The full title; ‘The problem with MGTOW…for women and society’.
I’ve linked to a few articles on The Conservative Woman in the last few days:
Women leaving having kids to the last minute inconvenienced by men failing to be on hot standby to wife her up and finance her mommy-hood dreams. She decides to finally prioritise commitment from men and wonders why the guy she picked up previously just for tingles and fun, just isn’t that guy. And is upset to find that she holds no trump card, that her control over reproduction is not the ace that she thought it was because some men genuinely are ambivalent (at best) about taking a two decade / rest of his life gamble on having kids. And without kids…really does not see any value in getting married.
Basically? She wants AF/BB* and is bitching that the world isn’t delivering on her schedule. And actually has the fucking cheek to refer to a “whoops! pregnancy” as a benign sounding “the baby fait accompli” – damn it! she actually sees it as her right to force fatherhood on him because he needs to grow up. GFY.
Shit is getting serious for us women. There are women freezing their eggs in order to stay in the game / until we decide to ‘go it alone [with the state and/or a sucker if we can trap one]’. Finally, she asks, “Are there actual reasons behind men not committing?”. Not that freezing eggs has any actual successful track record in finally getting ’em up the duff…but it is a security blanket during the period between her finding out that she has a problem and her finally giving up. Frozen eggs are no panacea whatsoever, they’re a desperate last measure to keeping kicking a potentially empty can down the road for a few more years.
She’s not, please notice, saying she will do anything about any issues men have. She’s just clutching pearls waiting for someone else to do something…that someone being, obviously, a man. Something that she’ll feel free to bitch about publicly, even if in private she knows it’s necessary. Sadly for her, however, no man is in a position to rewrite the legal realities of marriage, divorce and child support…and the accompanying widespread entitlement attitude in women that acts as a man-repellent. This approach will not get her and her dread ilk anywhere.
In response to Laura Keynes: Commitment-shy men lie behind the fertility crisis, Gold Bug wrote:
Maybe men don’t want to commit because they stand to lose so much. Maybe they don’t like being the butt of every TV ad or stupid comedian’s jokes. Maybe they don’t like being savaged by family courts. Maybe the total lack of respect or credit given when they do shoulder responsibility makes them wonder why they bother.
That’s the entire piece…she has no answer. The lights are going out on civilisation, but all she has is…nothing. No solution. Baby Gap: Germany’s Birth Rate Hits Historic Low. And no number of immigrants from the third world is going to build the society she wants. Take a look at Sweden’s current woes to see what you get from open door immigration from the medieval era. Or Rotherham (or many a northern city in the UK). Immigrants used to assimilate into the culture they came for. Not any longer do they. Again, trad-cons are wilfully blind to the issues. Because they don’t live in those conditions. Their wages aren’t suppressed by immigrants. In fact they like cheap nannies for their kids. Cheap workers in their software houses. For them multi-culti means foreign cuisine, cheap workers and little else.
But that isn’t even the worst of the news for these ‘Conservative Women’. For Conservative Woman read Pearl clutching, point at the problem and let the men take all the shit in trying to solve it while tsk-tsking at any part of the solution that fails to serve the Feminine Imperative. Men need to just start marrying again without any repeal of misandric laws, no return of any status. Having said that about the women, Conservative men are even worse, IMHO. They are constitutionally incapable of recognising any fault whatsoever in women. They are, therefore, completely helpless when it comes to sorting the problem. Beyond standing on a soap-box shouting at men to man up. Or, maybe add even more misandric laws that cause even more men to walk away. For such men, the manly virtues of recognising reality and even moreso dealing with it are completely beyond them. Internet Alphas…pathetic. Relics of the past, but oblivious to that fact. About as much use as, and about as effective as…
Back to ‘But that isn’t even the worst of the news for these Conservative Women’. I’ve linked to this guy’s videos before. He’s the closest I have seen for a long time to my own views. I know others of you have other views and other solutions, but for me? he’s on the money.
And that’s why women in general have a huge problem.
Since time began women have made their living by providing sex and reproduction to men, at the cost to men of time, blood, resources, patience…and sacrificing for women in general. But over the last few decades feminists have made women less pleasant to be around (by unleashing their true nature of entitlement), more dangerous to be around (yes means yes. VAWA. Title IX), more expensive to be around (divorce rape. cohabitation as marriage for divorce purposes), the enemies of men (quotas, ‘positive’ discrimination. women as a minority? WTF?), and frustrating to be around (endless meetings, consensus seeking when most can already see the best path forward / no longer care what is decided, just that a decision be made. Consensus is not always the best way to manage).
Women have devalued themselves as partners for men. (please watch the video above, pretty please)
Political correctness means men have not spoken up. but that has not meant that they haven’t noticed a problem. But it’s a problem too expensive to face directly. Fighting it directly is signing up to throw yourself under the bus in the vain hope that if enough men do it the bus will stall out. Society will start caring about men. Will not happen. This is the MRA approach.
So what has been happening? Men have just been quietly sidling toward the exit. Or, (PUA) focused purely on what they want from women.
I wish MRAs well, but I think they’re on a hiding to nothing. Until it all comes down women are willfully blind to any issues that involve sacrifice by themselves. They do not care about men. You cannot make them care about men.
To end on a happier note (for MGTOW)…voila (Shows the explosion of interest in the term MGTOW)
(* AF/BB – Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks)