consistently)

    My question would be why are so many women sexually ignorant + why do they think men know their bodies better than the women themselves?

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  7. Yoda says:

    As long as women deny any responsibility for themselves and their undeveloped and unrequited sexuality

    Part of modern entitlement mentality this is.
    Harmful to all this is

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  8. Yoda says:

    Not only were the majority of girls talking about it upset that their boyfriends were incapable of “giving” orgasms

    “The fault is not with the stars, but with ourselves”, Bill Shakesman did say

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  9. Yoda says:

    part of my work is teaching young girls that sex should be a reward for men

    A poor start on adulthood this is.

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  10. Tarnished says:

    part of my work is teaching young girls that sex should be a reward for men

    The amount and depth of the disgust this quote creates in me is beyond articulation.

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  11. Tarnished says:

    Seriously, what the actual fuck is wrong with people?! It’s just…argh! No! Sex is not a reward, like some half-stale biscuit you throw to a stray dog. It’s the physical essence of the love and care you have for another person, the embodiment of being cherished and cherishing them in return. Gods damn it…

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  12. Cill says:

    Tarn, you are ahead of your times.

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  13. Tarnished says:

    I’m also a Lonely Assassin for Halloween, but that’s beside the point. 👻💀🎃🍬🌒

    I shall accept your compliment in the spirit it was given, Cill, but it’s not a view anyone should be applauded for. Should be the default, really.

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  14. Tarnished says:

    I’ve a long day tomorrow, so will bid everyone a good night and be the first to say Happy Halloween or Merry Samhain to all my friends and our fellow US lurkers!

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  15. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    After reading this post, I don’t know if I want to know any more. On the the last thread Bloom linkes to someone przctically acuced of of spiking their coffe by asking for a coffee date. Her, we find that mosern women are making men resposible for getting them off when they don’t even knoow themsrlves. And, as they get older, it gets worse, not better.

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  16. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I have never seen this blog this quiet. As for the topic, in line with my previous comment, it just gets worse and worse. While this story may be just that, a stoey. It is getting to the point where it may be true.

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3293202/Girlfriend-dumps-gamer-lover-chooses-Grand-Theft-Auto-her.html

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  17. Yoda says:

    GTA gives many tingles it does

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  18. blurkel says:

    I have never seen this blog this quiet.

    Is there not some kind of championship match happening which is of interest to our Imperial friends of the Commonwealth? I expect things will pick up soon.

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  19. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Yoda,
    Those fembots! They love to complain about GTA and have it removef fro sale.
    That gives them tingles.

    Blurkel,
    Thanks for saying something. It’s my bedtime.

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  20. Spawny Get says:

    Dellers trolls a nutter. ‘Dr’ ‘Jack’ is a woman, baby…yeah!
    http://www.breitbart.com/big-journalism/2015/10/31/need-talk-dr-jack-monroes-breasts/

    I’m afraid I can’t stop thinking about Dr Jack Monroe’s breasts.

    I know that as an ex-lesbian-turned-self-declared-trans-activist this probably isn’t what she wants to hear from a middle aged cis-gendered male.

    I know she’s not a real doctor, it’s just an honorary title given her by some barmily PC university and has no more validity than the title I’m about to insist you use with me from now on, viz. His Sublime Magnificence The God Emperor Lord Delingpole VC DSO and bar.

    Not only do I fancy girls but I’ve long had an especial fondness for girls who look like boys. It’s a sublimated gay thing, probably, which is yet another reason, I think, why I feel such a special bond for Dr Jack Monroe. If I weren’t married and I were a few years younger and Dr Jack Monroe had been to a decent university and had had a personality transplant and her dad owned a stables with a few hunters and she wasn’t a vegetarian whose speciality was kale pesto, I honestly, seriously believe that she would have made the perfect wife for me.

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  21. Spawny Get says:

    ‘Dr’ ‘Jack’ just won some ‘woman of the year’ award which she’s
    a) saying is odd because she doesn’t identify as a woman
    b) is taking anyway

    In (much much much) stranger news
    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/11935421/Whos-a-pretty-boy-then-Man-cuts-off-his-ears-to-look-like-a-parrot.html

    Pretty Polly Fucking Wally

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  22. Spawny Get says:

    http://www.breitbart.com/london/2015/10/31/worlds-first-pornography-blind/

    Given that this is coming from Sweden and that it was created by a woman…perhaps the feminist sisterhood should check their own ranks before calling porn for blokes misogynistic.

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  23. Spawny Get says:

    😉
    http://www.breitbart.com/tech/2015/10/30/newsweek-mischievously-compares-feminists-to-vampire-bats/

    Naughty old Newsweek! This morning I was reading a feature about those terrifying nocturnal blood-suckers, vampire bats, and it dawned on me: under the cover of describing social hierarchies in these misunderstood winged creatures, the magazine has slipped out a devastatingly on-point assessment of how internet feminists and social justice warriors operate.

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  24. Liz says:

    LOL! Swithy that playboy in braille made me laugh out loud. I’m literally tearing up.
    Ever see a kitten cry from laughing too hard? 😛

    Morning joke (I’d put it in Pimpin’ but I stole this one…which I guess would be perfect for Pimpin’ too. Hm. Anyway…)

    Q: “What do you say to a woman with two black eyes?”

    A: “Nothin’.
    You already told her twice!”

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  25. Spawny Get says:

    I was walking along the street the other day when I saw a 6’4″ bloke fighting a 5’6″ woman. I thought about stepping in, but I thought, “Nah it’s cool, he’s a big guy, he can take her”

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  26. SFC Ton says:

    Boorish behaviour is the correct way to interact with female collegiate as gets the young men laid

    Compare the success of boorish behavior vs bookish behavior; which one wins in the smp/ DNA wars.

