Hypergamic Combat


Girls / young women have always been in competition withe each other to obtain the perceived best man.  By social convention, in the past, this competition was often formalized and consequently muted.  In the modern world, we are seeing the wisdom of those ways; as what is being allowed in their hypergamic combat continually escalates. Elements such as clothes, in-out groups, slutty behaviors, etc. are now more accentuated than in times past.  There is a cost to all of this; let us consider it.

However, before we do so, perhaps we should consider if it enjoyable for the teens.  They do engage in it, so one might suspect that they do enjoy it.  But do they they?  Do they enjoy it all of the time?  Do they enjoy it most of the time?  How about some of the time?  Perhaps some of the ladies might chime in.  It would appear to me that it is a treadmill, probably with some enjoyable aspect, that teens are dragged onto.

Now, onto the costs.  Firstly, there is the distraction from proper intellectual and character development; these are the activities that girls should be engaged in.  If it is not done at these ages, it is very difficult to make it happen later.  The fellas will be interested in them even well into their 30’s, so what is the big rush?

And then there is the issue of girls getting their hypergamic juices flowing.  That is, placing in their very pliable minds that they should strive only for the best, and not be satisfied with less.  It is almost as if they are to become alpha widows even before they meet an alpha.

And lastly, one might ask how this activity will lead them toward being better wives and mothers.

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74 comments on “Hypergamic Combat
  1. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    The big push for all this is not coming from boys who would be their husbands.
    I do believe tha hypergamy has always been with us. Someone mentioned on an old blog that in a church singles group, everyone is single until the top one or two guys pair up and then it all falls into place.
    I think that internet dating has done a lot to inflate SMV in women. Consider the OkCupid piece that said that eighty percent of men were “below average” in appearance. With the demise of Ashley Madison, a bomb may have been dropped on all that. Terrence Popp reported that of ten thousand women’s profiles, only three were real. Aaron Clarey, via Gizmodo, said that for every woman checking her messages there were over 13.8k guys. While these numbers applied to a cheating website, I don’t think a legitimate dating site would look too much better. Even if they were a hundred times better, that would still be next to impossible.
    What a crock!

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  2. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    It has been a while since I linked this video. I think the author of this post characterized it as being hypergamy to the nth degree.

    If the girls want to indulge their hypergamy, fine. It’s their choice. Don’t come crying when it won’t stick because they punch way above their weight.
    They could have stayed in their league and found a keeper.

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  3. Farm Boy says:

    they punch way above their weight

    Mostly featherweights and middleweights punch above their weight.

    Heavyweights…

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  4. Farm Boy says:

    This all leads to the “putting their eggs all in 1.5 baskets”.
    They depend on their youth and beauty and their their job (the half basket).

    Men like the youth and beauty and care little for her job.
    When the youth is gone, what does she have?

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  5. Farm Boy says:

    And then there are the children.

    Does anybody think of them?
    Is she preparing herself to raise them well?

    I think that I will write a post about feminism and children sometime. It won’t be a pretty picture.

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  6. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Farm Boy,
    The thought of a post of feminism dealing with children scares me.
    Can you find something more hopeful, please?

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  7. Yoda says:

    Can you find something more hopeful, please?

    Tap into the non-dark side if the force you should

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  8. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Yoda,
    There is a bright side to feminism? Maybe you are thnking of antifeminist women who like making men happy with sandwiches?

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  9. Yoda says:

    The good side of the force always bright it is

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  10. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    And, maybe, get decorated by a princess. How come Chewie missed out?

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  11. Yoda says:

    How come Chewie missed out?

    Because too much like you he did look.
    Notice no award ever did I receive.

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  12. Darth Maul says:

    Anyone who lets Dooku kick their ass doesn’t deserve a reward, shorty.

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  13. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Yoda,
    It would hurt if she tried to pin a medal to my fur coat.

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  14. Dragonfly says:

    They do engage in it, so one might suspect that they do enjoy it. But do they they? Do they enjoy it all of the time? Do they enjoy it most of the time? How about some of the time? Perhaps some of the ladies might chime in. It would appear to me that it is a treadmill, probably with some enjoyable aspect, that teens are dragged onto.

    Now, onto the costs. Firstly, there is the distraction from proper intellectual and character development; these are the activities that girls should be engaged in. If it is not done at these ages, it is very difficult to make it happen later. The fellas will be interested in them even well into their 30’s, so what is the big rush?

