The Thirst


What is The Thirst?  It is a fella’s desire for women.  I really have been mulling this topic over for a good while, and I really have come to the conclusion that there is not that much that one can say about it.

Basically, when a male hits his mid teens, he gets a strong desire for women.  Very strong.  Much stronger than a girl’s desire for men.  Perhaps commenters can chime in on how strong it is.  Women really do not understand how strong that it is.  Extra convincing is always useful.

Through the ages, men were taught by society to control this desire.  There were strong sanctions for those who did not.  This was all done for society’s sake, as anarchy would result if it did nothing (e.g. abandoned children, abandoned women).  In the modern day, the restrictions for men have become stronger; but they are not really there so much for society’s sake, they are they there to allow women to leverage their sexuality as much as possible over men.  When one has a limited supply of what a large market needs, and has restrictions in place to assure their dominance, then many things will flow the supplier’s way.

And once again, this is all predicated on the thirst.

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135 comments on “The Thirst
  1. Farm Boy says:

    Fuzzie Bear,

    That picture is from your home stomping grounds

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  2. theasdgamer says:

    Women hunger for validation. Probably comparable to the Thirst ™. They will paw a man to get it. 5h1t, if I did to a woman what they do to me, the police would be called. Double standard. And perfectly reasonable given that men aren’t put off by being pawed.

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  3. FuzzieWuzzie says:

    Thank you Farm Boy!

    “In the modern day, the restrictions for men have become stronger; but they are not really there so much for society’s sake, they are they there to allow women to leverage their sexuality as much as possible over men”

    I agree in principle but, would you give some examples?

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  4. theasdgamer says:

    For men, the Thirst is ongoing with it briefly going away after an occasion of intimacy. For women, the Thirst is cyclical and much less intense than men’s when at its apex in women. Menopause kills normal Thirst in women. Thirst in women can be triggered by Thirst in other women and by a need for validation. Thirst in women often shows up as a desire to be desired by a hawt man.

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  5. Farm Boy says:

    Fuzzie Bear,

    Let’s start with the fact that restrictions have always been in place to prevent bastards and single mom’s. Well, the restrictions don’t work for that purpose anymore. We really no longer care about bastards and single mom’s. In fact, we encourage them. So what are the restrictions there for then?

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  6. Yoda says:

    On Degoba we have this not,

    http://reason.com/blog/2015/03/25/anonymous-online-geo-system-to

    And a good thing that we have it not.

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  7. FuzzieWuzzie says:

    Farm Boy,
    I would venture to say that the restrictions are there to protect women from the interest of less than ideal men. I deal men are under no restrictions.

    It makes me sick to write that.

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  8. Yoda says:

    Fuzzie Bear,

    Ideal men = men who generate tingles?

    Society about tingles care less they could.
    Only women about tingles they do care.

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  9. FuzzieWuzzie says:

    Society is going to give women anything they want presuming that it will result in better parenting. I have to wonder when that fallacy is going to get tossed out the window.
    To illustrate

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  10. FuzzieWuzzie says:

    The only thing that will bring some sense back to the marketplace is a correction brought about by demand deflation.

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  11. FuzzieWuzzie says:

    Off topic and completely phony.

    http://captaincapitalism.blogspot.com/2015/03/uc-berkeley-study-shows-2-in-1-women.html

    I am surprised that some mathematically challenged women’s studies postgrad hasn’t tried this somewhere.
    I wish they would.

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  12. Spawny Get says:

    The female thirst for drama, attention and proxy power (more than one story here)
    http://www.theawl.com/2013/07/ask-polly-im-almost-30-and-im-terrified-of-losing-my-looks

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  13. Spawny Get says:

    I can’t believe how much I spoil you lot.
    Patrie-Archie Comics

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  14. Spawny Get says:

    And there’s more! You’re all going to grow up spoiled rotten.

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  15. SFC Ton says:

    When a boy hits about 13 or so his nuts kick in and he wants to fuck.

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  16. SFC Ton says:

    Micro-aggression is for fags. Aggression is balls out, in your face and unmistakable.

    Miroc-aggression…. seems like the thing we use to call “catty” ie womanish

    And damn right she fears losing her looks. Odds are that’s all she has and the wall doth approaches

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  17. That Lola gal is creepy! Anti-thirst, I’d think.

    I liked the advice to the gal worried about losing her looks – get a life and a personality! But I have known people like her, their good looks almost make things happen so easily for them that they don’t develop much character or identity beyond the surface.

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  18. Yoda says:

    When a boy hits about 13 or so his nuts kick in and he wants to fuck.

    Ton direct he is.
    Makes sense in this case it does.

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  19. Yoda says:

    From Ask Polly,

    I don’t believe that being pretty translates to any tangible social power

    Be a garden variety man for a month she should.
    Her perspective change it may.

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  20. Yoda says:

    Women not necessarily direct power they do want.
    Leverage just as effective it is.
    Fits their style better it would.

