In response to jf12’s question “Why can’t men be more like me, and just find one or two attractive girls of the thousands of women who are trying to contact them?” Yoda replied “If only true this would be.”
Although jf12’s question and Yoda’s answer were both tongue in cheek, the fact is, many MGTOW do pine for contact with women. I don’t understand it. Why should we pine for the people who give men so much grief? It’s like a Jew in 1930s Germany pining for contact with Nazis. Women are not worth it – unless their attempts to make contact are extraordinary. It’s a foolish man who hangs around for extraordinary contact. It’s as futile as the loopies in NZ who chant in front of an old car battery in the belief that this will encourage a “Small Grey” (alien) to emerge.
Now a desire to see women get their comeuppance, that I do understand. It’s at least forty years past the date when the comeuppance should have been emphatically delivered. But this pining business? Nope, I just don’t get it.
MGTOW inform each other. Except for very new MGHOW, all of us should be well-informed by now. Pining does no good. It only encourages women to sneer at MGTOW and avoid taking us seriously.
Until recently I went cold turkey, by making it my business to have as little to do with women IRL (in real life) as is politely possible. I know for sure that if I’d pined for them I would’ve been miserable at best. It would have stultified my drive and removed my zest for life.
It is ironic that the cold turkey approach did not prevent the extraordinary happening to me. My own case is an example of “the exception that proves the rule”. However the woman’s approach to me was extraordinary only because she was facing a man who had gone cold turkey. She had to go out of her way to demonstrate the genuine nature of her approach.
So I ask you all:
- How is pining to be cured?
- Much more importantly, what would happen if all MGTOW stopped pining for women?