[ Spawny Get’s update 24th Feb ’15 — Not sure that today’s pingback went to the right post. Here’s Farm Boy’s post Red Pill Classroom — Let’s Just Be Friends This post is good too though ]
Note that the following does not apply in full to every modern woman. There are Shades of Gray.
What are tingles? They are the sexually based thrill that a women gets when she interacts with, and better yet, eventually submits to a dominant man. So what is a dominant man. It varies from woman to woman. A functional definition is “whatever mixture of looks, height, strength, clever conversation, confidence, facial stubble, potential for violence, and status that are enough to trigger the tingles”. In the olden days, such feelings were discouraged in women. Or so I have a vague memory of. Perhaps a reader could comment on this.
Tingles must be just an awesome feeling. Perhaps a woman could chime in here also. One can see the lengths that women will go to to obtain them. One can see all that they sacrifice to create an environment where they are easily obtained. Though to be fair, most women do not really understand the cost and sacrifice. That is partly what the “hypergamy unleashed” series is about; to chronicle this. This lack of understanding could due to their denial that they really do desire tingles. But their actions speak otherwise. One of the best examples is to peruse any Cosmo edition. Invariably, there is an article on “Ten Ways to Drive Him Mad in Bed”. The implied subtext is that she wants the tingles of a dominate man, and the best way to get them repeatedly is to make sure that he is satisfied (or so women believe). Women want tingles, and they want a steady supply of them. This is a luxury that a wealthy society can undoubtably afford. And women did demand this luxury.
With societal wealth not an issue, women were in a position to demand an environment conducive to tingle creation. Women individually, and as a whole always have an inclination to push the limits. They always want more resources, privileges, etc. When working together, this is known as the “feminine imperative”. Women might compete with each other in many contexts, but they surprisingly work well together when working on large issues. Step One starts with the fact that women are the “gateway to sex”. This has always been true. It is the law. This situation is very powerful one. One that they can exploit. One that has been enhanced throughout the years with such things as “marital rape”, affirmative consent, campus kangaroo courts, sexual harassment laws, etc. Invariable a rape cottage industry has sprung up around this issue.
Step Two was to change the rules such that extra-marital, pre-marital, and EPL sex are to be de-stigmatized, legitimized, and even celebrated. And women with the rape/sexual harassment laws at their backs get to make the choices about who, when and where.
Step Three is to get the state to step in and free women of the need to please individual (and non-tingle-inducing) men. Most men are of this category as evidenced by the OKCupid study. These men in the olden days financed individual women, so other financing options needed to become available to free them of this constraint. These would include welfare, child support, alimony, divorce theft (for the children of course), and make-work jobs for women. The ultimate goal is that women are able to select a man for tingles and need not consider any other factor.
There was only one problem left. The State stepped in to facilitate women and their desire for tingles, but there was one aspect where its ability to intervene was limited. The difficulty is that for a woman to feel tingles, the man has to be dominant. This requires a man to approach. From a woman’s perspective, there are so very many men of the wrong type (non-tingle-inducing) approaching. These must be rejected and rejected quickly, lest they get any ideas. This was such an inconvenience. She must get on with her purpose, the tingles. This situation is bothersome, but it is the price that women must still pay.
The flip side of the same coin is that much of “dominance” comes from the relative status between the man and the woman. Women go to the University and get lots of fancy degrees, while modern men are less likely to do so. Since the University Degree is such a status marker, the typical woman is putting herself at a disadvantage with respect to obtaining a tingle-inducing man.
Why do women crave dominance? It really comes down to the fact that dominant men are considered to be stronger and consequently have better DNA. Obtaining this DNA only requires “one squirt”. Tingles drive women to get that “one squirt”, and to get it “right now”. But how well is the attributes implied by the DNA suited for civilization? Often big and strong is useful to society, but less so today than before. The other attributes of the modern sexy man are not particularly useful. Yet, they are what women are selecting for.
Robert Oppenheimer, the leader of the scientific effort to build the first nuclear bomb, stated upon the first successful test, “I have become Death, the destroyer of worlds.”