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  21. Cill says:

    “Perhaps commenters can chime in on how strong it is”

    Fire in the veins.
    Molten bones busting out.
    A tsunami of raging blood
    An unsleeping madness obsessing the soul
    A consuming incurable scream

    The controlling of the “desire” thrusts objectivity into the minds of men.

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  22. Yoda says:

    Cill on fire he would be.

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  23. Yoda says:

    How intense Moe feels it wonder I do.

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  24. Spawny Get says:

    Yoda,
    remember about mansterbation leading to hairy palms? Look how furry his entire body is…just saying

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  25. Moehau Man says:

    Yes well, the urge to shag a Moehau Man female and the need to bust heads with a Kauri Club are about equal I would say.

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  26. Yoda says:

    The thirst is strong in that one.

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  27. Liz says:

    “That Lola gal is creepy!”

    Musicals are always creepy, Bloom. 😛

    Long ago, there were two cavemen, and it was a long, cold winter. Both in their caves, snug and warm wearing bear…er…mammoth skins, or something. One was content and the other was so horny he said, “I’m going to go out in the cold and find a woman to fuck!” and that first guy isn’t our ancestor. Hence, the thirst.

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  28. Moehau Man says:

    Y-e-e-e-s well… Liz speaks in riddles. As Mrs Moehau Man (my soothsaying old mum) would say, Toss a dwarf with thy seed and grow a giant with a stroke of thine Club.

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  29. theasdgamer says:

    @ Bloom

    get a life and a personality!

    Personality is for other women, for orbiters (I repeat myself), and for parties. Men like the attributes of femininity, sweetness, and warmth in a woman for a relationship.

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  30. jf13 says:

    re: going out in the cold

    The best defense is a good offense. Interminably hunkering down is NOT a viable strategy. But the risk of action should cause hestitation, unless the action is impelled from *need*. That need in this situation is the Thirst.

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  31. Moehau Man says:

    Y-e-e-e-s well… jf speaks in riddles. As Mrs Moehau Man (my soothsaying old mum) would say…

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  32. jf13 says:

    re: “the restrictions are there to protect women from the interest of less than ideal men”

    Yes, as part of the Feminine Imperative under the laws of sexual conflict, the restrictions are intended, deliberately and specifically, the help women reject men more efficiently.

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  33. Sumo says:

    I’ve never understood this “thirst” phenomenon. I look around, and I see average, normal looking dudes paired up with fuglies or landwhales, and I think to myself “Why, bro? Just….WHY!?”

    I’ve only ever come close to succumbing to the charms of an unattractive girl once, when I was 16 or 17. Was at a party, had far too much to drink, and ended up sucking face with a girl a friend introduced me to. I can’t remember exactly why (most likely because I had no game), but nothing else happened. Everyone passed out, and the next morning when I got a look at her in the light of day, I seriously considered joining a church and spending the next decade thanking God for saving me from abusing my little Sumo in that manner.

    After that, the only girls who have gotten next to me where ones that I found attractive. If one isn’t available, well….that’s why we have porn and Astroglide. 😉

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  34. Moehau Man says:

    Ah, I see jf.
    *need*
    Pretty good, that.

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  35. jf13 says:

    re: spoilt

    https://spawnyspace.wordpress.com/2015/03/30/the-thirst/comment-page-1/#comment-16048

    With regards to self-identification, it would be quite discriminatory to insist that fluid genders don’t exist, and thus each every person should always be approached as though he/she/it (not that he is better than she, nor that it is less than either) was liable to change his/her/its gender (or non-genderedness) at any time, at any frequency.

    Down with pay-triarchal assumptions of ossifiable genderednesses!!

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  36. theasdgamer says:

    @ Liz

    I know you think of me as being in the doghouse, but that’s not how I see it. I know that you have a big emotional investment in rape issues and it’s unfortunate that your button was pressed. It was unintentional. I’m always pushing the limits–exploring. Trying new stuff. Thinking outside the box. Running hypotheticals. Sometimes Lots of times it pushes people’s buttons.

    [grin] I found your story vaguely rapey. What were two cavemen doing in a cave for a whole winter? And bare…er, bear…er, mammoth skins? What had they done so that one was content and the other wasn’t? Was the content caveman much larger than the horny one so that he could have his way with the hetero caveman? And was the woman whom the horny caveman found willing to have sex with a stranger? Not likely. He must have forced her. See? Rapey. :-]

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  37. Yoda says:

    help women reject men more efficiently

    Not sexual harrassment if likes it she does.

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  38. Cill says:

    Sumo, that’s why I say, The controlling of the “desire” thrusts objectivity into the minds of men.

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  39. jf13 says:

    Non-gendered = non-sexual = not attractive to anyone = not attracted to anyone

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  40. Yoda says:

    I’ve never understood this “thirst” phenomenon. I look around, and I see average, normal looking dudes paired up with fuglies or landwhales, and I think to myself “Why, bro? Just….WHY!?”

    When thirst strong it is.
    Dirty water satiate it it would.

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  41. Cill says:

    asd 3:35 pm
    Hah it was oxytocin.