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  27. Liz says:

    Per topic, I’ve already mentioned my take on the orgasm bit a few times.
    Times seem to have changed, though. Maybe it’s due to the ubiquity of porn (and “toys”) or something? Used to be a woman would worry that she didn’t have an orgasm, and women would fake it pretty frequently. Men often got the idea, via all that fakery, that women who couldn’t orgasm reliably from just intercourse were “frigid”.

    It’s actually pretty normal for a woman not to come just from intercourse. 30 percent of women NEVER have orgasms from intercourse without “other” stimulation and far more don’t orgasm reliably that way (I’m in this category). I really found this out early in my marriage when I had some close female (also married) friends and we started talking.
    I don’t think porn really does anyone any services this way because the woman is moaning and “coming” virtually the entire time. By the time it gets to the “money shot” she’d had one long continuous orgasm for five minutes (or however long the video is).

    I once watched an instructional video by one of the porn stars, with several other porn stars in it. Well….that one was “genuine” and it really took FOREVER for the woman to have an orgasm with an actual buzzing thing right on her clit. In reality, by contrast I must about about 100 times more orgasmic than that porn star because if a buzzing thing ever gets near me it’s instantaneous. But by contrast, to watch her in a movie, I’m the most frigid person ever.
    Wow, this is turning into an overshare…..

    I once read a sex question and answer article in a magazine (can’t remember which one it was, it was a long time ago).
    The question (from a woman) was: “Why can’t I orgasm?”
    And the answer from another woman and ostensible doctor was (drumroll): “You might have had one and didn’t know it.”
    Which pretty much told me the person answering the question probably never had one either.

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  28. SFC Ton says:

    Getting women off during a one nightstand

    Who fucking cares? If she gets off great, if not…. well you’re not even sure about her full name; why go to the effort to figure out her complicated launch sequence?

    Also, overly worrying about your chick getting of is beta and kills her good time as well.

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  29. SFC Ton says:

    Women are not very good at sex; check out the lady magazine’s at the grocery store check out line. The head lines are about being better in bed, losing weight or dressing better. But each magazine has at least one article about being better in bed

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  30. SFC Ton says:

    Ladies if you hit enough an have $200 I’ll make sure you get off, but I ain’t throwing down my trade secrets fo free n’shit

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  31. Liz says:

    “But each magazine has at least one article about being better in bed”

    Have you ever read one of those articles?
    Mike picked one up when we were standing in line waiting and was like, “Really? This is it?”

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  32. SFC Ton says:

    This thread is full of win with early comments that capture the faults, ideals, fallacies…. with comments like that, what’s left to be said?

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  33. SFC Ton says:

    Damnitwoman, you know the Ton never reads….

    My ex wife did the same thing

    For men, being good in bed is about frame. If a man’s frame gets her wet standing in line at a taco stand, you’ll be the best lay of her life. Mostly it doesn’t require some amazing skill set, but overriding her inner “is this good babybatter” quandary.

    Debating on relating a personal story about frame and sex… one of those do others want to hear it thing

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  34. Liz says:

    Just looking at Swithy’s photo with the link to the guy who is trying to make himself look like a parrot, having OT thoughts.
    It’s PC to believe that one shouldn’t gawk in terror at something like that…”everyone has his or her own unique sense of style!” and “don’t make them feel weird about it!”
    But if a person does something like this (spikes in head/huge nose ring/implanted starfish and so forth) it’s pretty obvious that stares of horror, perhaps even shrieks of terror, are what they’re going for.

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  35. Yoda says:

    SJWs and egos,

    Here’s a recent headline I ran across in Slate: “Brave Portland Woman Breaks Up Planned Parenthood Protest by Chanting ‘Yeast Infections!’”

    The story centers around a woman who works at Portland’s Purringtons Cat Lounge. After witnessing a pro-life protester outside, Mary Numair, who is a big fan of Planned Parenthood, decided to take matters into her own hands by making a sign and yelling at some people:

    The sign, which Numair crafted out of masking tape and a piece of cardboard from the dumpster, praised Planned Parenthood for treating her chronic yeast infections when she was in her early 20s and uninsured. It also included a delightful cartoon of a vagina with a smiling clitoris and a stick figure with pigtails and prominent breasts…
    Now, however delightful or political profound a smiling clitoris cartoon sketched on a piece of discarded cardboard might be, being a liberal in Portland doesn’t exactly tell us that you’re prepared to face or endure danger or pain or that you show any particular courage in the face of a serious threat. Neither, sad to say, does yelling “yeast infections!” Portland pro-life protestors were undoubtedly non-violent (as almost all pro-life protests are) and Numair’s pro-government protestation was not only protected by law but probably cheered by most.

    Actually, her act was celebrated by a major news site. So Joan of Arc she is most certainly not.

    http://thefederalist.com/2015/10/29/guess-what-youre-not-actually-a-hero/

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  36. BuenaVista says:

    I’ve never met a woman who couldn’t off. I wonder if the ones squawking are indulging in more ‘I’m a victim’ status chasing.

    That said, as Ton notes, I’ve met very few who are very good or even know the basics of male pleasure.

    Also, I’ve met very few who realize that women are highly diverse in what they like — the laziness extends even to expressing their personal preferences.

    Two married men in the past week have unloadedto me on the inverted marriages and their terror at being divorcedcapriciously. One owns a $14 million grain operation; one just gave his wife a $5mm company to run. (In short, both are professionally alpha.). They both make pathetic jokes about their spouses’ being in control of the marital bed, and what they have to do to be ‘rewarded’ therein.

