Recently commenter BuenaVista suggested that the common manosphere model of Alpha Fux – Beta Bux (AFBB) did not tell the whole story. Sometimes it is more like Alpha Fux – Beta Bux – Alpha Fux… (AFBBAF…). Upon thinking about this, I have concluded that there are some acquaintances where this does seem to apply. For an outsider to the action, such a scenario seems silly, yet it does seem to happen. Why?
It all starts in the late teens. The young women are on top of the world and indestructible. And Tingles Uber Alles. Normally there is some outside source of resources (sometimes several), so why not go for what many really want — tingles. But eventually it occurs to the young women that a more steady (and perhaps greater) source of resources might be better for her, so off to find an untigliny man who has at least a modicum of wealth. This part of the story we all know. What about the next chapter?
There is of course the alpha-widow issue. Is it true that “once an alpha widow – always an alpha widow”? Or is the pull of steady resources more powerful? Or perhaps it is all a case of “I want whatever it is that I don’t have right now”? Maybe she does not remember so well the time when resources came in a sporadic manner. And perhaps she viewed her “glory days”, even though with lots of problems and drama, as the most fun time of her life. What should she do?
Tingles Uber Alles.