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  42. Yoda says:

    Unchecked hypergamy combined with thirst.
    Like nitro-glycerin it is.
    Unstable it would be.

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  43. jf13 says:

    re: objectivity and controlling whatever

    Whilst engaged as a caveboy wandering in the cold for too long and happening upon a not-especially-attractive cavegirl, do you really push her away in order to Keep Your Thirst Up to empower searching for a slightly more female-ish cavegirl? Or do you hit that and then, still Plenty Thirsty, keep searching too?

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  44. Yoda says:

    JF13,

    Good question for Moe that is.

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  45. jf13 says:

    re: like nitroglycerine

    No, like dinitrophenol, yielding a runaway metabolism. Life is dynamically balanced; the opposite of runaway metabolism is completely inhibited metabolism i.e. death.

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  46. jf13 says:

    Question for Moe

    Dost thou stack the cavegirls up like cordwood in thine cave, or do you make them hunt/gather for you?

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  47. Yoda says:

    yielding a runaway metabolism

    A way to lose weight this might be.

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  48. theasdgamer says:

    @ Cill

    Hah it was oxytocin.

    Lol, maybe the two cavemen danced.

    Oxytocin: I’m still recovering from my addiction and making progress. The trick is separation and continuing to chase a lot of skirts. I’ve been chasing one skirt per night. Gonna amp that up to two per night. Juggling women. Juggies!

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  49. jf13 says:

    re: Lola

    Not creepy per se, but certainly not inspiring offers of commitment.

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  50. jf13 says:

    re: the charms of an unattractive girl

    What are the charms of an unattractive girl? The answers to this particular question would, I think, more fully illuminate the meaning of male Thirst than any other question. I’ll try to give it a whirl in subsequent comments, but I find it difficult to put into words.

    Attempt #1. Me … boy, her … girl. Her … girl.

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  51. Moehau Man says:

    “Whilst engaged as a caveboy wandering in the cold for too long and happening upon a not-especially-attractive cavegirl”
    “Good question for Moe that is.”

    Well, happening upon a not-especially-attractive cavegirl fugly landwhale, I grow a giant with a stroke of mine Club and toss my seed barren on the snow. As Mrs Mowhau Man (my stern old mum) would say, Thou shalt keep thy spout out of the landwhale.

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  52. jf13 says:

    tasdg is accurately describing many varieties of Thirst. “Men like the attributes of femininity, sweetness, and warmth in a woman for a relationship.” True. And as an oxytocin-sensitive but highly (? firmly? some intensifier here) male, maybe because my only major sexual experiences have been in relationships, (or maybe causing the fact that my only major sexual experiences have been in relationships) nothing stiffens my resolve, nothing ossifies my genderedness more than femininity, sweetness, and warmth.

    Softly intimate familiarity in a woman is what really makes me feel like a man. I’ve only recently sort of appreciated that stranger danger could be heady stuff for some men. I think most men’s Thirst is *greatly* exacerbated (note to Moe: that big wurd means exactly what you think. Sound out the syllables if you must.) by constant physical closeness, in a sort of anti-de-incest-avoidance thingie,

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  53. jf13 says:

    Snow … hurts, girl … warm nice.

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  54. jf13 says:

    For those keeping diligent track,

    Attempt #2. Girl … warm nice.

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  55. Moehau Man says:

    jf 3:47 pm “Dost thou stack the cavegirls up like cordwood in thine cave, or do you make them hunt/gather for you?”

    I stack ’em up like cargo cult flotsam, then pump and dump is my usual approach. (After filling my belly from their gatherings of course)

    It depends. If their skin smells like honey I might drag them around by their hair for a while…

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  56. jf13 says:

    I think all we genders and ungenders agree that if a guy either always or never gets Lucky then there’s no real point to him having Thirst. On the other hand, if he always or never has Thirst then there’s no real point in him getting Lucky. Thus as tasdg emphasized, some intermittent schedule of slaking is key to making Thirst work.

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  57. thedeti says:

    Sexual desire in a young man? Thirst?

    When unsatisfied, it is all consuming. You’ll do literally anything to bust a nut– except have sex with a man. You’d rather fuck than do anything else.

    You’ll forego homework, time with family, time at work, even eating, even sleep. You can be so dog tired and haven’t eaten in 4 days, but if a willing woman presents herself, you’ll be pitching tent in 20 seconds. When you’re 13, you’re springing hard ons in 8th Grade English class. When you go to the eighth grade dance, your girl holds hands with you, dances with you, squashes her tits against your chest, you get titanium rod hard. When you’re 17 and you’re about to fuck your girlfriend, your dick erects in 3 seconds and is so hard you could cut glass with it. When you get blueball, your balls hurt so bad it’s either rub one out or go to the hospital.

    If a woman you desire tells you to push a dime with your nose across a gym floor and she’d have sex with you, you’ll be face down on the wooden planks before the sentence is done. You’ll orbit. You’ll waste money and time. You’ll do whatever she tells you to do. And still, none of it works, none of it is ever enough.

    And people wonder why America is a nation of 17 year old boys beating off five times a day.

