What fella hasn’t been frivorced? It happens all of the time. Right? So here is a handy guide for handling this.
First of all, in a true frivorce, the state is is much to blame as anybody. This is important for the man to comprehend. It starts with the sense of entitlement in girls and women that the state fosters, with special rules and goodies just for women’s benefit as they proceed from cradle to young adulthood. Then of course comes marriage, where all of the modern rules are slanted in the woman’s favor, culminating in generous divorce settlements. When the incentives are there, people will be attracted to them.
Furthermore the state, encourages women’s preferred form of polygamy, serial monogamy. The system is now constructed for women to make this happen, Consider the line from the movie Train Wreck, “Monogamy isn’t realistic“. The movie makes the father utter the line, but in reality, it should be the mother. For this is what many modern women want, to branch swing from man to man, chipping off some of his resources each time, and having lots of fun and adventures in doing so. Since marriage is supposedly meant to be a life-time commitment, this behavior just makes a mockery of the entire situation. But nobody will call women on this. So if you are a recently frivorced man, and you are blaming yourself incessantly; perhaps you should consider the State’s involvement in your personal problem.