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  37. BuenaVista says:

    So, if being an alphawidowmaker is your thing, some basic instruction that teaches a woman what she’s capable of, seems to be useful. She then calls this a ‘sexual and spiritual awakening’ or some such bullshitbut at least you’ve got mindlock.

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  38. Yoda says:

    She then calls this a ‘sexual and spiritual awakening’

    Oddly men are allowed to have these not.

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  39. Yoda says:

    Are not sex toys sufficient to allow women to understand themselves?

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  40. From the article Liz linked to, I did not know this!

    “The clitoris is not just the half-inch nub you see externally. The nub (a.k.a. the glans) is the tip of the clitoral shaft, which penetrates about an inch into your body before forking into two three-inch prongs called crura. The crura, located beneath the labia, straddle the urethra, vagina and pubic bone. During arousal, the entire organ — from the tip of the glans to the tip of each crura — fills with blood and swells. During orgasm, the organ pulses and contracts.”

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  41. Yoda says:

    Supermarket magazine articles orinented to capturing.hot alpha they are.
    “How to drive him wild in bed” and such they would be

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  42. Yoda says:

    Much information on this thread there is.

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  43. Yoda says:

    A pink fluffy unicorn dancing on rainbows is much preferred over a hateful harridan slicing your life away in strips in divorce court

    Women prefer to be PFUDOR over harridan they should.
    True this would be?

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  44. Tarnished says:

    You did not know that, Bloom? They didn’t teach it to us in middle or high school, but it was definitely taught in college Bio and Health courses where I am. Here’s some more info, plus a medical picture:
    https://tarnishedsophia.wordpress.com/2013/05/12/happy-international-clitoris-week/

    It goes a long way to explaining why women can orgasm from pelvic massage…

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  45. For women, or ok at least for me, an orgasm is not only a matter of the “right” physical stimulation. A lot of it is mental and that part the woman has to do. One really has to be in the moment, not distracted, not holding back, not fighting it. I’d guess that for a lot of women not having orgasams that is more the issue than him. And both partners can learn how to be better lovers, it can go way beyond the basics. It can almost be an art form, a spiritual expression. That’s the good stuff!

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  46. Tarnished says:

    Are not sex toys sufficient to allow women to understand themselves?

    Sex toys? Hell, your own fingers should be enough! It’s not like one has sex toys when they’re preteens, y’know…

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  47. Tarnished says:

    Unless that’s the game you’re currently playing, why would you “hold back” or “be fighting it”?

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  48. Tarnished says:

    Women prefer to be PFUDOR over harridan they should.
    True this would be?

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  49. Tarnished says:

    Oddly men are allowed to have these not.

    Oh, they can have ’em, all right.
    When he’s lying on the bed literally gasping for breath and clutching the covers for dear life, toes curled and back arched…you’re doing pretty well. 😈

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  50. Tarnished says:

    “You might have had one and didn’t know it.”

    No, that means you didn’t have one…😅

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  51. A lot of women are taught, unfortunately, that only sluts enjoy sex or that it’s wrong to enjoy it or other such nonsense. “Good girls don’t” and so on.

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  52. Yoda says:

    Men allowed to have “spiritual awakening” not,
    as men’s sexuality bad it is.
    Vilified, not exulted it is said it should be.

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  53. Yoda why is male sexuality bad?

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  54. Spawny Get says:

    Dworkers? She looks more like a pile of floor sweepings from a bat infested cave.

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  55. Tarnished says:

    Men allowed to have “spiritual awakening” not, as men’s sexuality bad it is. Vilified, not exulted it is said it should be.

    Fook that shite.
    Male sexuality is hot. Cock is just as sexyful as pussy.

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  56. Spawny Get says:

    “Yoda why is male sexuality bad?”
    OFFS! it’s in the name male ……
    male anything is bad by default.

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  57. Spawny Get says:

    25% through the final…mehh
    as both sides get more tired and frustrated, that’s when things may pick up.

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  58. Yoda says:

    Yoda why is male sexuality bad?

    Bad because useful to control men it would be.
    Only reason this is.

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  59. Tarnished says:

    Yoda why is male sexuality bad?

    Because penis = automatic weapon, Bloom. Obviously you weren’t paying attention in your Womyns Studies class again… 😛

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  60. Tarnished says:

    “Good girls don’t” and so on.

    Stories regarding this brother Blurkel has.

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  61. Spawny Get says:

    “Cock is just as sexyful as pussy.”

    The last turkey in the shop…sexy…ooookaaay

    Not saying that the kebab is the most photogenic part of the female body, but at least you can stick on a merkin to produce an objet d’art.

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  62. Spawny Get says:

    “Because penis = automatic weapon”
    Assault weapon would be a betterer term according to the bigots of Fembotia

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  63. Yoda says:

    Unless that’s the game you’re currently playing, why would you “hold back” or “be fighting it”?

    Women odd things they sometimes do.

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  64. Yoda says:

    Tarn caught Yoda virus again she has.

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  65. blurkel says:

    The Book of Response

    @ Liz

    Sounds like she wants the guy to stop having sex with her if she doesn’t get off.

    That’s one way to look at it, but I suspect she’s looking for male sensitivity and expressions of caring for her by not imposing himself upon her until she’s “fixed”.

    “Reward a guy sexually only if he puts you on a pedestal” eh? But the same women who say that are nauseated by the men who put them on pedestals. Quite a quandary there. No wonder they all go bat-shit crazy in the end.

    It has been said that things some women think they want aren’t suitable anymore when they get them. Then they want something else they don’t already have. I don’t believe that any of our pink, fluffy Spawny Unicorns fit this description.