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  58. jf13 says:

    Because of (fuel, sammich) Thirst, a masculine bomber will have to make a pitstop in some convenient atoll, and any cargo cult feminity will suffice to entice him in. In fact, he will smash land on the softest-looking beach if he really needs to.

    Is there really a feminine equivalent? Suffering from a paradox of choice “All those atolls are cute enough, I guess, but none really stand out.” doesn’t count.

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  59. thedeti says:

    And like most boys, you run into difficulty attracting and getting a woman, you’ll do anything to fix it. You’ll do whatever anyone tells you to do that makes any sense. You’ll go to people you think have the answer. Who? Of course! If you want to know what women want, you go to who? Whom?

    WOMEN!

    “Mom, what do girls want? What do I have to do?”

    “Oh, sonny boy. Girls want NICE boys. You need to be NICE. If you are failing with girls, it’s because you’re not NICE enough.”

    Sis, why do you and all your friends go for the hot jock dudes?

    “I dunno, deti. They’re just… we just…. like them. They’re nice to us. They show us a good time. And they’re .. . nice. And funny. Yeah. Funny.”

    OK. Nice and funny. I can be nice, and I’m funny. Yeah. There we go.

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  60. thedeti says:

    Dad, how does this work with girls? Why are they all going for the jock dudes? I’m nice and funny. What gives?

    “Well, son, who knows why women like what they like and do what they do? Can’t live with ’em, can’t live without ’em. Heh heh heh. Um, what’d your mom say?”

    Be nice.

    “Well, then do that. Girls want guys to be nice to them. Don’t be mean to them. Don’t touch them if they don’t want touched. And be friendly. Yeah, friendly. You’ll be fine, son.”

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  61. jf13 says:

    I’m going to make a major distinction between levels of Thirst and the frequency of spontaneous erections. I firmly believe that (besides medical conditions such as depletion) it is entire social conditioning that causes the fairly rapid decrease of spontaneous erections e.g. from the heights of 8th grade English class.

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  62. jf13 says:

    This is kind of a hard subject, ain’t it.

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  63. Yoda says:

    When unsatisfied, it is all consuming. You’ll do literally anything to bust a nut– except have sex with a man. You’d rather fuck than do anything else.

    Should be clear to women this is.
    But they have sympathy not.
    Exploit for all its worth they do.

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  64. thedeti says:

    Women have absolutely NO idea what the male sex drive is like, particularly in a young man under age 25.

    You’re literally (not figuratively, LITERALLY) ready, willing and able, on less than 30 seconds’ notice, to fuck 70% of the women you see in your daily life. If every one of them presented as willing to have sex with you, you’d find a way to have sex with them. Sex is constantly on your mind from the moment you awaken until you fall asleep at night. Most of the women you see think you’re “nice”, but want nothing else to do with you. It is a real life version of the Greek myth of Tantalus, who lived his life near water but being forever unable to drink it. You’re surrounded all day, every day, with beautiful women you cannot have. You’re bombarded all day, every day, with real life images of tits and ass you cannot touch and if you approach them, you’ll be brought up on sex harassment charges.

    You have to release the sexual tension, and you do it with daily masturbation if you have to. If you don’t release it it will literally drive you insane. You have to find a way to get physically active, because the only things that release sexual tension are masturbation and working out to the point of physical exhaustion.

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  65. Yoda says:

    OK. Nice and funny. I can be nice, and I’m funny. Yeah. There we go.

    Where go one does?
    To Jackoffland it might be?

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  66. Yoda says:

    You’re surrounded all day, every day, with beautiful women you cannot have. You’re bombarded all day, every day, with real life images of tits and ass you cannot touch and if you approach them, you’ll be brought up on sex harassment charges.

    Enjoy this torture women do?

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  67. jf13 says:

    re: tantalizing
    “Should be clear to women this is.”
    Yes, should be, but they don’t quite believe it.

    “But they have sympathy not.”
    True. Women react with the opposite of sympathy to any sexually frustrated boy. Women literally believe any *real* boy ought to be able find some girl “Not me, but maybe that slut over there” to relieve himself with. Women literally scorn any man not willing to force his will on women.

    “Exploit for all its worth they do.”
    Nope. Because they don’t believe it, they don’t exploit it as quite much as they could.

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  68. thedeti says:

    Well, what Mom and Dad and sis said doesn’t work. So I’ll go ask Jockhead McFootballer over there, and Fuckbuddy Rockbanddrummer, and Alpha McGorgeous.

    How do you guys get so much pussy?

    Alpha: “Well, I talk to them as if their opinions don’t matter, and I make them buy me drinks.
    Jockhead: “Muscles, dude.”
    Fuckbuddy: “Play in the band. Not the marching band, dude. And I have a girl on the regular, but fuck other girls on the side. If one breaks up with me, I just get another one. ”

    And this works?

    Jockhead: “Yeah. Girls like guys who have shit that’s more important. And don’t ever put up with shit from a girl.”

    But you guys aren’t NICE! How can you treat girls like this?

