Women in their late teens and twenties are at their peak of attractiveness. At any instant of time, there are a limited number of them compared to the population of men, and hence they have significant leverage. Often they use this leverage to ride the cock carousel; that is, to have sex with a large number of men, typically the hottest men.
Women like to be dominated by dominant men. The pinnacle of their submission is being f’ed by such men. It is the pinnacle because they are getting the seed of men with perceived good seed. It is clearly an extremely satisfying experience. But it apparently works best with a continual new set of men (perhaps due to desire for seed diversity). Because women are now liberated, they are free to pursue a strategy to yield this result. When successful, it is said that they are riding the cock carousel.
But is there a cost. Is tickling the desire for continual injections of perceived awesome seed for just pleasure something that leads to long term issues? Firstly, there is the alpha-widow problem. Secondly, her future husband will not look highly upon such activity. Even though he may have married her knowing (or suspecting) her past, it will eat at him. It will affect many little things; and all of these will add up over time. Thirdly, what about the future children? How will they be affected by her past? Women seem to care little about their future children for some unknown reason. I will leave it as an exercises to the reader to assess this impact. Surely it cannot be positive (unless she is intent on raising the finest sluts she can).
And to close, riding the cock carousel is empowering. Though to do so, she must submit to dominant men.
P.S.
It should be noted that there are gradations to riding. One is watching; where a woman watches her friends do this and lives vicariously through them. And then there are mixtures in between the two.
Also note that NAWALT applies.
I’ll bet that this whole thing got started because some women thought they could “sew their wild oats” along with the men. First, not all men get to do this. It’s only the outstanding ones. Chalk that up to apex fallacy. Second, our little girl is going to remember optimized fantasies of former loves. No man can compete with that, much less an ordinary one.
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It all reflects short term thinking. But the system let’s them “get away” with it. But they are not really getting away with anything. The price comes later.
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As much as anything, the part that bugs me is the impact on the future children.
Supposedly women are “all about” (or at least much about) their children. But this behavior shows a blatant disregard for them
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Can we have the other banner back?
The one with the pigs.
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There are worse things than the Cock carousel. I saw this last night on RoK. I hope that you have a cat iron stomach to read it.
http://www.returnofkings.com/57833/do-women-become-irreparably-damaged-after-allowing-arab-princes-to-defecate-on-them
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Fuzzie Bear,
To be honest, I have never wondered that.
Though I saw something like that in “Team America”, and it did not add to the story
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Farm Boy,
I see your point. Little sympathy is wasted on men in this culture.
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Entitled, moi?
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Not watched it yet, but I gather you need a strong stomach for this one.
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Miss Emma has a sour looking face.
Perhaps she belongs here rather than her former co-star (and she wouldn’t be acting),
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Chalk that up to apex fallacy.
That sure is big with women. It is as if they cannot help but use it. I wonder why.
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Emma looks like my niece
Who is an entitlement princess
And a vegan
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Still not sure what ‘toxic masculinity’ is, but we now have a perfect walking, talking with a quavery voice, exemplar of toxic femininity.
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I made it ten minutes in, but that’s enough for tonight. Good night.
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Spawny Get,
I got all the way through. At the end, there was a cameo of Kermit the Frog.
Would Miss Piggy make a better spokespig for feminism?
About vegans, there was talk yesterday of vegan bacon. It wouldn’t happen to be kosher too?
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Molly,
If you’re about, just checking in to say the bear is Ok.
🌯 🌯 🌯 🐻 🙄
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Would Miss Piggy make a better spokespig for feminism?
About vegans, there was talk yesterday of vegan bacon
Miss Piggy in favor she is.
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A robot she is?
http://bigstory.ap.org/article/0e7c6d046a7e452da8f2ed2903b01b6f/clinton-avoids-email-controversy-womens-event
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Yoda,
That Hillary!!! She does tend to declare early and, then, yield later. This makes any nominee look good by comparison.
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Hillary’s outfit odd it is.
From the “James Bond Villans Collection” it might be.
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Yoda,
Now, there’s a thought!
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Fuzzie, thank you and this is for you, before you sleep:
🍥 🍱 🍙 🍘
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Molly,
Are you doing all right? You have been very quiet lately.
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Not so edible those do look.
Bears hungry they are.
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On Cock Carousel all do agree?
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Hillary in the news she is
http://washingtonexaminer.com/hillary-clinton-tries-to-reverse-history-and-be-seen-as-womens-champion/article/2561267
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More Hillary,
http://washingtonexaminer.com/does-hillary-think-america-bashing-is-necessary-to-discuss-global-womens-problems/article/2561258
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On Monday, the Clinton Foundation’s ‘No Ceilings’ event debuted a report about the successes women have made around the world in the past 20 years. Hillary and Chelsea, but not Bill, hosted the event along with Melinda Gates to promote the report.
Three women who were elevated on the coattails of men they are.
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@Yoda, re: “all do agree?”
To some extent. The overarching theme of sexual conflict should always be kept in mind, however. The female role is to *prevent* as many men as possible from reproducing.
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This post also is about delayed gratification, btw.
In general, the bluer piller the man, the *more* he has incorporated society’s doctrine that he must, he must, he must decrease his lust.
There are two red pill solutions to the marshmallow scenario. The first I’ve already described with a silly attempt at a Latino accent, and it involves the young man hurling the marshmallow back at the professor and huffily refusing to engage further. The second is riskier. The young man eats the marshmallow immediately, and with increased vigor attacks the professor when he returns and holds him hostage for “Five more! I mean a dozen more marshmallows! Stat!”