    @ Tarn

    My question would be why are so many women sexually ignorant + why do they think men know their bodies better than the women themselves?

    Religious and parental pressures while growing up. I have never met a woman who didn’t admit that when it comes to sex, she still hears Her Mother’s Voice screaming at her. “Thou Shalt Not – EVER!”

    As for why men are supposed to know, aren’t we men all alleged molesters when we are underaged? By the time we are of legal age, we are supposed by women to have had enough experiences with girls to know what to do with women. Would that were so, but only in one sense. Many men grow up with His Mother’s Voice in his head screaming at him to stay away from “girls like that”.

    @ SFC Ton

    Compare the success of boorish behavior vs bookish behavior; which one wins in the smp/ DNA wars.

    Well, Ton ol’ buddy, I’m more the bookish sort, and I have four kids. I’m a grandfather of two. I’ve made my contribution to the survival of the species in the DNA Wars.

    @ Liz

    Used to be a woman would worry that she didn’t have an orgasm, and women would fake it pretty frequently. Men often got the idea, via all that fakery, that women who couldn’t orgasm reliably from just intercourse were “frigid”.

    Since you have shared openly about your sexlife, I’ll share a couple of things with you (and everyone else here!). When a woman really orgasms, there is an artery in her vaginal region which throbs noticeably. A man can feel this throbbing even in his post-tumescent state (assuming he’s still inside). It is thus reasonable to have some kind of idea whether or not he’s successfully stimulated her to an actual climax.

    Redbook’s Five Amazing Sex Tricks right here…

    Redbook is among the lamest of the lame. For a while Cosmo actually had information I could test and verify for myself, but I’m sure those days are long gone. Once Helen Gurley Brown died, it went downhill fast.

    @ BuenaVista

    …as Ton notes, I’ve met very few who are very good or even know the basics of male pleasure.

    While true, just how many women CARE to have such knowledge? Your following comments are proof:

    Two married men in the past week have unloaded to me on the inverted marriages and their terror at being divorced capriciously….They both make pathetic jokes about their spouses’ being in control of the marital bed, and what they have to do to be ‘rewarded’ therein.

    There is a major post in those tales. Would they allow you to tell their stories if you protect their identities? It’s the situation they are in which we need to share, not who they are or anything which reveals them.

    @ Yoda

    Are not sex toys sufficient to allow women to understand themselves?

    Read this: https://answers.yahoo.com/activity/questions?show=LUQHX22Z3M7S6RBSP445TSXTGQ&t=g Then answer your own question, Wise One.

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  66. Spawny Get says:

    Things starting to slide NZ’s way as we reach half time. (14 v 3 )

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  67. Spawny Get says:

    make that 16 v 3 at half time

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  68. blurkel says:

    About Andrea Dworkin:

    She was openly lesbian, and married a gay man so that she could claim the 2nd highest status women bestow upon each other. She wasn’t about to allow a man to impregnate her, so she could never claim the highest status: Mother.

    For the record (and this was told to me by a woman I grew up with who later became a behavioral psychologist), the feminine status hierarchy goes like this:

    1. Married Mother
    1a. Widow
    2. Married Woman
    3. Unmarried Woman (where all women start out)
    4. Divorced Woman (She had control of a man, and threw him away)
    5. Prostitute (She temporarily sells what men are expected to pay much more dearly for)

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  69. Ok so time for the over share 😉 so when I was young, I was the first to start developing. And I mean by the end of 6th grade I was the same bra size and height I am today. So both the boys and girls made up rumors about me, assuming I was doing all sorts of slutty things. It was really hurtful, and untrue. So in response I went above and beyond to not be in any way slutty. I dressed very modestly to conceal my figure and was very chaste, not making out w boys and the stuff the other girls were doing. Even after I married I was worried about “not being a slut” (duh, I know!) and my ex was himself fairly uptight and inside the lines so that kindof reinforced it. Eventually we got over it but between the early shaming for me and the church guilt for him, well it wasn’t exactly the most uninhibited of situations. Awkwardness in the bedroom is a real damper for sure. :/ now that I look back on that, what a silly waste, but it was what it was.

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  70. Cill says:

    First half: ABs 16 Nigel Owen 3

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  71. Spawny Get says:

    ‘toes curled’ FTW

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  72. Spawny Get says:

    “ABs 16 Nigel Owen 3″
    miaouuuu fsssssss
    Nicely done though. Subtly done.

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  73. Spawny Get says:

    Kiwis are going to walk it…hope the Aussies applied lube.

    21 3

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  74. Spawny Get says:

    Yellow card means the Kiwis are down a man for a while
    21 8…10

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  75. Spawny Get says:

    I may have spoken too soon… 21 v 17
    Much better second half / final quarter

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  76. Spawny Get says:

    WHAT A TRY! Kiwis are kicking Aussie bottom

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  77. Spawny Get says:

    That’ll do. 34 v 17 to the Kiwis.

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  78. Yoda says:

    Wonder if Moehau Mans females these issues they have.

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  79. Cill says:

    Great win by NZ ABs over Aussie Wallabies.

    Take the AB out of Wallabies and you’re left with a bunch of Wallies. XD
    Shouldn’t gloat.

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  80. Spawny Get says:

    well…you lot deserved the win. just an opinion. not the greatest game I’ve seen you guys play in this tournament though.

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  81. Spawny Get says:

    Happy Halloween from Redonkulas.com!
    Ladies, if you’ve ever banged a dude and he’s never called you back, you might wanna pay attention.