    I don’t think the majority of girls/women really enjoy it – the whole mean girls aspect and competition for guys… probably most don’t enjoy it, and only a few actually do, but I’m just guessing. For the girls in high school or college that have high SMV’s, getting the attentions of guys/men she’s interested in can be exciting and very enjoyable, and there are many late-bloomers or “types” that certain guys go for, so college probably opens the door for a lot of girls that were overlooked in high school. But with the ruthlessness of hypergamy, they also go through the trials of rejection (of course not nearly as much as guys do), or the pain from breakups. I had one friend in college that liked a different guy almost every month – it was insane! She was constantly distracted and chasing men (yes, chasing), and ended up getting put on academic probation where she couldn’t come back for a couple of semesters. My dad would have died if I’d done this! I had to get all A’s or be sent to a community college lol.

    Does it distract from what is important? Yes, especially breakups. Guys and girls alter their entire university decisions (and careers) for each other when their relationships might not last through college… so definitely they are powerful, feel good in the moment, and are major distractions to their life goals.

    Are they developing their character or intellect? I think our society now is all about what’s on the outside, even speaking of the superficiality of a person’s personality – how well they can be liked by the masses… versus their actual character and integrity or even intellect. So of course, these things suffer when women are “boy crazy” growing up… it’s a HUGE distraction.

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  15. Yoda says:

    Darth Maul,

    On Degoba I have seen you not.
    Chicken you would be?

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  16. Yoda says:

    It would hurt if she tried to pin a medal to my fur coat.

    Strap with medal around your neck they would do

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  17. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    A hot date with Darth Talon or a long trip to a swampy planet to do battle?
    Tough decision, NOT.

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  18. Yoda says:

    A hot date with Darth Talon or a long trip to a swampy planet to do battle?

    Tough decision, NOT.

    What if not swampy it was?

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  19. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I think the hot date wins, every time.

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  20. SFC Ton says:

    LOL @ proper mental and character development

    Survival requires neither

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  21. Liz says:

    “Survival requires neither”

    I don’t know, Ton.
    It could make a very big difference to survival if few people want to kill you.
    Especially if you’re the less hearty/strong/ more dependent models of the species (as women inherently are).

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  22. Liz says:

    Fewer, meant to say above.

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  23. Liz says:

    Dragonfly, check your email please. 🙂

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  24. Dragonfly says:

    Sorry, Liz! I haven’t checked for a couple of days.

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  25. Liz says:

    Thinking further, a woman’s progeny are probably a lot more likely to survive if people liked her too. In the event she expires early in life, or something. Also, she’s a lot more liable to receive help from others when needed while alive. These are all pretty fundamental aspects of survival (and continuation for the genetic lineage) for a social species of animal.

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  26. JDG says:

    We need to lose the idea of a “teenager”.

    IMO a boy is a child until he becomes a man and should be raised with this expectation. When he reaches a certain level of accomplishment, he becomes a man. Perhaps he passes a series of tests or completes an apprenticeship. This should occur hopefully somewhere between 12 and 14. Certainly by 16. By 14 a young man should be able to take care of himself if need be. Certainly by 16 he should be making responsible decisions as an adult rather than running around with a pack of delinquents.

    Same for the girls. A girl who is raised properly will be able to run an entire household by the time she is 12. By then she should be an expert sammich maker and capable of maintaining all domestic responsibilities from raising small children to milking the cows (if any).

    Just my 2 cents.

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  27. Liz says:

    I think that’s also why women are so more amenable to social group dynamics (fear displeasure of the herd and so forth). Things that are considered acceptable or unacceptable are going to differ depending on the society, the clues are in observation and mimicry. So it’s not surprising teen girls try to emulate the standard of behavior they see.

    Mike recently read a book (can’t remember which one this was) that detailed the difference between female and male children when they are assigned a task. The female children looked at the faces of other people something on the order of 10 to 20 times more often than the males. Females, the book suggested, were more concerned with the overall approval of the group and males were just concerned about the task at hand they were given.

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  28. Dragonfly says:

    “A girl who is raised properly will be able to run an entire household by the time she is 12. By then she should be an expert sammich maker and capable of maintaining all domestic responsibilities from raising small children to milking the cows (if any).”

    Whoa! I definitely agree with the age of the boys being more of a man by 16, but girls cannot run an entire household by age 12 in my opinion. Should she understand much about it by then, have wisdom beyond the age of her peers maybe about marriage and family and children? Yes! But there’s a difference between the naivety of a 12 yr old having learned all these things in theory, and the capability of a young woman being able to handle the emotional burden of having children, raising them, sacrificing for them, etc.

