Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by,And that has made all the difference.
As a follow to Cill’s post, here is a guide to getting the girl. Two paths will be described; the reader’s can judge their merits.
The first approach is mostly about posing. Act the part of an edgy guy, or maybe even a “bad-boy” (confidence is the key, and for goodness sake never be boring), and girls will be yours. Some of them might even be marriage material (but probably not). Furthermore, as one often becomes what they act like, one might actually become a bit of a bad-boy. Since these types of men are more often than not unproductive members of society, women as a whole can never admit their true desire for them. But women like them all the same.
The other approach is to become a capable man (maybe even awesome); a man with a mission in life. And then invite a woman to come along for the ride (and do this with outcome independence of course). This approach is more difficult, but it is invariably better for the man, the wife, the children and society.
Which to choose…
NAWALT applies. Not all women go the bad boys, But lots of them do.