    Alpha: “I don’t know. I think I’m nice. I just go for what I want.”
    Fuckbuddy: “Hey, I’m nice to the girls I fuck. I’m just not nice to any other girls. For some reason they just…. hang around. And if they’re down to fuck, well, that’s all good with me.”

    What the fuck?! What are you talking about?

    Fuckbuddy: “yeah, They just do, man. I don’t know what else to tell you.”
    Alpha: “I don’t care what girls think about this. I just live my life, deti.”

    deti’s mom and dad: “Yup, those guys are assholes, and the girls they attract are stupid assholes. You don’t want to be an asshole, do you?”

    But, it works, seems to work.

    deti’s sister: “Those girls are sluts. I know them. They sleep around. They’re sluts. You don’t want to be with a slut, do you?”

    I dunno, I….

    “Shut up. Listen to me. If you get with a slut you’ll catch a DISEASE. If you knock up one of those girls, so help me, I’ll beat your ass into next YEAR.”

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  69. jf13 says:

    re: “Enjoy this torture women do?”

    Yes.

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  70. jf13 says:

    @deti, re: You don’t want to be that guy.

    What the good people are lying about, and trying to sell you, is that a tiny sip of finely aged vintage can be more satisfying than chugging a pitcher of cheap. But they have good intentions. In reality the problem is the women’s irrational availability.

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  71. Yoda says:

    “Those girls are sluts. I know them. They sleep around. They’re sluts. You don’t want to be with a slut, do you?”

    Marry one a man needs to not.

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  72. I don’t get the landwale thing either Sumo, good for you for having standards. Although it is depressing to think I am single and landwhales are not.

    Mo man, after you describe your, ummm, lifestyle, I am going to have to pass on your offer of marriage 😉

    I am not in a good space. Yesterday was like getting dumped all over again. I woke up this morning thinking I can’t do this anymore. But then I realized I have to. Get up. Show up. Feel the pain. Learn the lesson (which was???) F*ck if I know! This sucks. I should be happy I dodged a bullet but for some reason I am still very sad. Logically I know it would not have worked and this is for the best. Emotionally I’d probably take him back in a second. He offered again that he would like to hang out, be friends. I think that would be a bad, bad idea.

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  73. jf13 says:

    Tantalus Shrugged.

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  74. Liz says:

    Sorry, Bloom. That sucks, but it will get better with time.
    😦

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  75. thedeti says:

    Bloom:

    Keep putting one foot in front of the other. Make it one minute. Then one hour. Then one day. That’s it. Good. Keep going…..

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  76. jf13 says:

    re: be with vs marry

    I did not be with that woman.

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  77. Yoda says:

    “Yup, those guys are assholes, and the girls they attract are stupid assholes. You don’t want to be an asshole, do you?”

    Nice guys finish last they do.
    But they still make civilization work.
    Women like that about them they do.

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  78. theasdgamer says:

    Paging Bill Meoff, or his brother Jack….

    @ deti

    Ok, let me see if I fit your under-25 yo bill.

    You’re literally (not figuratively, LITERALLY) ready, willing and able, on less than 30 seconds’ notice, to fuck 70% of the women you see in your daily life.

    I was always a picky soul. I don’t think the Thirst slows much from 18 until you hit my age. I’m still picky as h311. Women seem to want the validation from feeling wood.

    If every one of them presented as willing to have sex with you, you’d find a way to have sex with them.

    I’m picky.

    Sex is constantly on your mind from the moment you awaken until you fall asleep at night.

    Mostly cuz I’m writing a book about it and dancing. Back when I was virgin, it was on my mind a lot more. I think I go five or six seconds without thinking about it occasionally, lol. When I’m reading a sci fi novel, obviously I’m focused on the book. If I’m taking a dance lesson and the women aren’t too attractive, I don’t think about sex much.

    Most of the women you see think you’re “nice”, but want nothing else to do with you. It is a real life version of the Greek myth of Tantalus, who lived his life near water but being forever unable to drink it. You’re surrounded all day, every day, with beautiful women you cannot have. You’re bombarded all day, every day, with real life images of tits and ass you cannot touch and if you approach them, you’ll be brought up on sex harassment charges.

    I don’t think that this applies much to me.

    Excuse me, I think there’s a one-eyed weasel somewhere that needs rubbing…. 🙂

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  79. jf13 says:

    @redpillgirl, re: your organdy sensibilities

    I warned you you might be touched.
    http://djournal.com/opinion/rheta-johnson-a-sick-duck-in-djibouti/
    “pretending is not as easy as it used to be”

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  80. Moehau Man says:

    “Mo man, after you describe your, ummm, lifestyle, I am going to have to pass on your offer of marriage”

    Yes, very well… Is the $10,000 still on offer though, Bloom? I could always reform, you know. I never did intend to drag you around by the hair. Also, I could forgo the cargo cult jetsam. I’m prepared for great self-sacrifice in the pursuit of civil union.

