Consider the following quote from the movie “The Matrix”,
“You take the blue pill, the story ends. You wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill, you stay in wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes.” — Morpheus speaking to Neo
The blue pill symbolizes the world as it is packaged for you to see. The red pill is about the world as it truly is. In the context here, the blue pill is about how women are presented to the world (much of it a holdover from times past), while the red pill is about how women really are.
The question arises, “Why would there be a mismatch here”? The short answer — it is to the advantage of women that the world is bathed in a propagandized version rather than a realistic depiction. One might assume the realistic version is less than flattering, and one would be correct in doing so.
How did this discrepancy come to be? The Feminist Movement has effectively discharged women from performing expected societal behaviors such that their natural intrinsic inclinations were allowed to come forth. These were at the very least moderately suppressed in times past. In those bygone eras, women were taught many virtues; for example humility, grace, patience, kindness and submission to husbands. The teaching was not always effective, but in any case, virtues such as these became the definition of what a woman was. In reality, women had to work to cultivate these virtues, as they were not built-in. This all worked well enough such that society (at least partially) came to believe that the cultivated virtues were intrinsic.
The Feminist Movement released women from the need to develop and practice these virtues, yet the feminists worked hard to maintain the notion of women’s intrinsic virtuosity (e.g. the “more moral sex”). Two aspects of their new found freedom were especially pernicious, the feminine imperative and hypergamy. Together they have wrought havoc in the world, and have done so under the “virtuous woman” banner. This is your starting point.
The red pill gives one the ability to see the situation as it truly is. For many men, this medicine must be administered continually for quite some time in order to flush the blue pill effects out of the system. So, by all means, do explore the manosphere, and endeavor to comprehend all of the implications of the red pill.