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  82. Liz says:

    “The clitoris is not just the half-inch nub you see externally. The nub (a.k.a. the glans) is the tip of the clitoral shaft, which penetrates about an inch into your body…*snip*

    I can actually feel this…even before I read about it (can’t remember when I did), I knew it. I also have something one might call an internal “turtling”. It seems to move around, and (potentially) away, depending. Obviously it can’t go far but…yeah, if it’s not happening at the moment it probably isn’t going to happen. Of course it all varies with cycle, how long it has been (if it has been a while it’s really easy and quick, and very intense).

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  83. Liz says:

    My oldest is working on his college application to UF
    (tomorrow is the application deadline. If you wait ’til the last minute, it only takes a minute, I always say…but I was hoping he wouldn’t inherit that sentiment)
    He has to write an essay about something that was wrong that he fixed.

    We took an artistic license and decided to go with a drug addiction problem I had back when he was five.
    He’d lie on the floor next to me while I was passed out in a pool of vomit, and say, “You can do it, Momma! Remember back when we saw the UF team beat (look up and insert some verifiable date, team, and game)? If they could do it, so can you!”
    Then he’d make the Gator chomp with his little arms and chant a few bars of “Gators! Gators!”
    (all while chewing on his pork rinds dipped in lard, the only food available. He’d sip Gatoraid to wash it down. Sometimes he ran out of pork rinds and, well…you know)
    Ah with his wealth of encouragement along with inspirational UF memories he pulled me through and I went from junky to respectable citizen.

    (yes, this is all in jest but after an afternoon of trying to come up with a good idea for an essay and a very cantankerous youth who I’m not very pleased with because he put this off so long, it gave me a chuckle) 🙂

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  84. Spawny Get says:

    I can only assume that the trial is well underway…

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  85. Sumo says:

    Well, I just got shit tested. By the girl who messed up my head and then moved to another province, no less. Sent her a happy birthday message yesterday, and this is what I got:

    Her: (pretty much immediately) Thanks Sumo. What have you been up to lately?

    Me: (this morning) Stuff. Also, things.

    Her: (about 3 hours later) You don’t want to talk to me anymore , do you?

    Me: (about 4 hours later) If that were the case, I wouldn’t have reached out to wish you a happy birthday, would I?

    Her: Well, you aren’t very chatty.

    Me: I’m taciturn. Also stoic. Most folks prefer it when I don’t speak.

    Her: Huh. Ok.

    Granted, this has nothing to do with all the sex talk that’s been going on, but I guess I didn’t please her by entertaining her upon demand, so I suppose it’s tangentially on topic.

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  86. Tarnished says:

    ‘toes curled’ FTW
    Yes, I absolutely adore seeing his toes curl. It’s very endearing for some reason.

    The last turkey in the shop…sexy…ooookaaay

    Lol! Are you kidding me, Spawny?
    Cocks, erect or non, are glorious to behold just like testes are. Sure, they’re not “flowers” like the female genitalia are, but they are still hella sexy.

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  87. Yoda says:

    Wonder if this chick pleased she can be,

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  88. Liz says:

    Some men have good looking junk, but i don’t find junk to be attractive in general (or female junk either, for that matter).

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  89. Spawny Get says:

    Indeed Liz, it’s great to be looking at the mantelpiece whilst stoking the fire / having your fire stoked.

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  90. Yoda says:

    New low reached we have.
    Laci Green followed by junk critique

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  91. Liz says:

    Hey, Tarn started it!

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  92. Yoda says:

    Use Laci Green videos at Gitmo to extract info they do.
    The gold standard in extracting info fast it is.

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  93. Liz says:

    OT observation, to those interested. I have a neighbor who is becoming semi-successful in the fanfiction market. Yes, fanfiction. I didn’t actually realize there was a paying market for that but she pointed me to Kindle Worlds. Who knew?
    I thought, hey, I could do that…it’s just short stories this might even be fun!
    So on to the topics…the only categories that really sell are either: the SEALs series, or the Southern Shifter series. I tried to read the first book on which the SEAL series is based, just to see if I could stomach it.
    Dear God. It’s awful. And I thought I had prepared myself for this with some of the chick lit crap I’d been reading lately. My neighbor won’t tell me her nom de plume so I have no idea which writer she is. She won’t even fess up to which series, and this is probably wise. I’d never be able to unsee it.

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  94. Tmi but I find the male junk very attractive, have never really seen any appeal to the female version tho!

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  95. Liz says:

    Maybe I’ve just been a nurse too long.

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  96. Lol! I was going to add its more appealing when alert, naturally 😉

    As for the whole inner clit thing I have also felt that but did not know what it was. Interesting!

    Ok tmi, I know! La la la…

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  97. SFC Ton says:

    Burlkel, ask the young men of today how well the bookish does in the current breeding age smp.

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  98. Yoda says:

    Slut for a day,

    If “Mean Girls” taught us anything, it’s that Halloween is the one night out of every year a girl can dress like a “total slut” and get away with it. What self-respecting girl, compelled to wear button-up shirts and pencil skirts the other 364 days a year, would give up the right to loosen up a bit and wear an outfit made entirely out of semi-see-through spandex?

    In recent years, however, the genre of sexy Halloween costumes seems to have gotten much more obnoxious. Ridiculous memes must now have “sexy” costume versions. Sexy Pizza Rat, Sexy Donald T. Rumpshaker, Sexy Cecil The Lion, and Sexy Jared Leto-inspired Joker costumes are all available for purchase. Seriously, those are all actual things that are actual options to wear this year.

    http://thefederalist.com/2015/10/30/have-sexy-halloween-costumes-reached-peak-annoying-yet/

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  99. SFC Ton says:

    Sumo, beloved little brother, you failed the shit test when you sent the text.