    Most 12 year olds don’t even have their period yet. They still need their mother’s guidance, example, and teaching at that age I believe.

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  29. Yoda says:

    In olden days busy around house/farm girls were.
    Had neither time nor money for hypergamic combat they did.

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  30. Yoda says:

    Women’s progeny more likely to survive if well adjusted her children are.
    Odd that they seem to see this not.

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  31. Yoda says:

    but girls cannot run an entire household by age 12 in my opinion

    Make good sammiches they could

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  32. Dragonfly says:

    Yes, Yoda! Sandwiches are easy peasy, and girls 12 years old can be learning how to cook, plant their garden like Sunshine’s girls are doing, and a variety of household tasks/farm tasks and chores. But they usually are in awe of their mom’s capability still at that age. Lots could be learned by 12 though, give them a few more years and they’ll be well on their way to being quality women!

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  33. Dragonfly says:

    “Had neither time nor money for hypergamic combat they did.”

    Have you read/seen Gone with the Wind? I wonder if some women have always *made* time for hypergamic combat? Obviously the busy ones didn’t have time, but that ante bellum era sure seemed like a woman’s whole existence was built around that.

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  34. Yoda says:

    If daughter of landed gentry, time for hypergamic combat you might have had.
    But few such girls there were.

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  35. Yoda says:

    I don’t think the majority of girls/women really enjoy it

    What more enjoy they would?

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  36. Yoda says:

    So because if herd pressure, girls engage in hypergamic combat they do?

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  37. Liz says:

    “If daughter of landed gentry, time for hypergamic combat you might have had.
    But few such girls there were.”

    That’s probably very true.
    But to be fair, even after Scarlet lost her entire fortune and the family was starving to death, she made it back via hypergamic combat.

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  38. Liz says:

    ‘So because if herd pressure, girls engage in hypergamic combat they do?

    I’ll have to think about that one.
    But overall, I think (I’m about as sure of this, actually, as the fact that I breathe) girls will do what they believe appeals to the group. So if slutty behavior is widespread and celebrated, that is what they are going to do.

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  39. Liz says:

    In the book Gone With the Wind, Scarlet put on rouge and perfume to steal her sister’s fiancé. That was quite scandalous at the time. Of course, if everyone employed roughe and perfume it wouldn’t have worked as well…she’d have to make other counter measures and so forth.

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  40. Yoda says:

    so college probably opens the door for a lot of girls that were overlooked in high school

    Few girls overlooked in high school they were.
    Perhaps depends on definition of “overlooked” it does.
    Maybe hypergamy fits into definition it might

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  41. There must be an upside to hypergamy, one would think, if it’s so strongly ingrained in women. What are the good things about it? Are there any?

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  42. Yoda says:

    There must be an upside to hypergamy, one would think, if it’s so strongly ingrained in women. What are the good things about it? Are there any?

    In a civilization, no the answer would be.

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  43. Liz says:

    “Odd times these are”

    Fudge. I’m guessing Great Britain is sorry it built that tunnel.
    Seemed like a great idea at the time…

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  44. Yoda says:

    My dad would have died if I’d done this! I had to get all A’s or be sent to a community college

    Big punishment this would be?
    Much cheaper they are.
    Get first two years in inexpensively one can

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  45. BuenaVista says:

    Boys in the British Navy served as midshipmen, in combat, commanding the meanest motherfuckers any Navy has ever seen, during the Napoleonic wars. At age 10. They can certainly walk to school alone in suburbia today, though of course the government will seize them and charge their parents with endangerment.

    I’m certainly in the camp that believes a 12 year-old girl can run a household; this was a normal circumstance in rural America if the mother/wife died or was incapacitated. I was caring for siblings beginning at age 6, and by 10 cooking and cleaning and doing laundry. We were quite happy with the situation, as I recall, and preferred it to being managed by our mother (when she was home).

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    Hypergamic combat is amusing, unless your wife meets someone with more dough.

    Also, it’s awfully hard to explain how this works to a naive man (as most of us were) until he gets shotgunned and hammerfucked as the collateral damage in some hypergamic war game.

    I was talking to a young guy (26), named Bob, last night whose girlfriend dumped him six months ago to move to the big city. So of course he latched onto to a cute 20-something single mom and got ‘engaged’ after a couple of months.

    I found this out because a month ago I was in a bar and she hit on me, and a mutual friend explained to me that she was Bob’s “fiance”, so I probably shouldn’t respond.