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  81. jf13 says:

    Stop being tantalized by the displayed fruit! You can’t eat it, you know, so just decrease your hunger. And don’t blame the spring water for rushing away. Try to be nicer, so the spring water might stay longer next time.

    And you, Charlie Brown, it’s not Lucy’s fault for pulling the ball away, it’s simply her prerogative. But you better not give up trying, because she enjoys the activity.

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  82. Yoda says:

    it’s not Lucy’s fault for pulling the ball away, it’s simply her prerogative.

    Wondered about her behavior I always did.
    Never admonished for it she was.
    Says volumes this does.

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  83. Padawan says:

    .
    Anita and Zoe Copycat Faker (by Padawan, Blog Laureate 2014 – ?)

    She stays up late for herself to attack
    With comments of incest abusive
    Posing as parents who give her the flack
    She frames them with filth most conclusive.

    “But she’s the victim” the white knight wails,
    “The poor thing is mentally ailing,
    This is what you get when all else fails
    Too bad if her folks got a jailing.”

    http://www.antifeministtech.info/2015/03/women-do-create-fake-online-accounts-to-attack-themselves/

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  84. FuzzieWuzzie says:

    Bloom,
    Perceptive. In the musical “Damn Yankees” Lola is a demon. The plotline is Faust applied to 1950s baseball. Our hero just wants to see the Washington Senators win the pennant.

    While I can relate to all the stories of being a teenager, isn’t that where we’re all supposed to leave this stuff? I get the feeling that there is a contrived shortage going on.

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  85. jf13 says:

    re: faker

    Asperno ergo sum.

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  86. jf13 says:

    I’m also going to use a scapel and dissect between the Thirst and the physical need to drain, for non-males’ elucidation. No doubt these are highly correlated, but they are distinct. As an aside, the need to drain is almost uncorrelated with the frequency of spontaneous erections. I think the only reason some think otherwise is because they misremember.

    As others have touched upon, the drainage problem per se can be taken care of other ways. The need builds up linearly every day for about a week or so, which is to say the need is about 7 times after one week than after one day. It does top out soon after, thank goodness, in the sense that a month is about as intolerable as two weeks. By that time, the quasi-nightly wet dreams have begin to infest daydreams too. Yes, a lot of men try to survive in this condition. I have it on reliable authority that the wet dreams will finally diminish and almost go away after a couple or few years.

    Much of the Thirst is the specific, and distinct, need for a woman (femininity, sweetness, and warmth) into whom to drain. Analogously, the physical need to feel your tummy filled can be distinguished from your need for a full meal deal: a kilogram of sawdust will make you feel full, but won’t provide the right sensations of nutrients.

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  87. jf13 says:

    Yes, dear, you’re a pretty good bit better than a bag of sawdust.

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  88. Liz says:

    “Lena Dunham,

    http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2015/03/30/dog-or-jewish-boyfriend-a-quiz

    What a lucky, lucky guy!
    (both the dog and the boyfriend)

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  89. jf13 says:

    re: Is this my dog or my Jewish boyfriend

    Presumably she thought him being Jewish would make it less hard to tell.

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  90. jf13 says:

    @Liz, re: effort.

    From the recipe Bastiat gave at J4G “It’s so low effort and low investment that some of the guys just run TinderOps all the time and have stopped doing much else.” Presumably their success with women has cut down on their efforts towards their pr0n consumption.

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  91. jf13 says:

    Since with Tinder young women can now get their little man-thirsts slaked the few times a month they actually thirst, the fact that they can just swipe left on men all the other days of the month is a great leap forward for women. Tinder makes it easier than ever for one man to juggle ten women, because each woman blunts her need to reject on so many other men.

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  92. FuzzieWuzzie says:

    Liz,
    I remember reading somewhere else that a commenter from Israel couldn’t accept the out and out contempt that Lena has for her “boyfriend”. If this is going to be the norm from here on in, who will want to participate?

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  93. jf13 says:

    re: the urge to push

    Women get to feeling a need to eject stuff that has built up in their bodies, too. But, I digress.

    I think tasdg’s focus on women’s validational portion of the their Thirst is correct, but I think that women’s main sexual validation comes from being able to reject a perfectly good man’s interest, and not his interest per se.

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  94. Yoda says:

    If this is going to be the norm from here on in, who will want to participate?

    People humiliate themselves for fame they do.
    Odd this is.

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  95. Yoda says:

    Lena Dunham or Whale?

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  96. Yoda says:

    Wears no clothes,
    Lena Dunham or Whale

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  97. Yoda says:

    Has a big mouth,
    Lena Dunham or Whale?

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  98. Yoda says:

    Always on the prowl for food
    Lena Dunham or Whale?

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  99. jf13 says:

    Although I haven’t seen it, I speculate that Dunham’s masterpiece Girlz is all about womynz scorning the Thirst in menz, and no other actual topic. Womynz think the fact that it’s so easy for even an unattractive girl to get laid is *evidence* that unwanted males have something seriously wrong with them, as if womynz and menz are similar in that way.