    Maybe something like bitch, get your ass down here so I can give you a birthday spanking would have worked

    But contacting her again with anything that wasn’t an overt sexual message would be beta given th overall situation

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  100. blurkel says:

    The Book of Response Part II

    @ Bloom

    Tmi but I find the male junk very attractive, have never really seen any appeal to the female version tho!

    I find I am diametrically opposed to your position. I find female junk especially attractive, with the male version not so much.

    @ Liz

    Maybe I’ve just been a nurse too long.

    I heard similar observations from my RN relatives.

    @ SFC Ton

    Burlkel, ask the young men of today how well the bookish does in the current breeding age smp.

    Burlkel??? Burlkel Ives? He’s been dead for years.

    If you mean dating, that was never good for us bookworms. If you mean breeding, women still desire to become mothers, and there are only so many alphas to go around. Since they aren’t interested in sharing, they end up settling for us.

    @ Yoda

    I have yet to see ANYONE dress up in a sexy costume. Where I live, the favorite costume is that of a teenaged or twenty-something mom with kids in a stroller. Yes, they want candy for Samhain!

    @ SFC Ton & Sumo

    But contacting her again with anything that wasn’t an overt sexual message would be beta given th overall situation

    Ton issues the derogatory insult challenge. Will Sumo demand satisfaction and choose Close Order Katanas or shuriken at ten paces?

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  101. Tarnished says:

    I don’t know if I can take *all* the responsibility for starting it, Liz. 😛
    If I recall, you were the one so interested in giving tmi at first…lol.

    I watch a decent amount of porn every week, and am subscribed to various erotic tumblrs. I’ve yet to see any genitals, male or female, that didn’t strike me as somewhat sexy/hot. Unlike most American women who like cut penises more, I have no aesthetic preference for circumcised vs uncut and think both look nice (though I still don’t believe in infant circumcision). Both erect and soft male members are sexy and fun to play with, as are testes. It sounds very silly, but I love how the skin moves when it’s stroked. 🙂
    🙂

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  102. Yoda says:

    I find the male junk very attractive

    What if green it is?

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  103. Yoda says:

    Competition among women to see who can reveal most information there is.
    Guys are playing not.
    Though watching they are.

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  104. Tarnished says:

    Yes, they want candy for Samhain!

    I…wait…what? “Candy for Samhain”?

    That is…not remotely what Samhain is about. It’s about starting a fresh year by honoring the past one, including not only the harvests and cattle slaughter times, but also any family members who have passed on. The ritual I will be doing tonight is a somber meditation on those that I’ve lost these past 12 months, burning their names on parchment paper to symbolize their departure, and mentally letting go of various regrets.

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  105. Tarnished says:

    Though watching they are.
    All our penile-endowed commenters are voyeuristic? Kinky…

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  106. Sumo says:

    But contacting her again with anything that wasn’t an overt sexual message would be beta given th overall situation

    Can’t argue with that, as this is the girl that turned me into a beta orbiter in the first place.

    Ton issues the derogatory insult challenge. Will Sumo demand satisfaction and choose Close Order Katanas or shuriken at ten paces?

    Nope. Mostly because I’m feeling weird enough as it is, don’t need to catch a beatdown too. 😉

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  107. Spawny Get says:

    Ebul-penus-weelder is my preferred extra-personal pronoun

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  108. Sumo says:

    This is what I think of when I hear “Samhain” :

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  109. Well ladies, go ahead…

    Ok I will go. The PUAs get this about women, I forget the term for it, but if you want a gal to not be holding back or uptight, one of the easiest ways to do it is to be accept ice of and even egg on her acting like a slut. As soon as she realizes you aren’t going to judge her secret freaky deek thoughts or desires, she will feel a lot more comfortable. I suppose the drawback might be if her freaky deek really is *too* freaky, well… Not sure what one would do then. However of she feels you would not be ok with her enjoying her sexuality, or that you’d judge her for it, she’ll hold back guaranteed.

    Not of course that I would know, just what I have heard. I’m not like that, naturally! 😉

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  110. Sumo, from a girl point of view, you come across as a little too detached. She may be reading your stoic responses as disinterest/ What Ton suggested both says you are interested but also leaves enough plausible deniability that she’s unsure if you are saying that just to her, or if maybe you say that to all the girls and maybe she better step it up before you find someone else? I dunno… if it’s still her birthday try sending it now. If not, maybe change it to you were thinking you forgot her birthday spanking so get down here…or some such?

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  111. Tarnished says:

    I suppose the drawback might be if her freaky deek really is *too* freaky, well…
    *chuckles evilly*
    Oh, such fun could be had with this…😈

    “Wow, I’m so happy to have finally found a guy who doesn’t think a woman can ever be too freaky in bed! Now, you just sit right there. I’ll be right back with the seltzer, egg whisk, and electrical tape…”

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  112. Spawny Get says:

    You forgot the feather duster…again! I done told you about that.

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  113. Tarnished says:

    But the maid outfit is at the cleaners to get the butterscotch syrup out!

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  114. Excuses, excuses.

    I am dressed as a flapper today. W fishnet stockings even. Halloween is so fun!

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  115. Tarnished says:

    Just gonna have to make due with the nipple clamps, sqweel go, and french ticklers, I’m afraid.

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  116. Tarnished says:

    And no, I didn’t mispell that. It really is called a Sqweel Go. 😛

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  117. Spawny Get says:

    Just another Saturday night at Spawny’s Achers

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  118. Tarnished says:

    As per my own tradition, I’m rewatching the first 2 Addams Family movies, and thought I’d share my favorite scene:

    Every couple should be like Gomez and Morticia.