    Somehow Bob concluded over the weekend that he really needn’t marry the woman, but when I saw him he was so low he had to be helped home. A very close call, but understandable: he’s repeating a life model: his mother has been married five times, three times to the same guy. (The hypergamic Punic Wars, or something.) Bob is a biologist and doing very well: he’s just wandering around with a sad sack mien and a target on his back.

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  46. Yoda says:

    But overall, I think (I’m about as sure of this, actually, as the fact that I breathe) girls will do what they believe appeals to the group

    Do what appeals to top men they do.
    Do what is acceptable to group they do

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  47. Yoda says:

    Things that are considered acceptable or unacceptable are going to differ depending on the society, the clues are in observation and mimicry.

    Perhaps purpose of slut walks this is.

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  48. Spawny Get says:

    Star Wars in The Throne Room?

    Don’t you lot call the WC / toilet / bog / rest room the throne room like we do?

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  49. Yoda says:

    King/Queen the US has not.
    So no throne there would be

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  50. Spawny Get says:

    pas pour les enfants, mais c’est seulement pour les enfants…c’est difficile

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  51. Spawny Get says:

    The enchanting swear-along song video above is in response to the UN’s latest wheeze…censor the entire internet so that cunts like Anita Sarskeezian and the girl who got bogwashed looking at the blue goldfish don’t get called out on their bullshit.

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  52. Yoda says:

    The big push for all this is not coming from boys who would be their husbands.

    The expectation that provider they will be still there it is.
    Let them in on the secret they should.
    “Providers generate tingles not”

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  53. Spawny Get says:

    so sorry feminists, but your #PissForEquality (pee your own panties in order to…errm…hang on…it’ll come to me…eventually…I hope…can I get some help here?…no?…surely I didn’t post the video…I did?…oh shit) campaign was started by 4chan

    https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/3nh1ij/4chan_started_pissforequality_trend_in_twitter/

    These morons are deliberately pissing themselves because of a trolling campaign started by 4chan. http://imgur.com/eGRjJMt

    No wonder that the bleedership of feminism exhibits no intelligence or judgement. They don’t need to. Even as morons, they’re still head and wet panties (in a bad way) ahead of the sheep that follow them.

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  54. Spawny Get says:

    Hello Janis…

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  55. Spawny Get says:

    I’m laughing harder

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  56. Darth Maul says:

    Work of Darth Maul this would be,

    Fuck dat. That namby-pamby, “let’s be considerate of the little freak’s feelings” sounds like the garbage that Jedi spout off about.

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  57. Spawny Get says:

    It seems that freebleeding was started there too

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  58. Oh vay re piss for equality! (Cringe)

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  59. Yoda says:

    Piss for Equality the next logical step after Slut Walks it is.
    Wonder what comes next I do.

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  60. Yoda says:

    ” I need feminism to tell me that I should wet my pants”

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  61. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Bloom,
    I was worried about the Bloomettes getting a hold of the Thorium video. The frustrated wag in me loved it!

    I have to to hand it to the 4chan guys. They know how to prank fembots!
    I am in such a good mood. Here’s a little entertainment for Julie Bindel.

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  62. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Bloom,
    You had a question earlier about hypergamy being useful. I think it is while women are shopping for a mate. Once, she locks one down, she should lock down the hypergamy along with it. She is done shopping!

    Dragonfly,
    I think it was you that had questions about how 19th century women competed. Compete they did and it was to become “accomplished”. While formal education was not an option, they would devote their spare time to acquiring all manner of talent.
    I would love to have the experience of having an accomplished 19th century women as a dinner partner.

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  63. SFC Ton says:

    I’ll school y’all up later but hypergamy drove civilization

    Men build etc to get the best ass possible because women get wet over the best men.

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  64. Dragonfly says:

    I agree FWB, I bet they were wonderful… they actually tried to become accomplished in things that were pleasant, or you know… actually useful in later life? Like actually building a life with another person or raising a family well.

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  65. Yoda says:

    New post there is.

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  66. JDG says:

    Dragonfly says:
    5 October, 2015 at 2:33 pm

    In my circles it isn’t that uncommon for twelve year old girls to be capable of handling any and all house hold responsibilities. I’m not talking about having children, but they are certainly able to to take care of them. Wait, I see the problem. I wrote “raising small children”. That should have been “watching small children” or “taking care of small children”. My bad. The sammiches certainly ought to be covered by 12 though.

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  67. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    Dragonfly,
    That was before feminism and its attendant competition. Men and women worked towards common gols.

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  68. Dragonfly says:

    That makes sense JDG, they can have great babysitting skills at that age for sure…. I’ve seen more attentive and compassionate girls that age than actual mothers at times! Sad….

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