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  100. FuzzieWuzzie says:

    Yoda,
    Have you considered that your comments are defamatory to whales? Look at it this way: what did whales do to deserve all these comparisons with Lena Dunham?

    Vox Day has a short post on this too.

    http://alphagameplan.blogspot.com/2015/03/the-dunham-horrors-latest-blunder.html

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  101. jf13 says:

    ibb just did a classic comment at Dalrock’s, equating chivalry with a boy declining the opportunity to be publically tumescent with a girl. I suppose that is chivalrous simply because she will not have to make the effort to reject him?

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  102. SFC Ton says:

    Smashing I a skull has a nice satisfactory crunch and grinding sounds but not the same kind of satisfaction as smashing ass.

    Women have no idea about an actual testosterone driven sex drive because they lack the testosterone. It that simple folks

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  103. Mo Man, I would not feel right asking you to change your caveman ways, even if you are willing. I am sure there is a Mo Woman who would love nothing more than to be pulled around by the hair and all the other activities you describe. You deserve to find someone who loves you just as you are! I am also afraid I cannot wire the $10,000.

    Ah Fuzzie, that makes more sense. I would hope men would run from a gal like that! She’s got a great figure, true, but yikes! Trouble.

    I went for a good long walk with a friend and was feeling much better. Logically I know it was not a good match, that I was overlooking some big red flags. Emotionally I am still catching up.

    I do hope to find it someday, I think I was letting all this talk of the wall get to me. If something is meant to be, it will happen. And it won’t feel like I have to walk on eggshells or jump through hoops to make it work. Thanks again for all the support and for listening!

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  104. jf13 says:

    I think I recall correctly that getting an erection is called the chivalrous reflex, especially when it is semi-automatic out of desire directed towards a particular woman.

    So why would a man be made to feel socially ashamed of it (and I think, really only when women are around), *except* when it is taken for granted that he will not be getting his Thirst slaked any time soon? Kicking him while he is up, so to speak.

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  105. Yoda says:

    So why would a man be made to feel solcially ashamed of it

    Women like to put men in their place they do.
    An excuse this would be.
    Self-discipline he did not have.

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  106. And while I want to act like I have this covered, I will also confess that I almost sent him an email today begging him to take me back, but luckily a friend called just as I was about to push send. Thank Goodness!

    Like Ton said, “What you should have learned is that any dude in that big of a rush is one sketchy mo fo”

    I need to repeat, repeat, repeat. He is NOT the one. Not the one. Not the ONE. NOT. He’s not. NOT, NOT, NOT.

    I know this is probably not going to get much sympathy around here but you have no idea how hard it can be to be a woman. Estrogen must make us do irrational things in the same way as thirst works for men who pair up with land whales (and true, that’s not fair to wales.)

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  107. jf13 says:

    I think I speak for all men when I say one of the major (hey! you better not call it minor) things about which we as men will never get a straight answer from women is what precisely they thing of a random average guy’s random average erection. 99.9% of the time, as we all know and agree, the *behavior* from women will range from rage and scorn all the way to indifference and scorn, with scorn being pretty much irremovable.

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  108. jf13 says:

    Is it true as in my stated experience that men would only tend to be socially shamed about spontaneous erections when women are around? I guess I never spent much time in all-male company.

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  109. Spawny Get says:

    Bloom.
    No, he isn’t the one. Want to be back on the market but broke and three years older, divorced again with bloomettes with emotional damage?

    He will cause other men to give you a wide birth.
    You need to be visibly single, emotionally stable, clear headed.

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  110. jf13 says:

    Sympathy sex makes great sense to men. Knowing what we know about men, it’s what we think we would do if we were women and trying to be more womanly. Pure projection, as we know. Evidently the sticking point for women about sympathetic sex is the pathetic part; they just cannot get past being nice sexually to a needy fellow.

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  111. jf13 says:

    I’m not the biggest fan of Indifference As A Technique to interest women. Yeah, yeah, I know. And I don’t think it’s a Goldilock level of Thirst to which women respond best. Confidence is king, and relevantly here Confidence is neither more nor less than behaving as if you know you will be getting your Thirst slaked by her, or by some other woman, very soon.

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  112. jf13 says:

    Huge efforts over several years may have resulted in going from a few times per month to double that, or it’s just random drift, but either way it’s still in the same mode category of 35.4% as per the Kinsey faq for marrieds. That same frequency is the SAME frequency mode category for ALL married age groups from age 25-69. Women care nothing positive about their men’s desires during the times of the month that the women happen not to desire.

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  113. theasdgamer says:

    @ jf13

    the *behavior* from women will range from rage and scorn all the way to indifference and scorn

    You forgot “humor and scorn.”

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  114. theasdgamer says:

    @ Bloom

    I know this is probably not going to get much sympathy around here but you have no idea how hard it can be to be a woman. Estrogen must make us do irrational things

    I’m still generating my quota of irrational thoughts myself. It ain’t easy being sleazy. Or greasy. Or cheezy.