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  119. Spawny Get says:

    Just watching the cat fight in Scary Movie 2

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  120. What happens in England on Halloween? Trick or treating?

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  121. Spawny Get says:

    “Trick or treating?”
    Yes, sadly. Our shops decided if they imported your quaint custom of ‘aggressive begging with menaces’ they could rake in the dosh too. Spawny’s Achers, being on the moors, was not approached. Pity, as I’d starved the hounds especially, anticipating some sprog choosing to get tricked and give the dogs a treat. That is how it works, yeah?

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  122. Sumo says:

    Sumo, from a girl point of view, you come across as a little too detached.

    That’s because I am detached, Bloomer. This is not a girl that I’m dating, trying to bang, or am even interested in. She was downgraded from “Hey, maybe she’s The One” to “Acquaintance” a few years ago.

    Unfortunately, some of that old beta programming (heh) still lingers, causing me to do stuff like remember her friggin’ birthday and send her happy wishes for it.

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  123. Spawny Get says:

    The Baskervilles being in the neighbourhood.. .honest.

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  124. Spawny Get says:

    The local pub, for local people…there’s nothing for you here…The Slaughtered Lamb

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  125. Spawny Get says:

    Sumo, shoulda sent the birthday cat (see Bloom’s link)

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  126. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Yoda at 3:46pm,
    Did I see a photo of SheWhoWillNotBeNamed?

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  127. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Liz,
    Upthread, you daid that thirty percent of women an’t climax without stimulation beyond human abilities. Thatnks for the candor. I can only imagine, as time passes, the call on men to perform beyond their abilitis will become more strident.
    This is going to lead to one heck of a conflicet.
    Again, thanks for your candor.

    Bloom,
    If I made papier-mache jackrabbit ears, do you think it would work?

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  128. Yoda says:

    Did I see a photo of SheWhoWillNotBeNamed?

    Of course it was not.
    A vampire bat it would be.

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  129. Yoda says:

    Guy Fawkes day coming soon it is?
    Burn effigy of Darth Maul you will?

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  130. Liz says:

    “I watch a decent amount of porn every week, and am subscribed to various erotic tumblrs. I’ve yet to see any genitals, male or female, that didn’t strike me as somewhat sexy/hot.”

    Yeah, most of the ones I’ve seen probably wouldn’t be in porn.
    (you have no idea what a master of understatement I am being with that comment)
    I like Mike’s package. He could be a genital model.
    But I don’t like everyone’s junk in general.

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  131. Yoda says:

    The Yoda virus mutated into “over sharing virus” it did.
    Apparently only affects female it does.

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  132. Liz says:

    “I am dressed as a flapper today. W fishnet stockings even. Halloween is so fun!”

    Squee wee fun! 🙂
    I love flapper outfits.
    Unfortunately, Mike hates Halloween. I mean, reeeaaally hates it. To the point he won’t go in a restaurant with Halloween decorations.
    It’s weird because he has a skull tattoo on his left shoulder.

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  133. Liz says:

    And he has a pumpkin tattoo on his junk.

    (Just kidding Yoda)
    😛

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  134. Yoda says:

    And he has a pumpkin tattoo on his junk.

    Because inside gooey with seeds it is?

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  135. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Yoda,
    Funny looking vampire bat. As for real vampire bats, other bats keep well away from them. And that stuff they leave on the ground, it’s guano.

    Back to the topic, it is a wonder humans have sex at all. Men are not responible for problems in women.
    I think that i will eat some candy.

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  136. Yoda says:

    Funny looking vampire bat

    From the Galapagos Islands it is.
    Flightless it would be.
    “Theory of Devolution” from it Darwin did develop

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  137. Yoda says:

    Look like this RPG did?

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  138. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Liz,
    Pumpkins are orange. Yoda is green. I don’t think that they get along.

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  139. blurkel says:

    @ Tarn

    That is…not remotely what Samhain is about.

    Yes, I know. I’m just venting over the stupid crap I hear from my “christian” coworkers about how demonic Halloween is, and how it’s really an evil rite of those who observe Samhain corrupted into a capitalist festival. I don’t happen to believe a word of it, for little of what they spout is of any validity – especially based on how they actually behave when they aren’t being holier-than-thou.

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  140. Spawny Get says:

    Interesting. Looks promising. Don’t know if you lot have been aware of the hooha over this movie…

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  141. Spawny Get says:

    JohnTheOther appears to be converging on FeminismLOL’s current thrust (than fembotulism is a cult of divine feminie beaulux)

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  142. Cill says:

    “What does an orgasm feel like?” i.e. “What does her orgasm feel like?”

    We can go on too much about women women women.

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  143. Spawny Get says:

    “We can go on too much about women women women.”

    Yeah, I know. Woman’s orgasm…does it even exist? I know I’ve never seen one.

    Wait! WHAT?

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  144. Cill says:

    “Wait! WHAT?”
    Some deng dam Moa smuggler effer understoos [sic] hizzone Y-fronts.

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  145. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Spawny Get,
    I have been following that. Since AVfM is promoting it, I kept quiet about it here. The filmmaker seems like she’s a good eg and I can see how she could lose backing if she said it was going to be objective. It rankles that if she wanted to do a hit piece, she’d have all the money needed and more. She made her basic goal of $97k and want to go to $114k to cove r contributions gone bad and meet the criteria to compete for an Academy Award. Let’s hope she’s straight. Goodness, she’s less greedy than Anita and it looks like she can produce.