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In general significantly more young men than young women have what is called unrestricted sociosexuality.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sociosexual_orientation
Many more women than men restrict others’ sexuality, specifically refusing to engage in sexual activity themselves and making it more difficult for others too. But although yes there are slutty women, and although yes even these sluts still turn down most men regardless, it is certainly false that the sluttier the girl the *more* picky she is about the men she will sleep with.
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IOW the number of carousel horses far exceeds the number of riders who deign to ride. The carousel is in reality always relatively empty of riders. But many of the horses remain pristine while others get all the action.
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The female role is to *prevent* as many men as possible from reproducing.
Why would this be?
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Many more women than men restrict others’ sexuality, specifically refusing to engage in sexual activity themselves and making it more difficult for others too
From hypergamy this does follow.
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It’s possible that the alpha widow problem is the largest component of promiscuity’s vast decrease in bonding efficacy. Others have hypothesized that unrestrictedness causes slutty behavior instead of vice versa. About the only ones who can know for sure are those who are willing to actually experiment i.e. PUAs. Anyway, since I have known some sluts who were not (yet?) alpha widows, I can confidently state that “decrease in bonding” is some degree of other cost of women’s promiscuity.
Also there is decreased fertility, due to STDs and sperm allergies among others.
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@Yoda, re: “From hypergamy this does follow.”
I contend the logic works the other way. If we start with women preventing, i.e. deselecting men, then it follows that the maximization of deselection is what produces hypergamy.
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A slutty rider complains about the quality of horses.
http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/music/exclusive-madonna-talks-new-album-rebel-heart-kanye-west-article-1.2141150
Like other female pop stars, Madonna has *never* had (hetero) male groupies, and thus her lifetime N is a couple (or few) dozen instead of the hundreds (or thousands) typical of apex males.
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Madonna says she and Kanye have talked about their shared flair for pushing people’s buttons. “We know, and recognize, that we have that in common,” she says. “We’re comrades in the envelope-pushing genre.”
Proud of this she is.
Talent it takes not.
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While she declines to say who it was, it would seem to be Brahim Zaibat, one of her dancers, who’s three decades her junior. They broke up at the end of 2013. Subsequently, Madonna dated, then broke up, with another man in his 20s, Timor Steffens.
Madonna insists she’s not exclusively drawn to younger men. “It’s just what happens,” she says. “Most men my age are married with children. They’re not datable. I’m a very adventurous person and I also have a crazy life. I’m a single mother. I have four children. I mean, you have to be pretty open-minded and adventurous to want to step into my world. People who are older, and more set in their ways, are probably not as adventurous as someone younger.”
“Open-minded” justifies much it does.
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Anyway, since I have known some sluts who were not (yet?) alpha widows
Like with Cock Carousel various (de)gradations of alpha widowhood there would be.
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The Cambridge British Dictionary distinguishes itself from the Oxford English Dictionary by being quite redundant and uninformative.
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/british/sow-your-wild-oats
Young men have *useless* and *unwanted* seed spilling from their pockets and stuck to their shoes as they tramp around the countryside. If a patch of soil happens to be untended, it is likely that such bad seed will take root there. Sluts don’t sow anything; they are merely untended soil.
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Stats of riders what would they be?
Estimates?
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Problems she does have.
Most significant one this is not.
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/lena-dunham-on-how-it-feels-to-be-called-a-fat-cow-on-twitter-every-day-10095259.html
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However, Dunham maintained that Girls will not cow to criticism
Humor she attempts
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I submitted a post for review.
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“Humor she attempts”
She’s just reaping what she…sows.
(rhymes with cows, get it? get it? It’s a PUN! *bah dum bump ching*)
😛
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A sow a pig it would be.
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I can see why you wrote that Molly, and it’s fine to publish by me. The only planning that needs to take place is when it goes up. As far as I am aware only Farm Boy has posts already lined up.
Is it possible for you and he to sort out when is fair? You can use Writers’ Corner (pretty sure you have the password, Cill can give it to you, or ask and I’ll (re) send it
He got first dibs by announcing posts first (that’s the only criterion I’m using, and would prefer ever to use – so far, so good).
My position is that I do think that that’s a perfectly reasonable post for you to make, if I were in your shoes I’d be saying something similar. Might cause some controversy but I will support your right to say it. AFAIAC your post is written in a style perfectly in alignment with a male rules. With that being true, I see it as unimportant that a woman wrote it. One of the voices that I prize highly in the manosphere is Karen Straughn…same deal.
I really like the blog’s tone over the last few months, I intend to push to keep it friendly. Can everyone take note of that. I am not white knighting because of who wrote it. She met the rules, she’s fine to post it.
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Post away I say I do.
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@Yoda, re: stats
Well, as you may know, the actual percentage of sluts is a state secret. However, you can be told about “the virizilation hypothesis of female promiscuity”. Slutty women really are “more like men” than non-slutty women, in their levels of testosterone, actual seeking of sex, and other virizilation measures.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_promiscuity
“in women, … the higher the sex drive the less restricted the sociosexual orientation”
In the list of costs, one should include this one too: slutty women’s sons are more likely to be gay.
“genetic link between female androphilic promiscuity and male androphilia”
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Well, as you may know, the actual percentage of sluts is a state secret.
The carousel riders and their n counts true this is.
Estimate based on anecdotal evidence one can.
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