    Dedicated to all the breaker-uppers in the world:

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  115. jf13 says:

    The essential problem in all egalitarian approaches to men’s women problems and women’s men problems is that every single one takes the female’s needs as normative and the male’s needs as disruptive. That is, of course, when they aren’t playing the Women Are Just As Much As Men Too If Not Even More! card.
    http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/the-three-pathways-of-passion-wcz/

    It’s simply not true that female Thirst lead cave women out into the snow to search for any available cave nerd. It’s simply not true that cave women tended to get so head-over-heels in love that they threw themselves on a mastodon because their man had a sudden craving for mastodon steak. It’s simply not true that cave men drove cave women away from their shared cave through anger and contempt after a few years together.

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  116. blurkel says:

    Puts a twist on the Most Interesting Man in the World when he says, “Stay thirsty, my friends!”

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  117. Yoda says:

    Most interesting person on Degoba I am.

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  118. blurkel says:

    Just read the Lena Dunham Dog v Boyfriend post. I can’t see even a landwhale taking up with a guy who fit these selection parameters, and since Lena’s only physical attribute is her vagina, she has to take what SHE can get.

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  119. blurkel says:

    re: Michelle Chapman. It’s my experience that unless and until a woman has a man upon whom to focus all of her abuse, it tends to come out as insanity, and can be expressed upon her self. Went out with lots of such women when I was young, and now regret every minute I lost to every one of them. Was trying to save myself by saving them. After all, isn’t that how it is supposed to go? [NOT!]

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  120. blurkel says:

    re: Ruthie Blum criticizing Lena Dunhap

    No one can criticize a woman better and more effectively than another woman. She even admits as much:

    The impunity with which women are allowed to express contempt for members of the male sex, while cloaking their own neediness and hunger for love in outdated feminist lingo…Indeed, nobody calls them out on things that men could never get away with saying, certainly not in print.

    Imagine the uproar should this statement have been made by a man?

    But La Blum gets her shots in on the hapless loser obligated to boink the offensiveness known as Lena:

    More puzzling is Antonoff. Why would he stick around with Dunham after she whipped him so publicly? But that’s what he gets for shacking up with [that] one.

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  121. @ jf13 to try and answer your question, how women feel about involuntary erections, I would say I have never noticed any not that I am looking for them. I have also never heard the topic discussed among women. So I suspect it feels a lot more obvious than it really is? I’m afraid that’s probably not that helpful.

    I am curious now if men notice this in other men? Do men talk about it (besides here?)

    Spawny, Gamer, everyone who is assuring me this too shall pass, thank you. I may feel irrational, I am doing my very best not to act irrational. No begging emails have been sent, thank Goodness!

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  122. Spawny Get says:

    Iirc Tarn mentioned involuntary lady boners in comments some way back.

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  123. SFC Ton says:

    LOL pretty certain I didn’t say mo fo…..

    Personally I have… some small level of understanding how tough life can be on women. I have three in my house; two in my bed; a.daughter; a widowed sister in law, nieces etc all relying (to some.degree) on my strength,guidance etc etc

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  124. blurkel says:

    RedPillGirlNotes:

    I am curious now if men notice this in other men? Do men talk about it (besides here?)

    I can’t speak for schools in lands NOT the US, but there isn’t an American man alive who didn’t have his Special Friend show up at an inopportune moment, one when there were plenty of others who probably had already been in the spotlight and were seeking to restore their “pure” status at the expense of the one caught as the involuntary center of attention.

    Yes, it happened to me once.

    The lesson here is to keep better control over your tool when it’s appearance isn’t immediately necessary. No one wants to be ridiculed like that ever again.

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  125. FuzzieWuzzie says:

    Bloom,
    I don’t know if this will help to take your mind off things but, here is more Gwen Verdon.

    She had to have movie star good looks, be a superb dancer, sing well and loud enough to fill a Broadway house.
    That’s talent!

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  126. Farm Boy says:

    New Post is up

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  127. jf13 says:

    re: I have never noticed any

    I guess that’s … good. So, in your experience they were all voluntary, eh?

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  128. theasdgamer says:

    @ bloom

    jf13 to try and answer your question, how women feel about involuntary erections, I would say I have never noticed any not that I am looking for them. I have also never heard the topic discussed among women.

    From what I hear from women, c0ck is a major topic of convo among young women. Which side of the pants it leans towards, etc. Nurses talk about c0ck somewhat frequently since they see it a lot. Maybe they lose interest in the topic after they marry betas. Then some forget that they ever used to talk about it.

    In my experience, women seek to feel erections, usually against their thighs or butts. Hope I don’t need to draw you a picture.

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  129. Alana says:

    Bloom, I agree with what Spawny said to u. He’s not the right man for u, but u’re understandably emotionally-hurt and vulnerable now, which is interfering with ur judgement.

    Btw if I know there’s a guy I don’t wanna contact but I’m afraid I’ll be weak, I delete his number from my phone. I’d advise u to delete the methods of contacting him (hopefully u don’t know them by heart yet).

    He’s the one who should be contacting u to apologise, and even if he did, I believe there are better guys out there for u. Pls don’t contact him. 😦

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