    About JtO and all the Ne Age references, I can see him consulting with his roommate and they may be on to somethig. That horse hockey sells with idle women. Another thought, on SSM’s old blog, we came to realize that feminism and Cristianity are mutually exclusive. It is a an ideology.

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  146. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Cill, or Spawny Bet,
    We may need to brek the thread. We’re already at 155 comments. It’s getting slow to load..
    Thanks.

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  147. Spawny Get says:

    “I kept quiet about it here”
    No need to AFAIAC. I’m sceptical about whether they’re currently heading in the right direction or that they’re going to get anywhere. I would like to be wrong. Leave MGTOW as a distinct concept outside of their domain and I cease to care what they do. If JtO and DD can keep their mouths shut about what they’ve seen inside the organisation…I’ll trust their judgement on the issue.

    There’s some good MGTOW content around and about at the moment. Even if some of it triggers Ton’s tinnitus 😉

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  148. Cill says:

    “We may need to brek the thread. We’re already at 155 comments. It’s getting slow to load..”
    True. Spawny mate?

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  149. blurkel says:

    re: The Red Pill movie trailer

    Working in and near Hollywood, all I see is the typical “conflict” they use to stir up interest in their topic. Men aren’t going to movies as much anymore, and Hollywood wants out bucks.

    We get enough of “he said, then she said” in our media now, and I don’t see this movie having much of an impact on those who are already unaware of the issues MRA’s and MGTOW face, except maybe to open us up to character assassination.

    This movie -made by a woman- is attempting to “fix things” so that women can regain the controlling influence over us their mothers once had. Rather than play into this game, we men will have more of an effect by leaving the society. We shouldn’t interact with women until they begin to treat us better and not assume that we are all ignorant rapists. That we aren’t sperm donors with wallets. That male lives matter. The one comment about how the government doesn’t want to send women to die, but can’t seem to NOT send men (especially lately – see Syria, Iraq, and Afghanistan) is the one which should be getting more attention.

    I played the beta provider game all my life. I’ve earned over $1.5 million since I began working. All I’ve managed to do with it is survive, paying off a house I can’t afford to repair, and putting a wife and four kids through college. I don’t expect to ever get to retire, because I have dependants who can’t find jobs. It wasn’t worth it economically.

    This movie isn’t going to change that. It’s only going to give women more avenues to abuse us.

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  150. Cill says:

    Blurkel my friend, your articles are gold. I do wonder though, if men need to lose their obsession for women. On this blog, the articles are overwhelmingly about women. The few attempts to foray into other areas such as politics have failed. In giving this level of attention to women, we are declaring our dependence on them. Some of us don’t have that much dependence. I am MGTOW.

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  151. Spawny Get says:

    Cill, if you’ve got something ready to go…go for it.

    I am looking to start posting again, but not today

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  152. Spawny Get says:

    I enjoy the banter around here, but if someone (anyone) wants to drive the tone back to MGTOW / Men I’m fully up for that. The tone is set by what posts and comments are made. Make the posts, make the comments. I’ll happily join in as time allows.

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  153. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Blurkel,
    I didn’t “like” your comment because I agreed with it fully. It would be good to have the general public see this ilm. How many of them know that something is wrong but think they’re the only one?
    I hope that Cassie Jye is legit and that the legit message doesn’t get distorted. .

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  154. Spawny Get says:

    Writing a post right now…

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  155. Spawny Get says:

    New post is up

    It will evolve. I just womitted up the first draft

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  156. Tarnished says:

    The Yoda virus mutated into “over sharing virus” it did.
    Apparently only affects female it does.

    Very disappointing this is. Male virus created it should be. Share knowledge of their respective encounters they should. Then know if Blurkel’s topic has ever affected them, hmm?

    Only female knowledge here we do have, but knowing half the battle it is. Thus losing the battle for lack of male sharing we are…

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  157. Tarnished says:

    I do wonder though, if men need to lose their obsession for women. On this blog, the articles are overwhelmingly about women.

    Ohhh. Yes! I do have a draft about this very topic. The problems some men encounter with separating their masculinity from the “you need a girlfriend/wife” trope. I’ll try to work on it this week.

    As for my last comment, I really *would* like to see a post about how our male commenters have handled the demonizing of their sexuality, and whether it ever affected any of their relationships or encounters. Also ways they combat it, if any.

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  158. SFC Ton says:

    I offered no such challenge to Sumo; I laid out advice from an older brother to a younger brother from another mother.

    Anytime a man deals with a woman from his more beta days, he has to be more overtly alpha with her then he would be with a new girl to overcome her already established “he’s an icky beta” opinion.

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  159. SFC Ton says:

    Dealing with women ruins more men then booze, pills, cards etc so I think it is right and just to discuss the topic at length.

    Red Pill is the glue that holds this place together; the most commonly held interest of the regular commentators

    At my place, it’s more about establishing a well ordered wife so th topics vary some, but even then, men tend to need advice in the same general areas.

    Such is life

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  160. SFC Ton says:

    I fully support MGTOW, however I don’t think it will ever be but so popular with young men. Masculine sex drive being what it is an all.

    I do see mgtow numbers increasing as the roi on women decline, but I reckon more men will turn to pua 1st, then mgtow as pua doesn’t play out for them

    Course that’s mere speculation, but it is based off running platoons full of 20 something young White men.

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  161. Spawny Get says:

    Your speculation sounds very plausible to me, Ton.

    Of course, both PUA and MGTOW are about men and male interests. Both are a form of backlash against female herd solipsism.

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  162. SFC Ton says:

    Thanks Spawny.

    I think the best advertisement for mgtow is older men, say 35 & up, living bad ass lives without women being a central part. Probably more so if said man has a decent roataion going.

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